WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2019
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DH got a phone call last night from the care facility where his mom was. I say was as she passed at 5 am today. The call last night was to say that she wasn't doing well, labored breathing, running a temp.... So this morning's phone call was not unexpected, although it's still sad. Oh well, we shall carry on. Her final arrangements are all taken care of (we had to get the ducks in a row when she was admitted to the facility.) And yes, we paid for it all as she has/had no money.
My weight has been steady in the lower decade, so feeling pretty happy about that. Looking to get it lower, of course, but the general trend seems to be headed that way (YAY!). Nothing too exciting happening in my life right now, was hoping that our younger son would head out this way for a holiday this year as he had changed jobs and had more normal hours, but talked to him last night and found out that he's back working in the bar that he hated with a passion.... Turns out the new job wanted to train him for a bunch of stuff and he felt guilty letting them spend money training him when he doesn't plan to be there forever. Fair enough, but he doesn't plan on moving back here in the foreseeable future either! I say take the training! More education is never a bad thing. Oh well, I can't tell him what to do, he is an adult, although sometimes I wonder.....
Weather has cooled off quite a bit the last few days, we've even gotten some rain! Not enough to make a huge difference in the fire rating, but it's a help.
Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island8 -
Margaret--Glad that DS is doing better.
Connie in KY--I hope you and your mom enjoy your time together and her feeling useful is a great thing.
Pip--That looks really sore. Be careful.
Rita--Beautiful.
Tracey--You are so brave to dive and then to step off the box. I have to wade in slow and then I don't go very deep.
When I get off this afternoon my 4 month old great grandson is coming to spend part of the weekend with us. My granddaughter and husband are taking the 2 older boys to Worlds of Fun for the weekend. Logan will stay with us until tomorrow evening when he will go stay with another grandmother. I told DH today it has been at least 8 years since we have kept a baby all night. I am looking forward to lots of cuddle time.
Blessings, Vicki GI NE5 -
Macha I can unfortunately understand the frustration you went through with your husband. My son has had episodes before and never care like this. It is like the keystone cops. The right hand does not know what left hand is doing. Depending what they do for medications we will take charge of seeing that he gets them.
The therapist got him up and walking today. I brought in some squeeze balls because he hasn't moved his arms much in the past two days. They are still not having him eat and I am afraid he will be too weak to feed himself if he doesn't use his arm muscles. Plus I believe the move he moves the more he is moving the toxins out of him. They are pouring IV into him which is good.
The care he is getting here is better than he had before. I still try to be here as much as I can so he gets even better care. When I take my break I get outside and do gardening. It is helping me get some of my frustration out. I know when I come to help him I need to leave the frustration at the door. Easier said than done. As much as I would like to be here 24/7 I know I would quickly burn out. Husband is here in the morning and I stay afternoon and early evening. Then I go check on his house briefly. Fortunately it is more or less on the way home.
I have cancelled things like getting a routine A/C checked and updating out trust. These can get done once son is on the upswing. The shot will start to wear off this weekend and hopefully that will help him start to feel better.
He is telling me more what he wants today which is good.
Thanks for letting me vent.Margaret
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Evelyn ~ Sorry for the loss of your MnL. Hugs to you and your husband.
Margaret ~ Glad your son is getting better care. I completely understand what you mentioned about the Keystone Cops as that is how my husband has felt in dealing with his BnL. Dr's appointments keep being made without my husband's knowledge. The BnL has missed 3 set appointments with the cardiologist because no one informed us about them. Today, my husband has taken him to the appointment and not the facility where he is staying.
Carol in GA4 -
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Rita - am I mistaken or was this gig as a park host only supposed to be for a couple of months? How long have you been there now? Do you get to enjoy it or is it more like a job to you now? What a beautiful photo, I travelled through NM once with my husband when he drove truck, it is one of my favourite states.
