WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2018
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Pip - Amazing isn't it!!!!!! Truly incredible. (A word I hate being misused) Kipchoge at the Berlin Marathon today.
Penny - Love your stoat. Never, ever, give up.
I would have happily gossiped about family traumas at our meeting, but DH is a much more private person. Thinking about you seeing our ship coming in and sending me the text that you were running down to meet us still makes me tear up.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx6 -
Barbie ~ Thanks! I'll probably try it in the Instant Pot or just in the oven. I gave away my slow cooker.0
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A Monarch was born today. Later joined by a friend in the Zinnias!
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Congratulations Grandma Margaret! I envy you your zinnias. I love zinnias but haven't been able to grow them this far north. I guess it's the price I pay for my fantabulous raspberries.
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Rori - Try this link.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b008mj7p/episodes/player?page=8
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx
Heather: Thank you I listened to this on the treadmill today. Truly inspiring. Now have the link bookmarked and eyeing more episodes to download.
Had my last swim in the condo pool for this season. Tomorrow they start to drain, clean and cover it for the winter. Snif, snif.... I really enjoyed all the water time this year, and it really shows in my thighs, glutes and abs.
Now, it's back to wearing the Fitbit, if I can get it to wake up and properly sync after being dormant for 4 months.
Margaret: I love zinnias, too. I didn't plant any this year, so thanks for your photos.
It's the time of year when our baseball team games overlap with our football team games. Keeps DH entertained for hours and hours. Who am I kidding...I love it, too.
Stay well, friends. We can do this -- just keep on building those good habits.
Rori
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Good afternoon Ladies -
Hubs and I have spent the day doing little projects around the house. He fired up the charcoal grill for lunch. I snuck a couple of chicken breasts on the grill along with our tuna steaks we were having for lunch. I froze 12 portions of char-grilled chicken breast for another day. If the weather is nice he has been grilling tuna steaks, broccolini and asparagus for lunch on Sundays. It is a delicious meal that we both enjoy. I can't eat tuna at a restaurant because they don't want to cook it any way except seared. I know that is the preferred way to cook tuna, but I can't stand the texture. I need it well done. Hubs will do that for me. I butterfly my piece of tuna and he cooks it 4X as long as his.
Have a great evening!
Okie in the TX Hill Country3 -
Allie - I thought you got another dog; why doesn't Tom take his dogs to FL with him. You're just playing into his plan (again). I know you think those dogs living with Tom are your dogs, too. It's hard to give up a fur baby - but; when Elena moves in (and believe me, she will if Tom feels anything for her) - … well … just saying, those dogs might like going to FL, too. What did y'all do with them when you and Tom were married? Board them? Take them with you, too? I don't think you want to 'let go and move on'; but, that is just IMHO.
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Margaret ~ Beautiful photos! I too love zinnias.0
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no workout today per kirby0
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I got a new song for my playlist, kinda excited to hear it when it comes on2
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Hi all, thought I would check into your group. I'm well over 50--67 and counting--but I see there are a number of us who are definitely on the + side of 50 active on the board.
I lost 40 lbs about 7 years ago over the course of 9 months--kept it off for a couple of years--then slowly let it creep back. I kept telling myself I'll start next week and, of course, next week never came! Time to get serious. I'm going in for my 2nd hip replacement next month (the first was 11 years ago) on top of a knee replacement last year. Arthritis runs in my family since my mother, my brother, and my uncle (mother's brother) all had hip replacements. I really want to stop with this one! My other knee looks good so, hopefully, if I get the weight off of it they will only have to pick three joint replacements out of the ashes before they are poured into an urn some day.
I live in Raleigh where we've been on the outer edge of Florence for the last few days. Lost power--but only for 4 hours two days ago--and happy to have it restored so quickly. No flooding issues downtown where I live in a high rise apartment building. The coast and what is called the down east part of the state have been slammed. Horrible flooding with more to come as many rivers won't crest until later this week and it's still raining pretty hard in the center of the state.
Hi to Michele in NC. Are we neighbors? Have you been affected by the storm?
