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Alcohol and Society
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I pretty much agree with Needs2. Not sure what "our society" is -- we are a multi-cultural site, after all, and even within the US there's no clear cultural way that alcohol is viewed, it varies.
I think the way my own family viewed/used alcohol was pretty messed up, but that's certainly not the case with the way that others experience it. I don't drink now (haven't for several years), and I don't find that a problem or that others are bothered by it/care. Was just away for a long weekend with lots of people and some drinking (not me), which would have probably been stressful for me at one time, as I would have felt that drinking was expected, but it wasn't, and plenty of people did not drink and those who did didn't drink to excess.
I am not unaware of the harm alcohol causes, but that's due to its legality (and therefore prevalence vs. some other drugs, not at all suggesting it shouldn't be legal) and, of course, is related to a limited number of users, percentage-wise. I do think it would be harmful for me to drink. For most people, it isn't, or isn't any more than me having some ice cream or cheese at night (which I use the calories I might otherwise use for wine for, often).
So I suppose I think there is something wrong with how some aspects of the society I live in looks at alcohol, but not with others. The things I think were wrong with how I used to look at alcohol aren't shared by all who enjoy drinking it.2 -
Need2Exerc1se wrote: »But I'd have to say I do not think there is anything wrong with it on a societal level.
But have you ever slept in the same bed with a person sleeping off three Absolut on the rocks and a bottle of wine? With the windows closed? The room filling stench of partially metabolized alcohol seeping out of their pores...it's like with the smokers - they can't smell it on themselves. And then they want to roll over for an innocent little smooch. It's societally devastating.
Not society's problem who someone sleeps with.5 -
Need2Exerc1se wrote: »But I'd have to say I do not think there is anything wrong with it on a societal level.
But have you ever slept in the same bed with a person sleeping off three Absolut on the rocks and a bottle of wine? With the windows closed? The room filling stench of partially metabolized alcohol seeping out of their pores...it's like with the smokers - they can't smell it on themselves. And then they want to roll over for an innocent little smooch. It's societally devastating.
"societally devastating" How many people are in that bed??
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Need2Exerc1se wrote: »Need2Exerc1se wrote: »But I'd have to say I do not think there is anything wrong with it on a societal level.
But have you ever slept in the same bed with a person sleeping off three Absolut on the rocks and a bottle of wine? With the windows closed? The room filling stench of partially metabolized alcohol seeping out of their pores...it's like with the smokers - they can't smell it on themselves. And then they want to roll over for an innocent little smooch. It's societally devastating.
"societally devastating" How many people are in that bed??
Even the dog opted out and slept in the other room on those nights. Not kidding.
Still seems like a pretty small population for creating devastation on a societal level.1 -
I love this debate. While I think that the market for alcohol should be free and people should participate in it as they please, as someone who lives in a metropolitan area, I find that much of the social behavior/activity is alcohol-centric. The idea of going for drinks is the most basic and go-to plan.
I have lots of friends who I do non-drinking activities with, but I have some friends where I actually feel uncomfortable hanging out with them and saying that I am NOT going to drink, it's like drinking is the default.3 -
Alcohol is an intrinsic part of my family's background and culture, going back for centuries to the vineyards of France, the breweries of Germany, the mead of the Vikings and Anglo Saxons, and the peat-smoked barley whisky of Scotland. Or even the cider that we just celebrated this past weekend with a festival dedicated to Johnny Appleseed and his distribution of cider orchards throughout PA, OH and IN. Think of the sad state English literature would be in if we didn't have Beowulf's mead hall or Tolkein's snug little hobbits and their pints, if we just had to settle for the grim naggings of the Puritans (although even they allowed themselves plenty of beer). Like food, it is a gift from God (or a fortuitous if random evolutionary occurrence, if that is your thing), but also like food, it is a double-edged sword when the blessing is abused. Like fire, it can warm your body and heart and bring joy and fellowship, but also like fire, when abused and mishandled, it can kill and destroy.
