WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2018
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Sharon in WA, yes, I listen to audio books. My local library is connected to the Washington Anytime Library that has a huge collection of audio books and e books. I read e books on the Kindle app on my phone when my husband wants to lie down with me and I turn the light off and can still read. Right now I'm listening to an audio book and a choice of several podcasts, reading an e book, reading a fiction library book, and reading non-fiction book that I got from Paperback Swap.
I took the test and here are my results:
Personality type: “The Defender” (ISFJ-A)
Individual traits: Introverted – 79%, Observant – 79%, Feeling – 72%, Judging – 94%, Assertive – 63%
Role: Sentinel
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Barbie - I have a library card here in NC. I can get books (ebooks or audiobooks) from all over NC.
I also have a library card in FL. There I can only get access to books from that county (which isn't all that big).
I wish I could get more, but I can only get these ones.
Michele in NC1 -
yesterday was the last ride for the summer bike for the season, gonna put her to bed. will start riding the heavier winter bike now, no more backpack, now using panniers1 -
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Kudos on your better oxygen uptake! You mention being an old gal. I’m 65! Is there hope for me after my gastric bypass, do you think?
I’m really beginning to get excited about my surgery. I wish I had a date! Folks who call this “the easy way out” have no idea what adjustments and changes we must ready ourselves for. For most of us in my support group it was/is the last best hope for success after having tried almost literally everything else.
Sharon in WA
Sharon, I had gastric bypass almost five years ago at 64, I'll turn 69 in November. I lost 125 pounds. I workout with a 25# kettlebell and walk about 3 miles every morning on the treadmill. You are so RIGHT having approximately 80% of your stomach removed is NOT the easy way out. You must be sure to diligently follow your vitamin and minerals intake as instructed by your surgeon,nutritionist team for the rest of your life. You can face serious health consequences if you slack off. Of course there is hope for you!!!
Janetr OKC1 -
Machka: Sending good thoughts for those who are in the paths of storms in the Philippines and the south eastern US. I enjoyed the weather app you shared.
Sharon in WA: I also love Diana Gabaldon’s books. I have many of them that I bought from audible and all of them in printed books on my shelves. I’m not quite as fond of the Lord John military adventures. :flowerforyou:
Penny: I’ve never seen raspberries that large before! I’ve always loved raspberries best of all berries.
Karen: I hope that you don’t get hit by the storms.
Barbara: We travelled through your part of Oregon several years ago and found it lovely.
Michelle: I’m not a pumpkin soup fan but I love it stir-fried. I also like sweet potatoes stir fried with beef or poultry. I think they taste similar to pumpkin but are much easier to work with. :flowerforyou:
Barbie and other readers: Our local library is part of a system called Library to Go. We can download a huge number of books and read them on phones, ipads or computers. DH loves them on his ipad because he can set the size of font. This system is managed through Amazon. I used to listen to audiobooks while I commuted and bought quite a few. The company was Audible.com. It is now owned by Amazon. Those books are still available to me. I sometimes access them so I can listen while knitting. I don’t listen in the car because DH is not comfortable with them.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Did the test again since I couldn't find mine. I am ESFJ-A "The Consul"
Okie1 -
Pumpkin not a fan
Lisa thanks for the explanation! I’m a - T and turbulent is (unfortunately) a perfect descriptor for me. I admire you assertive types.
Sharon & Janet it doesn’t sound easy to me - where I work a group of pre surgery candidates meet for support and exercise twice a week. They are dedicated. And, yes, unfortunately I am constantly worried about “doing it right” but have no idea how I could change that.
Barbara YOU hung/ Purged 2 pieces of ART! WTG! - yeah, I’m of the Star Wars generation so a MMO computer game (since I’ve always been a gamer) was a no questions asked fun time for me. A raid team is 8 or 16 people cooperating to game together and take down a villain. A healer is a gamer who concentrated on healing the team instead of attacking the villain.
KJ Have some well deserved fun out in the lake today! I hope the weather is perfect for the sail(? Sailboat? Or motorboat?)
Karen. I’m impressed with gs and Trypophibia too!
Michelle and Barbie I’m going to have to look into local libraries- you both are inspiring me!
NYKAREN What a sweet interlude! My DH loves pizza so we make sure I have a friendly munchable dinner and just get pizza for him. I no longer eat bread, but there was a salad in a bread bowl I used to get from Domingo’s when he ordered pizza.