I look forward to chatting with all of you as I tackle losing the 50 lbs that need to come off. I do at least know what I'm doing this time and am already getting results after only a week of logging EVERY bite and all liquids3 -
Lenora~
When she moves in then I will steer clear.. The dogs are still a part of my life and Alfie's friends.. I have forgiven him ,you know what they have been together for 4 yrs even while he was still married to me.. The divorce had very little to do with me,he cheated ,and I didn't know it~ whats done is done.Yes I was hurt.. but life goes on.. I wish them both every happiness , and once she moves in and see's how he is after awhile good luck...
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Kate UK! Sounds like you’re going through a lot of life changes re friendships right now. I’m 75, so I totally relate. Somehow, though, my online friends feel about as real as my friends in the face-to-face world. Hope your neighbor is able to have a good quality of life for some time.
Regarding that rash - has he had all the usual childhood diseases! At our age we can still get them. With a fever and cough I wouldn’t rule them out.
Penny at NP! - if the road is empty I often stop to observe nighttime drama. Our local deer are beginning to move more to the lowlands to eat our fallen apples and pears! The fruit ripens so fast we can scarcely gather it before it falls and bruises.
We have one odd sort of pear, though. It stays rock hard unless you freeze it for a day. Then it is ridiculously juicy! (I’m talking rivulets down the chin and jaw. I usually halve it and eat it with a spoon as we did every Christmas with the “Royal Riviera Pears” dad always got as a business gift from one of his associates.
I am truly a curiosity cat, but usually either pm a person if it’s REALLY personal, or preface with “If I might ask …” or something of the sort
Machka in Oz - What is “Zwifted”? Is it bicycling of some sort? The name sounds fun at any rate.
Barbie - I think I remember you on another forum here a few years ago. I was on here quite consistently for a while, but gave it up when so many folks were getting into the exercise challenges. That was before my back, knee and hip surgeries, but I’m doing fantastic if I hit 1200 steps in a day. I needed to recover for two days from THAT! I’m glad this thread sticks more to posts where I can respond by praising what they’re doing without feeling guilty because I can’t yet do likewise!
Lanette - I too hope your fawns do well. Mine tend to hang out in the partvof my house behind the closet wall where there are no windows, and where the roses are. They get rid of all the dead fliers and leaves. No gates here, though. They just fade back into the forest.
margaretturk - Yoyr zinnias and monarchs are lovely! Thanks for the pics!
Okie in Texas - Glad to heat I’m not the only one that doesn’t care for seared ahi! And it IS the texture! I love raw oysters, but tuna is just icky to me. Glad you found a way to get yours the way you like it. I don’t own or use grills. I wonder if I could poach it.
mnhtmbb - can I call you mnht for short? Lol. I too have lots of arthritis, complicated by the fact that I overworked my body loading and unloading my trucks for 25 years. Both knees replaced, one hip (the other seems to be feeling left out!) and 7 fused discs. Good for you for climbing back on the wagon.
I really find that logging is the key. I am pretty rigorously honest with it. I know if I feel ashamed to post it I have to look at when, where and WHY I ate it. Was it lack of foresight, or did I feel down and have the need to “treat” myself? That’s a “trick or treat” situation for sure!
I’ve made the choice to go into a program preparing me for Bariatric surgery, probably in about November. I’m 75, and my mobility is so severely limited by what used to be 262 lbs (now 244.4!) at 5’5”, that I almost have to lose weight fairly quickly to regain any ground.
Re the hurricane, hope you continue to stayvok in Raleigh. We have several members up and down that coast. I hope they all check in soon and are ok.
I’m pleased by my almost 18# loss so far, but I know my body needs to get down to “One-derland” as soon as it can. My breathing is beginning to be affected. I don’t like that st all! I didn’t quit smoking 23 years ago to be limited by my lungs!
I think I’m sounding a little angry. I’m probably mostly angry with my inability to do this over the course of a lufetime. But if I could do it then, I would have. Like many of us, I still want to blame myself.
Sharin in Seattle Area
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Penny: We have river otters here, along with beaver, raccoons & nutria. The raccoons are the most damaging to homes. We had a freezing winter when they invaded the crawl space under our house & I still hold a grudge. I love the otters and beaver. Not fond of nutria. They were originally imported for the fur trade. Nobody liked their fur, and furs in general went out of style so the farmers turned them loose. :grumble:
Lisa: Thanks for letting us know that Michele checked in. I’ve worried about her because of the weather news.
