WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2018
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Margaret I vote for cooking the spelt in a pressure cooker! I love my Instant Pot for preparing grains, seeds, legumes, & beans. I wish I was more carb tolerant. I adore all kinds of grainy and beany foods.
Karen in Virginia0 -
Good morning. Going yo yoga this morning to get the kinks out. Sat too long in hospital but he needed us close whenever he needed something. He is DGS. He came home yesterday afternoon and so far doing really good.
Lisa- did you get the shingles shot at VA? We also have a clinic at JRB Carswell where we can get injections but I don’t know if the have the new vaccine.
SueBDew in TX3 -
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Thanks, folks. I love the dress, but it almost didn’t happen. I had found a wonderful off the rack off white dress with flowy “A-line” skirt and planned to wear that for our wedding. It was the perfect dress to dance in.
But that idea so disappointed my mother, that I gave in and we went looking for traditional wedding dresses. We looked forever because I was adamant that I did not want lace, sequins, beads, netting, or anything but simple lines. And I was adamant that I would not be showing cleavage (something that has always made me uncomfortable). The was very much NOT the wedding dress style at the time. All those things were very much “IN”.
The dress I found had some minimal embroidery with (faux) pearls in the bodice but otherwise was undeniably an example of beautiful simplicity.
And my mother loved every minute of the wedding dress shopping, and in the end I was so happy with the dress and the days and days spent with her. She and I were always close, but that was a special time for us.
I want to still fit in the dress next year on our 25th and get some professional photos taken in it for that occasion. Other than that, I’d like to sell the dress for some much needed $$ but John vetoed that idea. He really is the sentimentalist.
(Shhh, don’t tell John, but I am a bit dismayed that I seem to have lost the wedding hat and veil In the intervening years.)
I did get the dancing dress too, and even changed into it for the reception post dinner when dancing was on the Agenda.
John and I spent some considerable time looking through the wedding photos and reminiscing this weekend. In some ways it was shocking to realize how much we have changed - and physically being the least of that. It was also wonderful to see how often the photos had us holding hands, touching or just being aware of the other. We looked so happy, and we were.
And in the present: his peposo and my lemon bars turned out smashingand were quite fun to prepare together!
Best wishes,
Rye
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Megan is still in the hospital, white blood cells are high so on IV antibiotics. Doctor wants her to stay one more day she, of course, wants to go home. We shall see.
Janetr OKC7 -
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Sue & Janetr Sending healthy belly thoughts to your loved ones.2
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Last night I heard Mr. Bright Eyes, my name for the cute little owl, squawking to his Momma. She would answer back with a hooo. She was close by, so hoping she's doing much feeding to the little guy. Here's another pic.
He was so excited at dusk last night! He was starting to squawk, and moving his head from side to side, kind of like a slinky toy!
Rebecca
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Rebecca ~ So cute. I have never seen a real owl.1
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Terry spelt is an ancient wheat grain that originate 8000 years ago. It is a whole grain that is non processed.0
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Hello!
Record heat this week and we are moving! Gah....
Cheri
with 4 more sleeps in the rental house!!!!2 -
Maybe your granddaughter could go to a place like Michael's or maybe Hobby Lobby and buy some rolled canvas; regular canvas would be a 'light yellowish color'; the treated canvas would be white; but, I would think she'd need to hand-wash the treated; just to make sure it wasn't put into the washer by accident. I'm not sure what it might do to the inside of a washer or to other clothes if added. Although it is water soluble - treated with Gesso. But, the effect would be pretty close. Especially if it washed out the solution that it is treated with. I'd wash it because the canvas is cotton and she would not want it to shrink after she made it. She also might consider ironing it before hanging it out to dry in the sun. She could probably bleach the regular canvas; but, I would think it would be mottled if she did. She'd have to feel what they felt like. Just a thought.
Lenora
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At MVD getting RV registered then on to Caballo Lake in New Mexico for first stop. Yay! Moving north away from the heat and dust devils! We will be coming back when we want to warm up! Lol!
