When Peter shows up uninvited
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If I had a "Peter" i would not call it that. I would probably call it Francis.4
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pizzamyheart wrote: »If I had a "Peter" i would not call it that. I would probably call it Francis.
because he needs to lighten up?4 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes the best response is to ignore it completely, not acknowledging it all and ending the conversation. The complex that the sender gets from that then becomes of his own insecurities.
I like this, but maybe keep the conversation going without acknowledging receipt. If he asks, deny it was received and he can wonder about where that picture may have gone.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes the best response is to ignore it completely, not acknowledging it all and ending the conversation. The complex that the sender gets from that then becomes of his own insecurities.
I like this, but maybe keep the conversation going without acknowledging receipt. If he asks, deny it was received and he can wonder about where that picture may have gone.
This wouldn’t work for me. It would feel like playing games and that makes me uncomfortable.
If it were a stranger I would just block contact and delete or junk box it as evidence in case he escalated.
A friend who made a faux pas would get a warning most likely.3 -
When Peter shows up uninvited....don't do Dick.1
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »If I had a "Peter" i would not call it that. I would probably call it Francis.
because he needs to lighten up?
Sgt Hulka?1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes the best response is to ignore it completely, not acknowledging it all and ending the conversation. The complex that the sender gets from that then becomes of his own insecurities.
I like this, but maybe keep the conversation going without acknowledging receipt. If he asks, deny it was received and he can wonder about where that picture may have gone.
This wouldn’t work for me. It would feel like playing games and that makes me uncomfortable.
If it were a stranger I would just block contact and delete or junk box it as evidence in case he escalated.
A friend who made a faux pas would get a warning most likely.
Valid point.2 -
Honestly I think alot of guys who do this are expressing theyre frustration of a lack of a sex life this way so they are just like *kitten* it throwing up a hail mary which will more than likely not be caught.4
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes the best response is to ignore it completely, not acknowledging it all and ending the conversation. The complex that the sender gets from that then becomes of his own insecurities.
I like this, but maybe keep the conversation going without acknowledging receipt. If he asks, deny it was received and he can wonder about where that picture may have gone.
This wouldn’t work for me. It would feel like playing games and that makes me uncomfortable.
If it were a stranger I would just block contact and delete or junk box it as evidence in case he escalated.
A friend who made a faux pas would get a warning most likely.
I'm too old for games.2 -
I keep expecting this thread to go in a weird way and surprisingly, it really hasn't. Well played, Internet.. but I still don't trust you.
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If I had a peter, aka Francis, I would probably dress it up and show it to all my friends.2
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pizzamyheart wrote: »If I had a peter, aka Francis, I would probably dress it up and show it to all my friends.
Tea Parties ?
Games of Twister ??
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pizzamyheart wrote: »If I had a peter, aka Francis, I would probably dress it up and show it to all my friends.
Princess Grace likes playing dress up from time to time1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »If I had a peter, aka Francis, I would probably dress it up and show it to all my friends.
Princess Grace likes playing dress up from time to time
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I also think its hard to send those kind of pics on MFP....no? Dont you usually need Instagram, or Snapchat or something like that? I dont have any other social media other than here. Anytime i have been asked to send such a pic its because they gave me another way to send it.....or i simply said no i cant.
Usually, it is done through normal texts. Using Apps is newer and more cloak n dagger, which allows for secretive license.1 -
777Gemma888 wrote: »I also think its hard to send those kind of pics on MFP....no? Dont you usually need Instagram, or Snapchat or something like that? I dont have any other social media other than here. Anytime i have been asked to send such a pic its because they gave me another way to send it.....or i simply said no i cant.
Usually, it is done through normal texts. Using Apps is newer and more cloak n dagger, which allows for secretive license.
so, the cool thing about snapchat is that you can set a timer on the pic so it disappears quickly making it harder to screenshot AND you are alerted if a screenshot is taken. Of course there are workarounds.
Instagram autodeletes photos taken in app but not ones that are attached. I don’t know much about the different settings because ive never really played with them.
But yes, if there is trust and/or you don’t mind your photos being saved, text works fine.2 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »777Gemma888 wrote: »I also think its hard to send those kind of pics on MFP....no? Dont you usually need Instagram, or Snapchat or something like that? I dont have any other social media other than here. Anytime i have been asked to send such a pic its because they gave me another way to send it.....or i simply said no i cant.
Usually, it is done through normal texts. Using Apps is newer and more cloak n dagger, which allows for secretive license.
so, the cool thing about snapchat is that you can set a timer on the pic so it disappears quickly making it harder to screenshot AND you are alerted if a screenshot is taken. Of course there are workarounds.
Instagram autodeletes photos taken in app but not ones that are attached. I don’t know much about the different settings because ive never really played with them.
But yes, if there is trust and/or you don’t mind your photos being saved, text works fine.
Something about Snapchat seems shady to me.
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »777Gemma888 wrote: »I also think its hard to send those kind of pics on MFP....no? Dont you usually need Instagram, or Snapchat or something like that? I dont have any other social media other than here. Anytime i have been asked to send such a pic its because they gave me another way to send it.....or i simply said no i cant.
Usually, it is done through normal texts. Using Apps is newer and more cloak n dagger, which allows for secretive license.
so, the cool thing about snapchat is that you can set a timer on the pic so it disappears quickly making it harder to screenshot AND you are alerted if a screenshot is taken. Of course there are workarounds.
Instagram autodeletes photos taken in app but not ones that are attached. I don’t know much about the different settings because ive never really played with them.
But yes, if there is trust and/or you don’t mind your photos being saved, text works fine.
Something about Snapchat seems shady to me.
because it can be used by inappropriate ages and to keep secrets.2 -
777Gemma888 wrote: »I also think its hard to send those kind of pics on MFP....no? Dont you usually need Instagram, or Snapchat or something like that? I dont have any other social media other than here. Anytime i have been asked to send such a pic its because they gave me another way to send it.....or i simply said no i cant.
Usually, it is done through normal texts. Using Apps is newer and more cloak n dagger, which allows for secretive license.
You just made sexting and nudes sound waaaaaaay more intriguing than it actually (usually) is. :laugh:5
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