WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2020
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Routine- I am absolutely a creature of routine. I do the same things every day, at the same time. My life has hardly changed at all since the lockdown and I love my life as it is.Most people who know me make allowances for my OCD. They know i am a stickler for punctuality and are very respectful. They know I have to eat at the same times etc. They know i hate background music.
I have a very tolerant husband and friends.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
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Michele > Thank you very much x I totally agree with the social distancing. If you dont want to have to hang around and chat then its a bonus to have to social distance. The only problem is, if you want to hug someone so bad and cant lol My daughter is 15 years old now will post a pic below x The cake looks amazing (okay im going to stop looking.. getting hungry lol)
Carol > Thank you very much hun, my mom really liked it
Barbie > Thank you for the recipe, will have to try it out x Thanks @ the image. My mom really liked it
Grandma > Thats good to hear, some places are opening up but i feel might be too soon. There in hoards, just asking for the pandemic to continue.. ugh
Heather > Love the card, it is brilliant
Pip > sorry to hear of your fall. I worry about that all the time as if it happened I would not be able to get back up and would probably very much hurt myself. I hope you are feeling much better soon x
suzi > LOL @ the lettuce... i literally laughed out loud x Thank you for the compliment on my creation My neice always called my dad cute Papa ... lol
sndral > Welcome, I am very new here myself So glad you joined. I am very worried for those in the U.S as well as I feel they have opened up far too many things already and the second wave I feel will hit hard. Seeing all the protesters out refusing to quarantine it personally makes me so angry as they are putting other peoples lives at risk.. Trump is... well wont make this a political post as they normally dont end well but please stay safe x
Beth > Thank you for the welcome
Viv > Thank you so much, my mum chose the wording that she wanted on it x
Off to the doctors today to get my B12 jab (get it every 3 months) I think they will probably just come out to the car in the parking lot to do it. Hopefully, feel so nervous going in anywhere these days.. if i was to get this virus I would not survive it. Having to go hospital a month ago was very scary but at least it was not one of the big hospitals but a small local hospital. Had to have my foot looked at as there was a lump on it and it is considered an emergency with me being a diabetic. Turns out it was a veruca and she said it was nothing to worry about and told me what to get for it and while I was there I only seen one other person in the waiting room and he was sitting far away. The hospital was like a ghost town.
Well have to go and start cleaning and cutting up so fruit that hubby just brought back from the grocery store.
Stay safe everyone
Tonya xx
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Oh and I promised a pic of my daughter now she is 15 x
This is her with my Mom and Dad.. both images were taken just 6 months before my Dad lost his battle with cancer. This was the last visit I had with my Dad
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Hi, all,
Tonya - good call on skipping the political, as we try very hard not to bring politics or religion into the thread. Far too easy for others to get hurt without intent, far too much anger in today's world as is, we try not to bring it here. For many of us, it's a haven. Also wanted to express my sorrow on the loss of your father - he sounds like an amazing man.
Just off the rower and cooling down. After I peel off my sweats and take a shower, I'll be able to put laundry in. The routines I've either established or trying to:- Elliptical - MWF - 30 minutes, bumping up tension each week until at max. (started January 27)
- Rower - TTS - At 700 strokes now in 22.5 minutes, bumping it up 100 strokes each time until I get it up to 30 minutes, then start increasing speed and tension each time until at max. (Started back on it last week.)
- Food - log every bite every day. (Started this 11 days ago, have been faithful) Moving calorie restrictions down weekly until I get in the weight loss zone, and sticking there. Sneaking up on myself again.
- Laundry one load on Tuesday, two to three loads on Saturday.
For my own sanity, I also try not to start work until work hours (8:30 to 5:30), but am violating that today, as I have to hit the state website to try to snag some grant money for businesses reopening - can be for personal protective equipment, deep cleaning services on an ongoing basis, marketing to try to get back up and running, and so on. The site will post the application at 8 a.m., and there will be a mad rush trying to get into it.
Nine minutes, and I have to be in the shower. On the upside, this is the first time I've worked long enough and hard enough on the mower to actually sweat out. In previous sessions, I've only got to the "glowing" and slightly sticky stage.
Happy Tuesday, y'all,
Lisa in AR5 -
Morning Ladies
I'm still lolly gagging in bed with a cup of tea
Watching the birds and Alfie is snuggled under the covers next to me..all is well
Dad stories..my dad was the best .. he tried his hardest to keep food on the table and he owned a couple of businesses that went belly up.. but it never really effected home life..my mom being an alcoholic though she wasnt much when we were younger ,but as we were teens and my brother 4 yrs younger we were out partying too..