RV Rita on the road in New Mexico6 -
Well ladies it has been awhile since I have posted. Time is just flying by or something. I have read update and we are a busy group and growing.
I have really been trying to do better and when I read about what some of you are dealing with I feel ---
I ended with pneumonia last month and still have the cough. When was at the doctor we talked about changing my depression meds as I was just not having any engery or care about much. Also I asked about stopping the tramadol as been ready nasty stuff about that kind of med and I had been on it over 5 years. I want to tell you the week I went off that and changed my depression meds I thought I was going to die and really hoping I would. I don't care what they tell you that is nasty stuff. So feeling better and hope that I am on the right track this time.
Allie--I just love the patio and looks like the place to relax and have friends over to enjoy. The more I read about what you are going through with your dad's place and the reverse mortage company makes me want to stay away from that deal. They make it sound so good.
Jantr--You should be so proud of your ODD and all that she has done.
Katla- We sort of have the same plans when we pass. First one is in charge of the ashes until the other one goes. Then ashes to be mixed together and DOS is in charge of getting us to the ocean. We are working on our wills and trying to get things done so less problems for them. With a mixed of his and hers it needs to be spelled out.
Heather--When my Aunt passed her daughter sent everyone in her address book a copy of the obit from the newspaper and I though that was a nice way to make sure all her friends knew.
Karen- Thanks for saying you missed me, just what I needed to hear.
Lisa--congrates on the big grant. The new place you are looking at does seem like a dream come true. Hope it works out for both of you.
Meg--This weather is crazy. We were in Omaha this past Sunday for our grand daughter that graduated from Millard on Saturday. We rode the motorcycle down and by the time we got there (150 miles) I knew it was not the best idea. It was 106 degrees. We did stop and get drinks and even some ice cream and used lots of sun screen. Riding home was better as was cooling off, down to 88. Keeping you and DH in our prayers.
Machka--Been reading about your DH and sounds like he is moving forward slowly. Keeping both of you in our prayers. The doctors say my friend that had the 2 strokes right after Christmas has gotten about as good as she is going to get. So they are looking at assisted living apartments for her. When I am talking to her all the sudden she is just goes blank and says she can't remember. I admit it is better then at first, but I find it so depressing. Not sure how much she remembers but for first day she has known me and called me by name. My DH every time is someone different. I just keep telling myself there are so many things about the mind no one know and in the end God is in control.
Gone on long enough. Thanks for being here and being my friends. Blessings, Vicki GI, NE5 -
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Allie – when my father passed, Vince couldn’t understand why I needed to bury his ashes asap, right after I got them. I tried to explain to Vince that I needed closure and if he wasn’t coming with me, then I’d go alone. He did come with me, but he couldn’t understand why I needed to do it so soon, after all, to him “they’re only ashes”. His mother was creamated and if I didn’t have her ashes shipped to his family in MO, we’d STILL have them (she’s only been dead over 10 years). I’m sure by now his family has buried her ashes with his father – which is what she wanted.
Michele in NC
We buried my Dad's ashes right away after we received them, my Brother and a friend had to dig the grave because they had just stopped digging for the Winter. My Brother told the cemetery folks, My sister has to travel back to Alberta and I'm not making her come back in a few months to do it. They allowed it since the friend that helped him was the caretaker of another cemetery in the area. I agree that it helped with the closure.1 -
Well ladies it has been awhile since I have posted. Time is just flying by or something. I have read update and we are a busy group and growing.
I have really been trying to do better and when I read about what some of you are dealing with I feel ---
I ended with pneumonia last month and still have the cough. When was at the doctor we talked about changing my depression meds as I was just not having any engery or care about much. Also I asked about stopping the tramadol as been ready nasty stuff about that kind of med and I had been on it over 5 years. I want to tell you the week I went off that and changed my depression meds I thought I was going to die and really hoping I would. I don't care what they tell you that is nasty stuff. So feeling better and hope that I am on the right track this time.
Allie--I just love the patio and looks like the place to relax and have friends over to enjoy. The more I read about what you are going through with your dad's place and the reverse mortage company makes me want to stay away from that deal. They make it sound so good.
