Cleavage, inappropriate or fine?

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  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
    1. Nobody is jealous.

    2. Do what you want.

    3. Don't complain when people make assumptions about you based on how you're dressed.

    Ditto.

    Context is everything.

    If you're strong enough to deal with the reactions that you will inevitably get, then do what you want.

    If, on the other hand, you are made easily defensive, self-conscious, or otherwise uncomfortable then don't do it.
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    As a 38E, I will tell you that

    1. It is not appropriate at work
    2. It is appropriate at 99% other places and everybody is jealous!

    It's summer and you should not be dying in a turtleneck. Also we should be allowed to wear the same cuts as everyone else. If my cleavage goes up past the neckline then GOOD FOR ME! :laugh:

    Be yourself girl. I support you. Or wish I did anyway! wink wink
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    Lots of cleavage makes my kids uncomfortable.
  • HollywoodDJ
    HollywoodDJ Posts: 296
    I would say that it is acceptable given you have proper support. As long as they aren't wobblin' around like two overly enthusiastic beachballs go for it! I will not say that women who are genetically endowed can fly sans support in the summer. Smaller chests can wear adorable tops with nothing but I would never leave home with out my 36 D girls being held close. Also there are just some cuts, even in tank tops that are designed for smaller frames. Pick a style that shows skin but still looks great on your rack.

    COMPLETELY AGREE WITH THIS!!!!! Accentuate properly and it's an AWESOME thing! I love my boobs when they are in a great bra and gorgeous top! *Wink!
  • MSimm62385
    MSimm62385 Posts: 227
    It's fine in my opinion. As long as you aren't getting offended by the glances you'll be getting by putting it out on display.
  • kriswigg
    kriswigg Posts: 95
    I agree with the what seems to be most people's answer......depends on when and where. How much does come into it, too. I mean,if you have big "girls" and I can see to your belly button, that's probably a bit much, but otherwise, so what? And, all those hater B's and less (like me :laugh: ) are just jealous.
  • mowu
    mowu Posts: 245 Member
    you can never go wrong with tits.
    tits make any situation better.
    yay tits.

    ...and the same goes for bacon so by logical extension if cleavage is inappropriate bacon would be inappropriate, and since I've never heard of anyone finding bacon inappropriate cleavage can not be inappropriate
  • jdploki70
    jdploki70 Posts: 343
    My wife has this issue. Really, it doesn't matter to a guy if you show skin or cover it up. We'll fill in the blanks. She usually wears things that show shape, but not actual cleavage. But I have never complained about women showing unless they complain about me staring...and running into things.
  • cPT_Helice
    cPT_Helice Posts: 403
    Classy cleavage is always appropriate!

    ^this^
    No matter the size of the girls, if you are out there (no pun intended), braless, with a neckline down to your navel, barely covering the nipples with the V, that's a bit much. (except maybe at the beach or at home)
    But, some cleavage showing..... so what?
  • jwc101
    jwc101 Posts: 39 Member
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    wants to be friends with all big boob women. lol
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    I have a huge chest and Im sorry just cant hide it.. its there.. so no its not inapporpriate.. if people dont like it.. then they can look the other way..lol

    definitwly not looking the other way missy
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    you can never go wrong with tits.
    tits make any situation better.
    yay tits.

    ...and the same goes for bacon so by logical extension if cleavage is inappropriate bacon would be inappropriate, and since I've never heard of anyone finding bacon inappropriate cleavage can not be inappropriate

    this is poetic right here.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Rock out with your tits out
  • margaretrican
    margaretrican Posts: 16 Member
    It depends on the situation, its always about where you are what you should be wearing.
  • audreanna76
    audreanna76 Posts: 82
    Being a 40D myself, I say go for it. It's hot as hell and sometimes you just gotta let the girls out to play
  • usera1365
    usera1365 Posts: 146 Member
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    Supporter 24/7 ( It's a Beautiful thing )
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
    I wore a very nice, adidas top to the gym the other day, it was quite fitted and held everything nicely in place. (I have a pair of 38dd's) when I was standing up fine, lifting fine, lay down on the floor and was doing some planks, glanced in the mirror and wow CLEAVAGE!!!!!!