I went for my swim lesson last night. For the first half hour, I swam laps. My instructor then told me I was going to dive. I did it, twice! Then he had me stand on the diving box and just step off into the pool. I did that too without panicking and flailing around like a fish out of water (haha). I feel so much better now, but learned last night that I need to make it a habit to go swimming at least once a week to keep up with my endurance and not lose what I’ve learned.
Tracey In Edmonton
Yes, Tracy, this gif was only supposed to be for a coupe of months. It will be a year here Labor Day weekend! We are planning on traveling in the fall for a bit the spending Winter here again. DH is busy repairing or making signs for all over the park and I help at the rental office for peddle boats, paddle boards, life jackets, ice l, and T-shirts. I also take care of campers making sure everyone is in the right campsites. Sounds like a lot but we only do what we want. Keeps us busy.
I need to work on swimming too. No confidence when going over my head and no endurance.
RV Rita in Roswell NM2 -
Mary- True hun your right - every state is different to facility ours included 4+ personal trainers for excersise y pool. One sweet 20yr old (yes the others youngsters hated him because he got a lot of clientele- bees like honey not vinegar scenario), a few older trainers .A free Dieticians led class one day a week. They dropped everything to help show you how to excersise but we were Privately owned. My Daughter uses a on base one they got to be nice or their contracts will get pulled (companies mega kinds) they offer free trainers only.
My small town was a higher than average percentage of low income families they couldn’t afford a hourly trainers fees (work on commission) the silver sneakers gave them everything they needed praise God.
That was over a decade ago they might not provide what they once did fully.
Tracy - Tell your Daughter She’s not alone those bullies are ridiculous! Tell her to deflect them! Don’t invite them to Birthdays etc not worth her time. I sound like a loud Minnie Mouse Get very aggrivated easily anymore so hubby leaves me at home a lot! Lol he knows I’ll say something it’s easy most are walking around with bras only y pants Baffin’ they give me some good ammo to come back with. Was your clothes a 1/2 off sale? Do you know your hubby left the house without a belt!!!! Lol Their opinions get me boiling hot ...What’s your Sons BMI he looks FAT? Well none of your business I think to myself. I burst into Jimmy Crack corn I don’t care once.
Best comeback let her know is to stay straight faced say with a plain tone over y over ...I don’t remember asking for your opinion. No matter what they say more blah blah blahs I keep repeating it. One didn’t take the hint so Jimmy cracked his corn 🌽.
Birthdays I learned to not invite them just a few family members I trust leave the rest out. So Mother-in-law,my Dad,hubby, his Sister her kids y ours that’s it. Raised 9 kids in my life (2 biological) well don’t got the patience anymore for the Bleeps. All the kids are adults except JR. Hubby raised a few kids too but not babies 👶 so this is all new to him. He’s learning a lot now crash course style with those moms. I get mouthy with the Doctors too when their wrong so yup hubby tries to keep that stresser away from me. One pointed out my sons belly being fat at 3months old so I pointed out hers said Twinsy! Lol she stormed out of their slamming doors lol. Well not sorry when I met my hubby he paid for me to get my hair done for our wedding 👰. The lady was after him! He was a hottie she wanted him bad. She asked “What does he like?”
“You know food,in bed,songs,hobbies?”
I replied simply still faced.... “ME”. Lol she burnt my hair off she was so mad lol. Hubby couldn’t take me near that salon we dead eye each other! That’s okay never got to the wedding the Judge walked in we were scheduled to just talk get a date set he well eating a sandwich 🥪 married us no license or waiting period nothing! Happened to my grandparents too so we got something in common besides the fact I’m grandma ‘s doppelgänger.On the spot. He said too late this is legal lol. When he had asked Do you want to marry this man? I said HELL Yeah in the most hick country voice you can imagine. Hubby just replied I’m here ain’t I. Lol bam married with those words lol. Courthouse was so confused as we started with the last paper went backwards to get them all lol. Funniest thing is during my placental abruption one Doctor was eating a sandwich 🥪 when he ran up lol.Told my hubby sandwiches are our omen lol.
