When Peter shows up uninvited
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_Miss_Chievous wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.
This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!
You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??
I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage
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Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.
This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!
You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??
I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage
Dammit... I worked hard for those. It was hard to lay down and suck in my stomach and get the right angle.1 -
_Miss_Chievous wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.
This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!
You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??
I hate to be the one to bring this up, but Myfitnesspal is becoming garbage
Dammit... I worked hard for those. It was hard to lay down and suck in my stomach and get the right angle.
Just imagine how many important messages have been lost--how much time--how many CALORIES BURNED
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Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.
Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."3 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise
Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow
i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.
I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.
I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush
Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words
🤷♀️idk but i promise to think about it
No, don’t do that before i have. I was tired 😅1 -
777Gemma888 wrote: »Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.
Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
it’s research, so to speak0 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »777Gemma888 wrote: »Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.
Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
it’s research, so to speak
Precisely. A visual "taste testing" or a sample miniature.4 -
We can hope for the best777Gemma888 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »777Gemma888 wrote: »Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.
Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
it’s research, so to speak
Precisely. A visual "taste testing" or a sample miniature.
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BasedGawd412 wrote: »Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅
I have been sent videos in the past.
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777Gemma888 wrote: »
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
Tbh, I wanna know what I’m getting myself into. Do I need to like really brace myself and be ready......lol
I’m too nice to ever ask. I will wait for it to come up somehow and then if he offers i won’t stop him from sending it. 😋
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Okay... Here's my two cents (and this is going back 10 years to before I was married and was dating). To answer the question... Yes, I have sent pics in the past, but, there was always consent prior to sending the pic. Also, women definitely send unsolicited pics. The first time it happened to me was after a first date. The date went well and there was a good night kiss. WOW! I was really surprised when I got home and checked my text messages before going to bed. The other pic was from an old high school friend/girlfriend (and no, we weren't dating at the time). I have just chalked this up to life in the digital age.1
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Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.2
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.
Naked and terrified? Lol.
Sounds like the name of a TV show.
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.
Naked and terrified? Lol.
Sounds like the name of a TV show.
but can you imagine? how awkward on one hand but potentially wonderful?1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.
Naked and terrified? Lol.
Sounds like the name of a TV show.
but can you imagine? how awkward on one hand but potentially wonderful?
I think waiting a long time and then being disappointed would be bad. But if you really love them, you work with what they have....
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.
Naked and terrified? Lol.
Sounds like the name of a TV show.
but can you imagine? how awkward on one hand but potentially wonderful?
2 sec awkwardness followed by wonderfulness..
so I heard.. 😇2 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Now I’m imagining a scenario in which both parties have kept all of that for after a commitment and then standing in front of each other naked and terrified and trying to keep the shock and disappointment from their faces.
Naked and terrified? Lol.
Sounds like the name of a TV show.
but can you imagine? how awkward on one hand but potentially wonderful?
2 sec awkwardness followed by wonderfulness..
so I heard.. 😇
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Consent between adults involved in the sexting is imperative. Perfectly legal under CA law. With the artistic license people take today, some "Peter pics" may qualify under unlawful peeking or an invasion of privacy, when a man redistributes "Peter pics" in this instance, or a woman sending intimate pics which aren't her own, as they qualify as non consensual transmission of intimate images.
Receiving or sending intimate pictures for me has always been about a fwb hookup during "the warm up phase" or when I am in a committed relationship. It's part of "the dating culture now."
Having shared the posts on this thread to my sister @K8eekins, she'd responded, "Receiving Peter pics is considerate. You need to know."
Absolutely. Politeness and courtship are drag-outs. I'd learnt the hard way as you well know, how that turned out for me, that one time I thought to, sticking to the parameters of decency, only to be shell-shocked.
With modernity and the fast-paced dating with insurmountable options, we all deserve to know the quality of the other face, since we'll all be acquainting ourselves to it eventually. I fear for some who're not inclined to, for with how science has advanced too for example, there are details some should be telling their prospects from the get-go. It's impolite and deceitful to not.2
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