    Guy behind me could see right down my top. Now I love my cleavage, I show it off a lot. I am used to men looking when I am out so why I felt uncomfortable at the gym I am not sure. Maybe because I was lying on the floor and not in any position to cover up without stopping in the middle of my routine.

    So I think it is how you feel about it not anyone else.
  • Vincentsz
    Vincentsz Posts: 407 Member
    Being a 40D myself, I say go for it. It's hot as hell and sometimes you just gotta let the girls out to play
    LMAO
    free the twins!
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
    I have very large breasts, I am a 32GG (UK which makes me a J or something in the US) I have a cleavage in just about anything, I have to dress very conservatively at work, but I am proud of my rack, and my Husband thinks its great, so I show it off when its appropriate :drinker:
  • CaptainAmerica1970
    CaptainAmerica1970 Posts: 435
    I guess it depends on who they belong too....

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  • Mariaoserratos
    Mariaoserratos Posts: 1 Member
    I personally do not like the attention in my private parts...but everyone is different, if you are ok with it and does not make you uncomfortable then go for it. I have notice that the minute my boob is poking out, men are just starring at it.. As a straight women I don't blame them because when I see a woman with there boobs out I stare too, but I don't care I'm just like WOW I shouldn't be looking there...HAHAHA
  • TinaKeniston
    TinaKeniston Posts: 76 Member
    I, too, am well endowed in that area. I'd say there's a time and a place for it and you just have to use good judgement. At work it would totally be inappropriate, but going out for the evening, yep, they're out there!
  • reereejandro
    reereejandro Posts: 62 Member
    32EE here :)

    Obviously at work is a no-no (if you have a boring job)
    But just get a job at a bar or a club or even waitress and the tips will ROLLLLL in :) haha

    Jealous girls are just jealous. But they can wear anything so they shouldn't complain.

    Shopping is a biiiiatch for chesty girls isn't it? If anyone knows a great sports bra please let me know! XX
  • YokoJ
    YokoJ Posts: 253
    I'm a F cup.....it's pretty much impossible to find something other than turtlenecks that doesn't show a little cleavage. *shrugs* I feel your pain.
  • MelissaE27
    MelissaE27 Posts: 682 Member
    Shopping is horrible Im a ff... and to get a bra that fits I have to special order...
  • MtnKat
    MtnKat Posts: 714
    Glad to know I'm in the big boob club (38DD) :D

    Cleavage is appropriate in some circumstances and sometimes not so too. I often get a kick out of watching a guy's (and the occasional girl's) eyes travel to my cleavage (my husband still tries to peek even after 16 years lol) even though you can tell he/she is trying not to go there lol. Not always, but once and awhile it's funny.
  • antizoni1
    antizoni1 Posts: 334
    Cleavage is never inappropriate, it is always fine, I am Not a real doctor, I just play one on T.V. :)
  • meghan6867
    meghan6867 Posts: 388 Member
    If you've got them... flaunt them. :laugh:

    No, but seriously... I've 36 Ds... I can relate. The truth of the matter is, a lot of cute shirts are lower cut and women that well-endowed... you're going to show some cleavage. I say, let the haters hate... where what YOU feel comfortable in.
  • juliaamilee
    juliaamilee Posts: 262 Member
    I am with everyone else time and place be appropriate, and if your at a family venue and your showing to much cleavage then expect the comments and remarks. It is going to happen. If it doesnt bother you then good, if it does then cover up. Who's to say what is too much is up for whom ever is looking I guess. I work with lots of very young girls so I see it all the time, I guess I have become immune to it, I could care less.
  • fervc60
    fervc60 Posts: 70
    Cleavage is good.
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