Jantr--You should be so proud of your ODD and all that she has done.
Katla- We sort of have the same plans when we pass. First one is in charge of the ashes until the other one goes. Then ashes to be mixed together and DOS is in charge of getting us to the ocean. We are working on our wills and trying to get things done so less problems for them. With a mixed of his and hers it needs to be spelled out.
Heather--When my Aunt passed her daughter sent everyone in her address book a copy of the obit from the newspaper and I though that was a nice way to make sure all her friends knew.
Karen- Thanks for saying you missed me, just what I needed to hear.
Lisa--congrates on the big grant. The new place you are looking at does seem like a dream come true. Hope it works out for both of you.
Meg--This weather is crazy. We were in Omaha this past Sunday for our grand daughter that graduated from Millard on Saturday. We rode the motorcycle down and by the time we got there (150 miles) I knew it was not the best idea. It was 106 degrees. We did stop and get drinks and even some ice cream and used lots of sun screen. Riding home was better as was cooling off, down to 88. Keeping you and DH in our prayers.
Machka--Been reading about your DH and sounds like he is moving forward slowly. Keeping both of you in our prayers. The doctors say my friend that had the 2 strokes right after Christmas has gotten about as good as she is going to get. So they are looking at assisted living apartments for her. When I am talking to her all the sudden she is just goes blank and says she can't remember. I admit it is better then at first, but I find it so depressing. Not sure how much she remembers but for first day she has known me and called me by name. My DH every time is someone different. I just keep telling myself there are so many things about the mind no one know and in the end God is in control.
Gone on long enough. Thanks for being here and being my friends. Blessings, Vicki GI, NE
Welcome back. Sorry to hear you have been struggling. I've been suffering with depression these past few months too, so know what you are going through. Glad you are feeling better.
Terry0 -
1948Peachy wrote: »Rebecca ~ So cute. I have never seen a real owl.
Me neither! The vet place I called said to put a towel over him and pick him up like a dog! Um that's a definite no! He looks good though, but I am trying to get a volunteer to take a look at him. This is out of my comfort realm!
Rebecca3 -
Katla - I just love your husband's idea. I haven't decided what I want done when I pass yet. My Dad was the first death I have ever dealt with that was cremated instead of just buried. I have found it difficult. In my head I know that "they are not there" when I go to the grave, but it feels like they are. With my Dad I don't get that feeling. Hopefully, I can reach a decision before that time comes and I don't leave it for others to have to decide.
Lisa - I love the painting, what medium do you use?
Kelly - What an awesome family you must have. I always wanted to be in one of those families that could find their humour in times of difficulty.
Ryenday - I loved your dress. My eldest daughter wanted to have a simple dress and was bound and determined not to wear white. She didn't want the big poofy dress. We ended up buying her a prom dress it was white with a silvery overlay. She loved it, and I loved the price. My youngest daughter is getting married next summer and we are going full on traditional. She has found her dress and it was the first one she tried on.
Rebecca- That is a cute little pet you have inherited. I personally would be terrified of it though LOL
Today has been a very frustrating day so far. In April I found out an account I hadn't used in a while had been hacked and I was in the hole to the bank for over 4K. I immediately put in a fraud complaint. They contacted me last Friday via email and told me to contact them. I didn't see the email until the weekend and forgot to call yesterday. I also had received notification on Friday that my tax return was going to be deposited that day. It still hadn't shown up in my account this morning so I called the CRA and low and behold they had deposited in my old account that has the fraud investigation. I had provided them with new banking information both on my return and in my online account. I called the bank with the fraud to figure out what is going on and they still haven't got it all cleared and will not allow me access to my tax refund until it is complete. So now I have to wait yet another 3-5 business days to try to get it sorted out. I'm just hoping that they find out what happened and don't try to say it was something I did.
On a positive note, it's another beautiful day and I think I'll get my walk in again tonight before the rain we are supposed to get starts.
Tracey in Edmonton3
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