creepy compliment

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  • HugoMartinez66
    HugoMartinez66 Posts: 257 Member

    Right? I didn't go to that station for a while. [/quote]

    Was said gas station out in the desert? I know those *kitten* can be creepy as hell.

  • kimberlyspanton
    kimberlyspanton Posts: 796 Member

    Right? I didn't go to that station for a while.

    Was said gas station out in the desert? I know those *kitten* can be creepy as hell.

    [/quote]

    Actually no, it was in a very small town in Ohio.
  • acorsaut89
    acorsaut89 Posts: 1,147 Member
    edited January 2015
    Alright as a straight woman I can appreciate a good looking woman however, over the holidays I was at the gym and it was DEAD . . .. I mean like I was the only woman on the women's workout side . . . not even one eliptical going. Anywho, there was a woman who I see quite often and she works for the gym doing clean up and making sure the equipment is functioning and re-racking weights at the end of the day and so on.

    So I was using the squat rack and she kept like sneaking glances at me . . . and at first, I'm like ok, maybe she doesn't know how to squat but wants to so she's trying to learn how. No problem! Then, in the change room I'm putting my stuff in my bag and she comes up to me - out of freakin no where - and she's like you look really good out there, you must really get a lot of guys liking your *kitten*, you can definitely tell you've got it going on in that department.

    I would have been totally ok without her talking to me . . . if she wanted to learn how to squat, that's one thing but saying that pushed it to creepy. Also, I know age isn't always a factor, but she was around 40 so if she wanted to talk about weight lifting, I'm down and if she wanted help to work on form or whatever, I'm all in but saying what she said just creeped me right out.
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    BFDeal wrote: »
    BFDeal wrote: »
    Today, I got the weirdest compliment ever. Saw some guy eyeing me in the grocery store, he then chooses to get in line behind me at check out. I made some comment about the sun being bright shining through the window ( it was really blinding) and he says, so are you. You're bright too. ummmmm thanks I guess? Whats they weirdest/creepiest comment you have gotten?

    Translation: an unattractive guy complimented me.

    How in the world, did you get me saying he wasn't attractive out of that?

    The title of the thread is "creepy compliment." If this guy were attractive his compliment would of been "sweet" or "nice" or something else positive. You didn't think he was cute so it was "creepy."

    That's actually not how it works at all.
  • HugoMartinez66
    HugoMartinez66 Posts: 257 Member

    Actually no, it was in a very small town in Ohio.[/quote]

    Oh god that's ever worse, the guy who kept 3 girls locked in his basement for over 10 was from that state.

  • kimberlyspanton
    kimberlyspanton Posts: 796 Member

    Actually no, it was in a very small town in Ohio.

    Oh god that's ever worse, the guy who kept 3 girls locked in his basement for over 10 was from that state.

    [/quote]

    Great. Now I'll never move back there for sure! Love the West too much anyway!
  • Kabiti
    Kabiti Posts: 191 Member
    I got a "my shift manager thinks your cute" at a coffee shop drive thru once... I was being very androgynous then so I didn't know just how it was meant, but it made me pretty happy at the time!
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    JessG1003 wrote:
    16 year old boy standing next to his father and little sister, moves over to let me pass by and as I walk by he loudly says "DAYUUUMMM DAT BOOTY DOE!" I turn around to glare at him and his father is high fiving him, his sister is shaking her head red faced and he winks at me!!!
    Obviously the father doesn't respect women, and has passed that along to his son.
    What the father should have done was to quickly & severely discipline the boy, including making him apologize to the lady he'd just misbehaved to.


  • acorsaut89
    acorsaut89 Posts: 1,147 Member
    edited January 2015
    jenilla1 wrote: »
    I absolutely NEVER get compliments from men (except for my husband.) I get looked at all the time, but that's about it. Either I'm totally gross or they're all scared of me. ;)

    Me too! Well I'm single . . . so I don't actually get compliments from men really at all.

