WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2019
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Machka You were asking about sleep paralysis. I didn't know there was a name for it until the past year. I had a lot of experience with it when I was younger. It played havoc with my nerves because I didn't know it was real. It felt like I was dying.2
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Heather "Janetr - I'm so glad you had a great 70th birthday. We are so close in age. You are obviously very loved by your family. Isn't it a blessing."
Thank you Heather, yes we're just a few weeks apart in age. I think we are very similar in many ways, we like to dress in style and up to date hair styles etc.' And more importantly keep our bodies in as best condition possible. I think we're doing well. Indeed my family is a blessing.
If I knew turning 70 was so much fun, I'd have done it a long time ago.
Janetr OKC4 -
Welcome Stacey in Van, debgoodlett2014, 62pinecomes, Vicki from S. Wi and Ter-Ber in VT.
Margaret, wise words about compliments, you've learned some great self-parenting there.
Pip wow that is one luxurious hostel!
Janetr Happy (as much as possible) birthday. So glad you were able to celebrate this past weekend.
Just skimmed as I'm super sleepy, for no good reason. Got my daily “out of breath” from walking Tumble, but other than a couple loads of laundry, that's been it.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Word for 2019: "GOOD" good attitude, good food, good times, good choices, good enough, feel good, GOOD! Word for November: get up and do it EVERY day!
Steps=5902 so far, vits=4.5 log=5 CI<CO=4, CI<250<CO=1 Tumble=3 mfp=5 AF=4
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Ginny in Ohio - Thank you,Happy birthday to you too. lol
Janetr OKC2 -
Only up to page 13!
Janet I’m so very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear Sister! I can’t imagine how hard it is to lose her!
I don’t remember if I mentioned my November goal? I am going to focus on maintaining my current weight (176) through the holidays and work on losing again in the new year (SW was 215). I have had so much trouble losing recently, and I can’t handle going any lower than 1200 calories (many days I don’t reach 1200).
Michele Congrats on thespoiler!!
Karen I thought the Temple Grandin movie was excellent! I always thought they should require it for schoolteachers to introduce them to seeing the possibilities. Terrific that your grandson will get to see her. I’m so glad he has you to work with him! It is such a wonderful gift! One of my families had grandma working with the student and it was SO precious even though I know it was exhausting for her!
Congratulations on Lilliana Belle! Makes me even more excited for our little one coming to our “babies” next month! The happy Mommy and Daddy are icing on the cake!!
Heather I’m encouraged to continue to walk while I’m up North despite the cold. I will be sure to have the right clothing for the weather! Since we are driving, I won’t have to worry about taking extra warm clothes.
KJ Joaquin and Miguel together – SO sweet!! Hope you are able to get the zoning you need to change things with your daycare!
Machka That bite sounds bad. Hope it heals quickly!
Luci in NC
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Tired 😴
3am woken up by my cell lighting up Navy Daughter knows I was homeschooled my high school some middle school years to take care of my Mom (caregiver at a young age),well Baptist Preacher Dad ,y health problems that their was no medication until the year Daughter was born to lessen side effects so I really didn’t ever do much of anything. She sent me her 1st concert ever the whole thing so guess I’m at my 1st concert too lol just from the cell seats 💺. Closest I’ll ever come especially now that I got a baby again y well hate bathroom lines with a bad bladder lol 😂. Something about a stadium full of ports potties 🚽 y long lines even if theirs real toilets 🚽 are not worth the ticket prices to me.How that singer didn’t fall is beyond me crowds holding up another one standing on top of them singing 🎤 dangerous but guess that’s what’s hip nowadays.
Amber Tx
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kelligifford88 wrote: »So. Been feeling the thoughts of my old ways rolling around in my head. Feeling a little discouraged. I have been with MFP for 9 weeks now. I log my diary every day. Following my specific diet without slipping. Yet here I am only 15 lbs down. Is this normal? I know I should be ok with it. At least I am down something.
Rant done.
I hope everyone is having a fabulous day.
Much love to all.
Hi Kelli.
Discouraged? You are averaging 1.67 pounds per week. Healthy weight loss should be around 1-2 pounds per week. You are doing great and making healthier choices for yourself. Maybe write down a daily affirmation and tape it to your bathroom mirror?