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Jury duty Monday means an unplanned for 16 dollars so I’m going to splurge and get a haircut. I know a place that charges 25 so with tip I can get out for 30 dollars. I hate wasting money on haircuts (my husband and/or I generally trim my bangs (“fringe” to those in the UK) every couple of months. But my last haircut was in November and my husband is really not up to the task.
I’m crossing my fingers that they see my education (J.D.) and dismiss me from the jury quickly. Not that I would mind being on a jury - but the dismissal is pretty much inevitable and it would be nice if they could do it quickly so I can enjoy the rest of the day (AND get that haircut).
Extroverts: I adore them. Since I do enjoy people (one on one) they are really the people with whom my relationships flourish. I am wary, tho.
I have a problem with “sinkhole” people - I am a magnet for the type of person who can’t be bothered to remember or ask about my life but are eager to fill me in and engage on every thing in their life. I am trying to not get so easily hurt by this type of person but just recognize them and keep them at an emotional arm’s length and not invest in a relationship.
In my experience “sinkholes” tend to be women and men tend to a more give and take relationship style. I try not to prejudge but I’m also trying to protect myself - a tricky tight rope.
Rye7 -
Making a king prawn curry for dinner, with spinach, peas and tomatoes. I have done the veggie part and the smell is driving me insane!
Did my run today. Listened to very good Soul Music podcasts on Dvorak's New World and The Hallelujah Chorus. Rori and anyone else caring for dementia loved ones, the last one was very touching.
Feel a bit less anxious today as nothing is going to happen over the weekend. To tell the truth, I'm resigning myself to staying in this house. Yes, we will have to move before we get old, but if this falls through I don't think that this is a good time to sell. Brexit has spooked people. I just want my life back and be able to make plans. I want to enjoy myself and be able to make bookings for things. I want a break. Living in limbo is not good. Thank goodness DH and I have each other.
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxx6 -
Rye said, "I have a problem with “sinkhole” people - I am a magnet for the type of person who can’t be bothered to remember or ask about my life but are eager to fill me in and engage on every thing in their life. I am trying to not get so easily hurt by this type of person but just recognize them and keep them at an emotional arm’s length and not invest in a relationship."
I am glad you gave this type of person a label. I worked closely with a person like that for many years. For a long time, I thought she was my "best" work friend but I finally got fed up with this type of friendship. And honestly have not missed it a bit.
Carol in GA6 -
Just about to leave work and go home....May do laundry and.take a nap.going to see my friend later that I went to the big E with,she will have her daughter's dogs as she is working so will bring Alfie with me 8 dogs lol and my laptop she got her doctorate in nursing so she will know where to point me next.2
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1948Peachy wrote: »Rye said, "I have a problem with “sinkhole” people - I am a magnet for the type of person who can’t be bothered to remember or ask about my life but are eager to fill me in and engage on every thing in their life. I am trying to not get so easily hurt by this type of person but just recognize them and keep them at an emotional arm’s length and not invest in a relationship."
I am glad you gave this type of person a label. I worked closely with a person like that for many years. For a long time, I thought she was my "best" work friend but I finally got fed up with this type of friendship. And honestly have not missed it a bit.
Carol in GA
For years I was sure it was me, as these people don’t quite fit the drama queen designation and my husband couldn’t quite see my problem. Finally, recently, he had an aha moment, “Oh you are saying Heidi is like a ‘sinkhole’ you put time and emotionally invest in but you are swallowed up by”. I have used the label since then, although I’ve never seen it anywhere else.
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“Sinkhole” describes two of my “friends” to a tee. They never call unless they want something. If I call them because I need to know something, they start in with their lives and their problems, and I literally have to interrupt to ask what I need to know. If I just call with news I may not even get a chance to share it. I seem to attract these people as well.
I scored Defender, ISFJ, 74% introverted, 58% observant, 57% feeling, 72% judging, and 60% assertive. I probably need to take it again, because some of the descriptions didn’t really seem to fit me - like it said I nailed gift giving, something I always struggle with.3 -
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I retook the personality test so I could see what the A & T were all about.
I tested as an INFP-A: "The Mediator".
Rye & Carol I really like that term "sinkhole". Sinkhole people are rather self-absorbed, often well-meaning, and utterly uninterested in you. I mean, sometimes with a real friend you do all the taking & talking...and then another time, it might be all about them...but when it's always all about them, it gets old, right?
Heather I was curious about the real estate chain system so I read about it, and found the terms gazumping & gazundering! Such colorful words. It's a very tenuous way to buy a house, the UK system. I am sorry you have to do it this way. Your dinner plans sound wonderful. We are having a variety of cold salads.
