WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2018

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  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    Terry spelt is an ancient wheat grain that originate 8000 years ago. It is a whole grain that is non processed.
  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
    edited May 2018
    Hello!

    Record heat this week and we are moving! Gah....

    Cheri
    with 4 more sleeps in the rental house!!!!
  • lilnoramitchellandre
    lilnoramitchellandre Posts: 144 Member
    edited May 2018
    Maybe your granddaughter could go to a place like Michael's or maybe Hobby Lobby and buy some rolled canvas; regular canvas would be a 'light yellowish color'; the treated canvas would be white; but, I would think she'd need to hand-wash the treated; just to make sure it wasn't put into the washer by accident. I'm not sure what it might do to the inside of a washer or to other clothes if added. Although it is water soluble - treated with Gesso. But, the effect would be pretty close. Especially if it washed out the solution that it is treated with. I'd wash it because the canvas is cotton and she would not want it to shrink after she made it. She also might consider ironing it before hanging it out to dry in the sun. She could probably bleach the regular canvas; but, I would think it would be mottled if she did. She'd have to feel what they felt like. Just a thought.

    Lenora
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,269 Member
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  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,952 Member
    edited May 2018
    exermom wrote: »

    Allie – when my father passed, Vince couldn’t understand why I needed to bury his ashes asap, right after I got them. I tried to explain to Vince that I needed closure and if he wasn’t coming with me, then I’d go alone. He did come with me, but he couldn’t understand why I needed to do it so soon, after all, to him “they’re only ashes”. His mother was creamated and if I didn’t have her ashes shipped to his family in MO, we’d STILL have them (she’s only been dead over 10 years). I’m sure by now his family has buried her ashes with his father – which is what she wanted.

    Michele in NC

    We buried my Dad's ashes right away after we received them, my Brother and a friend had to dig the grave because they had just stopped digging for the Winter. My Brother told the cemetery folks, My sister has to travel back to Alberta and I'm not making her come back in a few months to do it. They allowed it since the friend that helped him was the caretaker of another cemetery in the area. I agree that it helped with the closure.
  • langman22
    langman22 Posts: 786 Member
    Vickil57 wrote: »
    Well ladies it has been awhile since I have posted. Time is just flying by or something. I have read update and we are a busy group and growing.
    I have really been trying to do better and when I read about what some of you are dealing with I feel ---
    I ended with pneumonia last month and still have the cough. When was at the doctor we talked about changing my depression meds as I was just not having any engery or care about much. Also I asked about stopping the tramadol as been ready nasty stuff about that kind of med and I had been on it over 5 years. I want to tell you the week I went off that and changed my depression meds I thought I was going to die and really hoping I would. I don't care what they tell you that is nasty stuff. So feeling better and hope that I am on the right track this time.

    Allie--I just love the patio and looks like the place to relax and have friends over to enjoy. The more I read about what you are going through with your dad's place and the reverse mortage company makes me want to stay away from that deal. They make it sound so good.
    Jantr--You should be so proud of your ODD and all that she has done.
    Katla- We sort of have the same plans when we pass. First one is in charge of the ashes until the other one goes. Then ashes to be mixed together and DOS is in charge of getting us to the ocean. We are working on our wills and trying to get things done so less problems for them. With a mixed of his and hers it needs to be spelled out.
    Heather--When my Aunt passed her daughter sent everyone in her address book a copy of the obit from the newspaper and I though that was a nice way to make sure all her friends knew.
    Karen- Thanks for saying you missed me, just what I needed to hear.
    Lisa--congrates on the big grant. The new place you are looking at does seem like a dream come true. Hope it works out for both of you.
    Meg--This weather is crazy. We were in Omaha this past Sunday for our grand daughter that graduated from Millard on Saturday. We rode the motorcycle down and by the time we got there (150 miles) I knew it was not the best idea. It was 106 degrees. We did stop and get drinks and even some ice cream and used lots of sun screen. Riding home was better as was cooling off, down to 88. Keeping you and DH in our prayers.
    Machka--Been reading about your DH and sounds like he is moving forward slowly. Keeping both of you in our prayers. The doctors say my friend that had the 2 strokes right after Christmas has gotten about as good as she is going to get. So they are looking at assisted living apartments for her. When I am talking to her all the sudden she is just goes blank and says she can't remember. I admit it is better then at first, but I find it so depressing. Not sure how much she remembers but for first day she has known me and called me by name. My DH every time is someone different. I just keep telling myself there are so many things about the mind no one know and in the end God is in control.
    Gone on long enough. Thanks for being here and being my friends. Blessings, Vicki GI, NE