I think in our instant society we are tricked in to believing in instant cures. There's a pill for that or some miracle diet/exercise program that will have us down 50 pounds in a week. While the marketers are very good at spinning the words and images we have to remember they are in business to make money. Not set realistic expectations.
There are a few things you can do to get your mind off of just the scale. Take your measurements - all of them. You can add additional ones here on MFP. I measure my neck, chest, arms, waist, hips and thighs every two weeks. Watching the inches melt is very affirming. Also, a friend suggested I should take some pictures along my journey. When I compared where I was, two weeks in to the program and 60 days in I simply could not believe the difference in my appearance. Since we look at ourselves every day it's hard to see the changes that time brings.
Hope this helps. The gals here are very supportive and I find visiting the group frequently keeps me grounded.
SuziQ - Broward County - FL9 -
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Luci in NC-it's ok to take a break and maintain. From my personal experience, eating less than 1200 calories net doesn't do me any good. I tend to lose better hitting close to the net deficit set by MFP. 1200 just meets basic needs. It's also not unusual to go for a bit without a loss showing up and then one day it is there. Hang in there.
Ginny in Ohio3 -
Spring time veggies from our garden! My husband grew them, I picked them ... and we ate some of them for dinner tonight.
And me, on Oct 29th, with a cruise ship heading out behind me ...
Machka in Oz
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Hello one and all.
I hope everyone is having a positive day or will be having one. I was struggling a little late last week and through the weekend with changes in attitude. After yoga in the park on Saturday, which was such a positive experience, it made me realize I was slipping back to my old habits dwelling on the past mixed with some negative self talk. I have to remember to live in the moment and within each moment I am in control of m thoughts and feelings. It's not what others are doing to me it is how I react to those actions.
Welcome all who are new. I wish you all pleasant journeys filled with lots of milestones.
I have continued to track my not-so-young self's progress to my younger self and am happy to report that even though I am in menopause (2 years now) I am still kicking my younger self's b___. Is motivation tougher, yes, but I have so many more reasons to want to be a healthier version of myself. Am I fortunate, yes I am. I have not yet been hit with any major illnesses or accidents. I am in control of making any of those roadblocks easier, if I am healthier.
For those who are interested here is the not-so-young comparison. It can be done!!!!
Today is going to be a long day. We have our quarterly Town Hall meeting with our division's President. I decided instead of rushing in to get a seat I am going to go in to the meeting at the last minute and step in place at the back of the room. That will give me almost 60 minutes of leisurely walking! This is a big change for me as I normally would "mark" my place well before the meeting. I will also be skipping the darn bagels they serve and will opt to have my healthier breakfast.
The holiday season has certainly started in the office. A vendor brought in a boatload of premium danishes with coffee for the entire office (there are 120 of us that are not fully remote). Co-workers are bringing in treats and party leftovers. I am keeping strong and am reminding myself I would much rather enjoy a meal/time with friends instead of the instant gratification (and, then self-berating) of a treat in the office. Resistance is certainly more fulfilling. My mantra during the coming days/weeks is (yes, I have mentioned this before), "Nothing Tastes as Good as Thin" as per my favorite WW coach. I find myself changing "thin" to "healthy" "strong" "positive", etc..
Take care one and all.
SuziQ - Broward County6 -
Morning, afternoon and evening all,
Color me frustrated on the eating front. I think Karen in VA's comment about "food brain," is right on the mark--that my brain moves over into this headspace where needing/wanting food overwhelms every rational thought. You'll never see me sling the term "food addict" around, as humanity in general are all food addicts--if we don't eat, we die. But I am, I know, addicted to how food makes me feel, and for the last three months, I've lost the battle to not indulge in that addiction pretty much every day.
That feels like an overdramatic statement - but looking back down the last few months (and quite a bit of the rest of my life) my rational mind just steps aside and lets the 300-lb. me take right over, and I am mindlessly shoving food down my throat yet again. And if I don't do something about it, I'll be right back up to that 300 lb. person. I genuinely want to find the control panel and the lever that I can flip that pushes me back over to the rational side of eating. I know it's there. I've found it before - and in fact, found it twice since I started with this group of lovely people, losing 40 pounds in a six-month span. But, since I began exercising again, I've struggled with this every single day - and I'm 13 pounds heavier than when I started back in the gym July 30. Averaging more than four pounds GAIN each month is not where I want to be, but I need to keep the exercise, too.
