WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2020

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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Karen - It was by universal acclaim. No contest. >:)

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

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  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Good Wednesday!

    Thank you ladies! I found myself negative self talking yesterday.....thought of y'all and reframed my thinking to positive! I am healthy and able to move. I have an infectious smile. Body image struggles some days. When it does, I think of all your positive thinking. <3

    Out to dinner with friends again. Trying to offer advice to the older gentleman who has had a stressful year, gained weight, has had several health issues. His wife unloads semi trucks for work, she is thin as a rail, eats once a day. He is medically retired, but can still walk. Back and neck issues. He isn't sleeping well. Trying to get him to understand that he may not be able to eat like his wife. Slowly I am helping him understanding foods and calories. He dropped the first 20 pounds quickly with only eating salads, but has plateaued. And says he is tired of eating salads. I am only offering tips and support. Sleep and BREATHE ! He stresses over everything so doesn't sleep so stresses more. He needs to sleep and walk first. Those would be priorities. The rest would probably fall into place then. I am trying to off set some bad advice he has gotten that is unhealthy. Positive thoughts for him, please.

    Came home and just wanted to plop down. One of the issues with being slow at work and darkness of winter. My NSV for yesterday was a put on my favorite music and danced for 30 mins. Heart rate in cardio mode for 20 mins. Got 10K steps-yay! I need about an hour to chill before sleep, so have been trying to curl up around 9 pm. Well, that is still a struggle. I need to be more like my husband. He says bedtime, brushes teeth, goes to bed. I set up the coffee, pick up, do last minute things, and 20-30 minutes later get to bed. Last night I got a shower and was heading to bed when I remembered something I had forgotten to do which led to doing a few things for husband, which led to 10 pm in bed.grumble.

    Amber-yay for JR and you!

    Allie- Have FUN!

    I am sure there is more but for now....
    Welcome to the new ladies- check in often, reply when feeling the urge. Some of us are awesome at replying to everyone, others (like me) reply as can. This is a strong, supportive, and talkative group!
    Thank you for all your support! I look forward to my times with you ladies. I love sharing your lives.
    Safe travels to those traveling!
    Healthy thoughts for all!

    <3
    Kylia in Ohio trying to be as active today!
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,316 Member
    JR pooped in the potty!!! Every time is a win!

    Hubby started a who gets more sleep argument Well JR answered truthfully lol. After Hubby found out how little sleep I get same or less as him depending on the day. A few blue moons anymore might get a few more. Hubby sleeps 9:30pm-3am goes straight to work).Lol JR even told how he dances,Blamed Pooh for the talking that keeps us up, Proudly answered NO y Nope to questions like you go straight to sleep right? Hubby gave me 30minutes said use my new charcoal soap 🧼 lock 🔒 the door.Was glorious 30minutes the soap 🧼 made my face so nice! Hubby said I get a surprise tomorrow he’s not sure what yet. Lol we shared Girl Scout cookies 🍪 last 4 on the package as we realized were hangry .Hubby starving on the diet he admitted.But will keep with it.

    Amber Tx

    Why is he starving? If he truly is hungry, and not just miffed that he is eating less than he was, then rethink what he is eating to add more volume so he gets more food. Switch out empty calories for something with substance. Add a bunch of leafy greens or other low calorie food to give him more substance. I know you said he said no to the dumplings, but that is what comes to mind easily at the moment so I'll use it as an example.....instead of the dumplings, add a HUGE salad with the same amount of chicken and he would have piles of food instead of a 1/2 cup of dumplings. Something along those lines. Last night I had a bag of steamed broccoli and cauliflower with grilled shrimp. Hubs grilled the shrimp on Monday for salads, but I wanted hot food so I tossed a bag of veggies in the microwave and had it with some shrimp instead.

    Okie in the TX Hill Country
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,316 Member
    Welcome Sherr in SE Missouri. Jump in whenever you like. We are a chatty bunch.

