My bf cheated on me
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ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!
Ok, better. God, I want that whipped cream.
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷♀️8 -
branflakes1980 wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷♀️
Fight! Fight! FIGHT!0 -
So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread5
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ButterIsGood wrote: »So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread
Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.0 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread
Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.
I've never had a distasteful cheesecake.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
She's a friend I truly trust. She told me she doesn't want to start drama but is only telling me because she thinks I should know. She rejected him and even threw out the flowers and chocolate he got her. He gave her the silent treatment for a few days but talked to her yesterday about how he can't stop thinking about her and how much her rejection hurt him. Today he messaged me asking if I want the valentines day gift he had ordered for me before he had asked for time out. I said no and that I'm coming to get my own stuff this week from his place. He was shocked by this. Asking me why I was planning to do that. I told him " you've told me before that all things done in the dark will come into the light" and that I didn't love him anymore. He started acting stupid at this point hence I know he was trying to keep this whole thing hidden. With his " what are u talking about???". At the end of the convo he said " so you're giving up on me like everyone else has??" All I've done for the past year is love him and support his decisions and been there for him. This just hurts too much
Run. Turn the other way and don't look back. This man is toxic and will only cause you more heartache and will complete ruin your sense of self worth if you stay. Seriously, run.2 -
Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......9
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ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Like I said early narcissistic and gas lighting ... he's trying every possible way to make you feel bad for him and see him as the victim. Even the blaming you for hurting him. Do you have those sneakers on yet to run away .. fast ??5 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
If he sends anything else you should just respond with this song.
https://youtu.be/WS2WLrRShO8 3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Seriously, unless this is now a source of amusement for you, wish him away to the corn field.
This thread has made me want cheesecake more than I was already craving it!
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ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Blaming her, that's what narcissists do.3 -
I don't feel pain anymore. I just find amusing how he's trying everything to save himself.. Everything. I'm laughing now. It's fun seeing him sink in his own lies.ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Seriously, unless this is now a source of amusement for you, wish him away to the corn field.
This thread has made me want cheesecake more than I was already craving it!7 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
I don't feel pain anymore. I just find amusing how he's trying everything to save himself.. Everything. I'm laughing now. It's fun seeing him sink in his own lies.ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Seriously, unless this is now a source of amusement for you, wish him away to the corn field.
This thread has made me want cheesecake more than I was already craving it!
Good. I'm proud of you. 1 -
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branflakes1980 wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷♀️
Fight! Fight! FIGHT!
No no no... I’m a lover not a fighter ❤️1 -
Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."4
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ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...8 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
I repeat what I said earlier, look up borderline personality disorder. There is a reddit about this and you'll learn loads. Block him, go no contact, and work on why you fell for him. In that thread a common recommendation is to see a therapist but honestly block him. He'll do anything he can to draw you back in and then push you away.5 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.8 -
FeelinFooFoo wrote: »You should reply to his next text with this gif
This is magical.2 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
His kids should be his priority not the current girl he is doing next time date a guy without kids.8 -
At the end of the convo he said " so you're giving up on me like everyone else has??"
Look at him, making YOU the bad guy. He's trash, trying to manipulate you when he gets desperate. He's treating you like the convenient back up girl until he finds his keeper. Move on from this mistake and take it as a life lesson. Now you know to avoid anyone like him in the future. You'll be so much better off without him, and although it hurts now, in a little while you'll be glad he's gone!
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I'm hoping this man is handsome, well groomed and doesn't use double negatives and too much cologne in order to offset his more undesirable traits.
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I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
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ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?2 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...
Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
I think he shoulda tried harder than that...ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
Wow. You'd think he wouldn't have all sorts of spare cash to spend on gifts and jewelry for you what with all those out-of-wedlock offspring he brought into the world that he owes child support payments to...
He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.
Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
It looks distinctly Ethiopian.3
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