That's why dad got so involved in al anon .once mom got sober she went to her 12 step meetings and dad to his al anon.. there was never shouting or cursing and my house was the hang out for the neighborhood and we loved it..
My mom.died in 2000 at 65 of renal failure ..my dad after the 2 failed businesses went into buisness for himself and did odd jobs ,roofing ,building into his late 70s early 80s
He was a deacon in his church .one thing that really upset me when mom was really sick and we knew the end was near he would still go off to work and leave her alone..granted she was sleeping alot.one time a year before she passed he went on a 4 day trip with one of his friends and left mom alone with a dog who had just had puppies.. she was in no shape to take care of them or herself
He was one of those men who has different beliefs and he would as he got older and after mom.passed watch TV and watch Glenn Beck and that type of stuff on the computer.I tried spending as much time with him.as I could and he would talk and talk and talk. But I was patient and would listen.. the rest of the family not so much...so when he passed I bought a Boston Red Sox Urn and on the plaque we put get to the point dad,grandpa,Don.....he was a very special man and I miss him dearly ,as I was typing this a male cardinal sat on the air conditioning unit for a split second in the window.. the morning he passed when I got there and with all the commotion I looked out the window and saw a pair of cardinals.
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Good morning ladies!
Pip - how are you looking/feeling this morning? Geeze woman!
Here's my day so far, substitute "dog" for "cat" and "she" for "he".
Lanette
SW WA State
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OK, I don't often post videos but this is good. Look up The Holderness Family on YouTube ... they've got several of these parody music videos.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eI47Q_pfqsQ
Machka in Oz3 -
Lisa > Thank you very much and yes you are right about political / religious posts! Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and not always are they going to be inline with someone else and yes can cause argument and hurt Well done with all the exercise, keep it up!!
Grandma > Hope you feel better real soon. Thank you for sharing your story, it sounds very familiar to my moms story as her mom was an alcoholic when she was young and had to take care of her 12 brothers and sisters. My mom was a real life Cinderella..lol Your Dad was a hard worker by the sounds of it and wanted to take care of his family. I find men were allot different depending on the generation they came from etc as to how they react about certain things. My brother and I sure did our share of partying and getting into trouble in our teens which I have apologised so much for with my parents, don't know how they survived our teens to be honest with worry etc... we all learn and grow up at some stage2 -
For those sharing both loving and realistic memories of their father, and for every other woman who loved her father, I would say it's the only thing about other women I've ever truly envied. I've always wondered who I would have been had I been given the gift of a supportive and loving father. You are very fortunate.
Laundry's in, shower taken, single cup of coffee absorbed, time to go play grant games. Picture me girding my loins, or if you can't, see the spoiler:
Hee. Calvin & Hobbes 4EVER.
Love y'all,
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I've been silently following this thread since May 1st, my first real day back at MFP. Nice to hear everyone's stories, the Dad stories have brought a tear to my eyes, all so sweet. I love all the baby/ kid/grandchildren pictures also, and keep the sunny photo pics coming, please, as I woke up to snow and a bit of rain. I don't have a cell phone, probably the last person on the planet to not own one, or I'd post a photo. Oh, and the talking/singing dog with the Beatles song, had me laughing and crying at the same time. And, yes, I wipe just about everything down that I bring into the house, I don't go out often and when I do it all seems so bizarre, all of us with our face masks on. What will the new normal be, I wonder. Nice to meet you all...:) Pam in Vermont3
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View from the futon in the guest room this morning.
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yesterday's stats
Bike ride home 2 sumner station w/heavy bkpack- 1hr 3min, 141mhr, 12.6amph, 13.23mi= 501c
apple watch- 476c
walk sta 2 wrk w/heavy bkpack- fell- 8.03min, 113mhr, .54mi= 43c
apple watch- 50c
walk wrk 2 sta w/bkpack- 8min, 103mhr, .53mi= 16c
apple watch- 52c
Bike ride dome 2 hm- 17.53min, 144mhr, 8.7amph, 2.59mi= 161c
apple watch- 148c
total 757 cal2 -
I found a new walking route, so we've been seeing this before making our way down to the beach. It's a little quieter on the cliff tops ...
Have you been exploring your neighbourhood?