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Evelyn - Where is your younger son, most places don't expect people to stay now, I would have taken the training too. Sorry to hear about your Mother in Law.
Vicki - I hope you have a wonderful time and I hope he sleeps for you.
Margaret - It's good that you can be there with your son. Hopefully he improves faster than expected.
Carol - My brother complained about that with appointments for my Mom, no matter what he said or did they all wanted to set appointments with her so they ended up missed.
Rita - It's good that you can enjoy it still and it hasn't become a chore. I started swimming lessons last spring, this is my 3rd set of 8 sessions. When I started I wouldn't go where I couldn't touch bottom, this was a huge accomplish for me. Now if I could just lose the weight.
I just had a call for an interview for a nursing home I had applied for in early May. I will be interviewing on Wednesday. I don't know how this will work now with getting time off for the wedding and the days I have commitments on. I will worry about it if I'm offered something.
Going to a friends tonight to print some things for the wedding. Our printer has decided that it only wants to streak. I have done everything I can think of to get it looking good and it's just not working. UGH.
Tracey in wet and cold Edmonton5 -
Guests in bed. Evening went well. The main course was ok, not great, but I was trying out a new veggie dish. Won't bother with that one again.
Nice chat. I alternated real and AF wine, which was a good idea.
Homemade croissants tomorrow for breakfast, plus fruit salad, then we're all going off to the French Circle old prison visit. DSIL understands a few words of French, her boyfriend, nothing.
I'm hoping to go shopping after lunch for sparkly trainers and DH wants a hat (like a jazz hat). We will see. It's supposed to be blowing a gale so we might not walk back along the front. We all have old people's bus passes, so we will go in by bus.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx3 -
Rita: The sky photo your DH took after a thunderstorm at the park is stunning. Great photo!
Evie: Sorry to hear about the loss of your DH’s mom.
(((Margaret))) I hope things get better each day for your son's situation and for you. :flowerforyou:
I had a lovely yoga class this morning. Many regulars were there. There will be change in the summer. My favorite teacher will teach 8 am yoga twice a week. I’ll be there as often as I can. I am hoping for a late summer/early fall trip in our RV to see my children and grandchildren. Keeping my fingers crossed and praying this particular dream comes true.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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@1948Peachy , Carol. This is my advice re the gym. When I first started going, I knew how to do none of the machines either. Does your gym have a strength training class for Silver Sneakers? Mine did not, but it did have a mid morning class that was basically all women my age give or take 10 years. I consistently went during class time and it was very helpful in learning how to use the machines, what to call the exercises, etc. one of the gym employees oversees the class and corrects our form if need be. I drive past several gyms in my town to get to this one 20 minutes away because they give me a city employee discount and I only pay $15 a month. It is a wellness center connected to a hospital. A lot of the attendees during the 9-11 morning hours are retirees. I will continue to go there after October when my Silver Sneakers kicks in because the whole place is like a big family.
If the gym you’re going to turns out to not be a good fit, take your Silver Sneakers elsewhere.
I have started a new Christian weight loss program that I am really enjoying. I’m giving it a lot of attention right now as I watch the videos and FB live chats and stuff. I am encouraged that I’m going to be able to break this plateau I’ve been on for 3 years. She’s big on giving you choices to see what works best for you and your body instead of a one size fits all diet. I won’t go into more detail, because I’m sure it would probably violate some MFP rule, but so far I am loving it. It focuses a lot on spirit, mind, and body.
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Tracey, I found my walking friends because I was already walking. I met one in my neighborhood because we were both already walking and saw each other and began walking together then set up a meet time. The other one is a friend who one day asked if we could get together for coffee to talk about something that was on her mind and I told her that I'd be happy to meet her for a walk and wouldn't meet for food or beverage. Now she texts me a few times a month and asks when would be a good time to meet for a walk.
It's too wet today for working in the yard but not too wet for Sasha to want to take a walk so we had a great 45 minute walk in the middle of the afternoon.
