WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2019
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Machka- if I were closer I could help you with your tasks. I would love to feel useful again.
Allie - can’t wait to see pictures of your newly painted space.
Lisa - it is so hard to know what to say to someone going through marital discord. I have learned to listen mote than give advice sometimes that’s all the friend requires. I am so thankful I didn’t give up on my marriage.
You are doing so well with your recovery, but I can understand how exhausting all the PT is.
Kelly - A young lady that used to work for me talked to local grocery stores and has arranged to pick up items that will be discarded. She did this as she knew a couple of shelters that kept running low on food. She ended up with so much food she had trouble getting it all delivered and had to get friends to help her.
Katla - I cant believe I didn’t think of the kids and signing for parents. My Grandson is in Grade 2 so I was thinking that age group, but yeah much older and it would be a big problem. Glad to hear the plumber is working on your behalf!
Pip - I think it’s time to see a doctor.
I went for my perm today with Kaitlyn. I was her first (last July) and her last human model. She has three exams left to go for the school to earn her diploma and then she has to schedule her provincials.
I found out on FB this morning that one of my 1st cousins passed away. I hate that that is how that news is spread now. There were 33 of us, 4 have passed now. I am one of the youngest so I guess I better get used to it.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Michelle, I’m doing KETO which is low carb high fat. I use Stevia or Zylitol instead of sugar in recipes and repack white flour with Almond, coconut, or ground flaxseed flours (sometimes I combine them all!). I also do an 8/16 fast most days of the week. For example: breakfast at 9 am lunch between 1 and 2 then dinner done by 5 pm. My big meal is at lunch so easy to do. With the way I’m eating, I’m not hungry at all!
RV Rita4 -
Perimenopause
Personal experience
Mine started in my early 40s with occasional night sweats, hot flashes, and a whole lot of irritability and rage. I was also experiencing dizziness in the 2 or 3 days before my periods started to the point where I sometimes had difficulty walking or focusing on my computer.
Into my mid-late 40s, my periods started coming all the time. This is one thing they don’t often tell you … that your periods may come heavier, longer and more frequently before the end. I’d have a heavy 2-week period, a few days off and then a lighter 1 week period, a few days off and then a heavy 2-week … and so on. Finally, after a year of that, I went to my doctor and asked if it was normal. “Possibly”. But just in case, she set me up with a gynaecologist.
Turns out it can be normal, but in my case, I had a large polyp in my uterus that was contributing to it all. The polyp was also pre-cancerous. That started follow-up checks every 6 months. I had it removed in January 2015, and started with MFP in February 2015.
For a while my periods were somewhat more normal … only every 21 days (instead of my old normal of 28 days) and roughly 10 days long (instead of my old normal of 5 days), and meanwhile I started experiencing a lot more of the perimenopausal symptoms. Nausea was added to my premenstrual dizziness, more hot flashes, acne, and all sorts.
Then in late 2016 and early 2017, everything went wonky again with my periods, I arranged to get things checked, and in mid-May 2017 I was back in surgery again for another polyp and more pre-cancer stuff.
I had a blissful 60 days with no period then, but returned to the 21 day cycle, roughly … sometimes 18 days, sometimes 25 days … I never knew. In 2018, I went 105 days without a period, then two periods in quick succession, and then 138 days without a period. I thought I was on a roll … but January 2019 surprised me with one, so the count began again. I’m up to 32 days now. One day, I'll hit the magic 12-month mark!!
In 2018, I also had massive hot flashes … they can be triggered by stress. Finally they got so bad, I saw my gynaecologic oncologist again and was put on a serotonin-based anti-depressant which has been quite helpful with the hot flashes.
Oh, I can’t use HRT … so I’ve been doing it all without hormone replacement!!
Other Info
This is a great site: https://www.facebook.com/34MenopauseSymptoms/
And there are heaps more. These are just a couple, but there are pages of sites a person can look at. Back 10 years ago when I was first starting all this, there weren't as many sites, but now there's no reason to be uninformed about what's going on.
https://www.healthline.com/health/menopause/difference-perimenopause#symptoms
https://jeanhailes.org.au/news/perimenopause-how-to-manage-the-change-before-the-change
(BTW - I use FB for 2 things: keeping in touch with family and friends AND information. It’s my newsfeed. So I “like” sites like that one above.)
Machka in Oz
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Machka- if I were closer I could help you with your tasks. I would love to feel useful again.
Tracey in Edmonton
Thanks!!
There have been several times in the last year or so that I've wished I were back in Canada again!!
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I need an ear
Hello again everyone! I have commented on here a time or two. I am terrible about daily viewing, but I plan to tag this group so I can keep up.