Machka in Oz5 -
morning - thanks for all your comments.
kirby wanted me to drive in today, i didn't, i rode in and ran to work like usual. still have a fat lip. gonna c if i can get into the dentist to check out my teeth. i was glad at least they didn't bleed. ate on the other side of my mouth. realized it's two teeth. one of the front teeth and one beside it. just another war wound, bloody knee doing ok8 -
Pam > Nice to meet you and welcome to the group. I am also new here so just getting to know people x I should be wiping everything down but I am so damn lazy to do it.. I do wash my hands alot though but should be taking more care. I don't go out hardly at all so no worries there but yes if you can catch from other items being brought into the house that is scary!
Pip > Wow well done on the calorie burn!!
Matchka > That looks so beautiful I have always wanted to go to Australia!! It is on my bucket list. I have to admit that I am a crazy fan of the aussie accent though.. I just want to go and listen to everyone talk!! it is the best thing ..lol
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Poor Rhody was chased by a pack of wolves this morning ... or so he thought ...
We were quietly exploring the yard ... Rhody on his leash, me walking beside. He had made his way to a particular part of the yard near the fence where he was pouncing on bugs, nibbling grass and generally doing the things he enjoys.
Then I, from my higher vantage point saw ... but not soon enough to scoop him up!
Down the footpath came the pack of wolves ... and straight up beside the house sprinted a well-fluffed Rhody, dragging me behind at about 150 km/h!!
I managed to catch him rounding the corner of the house and he started to calm but as we headed for the door of the house the pack of wolves must have rustled a tree. I thought Rhody was fluffy already but his tail quadrupled in size. I lost my grip on the leash but he was in the house and down the hall.
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OK, what really happened? 😁
We were quietly exploring the yard ... Rhody on his leash, me walking beside. He had made his way to a particular part of the yard near the fence where he was pouncing on bugs, nibbling grass and generally doing the things he enjoys.
Then I, from my higher vantage point saw ... but not soon enough to scoop him up!
Down the footpath came a man, his son and a small fluffy dog who spotted Rhody and thought he might make a friend. The small fluffy dog let out a couple friendly yaps ... and straight up beside the house sprinted a well-fluffed Rhody, dragging me behind at about 150 km/h!!
Behind me I heard ...
"It's a cat!"
"It's a cat on a leash!"
"They're sprinting!"
and then ... "Sorry!" ... but I couldn't respond ...
I managed to catch him rounding the corner of the house and he started to calm but as we headed for the door of the house the neighbour across the road was pruning one of his trees and it swayed and rustled noisily. I thought Rhody was fluffy already but his tail quadrupled in size. I lost my grip on the leash but he was in the house and down the hall.
Poor, poor Rhody! He's all right but he did have a very long nap today! 😁
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Pip: Uneven sidewalks are a curse, especially when one section in the direction we’re walking raises up and turns into a trip hazard. :grumble: I hope you’re already feeling better. :flowerforyou:
Peachy: I don’t wipe down my groceries. I usually shop early and the products are tidy in their display cases. I do wear gloves, though.
SuziQ: Lovely view! :bigsmile:
I had an unexpected call from our niece yesterday. She is an xray technician at a Beaverton area hospital and was called into work in order to help patients find their way to appointments. Her department is not open right now and she was happy for the opportunity to earn a paycheck. I was delighted to hear from her.
I’m up unusually early this morning. The dog wanted to go outside for a potty break. I cleaned up after him and am enjoying a cup of coffee. Outside it is misty/foggy and a few early fishermen are walking down the ramps to their boats.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon3 -
BeUncommon wrote: »Matchka > That looks so beautiful I have always wanted to go to Australia!! It is on my bucket list. I have to admit that I am a crazy fan of the aussie accent though.. I just want to go and listen to everyone talk!! it is the best thing ..lol
Tonya
There are actually several different Australian accents.
And apparently my Canadian-Australian accent sounds Irish. I've never been to Ireland, but evidently, to an Australian ear, I sound Irish. Go figure!