Barbie: The pork tenderloin recipe is clearly delicious. Thank you for sharing. :flowerforyou:
Peach: We threw away our slow cooker after we got sick from eating something we prepared in it. The thing didn’t get hot enough. Normally we’d have donated it someplace, but we didn’t think anyone else should get sick so we tossed it. :grumble:
Mnhtnbb: Welcome!
Sharin in Seattle: Your body will transform as you keep on exercising and counting calories. Congratulations on quitting smoking! Be patient and kind with yourself. This system works, but it takes time. :flowerforyou:
We’re having a quiet day at home. Our dog’s bed, and who knows what else, was left in the RV when we took it in to have the brakes fixed. Hopefully we’ll be able to get in there and retrieve things tomorrow.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Hi all. Today is day 7 of no cookies, cake or candy passing my lips. I am NOT, I repeat NOT, going sugar free or carb free, I am just choosing to not eat empty calories. Any sugar that I get is from fruit and veggies. Well, I am still eating bread occasionally and I do have cereal for breakfast, but I do choose healthier options there too. Going to start making my own sourdough bread soon! The starter has been "cooking" for several days now, as per the recipe that I have. Will bake the first loaf on Tuesday, kind of excited! A little worried too, as the starter really does stink! Anybody out there know if this is normal? I know it has to be sour, but it almost smells rotten..... Oh well, I will find out on Tuesday! lol
The scale is starting to take a bit of notice of the fact that I haven't been stuffing my face with junk so yay! Only need to keep this up for, oh, the rest of my life..... I know it will become easier as time goes on, I have been craving chocolate a few times the last few days. Just need to brush my teeth right after dinner and the craving will go away. I made some energy bars, kind of a DIY Lara bar. SO GOOD!!!! Really sates my sweetness craving. They are really easy to make and I will quite happily share the recipe with anyone who is interested.
Margaret, congrats on the Monarch hatching! So lovely, the butterflies and the zinnias.
Sharon, I didn’t quit smoking 23 years ago to be limited by my lungs Amen to that! I quite almost 30 years ago and I get really annoyed when I rush up the stairs and then have to catch my breath! I'm sure that losing 25-30 of the extra pounds that I'm packing will definitely help!
Allie, sounds like you are taking a very adult position in regards to Tom etc. Good for you. You do need to do what's right for you, and you're right, Elena may decide that the grass isn't that green on Tom's side of the fence once she is there 24/7. In any case, not your problem! p.s. glad you were able to get that patio umbrella replaced!
I too am curious about what's going on in other people's lives, but unless they are VERY close I won't usually ask directly. If I do, I always tell them that they can tell me to mind my own business if they don't want to talk about it. I haven't been told to mind my own business yet, so I guess I'm doing something right! I'm very happy to say that my immediate friends and co-workers aren't soul sucking vampires or sinkholes (love that description!). I have in the past worked with a few. Was not sorry to see any of them leave! And my apologies, I can't remember who said it, but you are absolutely right, with true friends, sometimes the conversation is one sided, but not always on the same side.
Okay, enough of this novel, I'm sure you all have better things to do! lol
Hugs for those who need them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
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Evelyn I too am trying to cut out excess sugar. It is four months for me. It is not 100% for me either. I still have some maple sugar and honey. I just do not make it a staple like I did. Ice cream is the hardest for me. I find I do not miss the cookies and cakes so much. The sugars in fruits and veggies have fiber and more nutrients to offer than in processed foods.
I really enjoyed watching the monarchs today. This is one of their better years. They have been going in steady decline in recent years. I think there are more people like me who don't use the chemicals on their yards, allow milkweed in their gardens, and have other flowering plants for the monarchs. I didn't cut any zinnias to bring in for bouquets for this reason. I saves them for the bees and butterflies.
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Did Prevention’s Slim, Strong and Firm DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do some hula hoop, hold my plank, then take the extremepump class.
Kylia – welcome home
Kim – if the closest beauty school is far away, no, then it isn’t worth it to go there. You’d burn more in gas. Wow! $25 at the school!
Lisa – I agree with Evelyn. You give a lot here.
So very glad to know that I’m not the only one who gets into those “I really would rather not exercise” modes but pushes forward anyway. I thought maybe I was the only one who ever felt this way.