I know the suggestions will come thick and fast, and I'll take them all as they are meant--but this morning, I just needed to say those words above to people who understand these feelings. On a happier note, the rest of my life from work to marriage to home life is amazing and happy. Getting to and maintaining a healthy weight is the last piece of my puzzle, and I need to find it and fit it in, so I can stop this sine wave from despair to joy and back again with how big my ever-loving backside is getting.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR11 -
Hugs Lisa
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I am here. Just trying to fit in m morning walk and exercise. Only gives me time to read, usually. Hugs to Janet R a bittersweet time for sure. Sorry about your sister's passing; but thrilled that you are celebrating a birthday! Happy birthday, friend!
ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)5 -
Good morning from the East Coast, just south of Charleston SC. Finally getting some cool weather here, so I am a happy camper! Currently have an online fitness group but would love to join y'all [you all] as well. Nutrition is KEY!
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Good morning from the East Coast, just south of Charleston SC. Finally getting some cool weather here, so I am a happy camper! Currently have an online fitness group but would love to join y'all [you all] as well. Nutrition is KEY!
I'd like to be walking, jogging or cycling that road.
Machka in Oz6 -
Yes, it is beautiful here in the cool months. Summers are brutal -3
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Thanks everyone for the encouraging words. They really did help me see the other side of my insecurities.
Today is a new day! The sun is shining here although it's a tad cool out. Good news is I love sweater weather!!
I wish everyone a beautiful blessed day!!5 -
Kelli and SCGirl, welcome! Just for SCGirl, I've got them used to y'all as a pronoun, no worries.
Back from the gym, and endorphins are flooding my brainpan once more. *sigh* Maybe it's like the old native superstition that attempts at perfection make the gods angry, as that is their bailiwick, not humanity's. I dunno. I'm just sick of the conundrum that the only thing I cannot seem to handle is... me.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR7 -
Thanks so much for your welcome note. Loved your thoughts, how very insightful they are! And very colorful! Are you a writer and blessed with that talent?
Looking forward to more conversation and motivation-2 -
Good morning ladies! Middle of the week here.
Machka - wow your veggies look great! I'm still cleaning up the garden but always making plans about what I'm going to plant next year. You are inspiring Love your photo, and you are becoming an old hand at dealing with your DH's neurological issues. Applause!
SuziQ - you are listing many good strategies in dealing with holiday treats. Thank you for that, I need to hear them! That chart you posted regarding weight loss was so interesting. Reminded me of when I was on WW and charted my weight loss. At the start, I projected a 1.5# weight loss per week, and projected over 12 or 16 weeks. I logged my actual loss on the same graph andit was encouraging to see that most of the time I was ahead of the projection. Of course, I was in my 40's and 50's, pre-meno. Now that I'm in my later 60's I don't have a lot to lose, but thinking it might be wise to weigh once a week and chart it again.
Lisa - right before I read your post, I read an email from a friend whose 35 y/o son was in alcohol rehab, recovering from a DUI/accident. I thought about how he hopefully had learned his life was unmanageable, and going through the AA steps to hopefully conquer his addiction. Some thoughts about my food addiction - feel free to skip. I haven't found a good way to confront that monster lately:And I thought too about my own inability lately to leave food alone when I'm not hungry. Is it a food addiction? Sugar addiction? Eating addiction - needing the act of chewing and swallowing? I was never bulimic = resorting to vomiting, but anorexic in my 20's, yes.New topic - dog with scratching problem doesn't have fleas. Vet says it's most likely dry skin from hot dry air - she does like to lay in front of the wood stove and pant. And her biting in the tail area? Anal glands. Gonna have a talk with the groomer about doing THAT job and rinsing the shampoo off her completely. Pup is also going to be on Benadryl twice a day for a couple weeks to see if she calms down, and I'm making sure she gets her Omega 3 & 6 treat.