M in Oz
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Tonya Even if an infected customer or a stocker in a grocery store is wearing a mask, if they sneeze or cough, a small amount of the aerosolized mist still gets through the mask, and it contains lots and lots of virus particles. The mist-containing virus particles float in the air for quite some time, and land on surfaces in the surrounding area - boxes, bottles, cartons, packaging, cans, produce, other people, checkout counters, plastic bags in dispensers, grocery carts, display case fronts, scoops in the coffee grinding and peanut butter grinding areas…Everywhere. If the virus particles land on a slick surface, such as hard plastic, metal, glass, or smooth-skinned fruits and vegetables, the virus remains viable for several hours up to 3 days. That is why I take a bucket of soapy water and a washcloth with me when I go to the grocery store. If you haven't seen these videos, they may be of interest to you:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=238&v=vBvFkQizTT4&feature=emb_logo
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And this one showing how much masks really do help, even if they aren't perfect:
https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMc2007800?query=featured_home
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Karen in Virginia2 -
Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your dance teacher. So many of my students are a lot older than I am and I worry that they might die or "age out" of dancing during this long break and I'll never know what happened.
Jake just told me about his friend who has diabetes and cancer and although he had surgery on his foot less than two weeks ago, took his 93 year old mom out shopping all over town yesterday because some businesses were open.
My father was an awesome man who was well respected wherever he went. One of the many great lessons I learned from him was "The way to save money is to not spend it."
Heather, just like you, I have my schedules and procedures and the people who care about me understand that I am what I am. These qualities mean that I get things done, don't waste time on unnecessary stuff, and can be counted on to do what I promise.
Tonya, you are quite intuitive to realize that a political comment wouldn't be OK on this thread. We stay away from topics that could be divisive. We have so many topics that bind us together that we never run out of stuff to talk about.
Machka, I loved the story of Rhody's adventure.
Barbie in NW WA
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Machka- Lol Aladdin was my favorite lol 😂
Tonya- My Mom lost her cancer battle (30years she had it) I was pregnant with JR few months after. Your Daughter so pretty!
Got a call last night telemarking but it showed California same district as the hospital the Navy uses It hung up the second I tried to answer bam 💥! I panicked. Doesn’t help Navy Daughter won’t ever set up voicemail or answer her cell! I texted up a storm ! Nothing I was in a frenzy! Finally she answered calmed me down she asked if I googled the number. No I forgot to. Googled said Telemarketing. Still would have panicked Incase the number was reissued to a person on base. Darn telemarking needs to stop its the pandemic not time to call under 100’s of numbers! Especially since her base has Covid!
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Barbie - One of the reasons I like the Saga cruises is because everything is so well organised and punctual to the minute. I don't have to get myself agitated because things are not done correctly, or to my standard. It's very relaxing. On board I have my own strict routine with lots of dancing and exercise, so my whole day is taken care of. The programme arrives the night before. The excursions are very carefully planned and executed. All this precision and high standards is very rare, but I love it. If I have a complaint, they always put it right straight away. Who knows when we old people will be able to enjoy cruising again?
The wonderful holidays we used to take long haul were amazing experiences, but much more stressful. I used to stress poor DH out with my complaints. I made him cry a few times.
Done my bonus calories. AF day for me. Fake rosé wine.
Tomorrow is our 17th 'meeting anniversary ', so I'm now going to make a card and wrap DH'S present. Chocolate truffles and Elly Griffiths' latest. Also wash my hair.
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To all the newcomers ...
And something I need to remember these days as I attempt to do 115 things at once ...
And with that ... it's time for bed!
Machka in Oz
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What have you learned from this experience that surprised you?
Kim from N. California
How easy this was! I actually expected more ... I don't know ... emotion or difficulties or something because I kept reading about how hard this was for everyone. But the shutdown lifestyle isn't that much different than my normal lifestyle, it just got rid of the unpleasant parts.
How much I would love, love, love to keep going with the shutdown as it is for another 6 months ... maybe longer. Every time I hear that we might be relaxing the restrictions a bit, I have a wave of "not happy" emotions. I know some businesses need to open for the economy, but I'd dearly love to keep all the good parts of shutdown ... like staying home and away from people.
How many people have been out walking and cycling, and how friendly everyone is. Let's hope we can keep that part!
I could keep going, but it really is time for bed. I have to drag myself out of bed at 8:55 am to join a 9 am uni workshop. So happy I don't have to go in person!