    Okie in the TX Hill Country
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Okie- That is what I was trying to explain to my friend last night. The funny thing is I am eating less processed foods for breakfast, lunch, and snacks which is helping me stay within calorie limits. I can't include dinner as we really do eat out a lot!I have noticed though that I make better choices at dinner if I have eaten well all day.

    😉👍
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Ginny- sorry you aren't feeling well. Could be dust or the crazy weather! Suggestion- saline spray. It will help clean and moisten. The air is really dry. Your DIL sounds like a keeper! Sorry about her mom, but she is lucky to have you. My current wallet is a wristlet. I love that it fits in my purse, but contains important stuff to easily carry alone or switch to another purse.
    Have a great day! We may actually see sunshine today!

    Kylia
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,274 Member
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  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,259 Member
    Over did it work yesterday with shoveling and doing major cleaning at DS. I ended up having leg cramps wake me up 3 times so I did not get the deep restful sleep.

    Working today. I am going to try today if someone is needing redirection to say to them what could you do to help right now.

    I tell you how it goes. I know there are one or two in this group who I could try this.

    :heart: Margaret
  • SuziQ113
    SuziQ113 Posts: 1,520 Member
    Hello everyone.

    Just a quick hello - I will catch up with everyone later. I thought some may be interested in the following article since we had some conversations regarding gut microbiome.

    https://www.cnn.com/2020/02/17/health/mediterranean-diet-microbiome-wellness/index.html

    Hugs to all and prayers for those in need.
    SuziQ - SFL
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,274 Member
    auntiebk wrote: »
    "Get to do"s and "chose well"s
    chose well: voicemailed surgery nurse and Dr P re: cancelled Joe’s procedure, called CHN for DEXA scan, they aren’t scheduling until their machine is fixed, chose to leave line dance class after an hour after another episode.
    Bonus: pruned another clump, abstained from evening chocolate.

    get to do: BB&B, Farmers’ market, Freddie’s, Post Office, invest 10 mins cleaning GuestBth, carry over 10 mins cleaning Living Rm, Master Bth, Kitchen/Laundry, Office, Master & Guest Bds, Firehall Board Meeting, install iCloud for Win 10, Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, bake bran muffins, call Carolyn D. Next week Shadow to Mini Pet Mart to shop for crate, get Shingrix vaccine. next month: follow up for DEXA scan appt. Reward: inventory seeds, plan garden, order replenishments.

    Kim, “…even if its…” :laugh: What a great education your folks gave you at 13.
    Heather “I won the burping competition… by universal acclaim” is there no end to your accomplishments? :laugh:
    Pip you ARE awesome at everything in my book.
    Okie it makes me a little sad that the good builders end up too big to quote on the little jobs.
    Rebecca Yikes!
    Lanette it was a rhetorical question, but thanks! Loved Kim’s other “work” examples/answers to the church work question. ;)
    Amber if I tried to jump rope, I’d end up with black eyes… ;) Hooray for JR’s “first”!
    Sherr in SE Mo you are welcome to jump in any time! Gentle ((hugs)) for your fibro pain.

    Pruned instead of cleaning, much more fun. Thought I was all better so went to line dance class. Oops, not quite, had to leave after just an hour, and was grateful to make it home without having to stop. Will try for BB&B this morning, taking ginger with me…

    Lighter, lovelies!
    f8qt1s098sxm.gifBarbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
    February: better than January.
    daily: steps=4478 vits=14 log=18 CI<CO=13 CI<250<CO=10 Tumble 5/10=12 mfp=18 outside=12 clean 10 mins=9 up hill=17
    wkly: BB&B x3=6, rx=2 dance=5 pack walk=3
    mnthly: board mtg= grant= review 20for20=1

    AWWWWW, thanks girlfriend, u made my day
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,616 Member
    edited February 2020
    auntiebk wrote: »
    Machka Beautiful pics! Do you ride on the sand? “booked a dentist appointment for that tooth” well done!
    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie

    No we don't usually ride on the sand. Riding on the sand is tricky ... you've got to do it just after high tide when the sand is packed and solid and when the water is receding so that we don't get salt water into everything.



