My bf cheated on me
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You're very beautiful2
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MIltonBradley1 wrote: »
I know I always wanted to live in Shepherds Bush.0 -
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MIltonBradley1 wrote: »@newmeadow wrote: »MIltonBradley1 wrote: »
I know I always wanted to live in Shepherds Bush.
But what is Shepherd shaves?
Shepard's pie
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ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.6 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
I understand what you're saying. That's my opinion and you have yours. I just don't see how posting pics of text messages and hearing one side of a story is going to make things any better. Like I said... I'm very sorry she's going through that. The guy is obviously a coward by what she said about it.
I just don't think drama is a way to fix it. If you enjoy that.. good for you7 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
but you can't screenshot it when you actually talk to someone8 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
but you can't screenshot it when you actually talk to someone
Good point!
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
I understand what you're saying. That's my opinion and you have yours. I just don't see how posting pics of text messages and hearing one side of a story is going to make things any better. Like I said... I'm very sorry she's going through that. The guy is obviously a coward by what she said about it.
I just don't think drama is a way to fix it. If you enjoy that.. good for you
Again, as someone who was accused of this, I don't understand why it has to be that someone is looking for drama by posting what they're going through. Sometimes you just need to vent. Sometimes you want advice (and, yes, sometimes the best advice comes from people you don't know and who don't know you because there aren't any biases).
And, with the way this guy is acting, do you REALLY want her to talk voice to him? She shouldn't even be texting him. She should be looking into a restraining order just in case (not really sure how that works).6 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
but you can't screenshot it when you actually talk to someone
We hardly speak on the phone. Either text or face to face4 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
I understand what you're saying. That's my opinion and you have yours. I just don't see how posting pics of text messages and hearing one side of a story is going to make things any better. Like I said... I'm very sorry she's going through that. The guy is obviously a coward by what she said about it.
I just don't think drama is a way to fix it. If you enjoy that.. good for you
Again, as someone who was accused of this, I don't understand why it has to be that someone is looking for drama by posting what they're going through. Sometimes you just need to vent. Sometimes you want advice (and, yes, sometimes the best advice comes from people you don't know and who don't know you because there aren't any biases).
And, with the way this guy is acting, do you REALLY want her to talk voice to him? She shouldn't even be texting him. She should be looking into a restraining order just in case (not really sure how that works).
I agree with you. I've had some great advice from friends here myself. I guess I've always been the type of person who likes to hear both sides of stories before I can give a opinion. I did not mean what I said in a bad way regardless of how some people may see it and how people seem to get offended for nothing.
I do have a heart and nobody deserves to go through heartbreak like that.
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.12 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.10 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.13 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
^^^ a thousand times this. @ButterIsGood glad you're feeling the relief already. Stay safe and take good care of yourself, and reject any attempts to drag you back into that insanity.3 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.
Nope. I'm going chaste 😋6 -
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Man that sucks, hope you are alright. Everyone already gave good advice. I'll add whether we like it or not our past shapes us to who we are today. The good, the bad, the mediocre, the one night stands, the drunken rallies, friends passing, everything that happens including this. Take it as a lesson, I can't tell you what lesson is to be learned from this but something I'm sure of it. Probably not today or tomorrow but like others have said one day you'll meet some other guy in the future who appreciates you for who you are, maybe that's what it is. You know your worth, don't let anyone tell you differently.7
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.
I'm not banging anyone else ... just sayin 😉2 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.
Nope. I'm going chaste 😋
My fav Arianna fan, I find this hard to believe my dear 😋2 -
So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.19 -
You can eat cheesecake every day when you're single. It's one of the unspoken perks. 🙌ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
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You can eat cheesecake every day when you're single. It's one of the unspoken perks. 🙌ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
Actually its the opposite. Got to stop eating the cheesecake and work on my body3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!0 -
have you asked your BF - wouldn't be the first time a "Friend" wanted to sabotage a relationship.0
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ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!
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