My bf cheated on me
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Man that sucks, hope you are alright. Everyone already gave good advice. I'll add whether we like it or not our past shapes us to who we are today. The good, the bad, the mediocre, the one night stands, the drunken rallies, friends passing, everything that happens including this. Take it as a lesson, I can't tell you what lesson is to be learned from this but something I'm sure of it. Probably not today or tomorrow but like others have said one day you'll meet some other guy in the future who appreciates you for who you are, maybe that's what it is. You know your worth, don't let anyone tell you differently.7
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.
I'm not banging anyone else ... just sayin 😉2 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know
I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.
Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.
You mean soulmates?
Yes, we all have a soulmate. I think mine is out there somewhere probably banging someone else.
Nope. I'm going chaste 😋
My fav Arianna fan, I find this hard to believe my dear 😋2 -
So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.19 -
You can eat cheesecake every day when you're single. It's one of the unspoken perks. 🙌ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
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You can eat cheesecake every day when you're single. It's one of the unspoken perks. 🙌ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
Actually its the opposite. Got to stop eating the cheesecake and work on my body3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!0 -
have you asked your BF - wouldn't be the first time a "Friend" wanted to sabotage a relationship.0
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ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!
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ButterIsGood wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »So I went out tonight to celebrate the end of this relationship at the cheesecake factory. My cheesecake was a little petty. But idc. I decided to not get my stuff from his place
because I don't want to see him ever again.
That guy is so 5 minutes ago. What's with the piece of cheesecake? The oreo is completely hiding it!
Ok, better. God, I want that whipped cream.
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷♀️8 -
branflakes1980 wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?
I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.
I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?
OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.
Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷♀️
Fight! Fight! FIGHT!0 -
So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread5
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ButterIsGood wrote: »So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread
Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.0 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread
Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.
I've never had a distasteful cheesecake.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »
She's a friend I truly trust. She told me she doesn't want to start drama but is only telling me because she thinks I should know. She rejected him and even threw out the flowers and chocolate he got her. He gave her the silent treatment for a few days but talked to her yesterday about how he can't stop thinking about her and how much her rejection hurt him. Today he messaged me asking if I want the valentines day gift he had ordered for me before he had asked for time out. I said no and that I'm coming to get my own stuff this week from his place. He was shocked by this. Asking me why I was planning to do that. I told him " you've told me before that all things done in the dark will come into the light" and that I didn't love him anymore. He started acting stupid at this point hence I know he was trying to keep this whole thing hidden. With his " what are u talking about???". At the end of the convo he said " so you're giving up on me like everyone else has??" All I've done for the past year is love him and support his decisions and been there for him. This just hurts too much
Run. Turn the other way and don't look back. This man is toxic and will only cause you more heartache and will complete ruin your sense of self worth if you stay. Seriously, run.2 -
Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......9
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ButterIsGood wrote: »Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......
Like I said early narcissistic and gas lighting ... he's trying every possible way to make you feel bad for him and see him as the victim. Even the blaming you for hurting him. Do you have those sneakers on yet to run away .. fast ??5
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