    Welcome back. Sorry to hear you have been struggling. I've been suffering with depression these past few months too, so know what you are going through. Glad you are feeling better.
    Terry
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    1948Peachy wrote: »
    Rebecca ~ So cute. I have never seen a real owl.

    Me neither! The vet place I called said to put a towel over him and pick him up like a dog! Um that's a definite no! He looks good though, but I am trying to get a volunteer to take a look at him. This is out of my comfort realm!
    Rebecca
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,952 Member
    Katla - I just love your husband's idea. I haven't decided what I want done when I pass yet. My Dad was the first death I have ever dealt with that was cremated instead of just buried. I have found it difficult. In my head I know that "they are not there" when I go to the grave, but it feels like they are. With my Dad I don't get that feeling. Hopefully, I can reach a decision before that time comes and I don't leave it for others to have to decide.

    Lisa - I love the painting, what medium do you use?

    Kelly - What an awesome family you must have. I always wanted to be in one of those families that could find their humour in times of difficulty.

    Ryenday - I loved your dress. My eldest daughter wanted to have a simple dress and was bound and determined not to wear white. She didn't want the big poofy dress. We ended up buying her a prom dress it was white with a silvery overlay. She loved it, and I loved the price. My youngest daughter is getting married next summer and we are going full on traditional. She has found her dress and it was the first one she tried on.rkw9bhhccskb.jpg

    Rebecca- That is a cute little pet you have inherited. I personally would be terrified of it though LOL

    Today has been a very frustrating day so far. In April I found out an account I hadn't used in a while had been hacked and I was in the hole to the bank for over 4K. I immediately put in a fraud complaint. They contacted me last Friday via email and told me to contact them. I didn't see the email until the weekend and forgot to call yesterday. I also had received notification on Friday that my tax return was going to be deposited that day. It still hadn't shown up in my account this morning so I called the CRA and low and behold they had deposited in my old account that has the fraud investigation. I had provided them with new banking information both on my return and in my online account. I called the bank with the fraud to figure out what is going on and they still haven't got it all cleared and will not allow me access to my tax refund until it is complete. So now I have to wait yet another 3-5 business days to try to get it sorted out. I'm just hoping that they find out what happened and don't try to say it was something I did.

    On a positive note, it's another beautiful day and I think I'll get my walk in again tonight before the rain we are supposed to get starts.

    Tracey in Edmonton
  • megblair1
    megblair1 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Hi everyone. This weekend was a scorcher...we broke two heat records and tied two and of course this is when my air conditioner had to go out. UGH. it got fixed at 0745 this morning! I had zero sleep last night. But now it's purring along again.

    Vicki, my kids graduated from Millard South.

    I am going to be more accountable to you all and get in here more often! Take care, meg who is no longer sweating in Omaha
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    KJLaMore wrote: »
    Rebecca- regarding your little owlet; a wildlife expert will advise you to do just as you are doing. Leave him be. Owls don't build good nests and lots of times their babies fall out (or get pushed out by siblings). The mama will feed it and care for it wherever it is. Eventually your little guy will use his talons and do a half climb/half flap his way up to a tree limb and out of reach of predators. His mama will continue to care for him while he perches in his own little tree. It is good that you can hear his mama hooting back to his little cries. Is your yard fenced? KJ

    We have side fences and gates in front, so he can't wander out to the front street. The back yard has a forest to a walking path. My backyard is tiered so he would have to climb up the crude stone path to get to the forest. He's hunkered down in a corner bush.
    Rebecca
  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
    :)
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,712 Member
    Hi all,
    Back from the wedding. Knackered. Will write tomorrow.

    Nice to see you Vicki.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxx
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    edited May 2018
    [bRebecca [/b]if the parent is there I would leave the owl be. Baby birds do have a transition time where they are out of the nest but not flying yet. It is brief so it limits their exposure to predators. The parent watches and tries to protect them best they can in this period. Those robin parents sure were angry when I approached their young on the ground.Just as you observed the parents will also still feed their young in this period. Sounds like having a protected yard is a good thing.