M in Oz3 -
Machka > That was so funny I laughed out loud. I was imagining the entire scenario and then to find out it was a cat lol Give Rhody a big cuddle from me . Oh and LOL @ all the Aussie accents.. I probably would like them all. I also love the Irish accent so talking to you would probably make me giddy.. lol
Katla > That is great new for your niece as long as she is keeping her self safe at this scary time
Karen > that you very much for the video links and advice. Of course you are right and I really need to step up on being more aware of my deliveries during this dangerous times ((hugs))
Barbie > Yes I thought better of it as I started to type. Sometimes it is best to keep certain opinions to yourself as it may offend someone else. This is a very friendly board and certainly would not be as enjoyable if there were arguments etc. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but sometimes it is best to keep it to yourself
Amber > Thank you so much @ my daughter. It is so incredibly hard to lose a parent, I cannot even imagine those people that lose their own children (honestly I don't think I could survive that). I really show how strong people can be. My father had surgery when he was 40 to remove a cancerous tumour from his spinal cord in the lower back of his neck. It was the size of a lemon. They did not think he would survive the surgery and he was given his last rights. 4 surgeons including 2 neonatal baby surgeons were present when his surgery was done. Unfortunately they had to cut the nerves to his arms and legs to remove the tumour which was to leave him as a quadriplegic. When he awoken after the surgery in ICU, the first thing he did was try and pull the tube out of his mouth leaving, nurses, doctors etc in shock! (his arms were not supposed to work). His surgery was filmed because of it being such a delicate surgery etc. It turned out that my Dads arms worked just fine. (To this day nobody can explain it) It was in the paper and when the surgeons were asked about how it is was possible, they simply replied "There was something much bigger than us in the room during that surgery". It was pretty much classed as a miracle. He was still a paraplegic however and was in a wheel chair. He was a very proud, strong man and did not like to depend on anyone to have to get him things etc. My Dad literally taught himself how to walk again by watching his feet and using a walker. He had very little to no sensation in his legs but like a child he taught himself to do it. He would use his butt to get himself up stairs etc. With time the walker was gone and he simply walked. His balance etc was certainly not like normal and he had to be very careful not to hurt himself as he had very little feeling and could burn his legs and not even feel it. Sorry for the long post but he was literally a walking miracle and I derive my strength now to lose this weight from him. He was always so worried about me and although he will not see me lose it, I know how proud of me he would be and i truly believe that "Just because you cannot see it, does not mean it isn't there". In the end, over 30 years later it was found his kidney was full of cancer, they removed that last year and it spread to his lungs, liver and remaining kidney had a small spot. He was on cancer meds for a few months but his bowel movements were so loose his oncologist took him off of the drugs until more tests were done. After that happened they found that the cancer had gone to his bowels and within weeks had gone to his brain. He lived just a couple weeks after that and died on March 23rd, three days before my birthday. Everyday since, when I wake up I have to remind myself to breath and to get out of bed. I know this is not uncommon and everyone loses their parents someday but it was always something I thought I could not live through, but here I am and I am alive and trying to give myself a better life by losing all this weight.
OMG that would have scared me so much! Telemarketers need to bugger off all together. I am on the no call list for them and they still call all the time!
PS I am so sorry everyone for the huge book I just wrote... lol
Here is a photo of my sister Tammy and my two brothers Timmy and Terry and the largest one is me Tonya .. yes the 4 tees My mum and dad are the others of course. This was taken in August of last year, my last visit before my dad died.
That was very hard to post as I hate to post images of myself EVER.. so that was a big deal to do ..lol
Tonya
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(((Barbara))): So sad for the loss of your dance teacher.
Amber: I lost my mom more than 20 years ago. She had a fear of lung cancer. She may have had it in the end, but it didn’t cause her death. She died of emphysema from smoking cigarettes. :sad:
I think telemarketing is an invasion of privacy and always hang up on them. When I block a caller they just shift to another line and still invade my privacy. I am not pleased with this. There used to be a no-call list, but that went away with the advent of automatic dialers. We block them anyway. It isn't perfect but the number of sales calls has dropped somewhat.
I looked up the Covid stats for our area. Our county has no active cases and no deaths. I rarely see a person in a store who is not wearing a mask. Portland and Salem are the two areas in Oregon with the most cases. I think Washington County numbers are also higher.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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I found a new walking route, so we've been seeing this before making our way down to the beach. It's a little quieter on the cliff tops ...
Have you been exploring your neighbourhood?
Machka in Oz
We have been exploring all the little side roads. We’re both into gardening, so it’s good to see how others have treated their front gardens. We have also been walking out into the countryside. This is a 5 minute walk from our home.
As for accents, do you mean Northern Irish, West Irish, Dublin Irish, Belfast? There are so many accents, even in different parts of Belfast City. 😂 I can do quite a few of them! 😂7 -
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