As Ben Franklin said, "We hear of the conversion of water into wine at the marriage in Cana as of a miracle. But this conversion is, through the goodness of God, made every day before our eyes. Behold the rain which descends from heaven upon our vineyards; there it enters the roots of the vines, to be changed into wine; a constant proof that God loves us, and loves to see us happy. The miracle in question was only performed to hasten the operation, under circumstances of present necessity, which required it."
I have a grandfather on one side who was an alcoholic till late in life, and an uncle on the other side who is still in its grips, and it has led to a lot of sadness in his life. I have made my share of stupid choices in my youth, which helped me develop wisdom as I aged. As for my own household, my husband and I love seeking out new craft brews or ciders and breweries in our travels, or enjoying the sight of vines covering a hillside in California or Michigan. I can't imagine spending my life sleeping next to a drunk stinking of alcohol....but I do count myself lucky that my adorable, sensible husband didn't object to sleeping next to me following what we refer to as the "Pedal Bar/White Russian/Burning-Christmas-Trees-in-May Incident," and indeed assisted me in safely achieving my bonfire objective. I am fortunate that, when I think of alcohol, I mostly think of happy times, and can appreciate it as a cultural treasure. We work very hard to engrain a common sense attitude with our children and to underscore the need for respect and moderation, so that they can be sensible when they go off to college and face rampant campus douchebaggery, with everyone raping everyone else and suchlike. Also, it is much harder to make an @ss of yourself with a $10 bottle of craft cider or a $50 bottle of wine than it is with a fifth of cheap gin or a 24-pack of Natty Light.
Michael Pollan's "The Botany of Desire" has some interesting thoughts on how cultures have allowed and forbidden drugs, and contrasts these with his section on the breeding of apples (esp. for cider) and marijuana.
As for nothing good coming from alcohol, research is increasingly showing that sensible use of wine and beer correlates with notable health benefits--when limited to one or two drinks a day. My mother, a staunch Methodist, also used to claim that nothing good ever came from the alcohol trade, but after marrying a Lutheran, I have since corrupted my tee-totaling parents, and they now maintain a modest selection of wines and ciders.22 -
I want to hug this post ^^4
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I find this fascinating - the need of certain people to project beliefs onto others.
I grew up in a nearly all German town in the US. Each family put their own spin on beer/wine/spirits and consumed at nearly every meal and special occasion. It was just a normal issue and people rarely if ever drank to excess. If anyone did they would be ridiculed for the next week or so for not being able to handle themselves. I remember splitting a beer with my Dad around age 12 after spending a morning splitting up wood. I remember going to every graduation party and beer/wine being served. No one drove - everyone brought sleeping bags/tents and slept over.
This all changed when our community became a bedroom community for St. Louis and a few do-gooder tea-teetotalers moved in and decided to crack down on this and decided that underage drinking was a problem. After this kids started sneaking out to drink, because it was made taboo. Rather than drinking in a responsible manner and setting, they moved to the back-roads. DUIs, alcohol related deaths, and binge drinking increased overnight.
Cultures that remove the criminality and taboo from this do well. Attempts at prohibition and over regulation never succeed and always end up in worse situations than the original perceived problem.15 -
I don't really drink much.
I'll have a cocktail if I'm at a fine restaurant known for its drinks, and for a while I was having a swallow or two of Sambuca after dinner as a digestif, but that's pretty much it. Oh, and the once a year Christmas egg nog.
I don't like drinking 99% of wines, I really dislike drinking beer, and I despise the feeling of being a little 'out of it'. I won't take antihistamines or other OTC drugs that make me feel a bit spacey either, so it's not specific to alcohol. I do love cooking with alcohol, and I have a good selection of liquors at home for that purpose.
If I'm at a party and people are getting past 'a little loosened up', I usually leave. My experience is that is when the fun stops and the stupid and sometimes nasty begins. Some of the people I typically party with feel that alcohol should to be a part of it or there isn't a party (these are people who always have a glass of wine with dinner), and some don't. None have a problem with alcohol.