    After reading Kelly's post. Is their a board you could put on the fence so the baby could climb up and out of your yard when it is ready?
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,269 Member
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  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    Seeing my lil owl balancing on a board climbing, will be a sight to see!
    Rebecca
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,097 Member
    Well Ladies I haven't colored my hair in like 4 yrs..think I'm going for it with Tracys approval..her wedding is in 2 weeks and don't want to upset the apple cart.
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    Allie - Great idea! What color? You could do red white and blue - I have a friend that did stripes last week, fun!
  • langman22
    langman22 Posts: 786 Member
    Allie, I recommend a temporary color job. That way if you don’t like it it isn’t permanent. When I colored my hair years ago, I always did temporary. It’s also better for your hair. I hope if you do it you’ll post pictures.
    Terry
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,530 Member
    Did a Solid Gold DVD today. The jury is still out about this DVD. I just don’t know if it’s for me. The plan for tomorrow is to do the deep water class.

    Katla – I love your idea of your ashes. It would just bother me if one of my parents died early on and it was years before the other died. I’d have to hold onto the first person’s ashes for a long time. I’m just the kind of person who needs closure. I’d probably want to have each person’s ashes shot out when they passed. But that’s just me. Your plan doesn’t sound weird to me at all.

    Exercised, put a load of laundry in (even if it is raining), need to go to CVS to pick up a prescription for Vince and mail a cake to Denise for her birthday. She is very materialistic and likes things from a store. I put a note in saying that the cake isn’t perfect since I’m still getting used to my new leveler (which is true) but it was made with love and that’s something you can’t buy in a store. Will it make an impression? Who knows?

    Lisa – do you paint (I’m sure I’ll misspell this – hope you can figure out what I mean) trump l’oil? Your take on death made me smile.

    G – welcome! It never ceases to amaze me how fast the water aerobics class goes. Of course, part of that is the fact that I don’t wear my glasses in the pool and so I can’t see the clock….lol

    Prayers for janetr’s megan and suebdew’s gs

    Tracey – how horrible that you now owe so much money!

    Katla – that’s great that woman is looking for another place. I wouldn’t mention it, but what about the hurricanes? See, we are so far inland that the last time we had a hurricane was hurricane Hugo, so that tells you how long ago it was.

    Allie – what color?????? Don’t leave us in suspense

    Went to mahjongg this afternoon. It’s nice to go occasionally.

    Michele in NC
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,097 Member
    I'm a natural mousy brunette but I have flecks of grey,sort of saltand pepper...I am looking at Rose Brown...you can Google it.
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    allie - Rose Brown is pretty!

    Kim in N. California
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    GodMomKim wrote: »
    Allie - Great idea! What color? You could do red white and blue - I have a friend that did stripes last week, fun!

    Allie, what day is the wedding. My grandson is getting married June 16th. :)

    Janetr OKC
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,269 Member
    stats for the day:

    bike ride hm 2 gym- 7.18min, 131mhr, 13amph. 1.5mi= 66c
    apple watch- 61c
    LATERAL MACHINE- 30min, fat burn program, 107ahr, 134mhr, 3.74mi= 193c
    apple watch- 195c
    Floor exercises- 11.51min, 3sts of 10ea, 7diff exer. 100ahr, 128mhr, 67c
    apple watch- 72c
    bike ride gym 2 dome- 4.53min, 122mhr, 18.2amph, 1.4mi= 42c
    apple watch- 40c
    bike ride puy 2 sumn sta- 15.04min, 12.01amph, 110ahr, 129mhr, 3mi= 112c
    apple watch- 113c
    jog sta 2 wk- 4.53min, 148mhr, 138ahr, 9.40min mi, .5mi= 60c
    apple watch- 53c
    jog wk 2 sumn sta- 4.20min, 9.32min mi, 142mhr, .4mi= 60c
    apple watch- 57c
    bike ride dome 2 hm- 15.52min, 9.7amph, 155mhr, 2.5mi = 185c
    apple watch- 150c

    total cal 785