WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2018
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Becca- every time I was at the hospital as a long term visitor there was a refrigerator where we could keep items. You might want to call ahead to see if that is a possibility. It is usually in the visitors lounge and you write your name on your bag/item. It's OK to vent! This is a very stressful situation for you that you have already been through it and it is extremely hard to be a caregiver! And I would say that in my opinion men are big babies and require a lot of care! And even though my husband only has a shoulder/broken arm he still asks me to tie his shoes! I think he just wants attention!
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Becca Thank you for the hug! And spinach! When I started on my diet I didn’t just want to lose weight I wanted to eat healthier. This was a real challenge for me because I just really don’t like most things people call healthy foods. Or I had not found a way to prepare them that I liked. Spinach was the first “healthy“ food that I found I liked. So for a few weeks or maybe even up to a few months it was close to constant spinach with X for every meal.
Now that I regularly eat 6 to 8 different types of vegetables in different preparations, it is not spinach with every meal. But it still makes up a large part of my veggie intake. I love the stuff I like baby spinach fresh or wilted on the stove top. And I eat frozen regular spinach mist every day.
Lately my favorite meal is to take a serving of frozen spinach, and three or four servings of a frozen veggie mix (carrots water chestnuts snow peapods and broccoli). I steam these vegetables in the microwave. Then I take a sinfully deliciously pasta sauce which my husband makes in large batches and ladle some over my veggie bowl. Since I never particularly cared for pasta, but I always have loved tomato sauce, this is better than anything I used to eat pre-diet!
A veggie mix like that one is what I am serving with many of the meals that my husband makes like chicken Tikka and other Currys or sauce-based foods. He has rice or pasta and I just ladle it on to my veggies.
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I have very little useful advice for your next week, Becca, but I do just want to say you are one of the strongest women I ‘know’ and you are a lot of what I aspire to be. I’ll keep you in my warm thoughts next week.
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This is my grandson, all 6'2' size 13 shoe of him. He is trying to "get in shape" for the wedding. I love it lol
Janetr OKC
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Wendy: I love your horsemanship suggestions and welcome them any time. Thank you! Yesterday I did exactly what you described and had a very good time with Arrow. I must have received your thoughts through time and space, even faster than the internet.
Arrow hasn't been crowding my space in recent weeks. I've learned to make him move where I want him without losing my own temper, or worse, letting him get away with things because I've been being too passive. I learned just about everything faster when I was a kid, but I'm proving regularly that I can still learn. Physical things are more of a challenge than mental ones & so much with a horse is a combination of physical & mental at the same time. Getting better at something difficult for me is a nice turn of events.
Becca: I will be thinking of you & your DH next Wednesday. It will be so awesome when his bile ducts match the needs of his liver and his body. I hope I am remembering correctly that bile ducts have been the recent problem. (((HUGS)))
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"So many of us believe in perfection, which ruins everything else, because the perfect is not only the enemy of the good; it's also the enemy of the realistic, the possible and the fun."
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Becca - Thank you for the compliment.
I wish you both well for next week. I hope it all goes smoothly and you find some time to yourself to de-stress.
DH had his first read of the beginning of my memoir this afternoon. He did a bit of pencil editing and made a couple of suggestions on infelicities of expression. All very welcome. In general he was very positive, which is a relief, as it's the first time anyone has seen it. Exposure is frightening.
Other wise, just more property transaction forms to fill in! I wish we had news on our vendor's house search. The lawyers are trying to get us to hurry up with forms etc and we don't even know if they have found a suitable place.
Love to all you lovely women. Your strength always amazes me. Truly the pillars of the earth.
Heather UK xxxxxxx8 -
Becca - hugs surrounding you, my friend. You take all the blows life gives with such a sunny attitude, one I aspire to... I know that, when Corey shattered his wrist last year, I told him a couple months in that it was like being married to his wrist, instead of my husband, as that was the only topic of conversation. And his journey was of comparatively short duration! Hope this surgery is completely successful and that Lee's more recent ups and downs are a thing of the past.