I have seen the effects of alcohol abuse in my family. If this person had not been abusing alcohol, they would have abused something else. I don't have a problem with how we view alcohol except for the way we handle it with kids. It's made into a special thing, only for adults, and as a result kids often start sneaking the stuff. That way lies dragons.3 -
Yeah, I do think that making it off limits is potentially more likely to lead to people not learning about it as a natural thing to be used in moderation. Kids are more likely to want to try it, and go to excess, and learn that as a pattern. When something is off limits and used in secrecy and people are not taught to normalize and moderate then they are curious and without guidance. So, with all things I would like to see kids asking questions and being honest about their curiosity. And adults not punishing their honest curiosity. To teach a healthy understanding and moderation. Edit: but with that said I was with my family once when I was 15 and they kept giving me alcohol. More than I wanted or could physically handle. But, I just accepted the drinks and tried to keep up. So, I really think we need to teach people to understand and respect their own limits. I just can't tolerate alcohol.4
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As for nothing good coming from alcohol, research is increasingly showing that sensible use of wine and beer correlates with notable health benefits--when limited to one or two drinks a day. My mother, a staunch Methodist, also used to claim that nothing good ever came from the alcohol trade, but after marrying a Lutheran, I have since corrupted my tee-totaling parents, and they now maintain a modest selection of wines and ciders.
On the contrary. Research now points out that even small amounts of alcohol immediately raise cancer risks, and have no discernible favorable influence on health. So there's that excuse gone.
I read a lot of justification in this thread. Interesting.
http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/8242377 -
As for nothing good coming from alcohol, research is increasingly showing that sensible use of wine and beer correlates with notable health benefits--when limited to one or two drinks a day. My mother, a staunch Methodist, also used to claim that nothing good ever came from the alcohol trade, but after marrying a Lutheran, I have since corrupted my tee-totaling parents, and they now maintain a modest selection of wines and ciders.
On the contrary. Research now points out that even small amounts of alcohol immediately raise cancer risks, and have no discernible favorable influence on health. So there's that excuse gone.
I read a lot of justification in this thread. Interesting.
http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/824237
Well, naturally it causes cancer--all of life's pleasures cause cancer, including red wine, cheese, steak, chocolate, cookies, baguettes, jam, puppies, rainbows, and magical rainbow puppy unicorns.
As your article says, "no absolutely safe level of alcohol consumption can be promoted"; presumably it's hedging because we lack the research and knowledge about the exact mechanics of cancer and how any given substance plays into it, while sorting out the causative vs. correlative impacts in any given study.
Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy alcohol consumption:
"Alcohol is a double-edged sword.[12] Two decades ago, studies that explored the "French paradox" began to appear in the medical literature and were also picked up as news by the mainstream media. Light to moderate alcohol consumption appeared to have a cardioprotective effect. According to observational studies, the French, who had the highest alcohol intake (particularly of wine), also had the lowest incidence of cardiovascular disease.[13]
John Q. Public, who may have viewed these results as a "get out of jail free" card, may also have ignored the "small print" that cautioned against alcohol consumption as a measure to prevent cardiovascular disease.[14,15] The evidence showing lower risks for diabetes mellitus, stroke, heart failure, and total mortality stand in stark contrast to the harms associated with excessive alcohol consumption.[13]
Another problem with the notion of alcohol's protective effect on cardiovascular disease is that this effect depends on a consistent light to moderate drinking pattern, without episodic heavy or "binge" drinking. The ideal pattern seems to be daily low- to moderate-dose alcohol intake (preferably red wine) before or during the evening meal, which is associated with the strongest reduction in adverse cardiovascular outcomes. However, more is not better; in fact, more is dramatically worse. Heavy alcohol use causes hypertension, atrial fibrillation, ischemic and hemorrhagic stroke, and nonischemic dilated cardiomyopathy.[13]"
It's a drug, and you have to be intelligent about it. For the general knowledge of the readers of this thread (and anyone who doesn't have a Medscape login) it is worth reiterating their table of closing recommendations, as it is certainly wise advice:
"Personal health behaviors:
Monitor your alcohol intake ("know your number"). This is similar to knowing your blood pressure, cholesterol level, or calorie intake.
Limit consumption to 20 g daily for men and 15 g daily for women (1.5 drinks for men and 1 drink for women, by US standards).
Less is more: Lower alcohol consumption leads to greater health and longevity.