The room where we dance will be the site of a high school senior party tonight and it was half decorated already so we had to dance in a smaller space. They plan dancing, food, games, and prizes from 9 PM to 4 AM. I was happy that we could accommodate their plans and not have to cancel class.
Evie, sorry about your MIL.
Carol, I agree with everyone who said go back to the gym and speak up about how you didn't get the help you need. Also make use of the videos that were shared with you.
Barbie in NW WA
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Work was horrific, but feeding DFIL a pleasure, he ate well and was even cracking himself up.. our dog Chester not doing great..Tom and Elena keeping me in the loop..6
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Tracy, younger son is in Roblin Manitoba. It's an itty bitty town near the border with Sask, the nearest "larger" center is Yorkton, Sask, it's 45 min away. I'm kind of annoyed with him for quitting, but it's his life, as I said he's an adult, I can't live his life for him. Good luck with the interview! Most places are more than willing to make start dates etc flexible around things that are as pre-planned as the wedding, so I wouldn't worry too much about that. And you're right, just wait until you are offered something, then mention the wedding, or if you are asked when you can start you can mention it then.
Margaret, so sorry to hear about your son's health issues, sincerely hope he starts to feel better soon.
Have to go, at work and it's calling!
Hope everyone is having a great day!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island5 -
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I had a lovely yoga class this morning & learned about th new summer schedule. We will have yoga two days a week. I’m grateful that my favorite teacher will be leading our class.3
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Did a rebounder DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Power Yoga DVD. This is a new one for me, so we shall see how it goes
Sharon – your dad certainly has a “Cary Grant” look. Isn’t it amazing how things have changed?
Barbie – is there a reason they take the xray of your root canal? I’ve never had one taken of mine
Margaret – (((HUGS)))
JR – JR is adorable!!! The way we were abused, isn’t it any wonder that we’re alive (having to get up to change the television channel)
Pip – how did you do that??
Went to Food Lion, they have Vince’s soda on sale. I swear it seems they very seldom have that variety. So I got a rain check. Will leave in a few to go to WalMart to get a prescription for Vince and a few other things then the soup kitchen.
Suebdew – with the three gyms I go to, if Medicare will pay for all of them since they each take Silver Sneakers, we’ll be saving over $500. They may only pay for one gym, of that I’m not sure.
Well, the food they served at the soup kitchen was sort-of decent. Half a meatball sub (I bet they were preformed meatballs) and salad. Not the greatest, but not the worst either
Carol – did you tell him that you were interested mainly in how to use the machines? Listen to his sphiel to get you to sign up, let it go in one ear and out the other. But you should be able at least to get what you need
I very seldom use the machines at the gym. To me, they are good for rehab as they isolate the muscle, only the dip machine to me. But that’s just me. At one time I did use the machines faithfully
JR – good videos and great tips. One thing the doctor told me to possibly avoid UTI’s or Athlete’s Foot is to use your hairdryer on your private parts before putting on your underwear and try as much as possible to dry your feet. Especially in winter after swimming when you put your feet into closed-toe shoes
Making a pork roast for us to have during the week. Boy, the rosemary on top smells good
Evelyn – I’m so sorry for your loss
Jess gave me this starfruit jam for Christmas. Just today I threw it out. Shhhh..don’t tell her, but I really don’t need all that sugar. But I did like the jar that it came in
Tracey – fingers crossed for you for that interview
Katla – I hope your dream comes true, too.
Michele in NC
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Julie, I love my forest, but there isn't much flat or low elevation change to walk in. We're on the SW side of Tiger Mountain, and the trails are fairly steep. The community center in town has a gym and indoor walking track. I suspect I'd better ante up the money and go. It's very low cost for seniors. And I could go to the indoor pool as well, but I'd have to wear a bathing suit. Ugh! I worked graveyard most of the time I drove a truck simply because I enjoyed being off during days so much. My days off were always midweek, too.