I'm turning 54 this year and so mad at my body that I can't stand myself. I'm still having "the flow" and it's not on a schedule. Just when I've tracked it and think I'm good it decides to show up. I want it to stop so I can continue with my swimbikerun life. I know that is dramatic but for most of my life I've been able to control it and now I'm not. I have an event coming up in May and I keep telling myself if I start on or at that date I'll have to bail on the event. Sorry to vent, I'm not usually an "excuse" person but this has me stressed out. I know there are women out there who let nothing stop them but I'm in unchartered territory and not happy.
Is it heavy enough you can't do the events? Mine was heavy but with panadol and padded cycling shorts, I was still able to do some long rides in sort of reasonable comfort.
M in Oz
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BTW to whoever is "Woo"-ing posts ...
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10570889/new-community-reaction-woo#latest
"In our community Woo means that you think an idea or approach is too good to be true."
I suspect you mean well ... but it is a little disconcerting when we know what it means.
M in Oz3 -
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Now that the roads are mostly dry and the snow in the fields is melted enough to walk in without boots, my new pair of Yaktrax arrived. I am delighted to have them and even if I don't need them again for a year, I feel much safer.
I went out to lunch today with my line dance friends. We went to a restaurant I like and where I know what to order. Ordering from the ala carte menu allows me to order without sides that I don't want and in a small enough portion to be the right size for my meal. Someone commented that I seemed to be eating a lot, but what they didn't realize that I had ordered only half as much food as any of the rest of them.
Barbie3 -
Today is International Mother Language Day!
"Languages have great importance as they play a large role in identity, communication, social integration, the preservation of heritage, and education and development. The oldest known languages are Sanskrit, Sumerian, Hebrew, and Basque, although other languages that weren't written down likely predate them. Counting all the different dialects, there are about 7,000 languages in the world. Around the world, a language is lost every two weeks, and along with it cultural and intellectual heritage and diversity, such as traditions, memory, and distinct ways of thinking and expression. In all, about 2,400 languages are in danger."
Skimming again. Apparently I missed posting yesterday and never even realized it. But I'm celebrating with those of you who are celebrating, and holding those of you who are struggling in the light.
We have a weekly breakfast with friends and this weekend our friend who has Parkinson's disease told us his doctor had put him on niacin supplements and was describing the "niacin flush." All three (post-menopausal) women at the table just raised our eyebrows and gave him a look. Sounded like a hot flash to me!
I've been exploring some single-serving products and decided they are very handy for me right now. One go-to lately has been to empty a vacuum pack of tuna into a bowl, pile on whatever vegetables I have on hand, slice in a hard-boiled egg if I've got any, and stick it all together with a tablespoon of hummus or one of those mini-packs of guacamole. Genius! Today at the store I bought a bag of slaw mix - cauliflower, broccoli, carrots, and red cabbage. Figured it would be a good addition to the tuna salad. I also still have a few pea sprouts from the farmer's market and some broccoli seed I sprouted at home. I don't care for broccoli, so sprouted or chopped up in slaw are good ways to sneak some of its nutrition into my diet.
Stayed on track with calories today, got my steps in, and did my workout on the ski machine. The scale has been in the same place for several days now so I may need to push a little harder to knock it loose.
-Yvonne in TX7 -
tracey - I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin.
Went to canasta tonight. Until next year. Hopefully, since we won't have the commitment of Newcomers we can stay longer
After canasta went in the backyard and watched SpaceX take off. Unfortunately, it took off from pad 40 so we could only see when it was in the sky. It never ceases to amaze me how long it is until you hear (and feel) the sonic boom. Vince was saying how people were lined up along Route 1. Glad we are in the condo.
Michele
who tomorrow just may start the cross-stitch for down here2 -
Feeling frustrated. Last week, we students got an email telling us that we need to choose our tutorials next Tuesday (26th). On a whim, I went into my university email today. Lo and behold, the tutorials were opened this morning!!! I could not log into the tutorial choosing system until I got home this evening, and now all the tutorials are full.
They say they will open more, but ... all the good tutorials, the ones I hoped to get into are full. I don't know what that will leave me. AND I can't log in when I'm at work, so again, I'll have to wait until I get home. <<sigh>>
Machka in Oz
They opened more tutorials and I have been able to get into one. It's not 100% ideal, but it's not too bad.
The process here is that you've got to apply for your degree, and wait to be accepted into the degree. When that happens, you are able to enrol in your courses. Your core courses will appear on the enrolment page, and you've got to hunt for any optional courses. I'm still doing core courses. So you select that you want to enrol in a course, and it is added to your list. You've got to do that quite early because the courses do fill up, so I enrolled back in November or something.
Then, in the week or so before the course starts, you've got to enrol in your tutorial. Enrolling in the course only gets you into your lecture. The other half of the course is your tutorial.
Enrolling in the tutorial is a painful process where we have to either come into the university or use a VPN on our laptops. I can't use a VPN at work, and they haven't set up the VPN for phones. So either I have to bring my laptop into work, or come into work late, or hope that there will be room in a tutorial by the time I get home. So of course, I missed the first batch of tutorials all together.
