What's on your mind?
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Motorsheen wrote: »Ima thinking:
if change isn't going to happen, and this is as good as it gets.
..... and this kinda sucks.
what then ??
When you know change probably won’t “happen” you have three options
1. Coast and stay unhappy
2. Coast and learn to make peace with it
3. MAKE change happen2 -
If I've never stopped by to talk to you...
what makes you think i wan't you stopping by and talking to me every *kitten* day?1 -
I am cold and I am shamed2
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CanesGalactica wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »my eyes are obsidian black i see everything blue
what is the earths defense system
Gunther
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ima thinking:
if change isn't going to happen, and this is as good as it gets.
..... and this kinda sucks.
what then ??
When you know change probably won’t “happen” you have three options
1. Coast and stay unhappy
2. Coast and learn to make peace with it
3. MAKE change happen
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I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.1
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Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
The answer is no - no you cannot2 -
Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
The answer is no - no you cannot
I kind of figured. I'm expecting a call from a lawyer any minute.0 -
Pandemonium_ wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
The answer is no - no you cannot
I kind of figured. I'm expecting a call from a lawyer any minute.
Times are tough all over man0 -
Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
no bacon ??
post reported.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
no bacon ??
post reported.
Would you accept corned beef hash?0 -
Pandemonium_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I'm having breakfast for lunch. BUT, no bacon. I'm not sure I can legally still call this breakfast.
no bacon ??
post reported.
Would you accept corned beef hash?
honestly, that is a call well beyond my pay grade.
it seems reasonable
... but I've been wrong before. *shrug2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »people used to keep diaries and not blogs
I still write in my diary. It's cathartic.0 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »people used to keep diaries and not blogs
I still write in my diary. It's cathartic.
Maybe I should try that. I have scribblings on a graph paper notebook that even to me, look like some madman's notes. Some I remember and laugh. We have good laughs, me.2 -
Going to a Columbian spot for dinner tonight.. never had it before. Any recommendations on what to try??1
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My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.8
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_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
Wow that is disturbing! She probably doesn't realise that's not how it should be. Hope you can steer her away from him.3 -
_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
I agree. He is young, but the possessiveness doesn't bode well. I may be sensitive with two girls of my own. My 15 year old is dating a 14 yo though.1 -
_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
This heart breaking
I agree with you. She should steer clear of him. 1 -
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »people used to keep diaries and not blogs
I still write in my diary. It's cathartic.
Me to
Looking at this for my next one. They can have such beautiful covers.
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »people used to keep diaries and not blogs
Fuggin digital age - I prefer to type than write myself as my handwriting is quite horrible - but I don’t keep any type of journal - I just internalize my thoughts and sort thru them that way - I’ve been advised by a few to maybe writes that chit down - just don’t thinks it’s something I’ll ever do0 -
_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
You tell her that she can't be with him at all and she will likely rebel. You get a say in what she does and with who though so you can limit her time with him. Tell her she isn't allowed to spend all weekend with any one person so she can go with her friends tonight and see him tomorrow or Sunday. All weekend with a boyfriend at 13 or 14 is too much anyway4 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
You tell her that she can't be with him at all and she will likely rebel. You get a say in what she does and with who though so you can limit her time with him. Tell her she isn't allowed to spend all weekend with any one person so she can go with her friends tonight and see him tomorrow or Sunday. All weekend with a boyfriend at 13 or 14 is too much anyway
Absolutely agree with all you said. I spoke to her and she's not going there this weekend. Way too young to be in a position like that.3 -
_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
I don’t let my girls spend anytime with boyfriends/ they are 13/15 - I’ve told them not til 16 - I know maybe a little over board but all dudes are a holes at that age - so I’m ok with it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯4 -
_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »My girl... she will be 13 in December and has had a little boyfriend for almost 1 year now, he's 14. Yesterday I told her I thought she didn't spend alot of time with her friends anymore and spent all of her time with him. She got invited to go to the movies with her friends tonight and when she told him she was going he got angry and told her she didn't love him because if she would, she would spend ALL weekend with him. I can't believe that kids can be possesive like that at that age and now I'm wondering how long this has been going on and I feel bad because maybe I've been blind to it? I don't think she should see him anymore.
I don’t let my girls spend anytime with boyfriends/ they are 13/15 - I’ve told them not til 16 - I know maybe a little over board but all dudes are a holes at that age - so I’m ok with it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I know...it was too much. I guess maybe in a way I've felt guilty lately because I dont have as much energy to do activities with my kids as I used to so maybe I haven't been as strict has I've been before. This little incident opened my eyes and hopefully the talk I had with her opened hers. It's not easy dealing with teenagers 🤦♀️1
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