Take a day off. Not drinking for 1-2 days each week can help the liver recover from the effects of alcohol and reduce the risk for liver complications."7 -
As for nothing good coming from alcohol, research is increasingly showing that sensible use of wine and beer correlates with notable health benefits--when limited to one or two drinks a day. My mother, a staunch Methodist, also used to claim that nothing good ever came from the alcohol trade, but after marrying a Lutheran, I have since corrupted my tee-totaling parents, and they now maintain a modest selection of wines and ciders.
On the contrary. Research now points out that even small amounts of alcohol immediately raise cancer risks, and have no discernible favorable influence on health. So there's that excuse gone.
I read a lot of justification in this thread. Interesting.
http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/824237
Unless you exercise
http://www.cnn.com/2016/09/07/health/exercise-alcohol-and-death-risk/6 -
As with anything else it can be abused. People have to take care of themselves. We have the government far to involved in things in my opinion. Two main differences in alcohol and tobacco in my opinion. One light drinking a few a week vs. a few cigarettes does vastly different damage to the human body. Second a person standing next to me drinking a glass of wine has no impact on me vs. a person standing next to me smoking. That said I think we have regulated smoking enough and again people have to take care of themselves.1
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I drink every week but not every day, usually 2 drinks, times 2 days, so 4 a week total. Sometimes only one day a week, it depends. My ex was a terrible drunk, not in the sense of overusing, he wasn't ever a daily drinker, but it changed him from laid back stoner dude to evil abusive trailer park dad, he could not handle drink at all. His response to alcohol was to become violent, and for a long time he didn't see it, thought that everyone around him was oppressing him somehow. He no longer drinks, at all.
I think that people have always wanted mind altering substances, and there just aren't a lot of legal ones around. The problem is that safe stuff gets prohibited, and the big industry behind alcohol can push to keep it legal, and also alcoholic drinks are closer to "food" than most drugs are, they are culinary - I can make a delightful pitcher of cocktails that will taste amazing and much better than a non-alcoholic version of the same thing, and beer tastes how it does because of the fermentation, that also causes the alcohol, same with wine, if you like those tastes they kind of just come with the alcohol.
I don't think it's wrong to want to get high or drunk sometimes, but think more and safer substances should be legal for that, and that there should be some sort of safe way to experience it, without risking the safety of other people. Not sure why it is so squashed down like it's evil.
Fiance has a glass (probably 2 shots, but served as one drink) of bourbon on ice every night, and coffee every morning first thing. Works out, sleeps well, it doesn't seem to mess him up at all.
Alcoholic beverages have been around for thousands of years, that's a long record of consumption by humans.1 -
suppose we replaced "alcohol" with "heroin" or even "marihuana" in the replies above...
"Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy heroin consumption:"
Again, lots of justification. I wonder why.2 -
suppose we replaced "alcohol" with "heroin" or even "marihuana" in the replies above...
"Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy heroin consumption:"
Again, lots of justification. I wonder why.
You could also replace it with "Oreos" or "carrots" or heaven forbid, "coffee". @jmbmilholland was pointing out that your blanket statement of "it has no discernible favorable influence on health" is not what the review article is saying. There is a a favourable influence in regards to one part of your health, but unfortunately the risks that it poses to other areas of your body outweigh the one positive outcome they can see.
Personally, I need no justification to drink, and the assumption that people are making excuses / providing justification for drinking alcohol on this thread seems very narrow minded. I drink alcohol in moderation because I enjoy the flavour, the way it complements my food, and the enjoyment of having a beer with my hubby when I get home from work on a hot day or a glass of wine on Friday with my co-workers; I could also say the same thing about coffee or a cupcake (and alternate them quite frequently). I take no joy in binge drinking or getting beyond tipsy, and I won't drink something I don't like 'just because it's there'.
Out of all the things that can kill me in this world, alcohol is the least of my worries; I mean, I'm Australian. There's a good chance I could die from being bitten by a redback or whitetailed spider when I go to the toilet, and I'm more worried about melanoma from forgetting to 'slip slop slap' or lung cancer from my smoking years than I am about alcohol-induced cancer.