    Depending on the day I either think to myself that I'm just so unattractive that they want nothing to do with me, or I'm so hot they think I'll just turn them down anyways ha ha . . .
  • LouLouStBijou
    LouLouStBijou Posts: 987 Member
    I can't think of a single compliment I've ever gotten that has been creepy.....I once had a guy tell me that it's too bad I wasn't as hot as my sister, but I don't think that qualifies.
  • donnysoule
    donnysoule Posts: 1,185 Member
    I had an ex-girlfriends drunken ex mother in law hitting on me this weekend, does that count? touchy feely hitting on me....
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    BFDeal wrote: »
    BFDeal wrote: »
    Today, I got the weirdest compliment ever. Saw some guy eyeing me in the grocery store, he then chooses to get in line behind me at check out. I made some comment about the sun being bright shining through the window ( it was really blinding) and he says, so are you. You're bright too. ummmmm thanks I guess? Whats they weirdest/creepiest comment you have gotten?

    Translation: an unattractive guy complimented me.

    How in the world, did you get me saying he wasn't attractive out of that?

    The title of the thread is "creepy compliment." If this guy were attractive his compliment would of been "sweet" or "nice" or something else positive. You didn't think he was cute so it was "creepy."

    That's actually not how it works at all.

    That is exactly how sexual harassment works. It is all based on "UNWATED" sexual advances.

  • ELMunque
    ELMunque Posts: 136 Member
    edited January 2015
    [/quote]

    That's actually not how it works at all.[/quote]

    That is exactly how sexual harassment works. It is all based on "UNWATED" sexual advances.

    [/quote]

    Also untrue. I have been harassed in a sexual nature and/or flirted with by attractive men, men who I personally found attractive, but it was still unwanted, and I put them in their places when need be. This applies when I was single and married, just because someone is attractive doesn't give them a pass to be inappropriate and/or uncomfortably persistent.

  • The_Aly_Wei
    The_Aly_Wei Posts: 844 Member
    I am usually the one dealing out the creepy compliments. I do mean them as genuine compliments, i guess i just pick odd things about a person.

    The creepiest one i have ever received "You are an absolute breeder."
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    I once got told I smelt like bread.... I dunno if that's good or bad but I like the smell of bread so I took it as a compliment! :'D
  • SteampunkSongbird
    SteampunkSongbird Posts: 826 Member
    I still don't know how to take this but when I was 16 I was walking down the street with my friend and a guy who looked like he was in his 20's turned to me and said, "I'd like to make you my stabbing victim."

    I was a little terrified but I also wasn't sure if he literally meant stabbing victim or if he meant that as a euphemism for sex.

    Either way, holy crap! :s
  • Anahita_Swims
    Anahita_Swims Posts: 4,127 Member
    I once had a 14 year old girl tell me i have nice eyebrows.... :no_mouth:
  • LNPurdie
    LNPurdie Posts: 84 Member
    cherith778 wrote: »
    Oh I have another one! Once in a bookstore, while thumbing through a book I had picked up, I had a man tap me on the shoulder, smile, and say "Hey. I like the way you breathe." I smiled and stepped away but in my head I was all like...

    "Yeeeeaah... I like the way I breathe too, and I'd like to remain breathing, please don't kill me." O.o lol

    Ohhhhhhhh Myyyyyyyyy yea, that one gets the Creeper of the year award for sure. Thats on the Buffalo Bill level of creepiness.

    Wins the awards yes

  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    I once had a 14 year old girl tell me i have nice eyebrows.... :no_mouth:

    This is the only compliment I've had numerous times.... O_o
    People always ask if I pluck em or whatever some people do to thatm D:
  • MrsBooBear
    MrsBooBear Posts: 12,618 Member
    ^^ Good eyebrows are hot! I.e, Yul Brynner,drools.
  • LC932017
    LC932017 Posts: 94 Member
    The creepiest one ever for me was nonverbal. While standing in line in a gas station a man began tapping on the window and I turned to look & he was pointing at my butt. I thought I may have sat in something or whatever and I'm looking at my butt like an idiot trying to see what's on me. He then starts making "thrusting" actions.