    Hungry when "dieting"?

    Yep!!

    When I'm on a mission to lose weight, I'm hungry.1250-1350 calories a day (plus a few exercise calories) isn't much. But that's OK ... it's good to be hungry sometimes.

    And I can't always eat when I want to eat. I try to eat to a schedule, but on days like today, I didn't even notice that I'd missed my first food of the day (a little snack) until my stomach started growling ... and then it was probably another hour before I had a chance to eat something.

    But to help reduce the hunger, I do eat a lot of veggies ... usually steamed veggies. I'm not too much of a salad eater. I usually reserve salads for when I go out for dinner. Then I usually start with a garden salad, no dressing.


    Machka in Oz

  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,203 Member
    Newbie here, I'm 51. In the Southeast Missouri area across the Miss River from Memphis TN and minutes from NE Arkansas. I have been on MFP for several years. 2020 is the year of "NO" for me. NO sugar after years of saying I was sugar-free but still having "some" here and there. After years of putting my health 2nd, 6th or 12th, it's FIRST now. I've lost 10 pounds as of today this year. I really like the "Trim Healthy Mama" lifestyle of healthy carbs healthy fats forever way of eating, which my bad habits have been sabotaging since 2015. Just wanted to say HI! And sorry to jump in mid-month, I literally JUST found you on a night my fibro is got me wide awake in pain and fully awake when I should be asleep :| Sherr a.k.a. AvaMaria2012

    :) Welcome, Sherr, You have come to the right place. When I started on MFP, I made some rules for myself that have served me well. The first was that I ate only what I had planned and said "NO" to anything offered to me no matter how benign . Then "say no to birthday cake". I have more rules now and they have helped me get my life where I wanted.

    <3 Barbie from NW WA
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,203 Member
    The most important thing is that food should be a pleasure. It is not something to feel guilty about or to deprive yourself of. It should be celebrated as one of life's great joys. I always find, the better food I am eating and the more I am enjoying it, the less I need. Pleasure is a great dieting tool. Limit, deprivation and guilt just cause binging. Eating good food makes you feel GOOD. :D
    :) I agree with this completely. Interestingly, I tend to eat the same simple foods over and over and you plan and prepare amazing, varied, and interesting meals, yet we both feel the same way about the role of food in our lives.

    <3 Barbie
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Heather Yay! I hope the cake turns out. I bet it will. <3
  • JRsLateInLifeMom
    JRsLateInLifeMom Posts: 2,275 Member
    Barbara- Jumping rope at my age with my saggy boobs go up slap hard down over y over again lol. It’s not a black eye more a shoulder slap or rib ouch. Bras don’t contain me got new type that fits better still no luck. I got tubular breasts different sizes so not like most women so bras just aren’t going to fit just right. Makes it impossible to breast feed the one I got until 4th pregnancy then you can make some milk. I made 1-5punces a day for JR for 2weeks before it was gone he was the 4th pregnancy.Was happy to get that experience even if brief got him over his premature Csection birth jaundice.

    Okie - Yeah I bet that’s it he saw fries soup y pickles probably wanted more but went around a bout of mansplaining it instead of saying I want bigger portions. Made him green beans with a huge helping of mash potatoes a piece of chicken. Funny thing is the chicken y dumplings is actually a large portion same amount as the chicken. Hard to tell but the fries are the same amount as an ice cream scoop of the mash potatoes. Only difference is pickles instead of green beans. Lol he is allowed to eat 2 containers per meal if still hungry . He eats stuff besides what I made so me keeping his calories in balance is impossible it’s up to him. Snacking, restaurants with/without clients, moms house 🏡 ,y even sometimes his Sisters. He has more opportunities to cheat than I do it’s building will power . At least he’s trying my healthier meals to trying to count his calories in his head even if then he eats a box of cookies 🍪. Takes time to get used to a new routine.