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suppose we replaced "alcohol" with "heroin" or even "marihuana" in the replies above...
"Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy heroin consumption:"
Again, lots of justification. I wonder why.
If you replaced it with heroin it would make no sense because there is little similarity between alcohol and heroin.
What do you mean by "justification"? Justification for what exactly?9 -
Need2Exerc1se wrote: »suppose we replaced "alcohol" with "heroin" or even "marihuana" in the replies above...
"Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy heroin consumption:"
Again, lots of justification. I wonder why.
If you replaced it with heroin it would make no sense because there is little similarity between alcohol and heroin.
What do you mean by "justification"? Justification for what exactly?
I *do* believe he's trying to insinuate I'm covering up my alcoholism. Basically, since I split an Alpha King with my husband last week, and visited several breweries in Michigan last month (Storm Cloud, Jolly Pumpkin, North Peak, and Left Foot Charlie*, all very fabulous), it means that every word I have written about the cultural importance of alcohol is a dubious attempt to cover up my shameful drug habit, thus, I am a bad person, and people of good moral character should not listen to me. Insinuation is such a fine, subtle, creepy, slithering, greasy little tactic. I wish I could make better use of it to cast aspersions on the honor and character of others if they are making an argument I don't like, or use my sources against me, but alas, I find I am a little too hamfisted for such intricacies.
I'll just go stand myself in the corner with Jesus, Tolkein, Franklin and Luther, because I'm getting people addicted to heroin or...something.
*Technically a winery, and I bought a couple of cases of really outstanding cider. THE SHAME.20 -
xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....3 -
Personally I have only one justification for drinking alcohol. I like it.
I like the taste and I like the buzz. Anyone that has a problem with that can go suck an egg.20 -
Need2Exerc1se wrote: »Personally I have only one justification for drinking alcohol. I like it.
I like the taste and I like the buzz. Anyone that has a problem with that can go suck an egg.
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I drink every day and enjoy it, it relieves stress. The good/bad for you bit I ignore. Studies always show something is good or bad depending on who "buys" it. Coffee, eggs, sugar, wine, beer, bacon and yes cigarettes have been on both sides of the good/bad argument. I leave you with my favorite quote.
"I feel sorry for a man that doesn't drink. When he gets up in the morning that's the best he's going to feel all day"
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Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....
Maybe they are teetotalers that make a big deal out of it. I actually enjoy that there is alcohol in our social environment because people are relaxing and having fun. I would even enjoy a drink or two if I could. But, it makes me sick for months (I can't drink for medical reasons). My husband just doesn't drink. He just doesn't want to. But, no one knows we don't drink. They don't notice and can't tell either way. I'm the life of the party. Dancing when everyone else is sitting. I dance first and then get others to join. I'm very joyful. Not miserable at all. I think it depends on the person. Some drinkers are joyful, some miserable. Some teetotalers are joyful, some miserable. As long as we all respect each other's choices, we are happy. It's the adult thing to do. For me, I love dancing and sexuality. That's how I have fun.8 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....
Maybe they are teetotalers that make a big deal out of it. I actually enjoy that there is alcohol in our social environment because people are relaxing and having fun. I would even enjoy a drink or two if I could. But, it makes me sick for months (I can't drink for medical reasons). My husband just doesn't drink. He just doesn't want to. But, no one knows we don't drink. They don't notice and can't tell either way. I'm the life of the party. Dancing when everyone else is sitting. I dance first and then get others to join. I'm very joyful. Not miserable at all. I think it depends on the person. Some drinkers are joyful, some miserable. Some teetotalers are joyful, some miserable. As long as we all respect each other's choices, we are happy. It's the adult thing to do. For me, I love dancing and sexuality. That's how I have fun.
Note I said the most miserable people ''I' know are all teetotallers so I'm not sure why you had to write this self-congratulatory essay.
But I love dancing and having sex too. I hate cake and ice cream. But again I'm not sure what that's got to do with a judgey thread about booze.
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BinaryPulsar wrote: »Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....