Fortunately they have opened a few more.
It's a strange system. To me, when you enrol in the class, you should then be able to enrol in the tutorial. But what do I know???
Machka in Oz
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Shannon, I'm so glad you're willing to provide a home for those kitties! My house is small, so my limit is two, one of which is a rescue. She, her sister and brother were all abandoned on this property at about 4 weeks of age … way too young. They were so skittish we had to use a live trap, and worked for 5 weeks to socialise them. My girl turned out a little shy, but not too bad, the little boy was great, but they let him be an indoor outdoor and he disappeared. The last little girl spends daytime in a closet. She comes out at night after the son is in bed and plays with my adult kids and the other cat and dog. She's become desensitized to one of their friends and won't drive for the closet when he's there. Good work on eating. Keep logging the food!
Machka, thanks for the info on "Woo"! I was taking it as a higher degree of "Wow!", As in "Woo! That's just such a mess!" Now that I know, I'll stop. Thanks for letting me know! Although I'm tempted to use it on your description of the tutorial enrollment process!
Yvonne, your lunch idea sounds great. I need to keep volume tiny, though, because of my bypass. Tuna + egg + hummus would be a big meal for me without the veggies.
My physical therapy is already feeling helpful. I'm working in a machine that lets mewalj on my bad leg and good leg at 50% of my full body weight. This allows me to build strength on the one while coordinating with the other. Another machine that was developed to help soldiers heal. We owe those programs a lot.
Sharon getting sore Near Seattle.5 -
Had a scare yesterday, my daughter messaged me that she was in the eye hospital A&E, she has problems with her retinas. They can tear easily and she woke up with lots of 'floaters' went to hospital at 2pm did not leave until after 7pm. There was a tear in the retina which they lasered, this is not the first and I do worry about her losing her sight altogether as she is only 51.
My eating hasn't been too good lately but I'm back on the wagon, upped the exercise and trying to keep to 6/18 IF.
Should have been going to Spain for a week in March but the airline cancelled the flights, could have arranged other flights but would have had to stay longer which meant paying more for accommodation so decided to cancel, a bit p....d but looking forward to Greece in May
Hugs for everyone who needs them and congrats on all weight losses and recoveries from surgery
Kate UK7 -
Morning, afternoon, and evening, all...
Had my first really good day since the surgery, eating-wise, yesterday, and it showed on the scale this morning. Small victory. Haven't gained overall (also a victory), and lost the water weight from the IVs in the hospital within a few days, but getting the scale moving downward again is always a joy.
Even when you love your job (and I do), Fridays are a wonderful thing.
Hope your Friday is/was/will be lovely!
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR4 -
morning ladies~I am up having my tea..back up lbs, so really have only lost 10,I know I have to get more fats in for this to work..and on work days I am trying to eat salad with some type of protein and lots of fluids..
I think I will try the fast like Rita.. I dont eat after 6 and can i guess wait until 10 to have my tea, or stop at 5 and not have anything until 9.. very hard on a work schedule..
working 9-5 today and 7:30 -1 tomorrow.. and then will come home and clean some more.. even though my place is small its starting to get cluttered..3 -
trucker743 wrote: »Machka, thanks for the info on "Woo"! I was taking it as a higher degree of "Wow!", As in "Woo! That's just such a mess!" Now that I know, I'll stop. Thanks for letting me know! Although I'm tempted to use it on your description of the tutorial enrollment process!
It was trialled as both for a little while, but that just confused everyone. And then they settled on the negative. Personally I'd prefer to see "dislike" but it is what it is.
And I was glad to get into a tutorial successfully, and one that is not too bad. It's at a time that should work fairly well at least most of the time.
I have to juggle full-time work and uni, and the university is 3.5 km from work, so I prefer to have my classes and tutorials at the beginning and end of the day if possible, and both on one day if possible. But it doesn't always work exactly like that.
I've ended up with my tutorial first thing in the morning on one day, and the lecture at lunch on another day. But maybe it won't be so bad having them on different days. If I have to miss a day for some reason, I won't miss both.
M in Oz
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Hygienist this afternoon. Not my favourite thing, but not the worst either. She looks very nice when I've seen her walking around the surgery.
Getting ready for the grandchildren to stay over. The first time in this house. We still have to disable the panic alarm, so we will play with that this afternoon. Need to strip the super king size bed and split it into two. Decided Bea can go in the room next to us on a double bed. There is less stuff in there for her to get in trouble with, but I will remove the telephone!
I'm a bit anxious about it, but it's really a service to my son and DDIL as they run the half marathon on Sunday morning. We will cheer them on on the seafront.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx7 -
I think I’m finally over the hump of whatever play kick my *kitten* to hell and back. Perk is I lost about 5 lbs, not the healthiest way to do it, but it gone. Started Friday and still not completely over it
Wasn’t gonna go to the hospital and get a $15,000 bill just so they can do anything for me6 -
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