    I was scared to death. :s
  • JeffseekingV
    JeffseekingV Posts: 3,165 Member
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    I am usually the one dealing out the creepy compliments. I do mean them as genuine compliments, i guess i just pick odd things about a person.

    The creepiest one i have ever received "You are an absolute breeder."

    If I saw you in person and you gave me a creepy compliments, that would probably leave me speechless. LOL. then I would hope we became friends
  • Vegas_Don
    Vegas_Don Posts: 367 Member
    ELMunque wrote: »

    That's actually not how it works at all.[/quote]

    That is exactly how sexual harassment works. It is all based on "UNWATED" sexual advances.

    [/quote]

    Also untrue. I have been harassed in a sexual nature and/or flirted with by attractive men, men who I personally found attractive, but it was still unwanted, and I put them in their places when need be. This applies when I was single and married, just because someone is attractive doesn't give them a pass to be inappropriate and/or uncomfortably persistent.

    [/quote]
    Well said. I like the way you think...
  • Vegas_Don
    Vegas_Don Posts: 367 Member
    LNPurdie wrote: »
    cherith778 wrote: »
    Oh I have another one! Once in a bookstore, while thumbing through a book I had picked up, I had a man tap me on the shoulder, smile, and say "Hey. I like the way you breathe." I smiled and stepped away but in my head I was all like...

    "Yeeeeaah... I like the way I breathe too, and I'd like to remain breathing, please don't kill me." O.o lol

    Ohhhhhhhh Myyyyyyyyy yea, that one gets the Creeper of the year award for sure. Thats on the Buffalo Bill level of creepiness.

    Wins the awards yes
    BahahaHaha
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    edited January 2015
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    I am usually the one dealing out the creepy compliments. I do mean them as genuine compliments, i guess i just pick odd things about a person.

    The creepiest one i have ever received "You are an absolute breeder."

    If I saw you in person and you gave me a creepy compliments, that would probably leave me speechless. LOL. then I would hope we became friends

    @alywei3773 IS a badass friend
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    I don't think I've ever gotten a creepy compliment. I feel like I'm missing out on some rite of passage or something.
  • donnysoule
    donnysoule Posts: 1,185 Member
    just tell me which part of your body you want commented on and I'll make it creepier than you could ever imagine.... like a personalized kids but only different ;-)
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    Wrote this awhile ago in a different forum:
    "I get hit on all the time, especially at work.

    I work in an area that certain departments are more gender specific. If I am giving a presentation there, I have to remind them that my face is “up here".

    I will be in a business meeting and specific senior department chiefs will start touching me in a more then casual way.

    It is really a pain if I am with my wife out on a date night....it can destroy the whole atmosphere. Waitresses feel very empowered when 'helping' you with that napkin on your lap.

    I was at church one Sunday; my wife is a ‘Lay Person’ there. A lady scooted into the pew next to me and next thing I know hand is on my thigh. I moved really quickly for an old man.

    Last month, I was at the car dealer picking up some parts, the young lady behind the counter put her home number on the receipt with a message to call her sometime. Now how in the heck can I use that for tax purposes!

    I do not like flying anymore because of some of the stuff I have to put up with from the airline staff. And DO NOT get me started about TSA. EVERY DARN time I end having to go to the damn private room for a closer inspection.

    It is really ridiculous.












    Then again, I do have a very good imagination.


    Just one old man's opinion :-) "
  • Behxo
    Behxo Posts: 1,190 Member
    I was once talking to a client over the phone and he said that I had a nice voice... IDK, I thought it was a little weird but I'll take the compliment anyways lol
  • beckibelgium
    beckibelgium Posts: 235 Member
    Wearing leggings on the bus some random dude called me 'thick like a black woman' I was like 'um......thanks?'
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