    Amber Tx

    Today the dumpling meals (chicken y dumpling with 7 large wedge fries y 4pickles y ketchup. Crystal light peach tea. Then for snack not sure got a few choices.
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,316 Member
    Karen - I'm so sorry for the impending loss of your friend. Alzheimers is such an ugly disease!

    Hugs!
    Okie
  • LuciBThinner
    LuciBThinner Posts: 207 Member
    Heather Such a cute picture with the tough judge and your pictures!

    Pip I love the inside of your Sequoia, too. I hope it drives and is as comfortable as my Rav4. I couldn’t believe the difference in different brands! I love Toyotas and have had many over the years. Yogi appears to love his new limo! The rug in the back for him is beautiful! Nice seat covers, also.

    Amber Funny we have similar stories. I was fortunate to find an OB near the end who was the same age as I and had just had a baby a couple of months before me. She made the last month of my pregnancy and my delivery wonderful! I had kicked my abusive husband out before the baby was born, so I had a friend (who had just had a baby also) for my coach. I went through labor and delivery with two other new Mommies and it was a wonderful experience. 😊

    Ginny Hope you are feeling better today! Do you use natural treatment for your thyroid cancer??

    Kim What a lovely party you hosted! The bride and groom are very fortunate you are such a terrific hostess! I am amazed you were able to create a vegan meal! That is tough when making everything from scratch! The dinner area was beautiful, and everyone looks so happy!

    Machka Terrific pictures! I want one of your apples. 😊 I usually have an apple every day. They are like candy for me!

    Me days Every day is a me day for me. I love watching my dear Grandbaby!! I haven’t been able to work since I was 52. The only thing I don’t like about my time being free every day is that I never seem to get things done that I want done. I am trying to be more active and get more accomplished. So much to do in our house, but I have a tough time getting motivated. I watch way too much tv…hoping to get that under control soon. In a lot of pain most days…mostly left over from my injuries. It sucks, but I sure prefer it to the alternative!!!
    We have two trips planned this year. My DH’s 50th high school reunion in KS and a family reunion (my side) in a giant house in FL. Very excited about both trips as we never spend enough time with family and friends. I know we will have a wonderful time (other than the drives which I usually medicate myself for or I squirm around too much from pain). The drives are long and stopping a lot to walk around makes them even longer, so we usually push through. DH prefers it that way, and he is happier if I am semi knocked out so I don’t moan and groan too much.

    Michele So happy that Newman is alert and talking! The accident was horrific! I can’t imagine seeing it live!! Must have been awful not knowing if he survived it or not! Jeff Gordon was doing commentary and was visibly shaken while talking about it. It must be those driver’s worst nightmare to be reminded just how dangerous their sport!

    <3 Luci in WNC way back on page 47…






  • JRsLateInLifeMom
    JRsLateInLifeMom Posts: 2,275 Member
    Barbara- Jumping rope at my age with my saggy boobs go up slap hard down over y over again lol. It’s not a black eye more a shoulder slap or rib ouch. Bras don’t contain me got new type that fits better still no luck. I got tubular breasts different sizes so not like most women so bras just aren’t going to fit just right. Makes it impossible to breast feed the one I got until 4th pregnancy then you can make some milk. I made 1-5punces a day for JR for 2weeks before it was gone he was the 4th pregnancy.Was happy to get that experience even if brief got him over his premature Csection birth jaundice.

