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My bf cheated on me

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  • Posts: 7,814 Member

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    Ok, better. God, I want that whipped cream. :)
  • Posts: 5,860 Member

    Didn’t you just do what you said she shouldn’t be doing? “Drawing public attention to yourself while putting down someone else” 🤷‍♀️

    Fight! Fight! FIGHT!
  • Posts: 5,860 Member
    So now this is a " post selfies, cheesecake and fight " thread

    Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.
  • Posts: 7,814 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »

    Just bear in mind that MFP guidelines prohibit posting nude or distasteful images.

    I've never had a distasteful cheesecake.
  • Posts: 11 Member

    She's a friend I truly trust. She told me she doesn't want to start drama but is only telling me because she thinks I should know. She rejected him and even threw out the flowers and chocolate he got her. He gave her the silent treatment for a few days but talked to her yesterday about how he can't stop thinking about her and how much her rejection hurt him. Today he messaged me asking if I want the valentines day gift he had ordered for me before he had asked for time out. I said no and that I'm coming to get my own stuff this week from his place. He was shocked by this. Asking me why I was planning to do that. I told him " you've told me before that all things done in the dark will come into the light" and that I didn't love him anymore. He started acting stupid at this point hence I know he was trying to keep this whole thing hidden. With his " what are u talking about???". At the end of the convo he said " so you're giving up on me like everyone else has??" All I've done for the past year is love him and support his decisions and been there for him. This just hurts too much

    Run. Turn the other way and don't look back. This man is toxic and will only cause you more heartache and will complete ruin your sense of self worth if you stay. Seriously, run.
  • Posts: 4,877 Member
    mherwig1 wrote: »
    have you asked your BF - wouldn't be the first time a "Friend" wanted to sabotage a relationship.

    No friend can sabotage something solid. He is clearly the main problem here.
  • Posts: 1,036 Member
    Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......

    If he sends anything else you should just respond with this song.

    https://youtu.be/WS2WLrRShO8
  • Posts: 7,814 Member
    Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......

    Seriously, unless this is now a source of amusement for you, wish him away to the corn field.

    This thread has made me want cheesecake more than I was already craving it! :p
  • Posts: 4,877 Member
    Hey guys!!! I have an update if you guys haven't heard enough. So he finally accepted the idea that he was talking to my friend...... But now he's saying that its her fault for being there for him when he was hurting after I betrayed him and lied to him about which friend I was out with... That she said caring words to him and that it was her fault he ever went out with her.. Because she was nice to him...He also said he didn't want to be with her because of me.. .... HE IS SO FULL OF *kitten*. She rejected him. She even showed me textual evidence.......

    Blaming her, that's what narcissists do.
  • Posts: 7,814 Member
    I don't feel pain anymore. I just find amusing how he's trying everything to save himself.. Everything. I'm laughing now. It's fun seeing him sink in his own lies.

    Good. I'm proud of you. :)
  • Posts: 2,516 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »

    Fight! Fight! FIGHT!

    No no no... I’m a lover not a fighter ❤️
  • Posts: 201 Member
    Update: He is trying to win me back with gifts/ jewelry. He stopped cussing. Started calling me his " beautiful persian queen" and seems to finally understand that I would never take him back after what he did. And at this point, still not a single " I'm sorry."
  • Posts: 7,814 Member
    You should reply to his next text with this gif
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    This is magical.
  • Posts: 1,295 Member

    He's broke. Works 2 jobs. Has to pay child support. Has his kids 2 days a week. Didn't really have time for me but I was accepting. He is the second guy I've dated and imma be honest with you, I didn't think dating a guy with kids was so hard. I was never a priority. Literally 2 days before he decided we needed a break, the tire on his old *kitten* car blew out and He had to buy one and he couldn't afford it. He spent 3 months saving for a 1000 dollar car. I offered to help with some of it... Good thing I didn't 😁😂 since I'm spilling tea, his roommate is his mom.

    Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
  • Posts: 11,118 Member
    At the end of the convo he said " so you're giving up on me like everyone else has??"

    Look at him, making YOU the bad guy. He's trash, trying to manipulate you when he gets desperate. He's treating you like the convenient back up girl until he finds his keeper. Move on from this mistake and take it as a life lesson. Now you know to avoid anyone like him in the future. You'll be so much better off without him, and although it hurts now, in a little while you'll be glad he's gone! <3
  • Posts: 201 Member
    edited February 2019
    newmeadow wrote: »

    Please post a photo of the jewelry he bought you.
    I think he shoulda tried harder than that...mwgpdprawltx.png
  • Posts: 1,295 Member

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    I think he shoulda tried harder than that...

    Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?
  • Posts: 201 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »

    Well did it come from a gumball machine or Kohl's?

    He said that if you shine a light through it, it projects " I love you" in 100 different languages.
  • Posts: 1,295 Member
    I think he shoulda tried harder than that...mwgpdprawltx.png

    It looks distinctly Ethiopian.
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