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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »It’s especially fun when you send it to his wife.
Its the gift of hilarity that keeps on giving0 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised3 -
caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
unsolicited. i’m surprised if it’s common unsolicited. and if it is i’m still surprised if it’s unwelcome0 -
I would like to take a poll.
How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?
How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?
Probably tens of dozens of women!
Yes. But guys should probably know that sending a pic can only hurt you or maintain status with a girl. If a girl likes you already, the pic is moot. If she doesn’t like you, a pic won’t change her mind0 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I would like to take a poll.
How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?
How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?
only from one person and only after i asked. It answered some questions until I could investigate further on my own. It’s nice to be trusted.
i did once open a surprising craigslist ad.
but i mean, unless we’re talking something on either end of a spectrum, you’ve seen one you’ve seen em all
eta: i’m surprised no one is asking about what women send
ok new poll:
if youre a woman have u sent pics? after they explicitly asked or just bc u thought they would prolly be okay with it?
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caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment0 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise
Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise
Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow
i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise
Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow
i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.
I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.
I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush
Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words1 -
BasedGawd412 wrote: »I would like to take a poll.
How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?
How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?
I only send them if requested. I'm 100% secure with mine and her reaction in person is a million times better. It ain't the biggest, it certainly isn't small but it sure is handsome. 😁
Also I don't ask women for nudes either. Yes I've had women send me unsolicited pics too.
This is very useful information. Thank you. 😋😁
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I would like to take a poll.
How many women have received nudes? Do you ever want to receive them from someone you like?
How many men have sent nudes? Do you only send them if she asks or just send randomly?
Probably tens of dozens of women!
Yes. But guys should probably know that sending a pic can only hurt you or maintain status with a girl. If a girl likes you already, the pic is moot. If she doesn’t like you, a pic won’t change her mind
idk i’m a very visual person
Me too. But I only want that type of pic if I realllllllly like him.
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caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »_Miss_Chievous wrote: »
I feel like the angle would really define the title.
1) A guy's perspective as to the WHY after sending one? I dunno this one, which I guess is *probably* a good thing even if I feel like I'm not participating in ye olde internet traditions
2) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a woman? Lemme hazard a guess--"lol bro best day ever"
3) A guy's perspective when receiving an unsolicited pic of a man? Lemme hazard a guess--"silence"
1) idk she should always be the first to send something. and she wouldn't do that if she wasn't interested. after she initiates its okay though. just gotta choose your moment. like when she's out grocery shopping or at the library.
2) "lol" and then send your bitmoji with the big eyes. unless she's in her twenties don't use bitmojis at all unless you want her to call you old
3) "cool story bro"
Women do that?
I was wondering the same thing.
I thought you two were more progressive than that 🤔
Edit: that came off bad. I’m just surprised you’re surprised
for the record i am ok with whatever between consenting adult humans of whatever gender combinations but 1. we’re discussing a grey area in terms of consent and 2. i was expressing surprise and honest ignorance, not judgment
Oh i knew you weren’t casting judgment, i was also just surprised at your surprise
Where does #1 come into play? I’m not sure i follow
i think- maybe incorrectly- that women have been, out of necessity, more aware of the nuances of consent. and i guess i hope that people who understand that would be careful not to violate the consent of others. i don’t know if that’s idealistic, or prejudiced, or naive, or what.
I haven’t bridged the gap between sexes enough yet to imagine a scenario where a woman would/could send pics that would make a man feel offended or upset that she hadn’t obtained his consent first.
I’m not saying it’s impossible to do so. I just can’t imagine any guy i know doing anything other than a right click save or a disregard. Maybe everyone i know is really immature. Or really mature. Or possibly I’m painting everyone i know with my 11 pm thinking hurts brush
Edit: trust me i know I’m teetering on a dangerously skinny ledge here and hoping i get the bene of the doubt since words
🤷♀️idk but i promise to think about it0 -
I have sent nude pics.....never unsolicited, and have recieved far more female nude pics then the pics i have sent of myself. I look at it this way, im an adult and i have only done this with consenting adults and i dont have body hang ups. The act of sending or receiving a risque pic i never found to be a big deal.....as long as both parties are consenting.
However, the amount of drama that may ensue following such an exchange usually isnt worth it......at least among internet acquaintances. So, i have found it best to stay away from taking very personal pics for people i will never meet......7 -
I have sent nude pics.....never unsolicited, and have recieved far more female nude pics then the pics i have sent of myself. I look at it this way, im an adult and i have only done this with consenting adults and i dont have body hang ups. The act of sending or receiving a risque pic i never found to be a big deal.....as long as both parties are consenting.
However, the amount of drama that may ensue following such an exchange usually isnt worth it......at least among internet acquaintances. So, i have found it best to stay away from taking very personal pics for people i will never meet......
Lol really, why does drama usually ensue for you?0 -
Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅0
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.2 -
BasedGawd412 wrote: »Am I the only one here who's been sent a unsolicited sex tape? 😬😅😅😅
No... those are even better
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Motorsheen wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.
This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!1 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »seriously though. The only pictures of John Thomas I’ve ever received were by request.
** frantically checks pm inbox.
This was me yesterday, but I think PMs must be broken cause they obviously aren't coming through!!!
You mean I did all those poses for you for nothing??3
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