Barbie In NW WA, sounds like your friend and I are on parallel tracks. It's taken me a bit longer, but this Mystery Trip in Mexico will be my first big-time solo travel adventure. I hope she has a lovely time! Italy is on my list!
Ow, Pip! Just Ow!
Rita, I was SO tempted to hit the "woo" button when you mentioned 100°, not because I doubt you, but because I don't! I can't imagine going there other than early spring or well into fall. And that photo deserves to be entered in the National Geographic photo competition this year.
Carol in GA, I'd be tempted to call and ask to speak to the manager. Disguise your voice if you have to! Lol! He's supposed to be selling folks on the gym, not on HIM.
Tracey in Edmonton, swimming can be one of the biggest hits! When we are in the water everyone weighs more or less the same. To move against the water resistance makes me feel powerfu!
Evelyn on Vancouver Is., same here for rain. Just a spit or a slow drizzle. Nothing that will help the water deficit much! I'm sorry to hear about your MIL. It seems just a short while ago you were getting her situated in that place.
My granddaughter's wedding is getting closer. I have my room booked for the rehearsal evening the night before. So far the extended forecast looks pleasant, although they do have an enclosed pavilion in case it's not. I can't wait to dazzle those who haven't seen me with my new figure. It's a work in progress, but I'm pretty proud of it. A total of 80# lost from my highest. I'm so happy I had the surgery. I wish I'd chosen it earlier.
Sharon NEARlY 180#, Near Seattle
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Michele, When I had the root canal, the endodontist told me that she would check in six months to make sure all was well and then check again six months later. The follow-ups were part of the cost for the root canal.
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Michelle N.C. - .my doctor only told me wear cotton underwear...I could have used that hairdryer trick for years!
Carol GA - if you have anyone you know who agrees to go to silver sneakers too or has a membership already see if they can go a few weeks with you. Buddy system the best! I had a few I met at the gym a few days in the welcoming crew will call them - we started going together especially my friend with a gastric bypass he had to work out so we tried to cordinate our workout together as much as possible.Rest if the time went with my Navy Daughter or other older men I knew (welcoming crew y Their wives would meet me at the pool after or join in doing cardio). We were the night gang last to arrive/leave we loved our joke times y telling each other our job stories (I barely have had female jobs so more shop talk than anything even I bore their wives lol). Before I knew it our group was over 20+ people so was never alone.1 -
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Terri and Julia – amazing transformation photos!
Machka – pretty ring!
Karen in VA – Wonderful photo of your daughter and grandchildren.
Shannon – You have every right to be proud of yourself. All of the things you mentioned are significant improvements and you have a plan to deal with the food issues. Bravo!
Pip – great vacation photos. A trip to Alaska is on my bucket list.
Margaret – I'm so sorry your son is having more problems! Has he ever had genetic testing to determine which medications are a good fit for him? The results indicate which drugs a person should never take. It was helpful with my older son.
Kylia – good to hear from you!
Carol – I had the same thing happen to me the first time I joined a gym. And I did not hire the salesman the stuck me with. But it might be worth hiring a trainer short term to learn the machines. I asked for a trainer that had experience with clients who had orthopedic problems. It was a good decision at the time. Now I use the equipment I have at home, and focus on the treadmill and kettle bell.
Evelyn – sorry for your loss … hugs.
It was a crazy week. My lab was doing really well the first two days after his surgery, but on Sunday evening developed explosive bowel issues (that's the nicest way I can say it). It was a disaster. Monday I corralled him in a very large bathroom and when I came home from work the poor guy was traumatized by the condition of the room. So was I. It looked like a violent crime scene only with .... well you know what. Only within the last 36 hours have things settled down. On the other hand, he's getting very playful since this surgery. Even went and found a toy ... something he hasn't done in a very, very long time.
This weekend husband and I are going to take down more trees. I don't think we're going to open the pool anytime soon. The fence needs replaced. The gas line needs replaced. The landscaping is a train wreck in the pool area. The list goes on and on. We are both overwhelmed but plugging along.
Beth near Buffalo
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