When Peter shows up uninvited

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  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    It’s especially fun when you send it to his wife.

    Its the gift of hilarity that keeps on giving
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    edited September 2019
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    unsolicited. i’m surprised if it’s common unsolicited. and if it is i’m still surprised if it’s unwelcome
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    Probably tens of dozens of women!

    Yes. But guys should probably know that sending a pic can only hurt you or maintain status with a girl. If a girl likes you already, the pic is moot. If she doesn’t like you, a pic won’t change her mind
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.

    i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.

    but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all

    eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send

    ok new poll:

    if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?

    Yes
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment

    Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise

    Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment

    Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise

    Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow

    i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    edited September 2019
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment

    Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise

    Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow

    i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.

    I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.

    I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush

    Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    I only send them if requested. I'm 100% secure with mine and her reaction in person is a million times better. It ain't the biggest, it certainly isn't small but it sure is handsome. 😁

    Also I don't ask women for nudes either. Yes I've had women send me unsolicited pics too.

    This is very useful information. Thank you. 😋😁

  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited September 2019
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    I would like to take a poll.

    How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?

    How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?

    Probably tens of dozens of women!

    Yes. But guys should probably know that sending a pic can only hurt you or maintain status with a girl. If a girl likes you already, the pic is moot. If she doesn’t like you, a pic won’t change her mind

    idk i’m a very visual person

    Me too. But I only want that type of pic if I realllllllly like him.

  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment

    Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise

    Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow

    i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.

    I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.

    I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush

    Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words

    🤷‍♀️idk but i promise to think about it
  • BasedGawd412
    BasedGawd412 Posts: 346 Member
    edited September 2019
    bojack5 wrote: »
    I have sent nude pics.....never unsolicited, and have recieved far more female nude pics then the pics i have sent of myself. I look at it this way, im an adult and i have only done this with consenting adults and i dont have body hang ups. The act of sending or receiving a risque pic i never found to be a big deal.....as long as both parties are consenting.

    However, the amount of drama that may ensue following such an exchange usually isnt worth it......at least among internet acquaintances. So, i have found it best to stay away from taking very personal pics for people i will never meet......

    Lol really, why does drama usually ensue for you?
  • BasedGawd412
    BasedGawd412 Posts: 346 Member
    Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.
  • _Miss_Chievous
    _Miss_Chievous Posts: 601 Member
    Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅

    No... those are even better
    zses4mpxoehk.gif
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.

    This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!
  • _Miss_Chievous
    _Miss_Chievous Posts: 601 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.

    This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!

    You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.

    This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!

    You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??

    I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage :/
  • _Miss_Chievous
    _Miss_Chievous Posts: 601 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.

    This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!

    You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??

    I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage :/

    Dammit... I worked hard for those. It was hard to lay down and suck in my stomach and get the right angle.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.

    ** frantically checks pm inbox.

    This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!

    You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??

    I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage :/

    Dammit... I worked hard for those. It was hard to lay down and suck in my stomach and get the right angle.

    Just imagine how many important messages have been lost--how much time--how many CALORIES BURNED

    I mean, this goes DEEP
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.

    Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."

    Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    really need a version of this thread told from the guy's perspective about women imo

    ERW8pMe.gif

    I'm curious to know how it would be called.

    I feel like the angle would really define the title.

    1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
    2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
    3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"

    1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
    2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
    3) "cool story bro"

    Women do that?

    I was wondering the same thing.

    I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔

    Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised

    for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment

    Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise

    Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow

    i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.

    I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.

    I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush

    Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words

    🤷‍♀️idk but i promise to think about it

    No, don’t do that before i have. I was tired 😅
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.

    Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."

    Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."

    it’s research, so to speak
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.

    Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."

    Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."

    it’s research, so to speak

    Precisely. A visual "taste testing" or a sample miniature.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.

    Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."

    Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."

    it’s research, so to speak

    Precisely. A visual "taste testing" or a sample miniature.
    We can hope for the best

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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅

    I have been sent videos in the past.