My partner is going to visit friends in Pennsylvania. She leaves Monday for a week. I am looking forward to having time to myself, & glad for her to have time with these friends alone. We do socialize with them as a couple, but her relationship with them predates me, so it's nice for her to get some time with them without me there.
Scientific American article about trypophobia:
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/are-you-afraid-of-holes/
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Well, at least I know I don't have trypophobia, anyway. My own unease comes from very small holes, such as in soundproof booths, and it's a very visual thing, patterned small holes make my brain believe the surface is moving, usually in waves. I've dealt with it much less now that I'm older, as all I have to do is take my glasses off, and I don't get the visual illusion.
I do have a very mild phobia of walking on surfaces I can see through, like old railway or wooden bridges, or occasionally even street grates. Other than that, so far, the only thing that freaks me out are things that surprise me. As long as I know it's coming, I can deal with most things.
Been a wide-ranging conversation so far this month!
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR4 -
stats for the day:
Spin Class- 71min, 161mhr, 136ahr, 104aw, 82ar, 19.8mi= 749c
Apple Watch- 752
floor exercises- 9.36min, 1set 20ea, hamstring leg lifts, situps, reverse bicycles, on butt knees in-out, mountain climbers, all 4s elbow to knee,101ahr, 128mhr = 62c
Apple Watch- 63c
total cal 8111 -
Do any of you have a granddaughter who has and plays with a "Barbie Doll"? I have a boxful of Barbie Doll clothes that my Mother made for my Barbie Doll. PM me and give me your address and I will gladly send them to you. The only thing I'd like is repay me for the postage.
Lenora1 -
Did someone say 'pumpkin'? Count me among the ones who loves it savory or sweet. However, it's hitting the stores earlier every year, so the novelty is wearing off. I do take advantage of the sales and stock up on quality canned puree for the pantry. Love it in curries and smoothies.
Today has been a good day so far. DH was agreeable to a spur of the moment trip to a local arts/culture festival, and so we got out the door at 10:30 and were home by 12:30. Temps hit 90 degrees by then, and we just didn't want to be outside in it. Bless all the performers and volunteers who were there doing a great job recreating 1840's Colorado history, which can be summed up as Cowboys and Indians Meet at the Pueblo. A lady about my age was demonstrating flamenco dancing....oh my. I want to learn to use castanets!
We've had lunch, and he's now dozing in his chair. My nap will wait till after I get one more load of laundry done.
Heather: I love the the Hallelujah Chorus, but haven't been successful finding the Soul Music podcast.
Barbie: We are practically twins. My results were ISFJ-A, Role Sentinel. Strategy Confident Individualism. Introverted=67%, Observant=68%, Feeling=92%, Judging= 53%, and Assertive=90%.
Rye: Sinkholes...yes, I'm another one that is prone to attracting them. I've always called them energy-suckers. Does Kidd Kirby have an Instagram account? I have one for Mars and we post every week. Here is today's photo modeling his swanky new bandana and wishing everyone a Happy Caturday.
Stay well friends. We can do this.
Rori
Colorado Foothills
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LisaInNCNow wrote: »Well, at least I know I don't have trypophobia, anyway. My own unease comes from very small holes, such as in soundproof booths, and it's a very visual thing, patterned small holes make my brain believe the surface is moving, usually in waves. I've dealt with it much less now that I'm older, as all I have to do is take my glasses off, and I don't get the visual illusion.
I do have a very mild phobia of walking on surfaces I can see through, like old railway or wooden bridges, or occasionally even street grates. Other than that, so far, the only thing that freaks me out are things that surprise me. As long as I know it's coming, I can deal with most things.
Been a wide-ranging conversation so far this month!
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
Lisa - that's me as well.. don't like grates or walking on elevated paths. Or little holes, lol.
Do you get motion sickness? Sometimes when I'm driving on a hilly road, the scenery I'm whizzing past triggers something in my brain that makes me woozy. Same thing for some animated GIF's and strobe lights and that spiral whirling animation used to put people into hypnosis in old movies....if I don't avert my eyes and concentrate on looking straight ahead, or just close them, I feel like I'm losing myself in space, and it's been that way for years. Reminds me of "migraine tummy" I used to get when I had a lot of them.
Thought I was weird but one of my good younger friends who also has a lot of migraines experiences the same thing.