Katla – thank you for your concern. It’s just raining here now, not real heavy. The worst part was that the papers were wet! I don’t think the wind is strong enough to knock down the tree that I want down in the back of the property (nowhere near the house) Vince said the wind picked up last night but it’s not bad now. I understand that some evacuees are staying in Hickory (the city next to us) and hotels that normally don’t allow pets are allowing them for evacuees. I do hope the owner of the dog that came in our backyard comes for him or that he finds a good forever home. He was such a sweet dog! I told you we wouldn’t need the generator!
Allie – I must have missed it. Who is Elena? Was that the woman that Tom was cheating on you with? I thought when you found out about him fooling around, the girlfriend left him.
I, too, hope Wendy is OK
Rori – One time Vince asked me why I go to the Y for a water class when we have a pool, I just told him “our pool doesn’t go down to 10 feet”. He’s never asked me again. How deep does your pool go? If it doesn’t go below 5 feet or something like that, what kinds of exercises do you do in it? I’d love to find more exercises to do in the shallow end.
Mnh….Welcome. I’m in Newton (right below Hickory, exit 126 off 40). We’re sort-of neighbors, a distance away. We’ve only had rain, not nearly as heavy as was predicted. I didn’t think it would be because people were prepared. Vince said that yesterday people were coming out of Lowe’s Hardware with generators (which probably didn’t get used) and gallons and gallons of water (another thing that probably didn’t get used). On this thread we discuss all sorts of things (except politics and religion) because our lives affect how and what we eat. I know that I’m a boredom and stress eater.
Sharon in Seattle – 7 fused discs! In addition to your other problems. Lady, 1200 steps is a lot for you. Everyone does what they can.
Evelyn – share your recipe for the DIY Lara bars, please
Michele in NC
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Just saw this post on Facebook from DJ:
Made it home safely. Rain and some traffic at times but no problems m
Michele in NC7 -
Michele: I am so relieved that you are okay. That is good news. :bigsmile:
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Going to start making my own sourdough bread soon! The starter has been "cooking" for several days now, as per the recipe that I have. Will bake the first loaf on Tuesday, kind of excited! A little worried too, as the starter really does stink! Anybody out there know if this is normal? I know it has to be sour, but it almost smells rotten.....
Good luck with your sourdough project, though. Or maybe not. There's nothing more irresistable than fresh, crusty warm sourdough bread - and it demands to be anointed with butter.
Today will be busy. I'll harvest the red currants and make jelly, run a couple machines of wash, prepare to close up the house winter style, and make tomorrow's breakfast in advance so we can be off early and catch the ferry.
/Penny, in winter prep mode near the3 -
trucker743 wrote: »Machka in Oz - What is “Zwifted”? Is it bicycling of some sort? The name sounds fun at any rate.
Sharin in Seattle Area
We have bicycles (road bicycles) set up on trainers inside the house. For years, we just rode the bicycles in the winter. I often did "commercial intervals" where I would ride easy during a TV program, and then ride as hard as I could during the commercial break.
But there is an online program called Zwift. Zwift has created a number of virtual reality routes and people from all over the world can connect in and ride those routes. So at any given time, I can ride with people from all over the place. When I ride, there are often people from Japan and Australia (of course), but for some reason also Canada. Perhaps the eastern Canadians are waking up then and going for a 'ride'.
My husband and I can usually see each other and ride with each other as well, although sometimes the program starts us some distance apart. Last night they started him about 1 km ahead of me, and I never did catch him.
In the images below, I'm the one in the jersey with the diagonal stripes of blue, pale yellow, etc. I like the retro-look jerseys. And that shows the quality of the 'scenery' we ride through.
https://zwift.com/
Machka in Oz
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Machka - Your post gets me thinking. First, I think it's in many ways wonderful that you didn't manage to catch up with your husband when he was placed just a kilometer ahead of you at the start. For my other reflections I have to go back in time and tell a story.
During a chamber music festival in Longyearbyen last February, I had the privilege of eating dinner with a supernova of the violinist universe. Earlier that day, we'd seen him play several long pieces from memory, without music. I asked him how he remembered it all and his answer surprised me. He said he practiced a lot (duh!) and I mumbled something about how that must set up memory pathways in his brain or his "ear". But he was dissatisfied with that description. He said it all boiled down to muscle memory. The fingerings, the complicated patterns, they were all embedded in his muscles, joints and tendons. His mental memory latched onto his muscle memory and together they led him through the piece.