    Okie - Yeah I bet that’s it he saw fries soup y pickles probably wanted more but went around a bout of mansplaining it instead of saying I want bigger portions. Made him green beans with a huge helping of mash potatoes a piece of chicken. Funny thing is the chicken y dumplings is actually a large portion same amount as the chicken. Hard to tell but the fries are the same amount as an ice cream scoop of the mash potatoes. Only difference is pickles instead of green beans. Lol he is allowed to eat 2 containers per meal if still hungry . He eats stuff besides what I made so me keeping his calories in balance is impossible it’s up to him. Snacking, restaurants with/without clients, moms house 🏡 ,y even sometimes his Sisters. He has more opportunities to cheat than I do it’s building will power . At least he’s trying my healthier meals to trying to count his calories in his head even if then he eats a box of cookies 🍪. Takes time to get used to a new routine.

    Reason I started the prep meals is can introduce more exciting foods to our diet since can prepare each item slowly throughout a day or all at once. Plus JRs less hyper in the morning than near afternoon.He picks up speed! Lol like a roller coaster 🎢 morning he goes up y afternoon he speeds down full force wheeeeeee

    Amber Tx

    Today the dumpling meals (chicken y dumpling with 7 large wedge fries y 4pickles y ketchup. Crystal light peach tea. Then for snack not sure got a few choices. Exercise today too.
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,660 Member
    edited February 2020
    It's Wednesday ladies! <3

    Heather - if I lived close to you I'd find a way to finagle myself over for one of your delicious meals now n then, lol. Seems like I rarely cook anymore now that DH's eating is so limited. When I do, plenty goes into the freezer. But I have taken to actually sitting down at the dining room table for my supper, setting a place, slowing down and enjoying what I'm eating.

    I ran into an interesting fellow at Grocery Outlet yesterday in the cookie aisle. :DB) He told me about time he'd spent in Africa and also South America living with pretty primitive folks, and how grateful they always were eating their simple meals every day, and how happy they were and how they sang and took care of each other. NO social media! And how sad it was now, with his grandchildren totally tied to their phones.

    We agreed that if anything happened where the electricity was off for a long period of time and social media wasn't accessible, our role as old-timers would be as their "guides" showing them what was really important in life. It was kind of an "Another Auld Lang Syne" moment. <3 I didn't really know this guy but knew of him. Gave me a little lift.

    SuziQ - thank you for the link about gut microbiomes and Mediterranean diet. There's a lot to be learned from this! It reminded me of an article I read recently called "Why the Calorie is Broken" on the Blue Zones website. It's lengthy but gave me a lot to think about. What struck me was how our gut microbes actually may help determine if we get fat - citing a case where a lady received a gut microbe transplant from her overweight daughter but she gained 40# she was unable to lose with diet or exercise....hmmm.... Here's the link if anyone is interested: https://www.bluezones.com/2019/01/why-the-calorie-is-broken/?fbclid=IwAR0ljw-yH4PaI5FT6xW9pASIMX-VbfKwe3JJFCiDlIpMcVTsKcoG9cKqHf8

    Barbara AHMOD
    - I kind of thought your income from church question was rhetorical. B) I miss the old days of working in an accounting office and actually generating W-2's and 1099's.

    Karen in VA - sorry to hear about your friend with early Alzheimers. Early 50's is way too young to start mental decline like that. It's comforting that you have good memories of her. <3

    Went for my walk this morning, 24 degrees, road bare and dry.

    Time to get busy. Make it a good day! <3

    Lanette
    Sunny SW WA State

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,047 Member
    Debra California: Welcome to the group.
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    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,047 Member
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  • Workoutahloic50
    Workoutahloic50 Posts: 391 Member
    Karen-I’m so sorry for you and your friend.Ive seen a few vibrant people be taken by Alzheimer’s 😔.But you are right,she will be done with this existence.
    Amber-I jump rope and wear a sports bra 1 size too small-it’s a beast to take off when I’m drenched in sweat but it keeps everything from going everywhere lol.I also wear it during hiit for the same reason.
    Janet O-sorry you’re under the weather.I do hope the time you have to rest and reflect gets you where you feel you need to be.Prayers,(((hugs))),love❤️,and gratitude for y’all.
    Debby in Va