My bf cheated on me
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ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
It looks distinctly Ethiopian.
Lmao 😂😂 not my taste0 -
He sounds like hes NOT a winner......
You can definitely do better.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
That probably comes in handy when one impregnates a whole milieu of young ladies, many of whom are bi or multi lingual.6 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Kids should ALWAYS be priority. Also, child support can be alot of money, I've seen friends of mine basically working just to pay child support and struggling which is probably why he's working 2 jobs. Dating someone with kids can be a big adjustment for a person who doesn't have any. You two are obviously not meant to be together. You should just block his number at this point and forget about it.6 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
That probably comes in handy when one impregnates a whole milieu of young ladies, many of whom are bi or multi lingual.
How did you know!!??? Both baby mamas speak 2 languages. I speak 30 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.9 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
That probably comes in handy when one impregnates a whole milieu of young ladies, many of whom are bi or multi lingual.
How did you know!!??? Both baby mamas speak 2 languages. I speak 3
I was once very tempted by men of similar character and romantic history. It ruined my innocence and broke my filter. You're cursed with a prediliction such as this. In common patois it's called having bad taste in men. No wonder you're here at MFP.5 -
LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
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LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
Is that.....that......not what your supposed to do? No wonder I'm single!1 -
LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
I think that musta been my Valentine's gift....1 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
That probably comes in handy when one impregnates a whole milieu of young ladies, many of whom are bi or multi lingual.
How did you know!!??? Both baby mamas speak 2 languages. I speak 3
I was once very tempted by men of similar character and romantic history. It ruined my innocence and broke my filter. You're cursed with a prediliction such as this. In common patois it's called having bad taste in men. No wonder you're here at MFP.[/quote
I do have bad taste in men... It seems like it at least.. But what's wrong with being on MFP?0 -
Feel bad for ya...
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"He went to Jared?"Tankiscool wrote: »
LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
Is that.....that......not what your supposed to do? No wonder I'm single!
"Yeah, like, the Jared who lives across town."
Sorry for cracking jokes, OP. I had a miserable day and it's raining. Thank you for all your sharing.
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ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
That probably comes in handy when one impregnates a whole milieu of young ladies, many of whom are bi or multi lingual.
How did you know!!??? Both baby mamas speak 2 languages. I speak 3
I was once very tempted by men of similar character and romantic history. It ruined my innocence and broke my filter. You're cursed with a prediliction such as this. In common patois it's called having bad taste in men. No wonder you're here at MFP.[/quote
I do have bad taste in men... It seems like it at least.. But what's wrong with being on MFP?
Why nothing. Look at all the earnest and heartfelt advice you've been inundated with by people who don't even want to date you.1 -
"He went to Jared?"Tankiscool wrote: »
LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
Is that.....that......not what your supposed to do? No wonder I'm single!
"Yeah, like, the Jared who lives across town."
Sorry for cracking jokes, OP. I had a miserable day and it's raining. Thank you for all your sharing.
This post has pain, cheesecake, selfies, jewelry and now jokes. We accept everything here.2 -
"He went to Jared?"Tankiscool wrote: »
LolButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
Your hand looks older and wrinlkier than your young pretty face in this photo and your mattress is on the floor with no bedframe and it bothers me that your boyfriend allows this sort of thing.
That's not my hand... It's his. He sent me that pic through text.
"Hey babe. I'm at the jewelry store.... I mean the Craigslist seller's house-- whaddaya think?"
Is that.....that......not what your supposed to do? No wonder I'm single!
"Yeah, like, the Jared who lives across town."
Sorry for cracking jokes, OP. I had a miserable day and it's raining. Thank you for all your sharing.
I tried to go Jared but unfortunately visitation hours are only from 10 to 2 and he was booked up with footlongs for the next 10 or so years.1 -
I didn't read all the replies to your post but my advice is DUMP HIM. Run far from him. I saw your profile pic. You're probably wayyyyy too good for him.
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Just sat and read this whole thread, want cheesecake now, well done OP looks like you took the advice that was offered and are getting urself away from a toxic person and some mfp peeps popping some “banter” and jokes to keep it light hearted x5
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Stay single! Lol1
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OP, are you guys back together ?1
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Did he ever get you earrings to match the Ethiopian necklace?
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OP, I'd be willing to bet that the further out you get from this situation, the more you will see what nutjob this guy really is. Be aware that your emotions will fluctuate, and don't make any rash decisions (other than the universally accepted one of staying as far away from this guy as possible).2
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Op, may I send you flowers too?
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