Maybe they are teetotalers that make a big deal out of it. I actually enjoy that there is alcohol in our social environment because people are relaxing and having fun. I would even enjoy a drink or two if I could. But, it makes me sick for months (I can't drink for medical reasons). My husband just doesn't drink. He just doesn't want to. But, no one knows we don't drink. They don't notice and can't tell either way. I'm the life of the party. Dancing when everyone else is sitting. I dance first and then get others to join. I'm very joyful. Not miserable at all. I think it depends on the person. Some drinkers are joyful, some miserable. Some teetotalers are joyful, some miserable. As long as we all respect each other's choices, we are happy. It's the adult thing to do. For me, I love dancing and sexuality. That's how I have fun.
Yeah, I know a lot of teetotalers that are marvelous fun to be around (my mother, who also loves to dance, being one). And some that are not. Same with drinkers. Some are great fun, some are not. Some are more fun before they drink and some more fun after.3 -
People use drugs because they like drugs. Despite the suppressing efforts of governments, religions, and public health officials, this behavior will likely continue for the entire future of humanity.4
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suppose we replaced "alcohol" with "heroin" or even "marihuana" in the replies above...
"Although you are misrepresenting what it says about health influences ("it has no discernible favorable influence on health"), the article also agrees with my contention that one must take a sensible approach to reap the health benefits and avoid the douchebaggery of heavy heroin consumption:"
Again, lots of justification. I wonder why.
The issue is one of risk management. This is why we classify and restrict certain products that have a high inherent risk of abuse, such as heroin (a Schedule 1 pharmaceutical) and alcohol (regulated, but sold OTC) accordingly.
Adding clarity to your point would help the conversation.
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Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....
Maybe they are teetotalers that make a big deal out of it. I actually enjoy that there is alcohol in our social environment because people are relaxing and having fun. I would even enjoy a drink or two if I could. But, it makes me sick for months (I can't drink for medical reasons). My husband just doesn't drink. He just doesn't want to. But, no one knows we don't drink. They don't notice and can't tell either way. I'm the life of the party. Dancing when everyone else is sitting. I dance first and then get others to join. I'm very joyful. Not miserable at all. I think it depends on the person. Some drinkers are joyful, some miserable. Some teetotalers are joyful, some miserable. As long as we all respect each other's choices, we are happy. It's the adult thing to do. For me, I love dancing and sexuality. That's how I have fun.
Note I said the most miserable people ''I' know are all teetotallers so I'm not sure why you had to write this self-congratulatory essay.
But I love dancing and having sex too. I hate cake and ice cream. But again I'm not sure what that's got to do with a judgey thread about booze.
I need a drink.
Sorry. I didn't intend it as self congratulatory (I specified it was because of a medical issue). Just talking about having fun and how it doesn't matter either way (talking about not judging). I'm glad you love those things too! I thought it related because I was talking about the things that happen at social events which include alcohol, and saying I like that alcohol is there. And things which are fun, relaxing, release inhibition (alcohol being one, but there are others too). But, I could have left that last part out (it probably was over explaining). It's definitely not my intention to start an argument (but tone doesn't come across online). There are plenty of reasons why people can judge me. Plenty of things to be judgy about. I just think it's funner to respect differences and not judge it. I don't think we disagree there.4 -
Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »xmichaelyx wrote: »we have spent A LOT of money on his alcohol, three DWI's, increased car insurance premiums, damaged vehicles, the cost of three rehabs, fines, etc.
The problem isn't the alcohol; it's that the person you're describing is an a-hole.
I love drinking. I drink daily, sometimes to excess. I love beer and bourbon.
That said, I don't drink and drive, because I'm not an idiot. Addiction doesn't cause people to get DWIs or wreck their cars. Being an a-hole does.
Alcohol by itself is neither harmful nor helpful.Alcoholic behavior is not fun!
My gf and I are both very happy, functional, educated, well-paid alcoholics. It's tons of fun!
Cheers! And personally I have to say the most miserable people I know are all teetotalers....
/agree
...and there's a vast difference in people who don't drink and those who don't think anyone should drink.
Unfortunately there are a lot of do-gooders out there projecting their internal flaws onto the rest of the population and effing up personal liberties.
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