When Peter shows up uninvited

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  • _Miss_Chievous
    _Miss_Chievous Posts: 601 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    I wish I had this thread years ago. So many harsh life lessons could have been avoided

    It's just making me wonder why I don't get any Peter pictures.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    I wish I had this thread years ago. So many harsh life lessons could have been avoided

    It's just making me wonder why I don't get any Peter pictures.

    And I wonder if I need to be sending more
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    I just laugh it off but I don’t know why they feel the need to send them without even saying hi first 😂 I feel like most guys take that one picture they’re proud of whether it be the lighting or the way it’s sitting or whatever and they keep it on their phone or laptop to send to numerous women over the years. I get that some men do it because they’re lonely or whatever but heck I’m lonely as hell and I don’t go around sending photos of Franny.

    Mine is named Princess Grace

    🤣 I kinda want to name mine Peters Cave now.
    😄

    but seriously

    When I studied anatomy & physiology I was annoyed when I read that part of the definition of vagina was receptacle for a penis. Like, why are we defining parts of a woman by what they are for a man? It was a long time ago. Maybe they’ve changed it. Or maybe they’ve at least changed the definition of penis to include kitten massager.

    Maybe I’ll call peters Grace’s snakes.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited September 2019
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    It's complicated
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  • _Miss_Chievous
    _Miss_Chievous Posts: 601 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    I've received them and I only want them from someone I really like or someone I'm dating.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    I've received them and have subsequently deleted my Snapchat permanently.

    I'm happy to receive them on a consensual basis from someone I like.
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    only half? Cant say iv ever really enjoyed the pics i get sent (alot) lol. I prefer to be the sender but not full nudes i will never understand xD
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    after a situationship has been established, after she's asked, and always randomly thereafter.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited September 2019
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    some of us are just checking our inboxes and can say with some authority (admittedly, a small sample size anyway) "women send nothing"
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    Yes lol. Bit of both. Its pretty obvious to me what guys are okay with it lol
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    how dare you interrogate me!

    i sent a bra pic to one person who asked

    aaaaaand some other stuff to another person who asked and with whom there was a well-established relationship. legs and cropped boobs and things like that.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    Yes, after being asked (not to a stranger may I add).
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited September 2019

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    I didn’t ask if women send them because I figured most women would not admit to it for fear of being judged or hounded by men with requests.

    To answer your question though, I have never taken or sent full nudes. In past serious relationships, I have sent bikini or topless pics but I don’t consider breast to be private parts. You can see that at a lot of beaches. After they asked.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    I'm clocking out of this one, the line between "trying to be funny" and "acting thirsty" is sufficiently blurred that I'm just gonna excuse myself to some sort of penance
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    I'm clocking out of this one, the line between "trying to be funny" and "acting thirsty" is sufficiently blurred that I'm just gonna excuse myself to some sort of penance
    have you answered the question yet?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    If my boyfriend sends me a picture of Hulk sometimes I'll send him a picture of vulverine.

    😂
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    If my boyfriend sends me a picture of Hulk sometimes I'll send him a picture of vulverine.


    Lol 😋
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    This whole thread feels like a trap.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Everyone who posts in here should answer the questions. It is only fair.

    *waits*
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Everyone who posts in here should answer the questions. It is only fair.

    *waits*

    gone be drier than a MFP holiday weekend from the majority i figure
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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Everyone who posts in here should answer the questions. It is only fair.

    *waits*

    gone be drier than a MFP holiday weekend from the majority i figure
    49hu5y1she49.gif

    Well I appreciate the people who kept it real in here!

  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    i once told my mother-in-law that politicians should be honest about sex and drugs and then proceeded to tell her what i would say if i ran for office. 🤷‍♀️
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited September 2019
    This whole thing of sending nudes, male or female makes me think about how the whole dating world has changed due to internet and the way we tend to now live in a world of instant gratification. We want something, few clicks of a mouse or press a few buttons on a phone and Bob's your uncle, you have it. I think the dating world has the same thing going on. Everyone already knows that anyway.

    But it's a bit like 'let's speed this up even faster, try before you buy' 😂 guilty of it myself in the past so I wouldn't judge anyone doing it. But I think even with all the equality this day and age, women do have to protect themselves cos sadly women do still get much more harshly judged than men. A lad sending pics of his willy will be laughed and joked about, in a fairly harmless way. But a girl sending pics naked could have serious impact on the girl. I don't see that really changing. Of course, it depends if the girl is bothered by that or not. Its a personal thing.

    I agree with this 100%.

    I do feel people nowadays are impatient and want instant gratification. Not me. I can wait. But if I’m going to wait a long time, I would like to know what I’m getting eventually. Lol

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  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    I didn’t ask if women send them because I figured most women would not admit to it for fear of being judged or hounded by men with requests.

    To answer your question though, I have never taken or sent full nudes. In past serious relationships, I have sent bikini or topless pics but I don’t consider breast to be private parts. You can see that at a lot of beaches. After they asked.

    i mean how do u even take a full nude without a timer or something ? u could go like body gif but arms length dont get the whole picture

    someone sent me a pm explaining how to do this. i believe it involved a crotch camera