creepy compliment
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This is why I don't talk to women. Perfected my cap pulled down and look at the floor until they've gone technique.0
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It's been a long time since I had to talk to a woman. As in trying to pick up one. I think I would be a stammering fool. Your pull the cap down idea would be good for me0
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carlsonrobb wrote: »It's been a long time since I had to talk to a woman. As in trying to pick up one. I think I would be a stammering fool. Your pull the cap down idea would be good for me
I'd be told to **** off for sure if I dared to say hello to a woman. I do all of my grocery shopping online so that I don't have to run the risk of having to go to the store and being near one.
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Most of the stuff I hear come from moving cars, but I'm assuming it's not very nice/clean, so I'm okay with not hearing it. >_> Did have a Santa Claus follow my sister and I throughout a store once while we were teens. He was trying to give us candy canes when we politely declined and wouldn't stop until we left.
Also, had a dude take a picture of me because of my blue hair. 
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Moya I think you would be ok. You just need practice. It's like anything else. As long as your not being creepy, a little nerves are ok!0
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I had someone brush against me in a bar, turn around and rub my whole arm, going "ooh, your skin is SO soft!" Then he realized what he was doing and got this horrified look on his face. I laughed.
A friend who used to be on here said he'd wear me. Uhhhh0 -
My father in law once said to me, "you're almost hot enough to fu*k"...
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Seriously?? What did your husband do?0
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carlsonrobb wrote: »Seriously?? What did your husband do?
Nothing, I was only "almost" hot enough so it wasn't a big deal. :-P
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That's .... So messed up0
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You have nice eyebrows....0
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A semi truck driver yelling nice *kitten* to me while I was riding my bike.0
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I like that this has brought about a new discussion... can the creepiness level depend on the attractiveness of a person. I say yes.
I'll lay out the rules:
Ugly guy: All compliments are creepy. You won't win. Don't try. Over before it started.
Average dude:Depends on what's said and how it's said. Could go either way here.
Hot guy: All compliments that aren't flat out vulgar are not creepy. Even flat out vulgar compliments are still kinda good compliments though. I mean, "Like, some hot guy gave me a compliment" right?
Older guy 40-55: Most compliments are creepy unless done right. Stick to saying her hair is nice or something.
Older guy 55-70: Gross.
Older guy 70+: All compliments are "awwww." It's either "awww that's so sweet" or "awwww he's such a dirty old man."
Ok, still only on page 4, so I have read everyone's input yet.
I am in the 55 - 70 range and find this rule does not really stand up to the test. I am not 'good looking' but, do maintain and dress well.
I think it does have a lot to do with: level of confidence, flirty vs being creepy (I admit there are just some things that are totally out of bounds), manners, being a gentlemen and being respectful. I have gotten away with many items of conversation that were border line, but because of the delivery, it was very smooth.
Just one ole man's opinion........
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I was once told by a drunk girl in her early 20's that I was "the good lookingest older guy in the bar"..... exact words0
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For a good laugh, look up "tindernightmares" on Instagram... now there are some creepy compliments lol0
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16 year old boy standing next to his father and little sister, moves over to let me pass by and as I walk by he loudly says "DAYUUUMMM DAT BOOTY DOE!" I turn around to glare at him and his father is high fiving him, his sister is shaking her head red faced and he winks at me!!! Good lord I'm almost 10 years older than him!!!0
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FitMamaPhan wrote: »My sister and in law and I who is 13 years younger then me were at the mall and high school boys were trying to hit on us...talk about awkward
Well, I can't say I blame them... but yes, it's awkward.
I once had a very inebriated old lady (had to be in her late 70's) approach me at a restaurant while I was looking through a menu say "Try the cougar, you'll love it!"
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Monkey_Business wrote: »
I have gotten away with many items of conversation that were border line, but because of the delivery, it was very smooth.I like that this has brought about a new discussion... can the creepiness level depend on the attractiveness of a person. I say yes.
I'll lay out the rules:
Ugly guy: All compliments are creepy. You won't win. Don't try. Over before it started.