Lanette
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Rori - Try this link.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b008mj7p/episodes/player?page=8
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx0 -
Newbie here. Just dropped 7 pounds on my own, so decided to get more scientific about it! Glad to see some women over 50 here. I'm 66, BTW. Happy to see all of you!8
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Welcome Bioko. I’m guessing you’re from Arizona? Anyway, let us know a little about yourself and what you want to be known as. Dropping 7 pounds is a big accomplishment!
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Lisa - that's me as well.. don't like grates or walking on elevated paths. Or little holes, lol.
Do you get motion sickness? Sometimes when I'm driving on a hilly road, the scenery I'm whizzing past triggers something in my brain that makes me woozy. Same thing for some animated GIF's and strobe lights and that spiral whirling animation used to put people into hypnosis in old movies....if I don't avert my eyes and concentrate on looking straight ahead, or just close them, I feel like I'm losing myself in space, and it's been that way for years. Reminds me of "migraine tummy" I used to get when I had a lot of them.
Thought I was weird but one of my good younger friends who also has a lot of migraines experiences the same thing.
Lanette
SW WA State
Lanette: Weird you would mention that - I got motion sickness as a child when I tried to read anything in a moving vehicle, even a map. As an adult, seldom if ever, and oddly enough, can read on a tablet or phone just fine. However, when I treated Corey to his first ever train ride for his birthday a few months back, I was REALLY struggling with the nearness of the tree trunks that were flashing by very rhythmically next to the track. Something about how close they were to the train in the mountain forests was making me nauseated and headachy. Kinda grim on the way out, and nearly debilitating on the way back. Never had that issue in England, where I was on trains all the time, but most of the scenery is more open there. It was like a visual boomerang, and could only fix it, as you said, with eyes closed or focusing intently on something within the train.
On the less physical side of things, but along the same lines, trying not to dread the week to come, and just keep my eyes focused on today and tomorrow morning. Let my hubby pick my next hair color, so that's got 45 minutes before I rinse. He chose a sort of caramel blonde. I don't look at myself much, so I'm just more interested in looking like all my hairs are supposed to be on the same head than what actual color it is. Next time, I might go with red.
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Hi, I'm new to this board. I turn 50 in October and look forward to the next half of my life.
I got off-track in August and early September, I quit working out and exercising, plus lapsed on logging my meals. Luckily, I have become a good judge on serving sizes and portions and didn't go over on calories too much. The end result is I put about 5 pounds back on. I am logging meals again but have not gotten back to working out or making my Fitbit goals. I need renewed motivation and action.3 -
I took the test and got these results: Personality type: “The Mediator” (INFP-T)
Individual traits: Introverted – 75%, Intuitive – 58%, Feeling – 64%, Prospecting – 54%, Turbulent – 85%
Role: Diplomat
Strategy: Constant Improvement
Sounds like me!
RV Rita2 -
At the park sunset
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Rita what a lovely sunset!
Rori I should look into Instagram for Kidd Kirby (& friends) - I never thought if it. Mars’ bandana is of planets, yes? . I will make sure to have Kidd look for Mars if he likes Instagram - lol.
Odd that the ‘sinkhole’ moniker struck a chord. I find them more troublesome than a drama queen type because with the drama queens at least you see them coming a mile away.
Motion sickness: I never have any problem, and thrive on boats when everyone else is green. I have recently begun to suspect since I am blind in one eye and have never had 3 dimensional vision that my sense of balance is neurologically different from those who see normally.
My husband and I have been working long and hard on a project together lately and success depends upon me being able to come up with ways to understand things from a 2 dimensional perspective that people with normal vision don’t even have to think about consciously to understand. As we chart new waters in communication we are starting to suspect I simply ‘think differently’ and that some of that is in my wiring. Success is so uncertain at this stage, and we both would reap such a major quality of life upgrade that we are working through everything extra carefully and trying to catalog anything that I do differently that could help us near goal. And one difference we did note was my near immunity to both motion sickness and fear of heights - both of which plague him.
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Rye – when it comes to haircuts, $25 to me is high. I’m the eternal cheapskate – on some things. I go to the local community college’s cosmetology school. Yes, it’s the students cutting your hair. But then again, it’s only $5. For that price, if I’m not entirely happy, “hair grows”. Every once in a while I go to the hairdresser to get my hair cut and colored. Normally, I just use the root touchup. I don’t want to pay that amount every few months so I’ll pay the few dollars for the root touchup. Am I cheap or am I cheap?
Biokarizona – welcome!
Ares – welcome. Get back to measuring and logging and you’ll lose more than you can imagine. The ladies on here are wonderful.
Michele in NC
Where it just started raining a bit
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