I think about my siblings and my DH, whose appetites are perfectly normal. A package of cookies can go stale before being eaten. How can they eat one cookie then walk away? I know they don't have a conversation in their heads about it "maybe one more won't hurt. Maybe I should eat an apple instead. Since there are only 6 cookies left and DH won't eat them, I should eat them before they go stale." GACK!!!! How to shut up this sugar devil
The only thing I know is that the devil changes shape. I can go weeks or months or years walking away from or completely avoiding the binges. Then something new triggers it. For me, it's been physical problems - foot, shoulder, hernia. I'm pretty much recovered or have found ways to accommodate and get back on track but the sugar monster has taken up residence in my brain. And when he kicks the door open, nothing is safe - cookies, nuts, chips.
OK ladies, enough on that. Working on the shopping list. Despite eating too much out of the snack cupboard after supper, I do pre-log or at least pre-plan and make sure I'm eating yummy, nutritious food most of the day.
Make it a fabulous day!
Lanette
Foggy SW WA State4 -
SCGirl - Yep, I'm a writer. Thanks for the compliment! Our Heather in the UK is, as well, we both have books on Amazon. I also write grants for a living. Others don't necessarily advertise on here that they're writers, but each of us has our own voice in this place.
Lanette - Thank you for that - funny how we all have our names for our demons... Sugar is also a frighteningly strong pull for me--and if I pick up one of my favorites, which is candy corn, it leaves me shaking, sweating, and feeling like I'm going to pass out, of which I was handily reminded during the runup to Halloween. Seems like I have to check each year, and yep, still makes me feel like crap on a cracker. Unfortunately, not all sugar makes me feel like that, or it might be easier to walk away.
Have cooled down, time to get in the shower and get on with my day.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR4 -
Skimmed this morning as I was awake way too early!
Happy Birthday to Janet and Ginny.
Lisa - I am struggling right along with you and have been since the wedding and visitors in July. I have had a huge learning curve at work and found myself mentally exhausted most nights, I think I have it under control now but am struggling to stop myself from eating comfort food and too much of it and getting off the couch.
Well my alarm just went off so I should get ready to go to work.
Have a great day
Tracey in cold, snowy Edmonton3 -
Saw this one on Facebook this morning.
Lanette11 -
Big victory yesterday. I made cookies without eating any of the dough. I'm currently stuck at four pounds over my goal. Maintenance is hard!
Shirley4 -
has anyone in this group tried IIFYM? I did the blueprint and it said over 1800 calories... I am 62 years old and not a body builder for sure. I do a moderate level of exercise most days a week (30 minutes a day or more)0
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Machka- Snowpeas look delicious I love them but too exspensive here So it’s a treat like Steak.
Videos from Daughter still haven’t watched yet so busy with JR when I tried JR heard music 🎶 danced landed on his butt thanks to winter socks 🧦. So hugging 🤗 to make the owiiee better. Daughter wasn’t but JR is a singer y dancer type. She was musical guitar 🎸 player with serious face lol no movement.
Today steaming a steak 🥩.Yesterday boiled 2eggs 1 for each meal. Making broccoli 🥦 steamed. Corn in skillet. So full meal to have with crystal light if still hungry more broccoli.
Later will see what calories are left y my mood. Out of regular eggs only egg whites left now.
Amber Tx2 -
Sue in WA - I just remembered you asked about how I liked the alligator lopper. Love it! It feels safe, as you must have both hands on the handles and far away from the blade in order to get the chain moving. The weight isn't so high that I can't continue to use it for the 45 minutes to an hour before the battery runs out (black & decker - ryobi might be better battery life). And it was simple to add the oil, near where the blades come together. It also extended my reach, so I could take out branches as much as two feet above my head height.
The only caveat I have, and it's intrinsic to chain saws of all kinds, is that for the very small, flexible branches, it's not useful, as they just bend around the chain, rather than being cut. You can cut them if they're close together and you can grab four or five of them in the jaws, but for me the easiest way to deal with that was to keep a pair of hand loppers in my back pocket to deal with the very small stuff, and use the alligator to clear the big stuff. I don't know if Ryobi has a battery version of it, but I'm pretty happy with the B&D.
Later, y'all,
Lisa in AR4
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