JanetR - dance with abandon, my dear, you've earned every boogie moment!
Happy March birthdays, since I suck at the individual greetings on those. I'm sincerely hoping to ignore mine. No, it's not in March, but it's looming... I'm having a weird day, after pure effort at work for two weeks, a day to take a breath and figure out what's next feels like I'm shirking my responsibilities. I have many faults and quirks, but one of the ones that is at the forefront right now is a near inability to live in the moment. It is near crippling mentally when your mind WILL NOT stop turning over all the uncertainties of the near future.
Where's Kim in NoCal? Missing her...
Love y'all,
Lisa in NC5 -
I am chilling as it snows away.. not having to shovel or snow blow...
Going for a haircut tomorrow..4 -
Awe, sweet ladies of mine..... Some of your comments just made me teary eyed!
Regarding frig access, I don't think I will be able to. There isn't a lounge per say, and OHSU, being a teaching hospital, is massive! The first couple of days he will be in ICU, so pretty much not a visitors hangout spot anyway. In his room, of course no frig. I will be fine, this is what I'm bringing:
Sunflower seeds, and all my nuts and crunchy bits that come in my salad kits.
Oatmeal cookies (maybe only 1 or 2 each day)
Salads
Pieces of fruit
Microwavable rice cups (actually its red quinoa and brown rice)
Peanut butter
Carrots
Granola cereal
Pretty much channeling Yule Gibbons! It will be interesting to not eat meals, just nibbling here and there like a forest creature! Hahaha!
My caregivers hat fits comfortably on my head, but my past problems was finding where my wife hat went. I remember specifically a day,when Lee leaned down to kiss me. I was like, what are you doing??? This time, I won't be texting people I should not be texting. This time, I'm whole heart in. When husband had his transplant, I expected to help him recoup, and then we were done. Strangely now, its like life is full circle, and our life up in Whidbey island starts after he recoups. You ask what changed. Well back then, when I thought our marriage was over, he fought for me, just like he fought to recover. I remember thinking, "if he fought so hard to stay in this world, I think I should fight to keep this marriage going. So, as most things go, we saved each other!
So I'm taking back my turkey slices from Fred Meyers! Nothing like nibbling on a slice and fish out a gristle part. I know it happens but, not in two lunches I've had! I called Kraft Foods, and we were going along fine to a coupon refund, but then we were disconnected. Oye! I hate that! So I have the receipt and Fred Meyers will take it back. Or suffer my wrath!!!
Thanks again for y'all saying nice comments. I will find strength in them!
Becca
Oregon
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Becca - your snack type foods sound great. Would anything like little individual unsweetened applesauce cups work? One of my favorites is adding a few walnut halves to applesauce and it's tasty, fills a person up and is kind of like a treat.
Do you know what will be expected as far as your caregiver role this time? Any wound care for example, helping to and fro (bathroom, dinner table) while he regains his strength? Getting pills down him?
You are an inspiration to all of us - teaching us how to enjoy life and be loved every day and be silly when necessary (((()))))
Janetr - your grandson is a cutie! I always said I regretted not having kids cause I'm missing out on grandkids. I can see why you are so proud of him ;-) Not just babies to hug and kiss, but big strong young men who can walk us into the senior center and make all the other little white haired ladies jealous! LOL. I can see now why my mom and grandmothers loved being around my brother as a young man - he was kind, good looking in a brother sort of way, 6' 4" tall, in good shape. I'm sure they felt very safe in his presence.
Rye - I was going to mention how neat it is when you decide to concentrate on eating and exercising to be healthy, often the weight loss happens anyhow. I am so proud of you for hitting your BMI range! What a neat feeling for you!
Have a wonderful evening my friends!
Lanette
SW WA State - fighting a little headache after eating a small portion of Job Chae from our favorite Asian restaurant on top my big salad. Durn. Maybe I just need a nap....
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Machka & Laura Happy Birthday!