Average dude:Depends on what's said and how it's said. Could go either way here.
Hot guy: All compliments that aren't flat out vulgar are not creepy. Even flat out vulgar compliments are still kinda good compliments though. I mean, "Like, some hot guy gave me a compliment" right?
Older guy 40-55: Most compliments are creepy unless done right. Stick to saying her hair is nice or something.
Older guy 55-70: Gross.
Older guy 70+: All compliments are "awwww." It's either "awww that's so sweet" or "awwww he's such a dirty old man."
With all due respect, borderline topics of conversation for a gentleman in your age range may not be seen as such by the under 40 crowd.
But if you're game, please fill in the blanks
Ok, I am game :-)
Hmmm....
Example: Let’s talk about fingernail polish
1. Saying a ladies (regardless of age) finger nail polish is REALLY striking while drooling, staring at their ears while licking your lips IS creepy
2. Stating that the color of the waiteress's nail polish is rather striking and compliments/accessories their choice of earrings (as she is placing the bill on the table) is a compliant and maybe even a little flirty.
In both of the above I have mention two areas of a woman that can be considered sensual areas; hands and ears.
Stating to any woman overtly that you want to have crude sex with them (other than your partner) is rude, crude and socially unacceptable. This individual needs to have his ....... slapped with a 20lb sledge hammer.
Maybe I am wrong. I am just some old man on the interweb :-)
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I'm over 40 so any compliment to girls under 30 seems creepy.
It could be the trench coat though.0 -
"you're pretty enough to be a stripper" Whaaaa? thanks?0
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Once I was a doing security check at an event when a lady grabs me by my arm and requested a cavity check.. no disrespect to her or her forwardness but I think I threw up in my mouth. In her defense she was pretty wasted. 0
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Once I was a doing security check at an event when a lady grabs me by my arm and requested a cavity check.. no disrespect to her or her forwardness but I think I threw up in my mouth. In her defense she was pretty wasted.
Eew, gross!
That's creepier than this monkey complimenting this chicken:
Reminds me of the time I was "complimented" in one of those Halloween mazes where creeps jump out and scare you. One of them stuck his tongue in my ear. My friend kicked him in the shin and we ran like hell...0 -
Your decent looking lol0
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A guy I worked with had just bought a new car, he wanted me to go check it out, so I went out in the parking lot and looked at his car, sat in it, checked out the all the cool stuff and came back inside. He gets crazy "I can smell your breath" close to me and says, "I don't let just anyone sit in my car, what are you going to show me in return" He wasn't talking to me though, he was talking to my boobs. I responded with, "dude, you drive a hyundai" laughed and then walked away.
This guy was creepy anyways, but I thought that was funny. Not that hyundais aren't nice looking cars, but am I supposed to swoon over it????0 -
I was at a gas station, filling my car and a creeper old dude on a bike strolls over and says "Hey good look'n, wanna ride my hog".....kind of does a hip swivel thing and winked at me....thank the heavens I was done filling the car....I left so quick. lol.0
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kimberlyspanton wrote: »I was at a gas station, filling my car and a creeper old dude on a bike strolls over and says "Hey good look'n, wanna ride my hog".....kind of does a hip swivel thing and winked at me....thank the heavens I was done filling the car....I left so quick. lol.
Hmmm that's how a horror movie starts.
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HugoMartinez66 wrote: »kimberlyspanton wrote: »I was at a gas station, filling my car and a creeper old dude on a bike strolls over and says "Hey good look'n, wanna ride my hog".....kind of does a hip swivel thing and winked at me....thank the heavens I was done filling the car....I left so quick. lol.
Hmmm that's how a horror movie starts.
Right? I didn't go to that station for a while.0 -
I love music. My brother-in-law knows I go to great lengths seeking out music. A few years ago he sent me a download of "I Touch Myself" by the Divinyls.
Great song, even greater video, but I'm not sure he thought it through when sending it to me.0 -
My daughter and I were visiting New Orleans. We were walking around and this guy started eyeballing my daughter up and down and then turned to me and said "you done good mama, you done good"0
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