Which brings me back to your husband. He's had a horrendously rough time, but apparently his legs still know how to ride a bicycle. It makes me wonder if all your many long rides before his accident established muscle memory that is benefiting him now.
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Machka - Your post gets me thinking. First, I think it's in many ways wonderful that you didn't manage to catch up with your husband when he was placed just a kilometer ahead of you at the start. For my other reflections I have to go back in time and tell a story.
During a chamber music festival in Longyearbyen last February, I had the privilege of eating dinner with a supernova of the violinist universe. Earlier that day, we'd seen him play several long pieces from memory, without music. I asked him how he remembered it all and his answer surprised me. He said he practiced a lot (duh!) and I mumbled something about how that must set up memory pathways in his brain or his "ear". But he was dissatisfied with that description. He said it all boiled down to muscle memory. The fingerings, the complicated patterns, they were all embedded in his muscles, joints and tendons. His mental memory latched onto his muscle memory and together they led him through the piece.
Which brings me back to your husband. He's had a horrendously rough time, but apparently his legs still know how to ride a bicycle. It makes me wonder if all your many long rides before his accident established muscle memory that is benefiting him now.
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You're right.
My husband's muscle memory is pretty much entirely intact. I'm not going to say 100% because that's hard to tell, but his is well up there.
I started noticing it when he was given his first "meal". They told me he'd have to relearn how to use a spoon and everything, so his mushy meal arrived, and I scooped up some food to feed him, and he wasn't interested. So I put down the spoon, and about 2 minutes later, he picked it up and began feeding himself. Then he popped off the top of his dessert thing and ate that. Then he reached for the water bottle the included, he unscrewed the top drank from the bottle, and screwed the top back on.
And it's been like that ever since. Sometimes he has needed to be shown something, but then he's got it.
However, his Declarative and Episodic memories are patchy.
This diagram is pretty simplistic, and doesn't include Short Term memory (which is also somewhat patchy at times), but it's an approximate idea.
Also ... they say that the fact that he's not a smoker (that point was very important), and the fact that he was fit, is going a long way toward his continued recovery. So while he lost a lot of fitness, he came down from quite a high level. If he had been a couch potato and lost fitness, he'd have had a lot of difficulty even getting up and walking.
Machka in Oz
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Penny now I'm curious, who was the violinist? This reminds me of a story my Hungarian violin teacher told me when I was in college. He was a POW during WWII, a college violin student with a serious career ahead of him. He was at a labor camp, but at night his mind and his fingers would "practice" silently, every piece of music over and over. He said it saved his sanity. He survived two years, and after being rescued the first violin he got his hands on, picked it up played the tchaikovsky violin concerto ( one of the toughest pieces of music to play) and he said it was like he had never been without the violin. MUSCLE MEMORY and the power of the Human mind and Spirit!!!
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Thanks Penny! Those raspberries are humoungous...
Rye back in the day we called your sinkhole types "psychic vampires", but "sinkhole" is much more apt. They are real energy drains.
Lisa "mild phobia about walking on surfaces I can see through" Bingo. Right there with ya gal!
Rori love Mars' swanky new planetary bandanna.
Kim after a 70 minute phone call your mom hung up without waiting/asking to hear you say anything but "Um."? SMH! (((hugs))) Thank Goodness for this group, we WANT to hear what you have to say. And would love to see pics of your acquaintance's urban farm retreat.
Evelyn and Sharon, ditto. I've been smoke free for 21 years but still huff and puff when going up the least little slope, and have to stop to catch breath on steeper climbs. Really hope taking more of the 40 extra pounds that I'm packing will help. Confess I fear COPD, especially after low oxygen numbers during sleep study.
Michele, thanks VERY much for updating us on DJ.
Machka Yay for taking a semester off and happy tears for being able to bike with your husband.
Welcome Bioko from AZ, Ares1234 and mnhtnbb.
Too sleepy to tell the quest for the Pyrex measuring cup story, catch y'all later.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
60 g protein 16/16, vits 7/16, meditate 8/16, walk one more step 16/16, knee exercises 8/16, core 5/10, walk Tumble 5/10 times, SWSY 0/5, hang up or purge art 2!, AF 11/16.
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