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Hello all: Kind of a quiet day today. Went and got groceries and just puttering around the place. Tomorrow DH is having a manipulation of his new knee since he did not do exercises as instructed and now scar tissue is preventing him from bending it. They will put him under and forcibly bend the knee to break up the scar tissue. It will be very painful afterwards, kind of like starting over only with the incision healed. I am not looking forward to this. DD is going to take the puppy to work with her so she is not confined all day.
Laura - Sorry about the party but happy birthday anyway!
Machka - Happy birthday to you!
Katla - Did you know Scotch broom was brought to the PNW by the highway departments? A special variety was developed by the University of North Dakota that was supposed to provide ground cover and stay small for the edges of highways. Guess what, it did not work, the stuff just went wild in this environment. It is now considered a noxious weed.
Janetr - Cute grandson, enjoy that wedding dance.
Becca - Sounds like you have a good plan going. Blessings to both you and DH.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA5 -
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Today (well yesterday and today is confirmation) I am normal weight by all commonly used measures. (BMI, waist to height ratio, waist to hip ratio). I stopped actively dieting in January hoping that my periodic 5 day Fast Mimicking diets and my regular 5:2 Intermittent fasting would carry me over into normal BMI and it looks like that strategy worked!
In the past twenty years (As an adult after age 30) at my lowest I have always hovered just in the low part of the overweight category by BMI measurements (tho I was healthy by the other two measures) so this might be the first time in two decades that I can confidently say my weight is good and healthy.
What an odd feeling this accomplishment engenders in me, tho.
Rye in Tx
Congratulations!!
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Today Jake got the final OK for his spine surgery. There had been some question about one of his blood tests and he had to do the test again but now all is set. The surgery is Wednesday in a beautiful hospital north of Seattle. I'll be able to stay in his hospital room with him the one or two nights he has to stay. The night before we'll stay in a nearby motel so it will be an easy drive to the hospital in the morning.
Barbie
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will post stats tomorrow, cal 8932
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Becca - your snack type foods sound great. Would anything like little individual unsweetened applesauce cups work? One of my favorites is adding a few walnut halves to applesauce and it's tasty, fills a person up and is kind of like a treat.
Do you know what will be expected as far as your caregiver role this time? Any wound care for example, helping to and fro (bathroom, dinner table) while he regains his strength? Getting pills down him?
You are an inspiration to all of us - teaching us how to enjoy life and be loved every day and be silly when necessary (((()))))
Janetr - your grandson is a cutie! I always said I regretted not having kids cause I'm missing out on grandkids. I can see why you are so proud of him ;-) Not just babies to hug and kiss, but big strong young men who can walk us into the senior center and make all the other little white haired ladies jealous! LOL. I can see now why my mom and grandmothers loved being around my brother as a young man - he was kind, good looking in a brother sort of way, 6' 4" tall, in good shape. I'm sure they felt very safe in his presence.
Rye - I was going to mention how neat it is when you decide to concentrate on eating and exercising to be healthy, often the weight loss happens anyhow. I am so proud of you for hitting your BMI range! What a neat feeling for you!
Have a wonderful evening my friends!
Lanette
SW WA State - fighting a little headache after eating a small portion of Job Chae from our favorite Asian restaurant on top my big salad. Durn. Maybe I just need a nap....
Well Lanette, I know his incision will be the most dramatic part. When he had his transplant incision, he was being seen by the doctors every week, for blood work. We were staying with his Mom in Portland at the time. The doctors were more concerned with his liver than the incision! So I might be changing dressings, putting plastic on his front for showers. He has a cane so that will be helpful. I think that some of his abdomen muscles will be cut, so that's going to take time to heal. Being that leaning over will be difficult, I will have to tend to his bathroom needs. Its no big deal, been there done that! Just get 'er done!
Well The Magicians are on..!
Becca6 -
Sue in WA, I hope the knee surgery manipulation goes smoothly!
Barbie, I hope Jake's spinal surgery goes well!
We are the caretakers of the world!!
Becca4
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