WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2020

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  • LisaInAR
    LisaInAR Posts: 2,020 Member
    SuziQ113 wrote: »
    LisaInAR wrote: »
    SuziQ113 wrote: »
    Hello

    Suzi - I sent you an invitation to the private group where we're allowing ourselves to discuss exactly those things. It's been cathartic for many of us.

    I asked to become part of that group and did not receive confirmation. I think that was during the MFP issues. :smile:

    I'm so sorry! Had I seen your ask, I would have made you a member, but it never came across. My apologies.
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,259 Member
    Suzi not sure of the process to join.
  • LisaInAR
    LisaInAR Posts: 2,020 Member
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/123702-women-ages-50 - for those interested in the group. Many are members already from earlier days, when it was just sort of an advertisement for this thread. I have already turned away more than a few who aren't on the thread, but asked them to come here first, join the conversation, and then decide whether they want to join the group still.

    Much of the initial catharsis has, I think, run its course--but anyone who is part of this thread is welcome to join. It does impinge on all the things we choose not to deal with on this thread, including religion and politics, so yes, you will see opinions that are not the same as yours. If that is uncomfortable for anyone, I would suggest that they not ask to join.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Barbara: Indigo Bunting=beautiful bird. Inigo Montoya=funny movie character from Princess Bride. :wink: (I really enjoyed that movie, silly as it was.) When DH had his last round of eyedrops the pharmacy gave him samples because the RX cost so much money. He doesn’t remember the name of the drops. :ohwell:

    Heather: Here in Oregon there have been some upticks in Covid 19 cases. Our county is still doing very well compared to others. We’re avoiding Portland and Beaverton, although I did have a procedure in Portland. They were meticulous about safety. :flowerforyou:

    SuziQ: I’m happy to see you posting again. Your worries about power outages are something I haven’t worried about in years. We have been very lucky. Buying a gasoline powered generator for the freezer makes some sense to me. I imagine you’d want it outside on your deck to keep the fumes away. :heart:

    Allie: Your thoughtful approach to Sanibel makes good sense to me. :star:

    Lisa: I think the opportunity for discussion of more controversial subjects is a gift. Thank you!


    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,291 Member
    I put henna on my dark hair which gives it red highlights, but the roots are subtle. I do it every two months or so.

    Still doing taxes. I would so much rather eat something!

    Annie in Delaware
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,324 Member
    Allie LOL for a minute, I thought you were getting one of thesecllnnyofvgzc.png

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    OMG RITA!!! Those temperatures! Is your humidity really low? In normal times when people go to restaurants, do they have misters to keep people cool?

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    Rita's little Francesca DOES look yummy! LOL
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    So yes, I think you missed the explanation of it.

    Karen in Virginia



    ...

    The humidity is low thank goodness. Mid to low 30’s in am and Dow to about 7 in afternoon.

    Gotta go talk later!

    RV rita
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,714 Member
    Pip - Wow! That is a huge drop! In the uk you usually fix the price according to the condition of the house and normally the survey is just a formality. Old houses are old houses. Ours is nearly 100 years old. Most people rip everything out anyway! New everything! Every house round here has been totally redone. Are you sure you couldn't get a better offer? I'm sure you understand the US system better than I do. :o<3 Your house is utterly charming.

    Had a quick look at the 'group', which I joined at its inception and didn't use. I'm a bit afraid to start! :o:p I have far too many 'bees in my bonnet'.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • SuziQ113
    SuziQ113 Posts: 1,520 Member
    Thank you Lisa. MFP has its momenets.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Allie: Good luck with your plans. I hope you’re able to enjoy your lovely home, vacation when you want a change, and be happy. :flowerforyou:

    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    o:)>:)o:)>:)
  • SuziQ113
    SuziQ113 Posts: 1,520 Member
    edited July 2020
    My favorite flowering bromiliade. When fully bloomed the stamia are bright purple. When the flower fades the plant dies but typically has two babies. These take 2 to 3 years to bloom.

    For some darn reason MFP will no longer let me add pictures from my phone. Urg.
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,714 Member
    edited July 2020
    Pip - I think over here that as long as it is liveable in and resellable you can get a mortgage. Your system sounds much more strict. I have often wondered why people in the US were doing up in order to sell. Here you can sell as is without too much trouble. Doing houses up is what you do after you've bought. Sometimes people prefer a wreck. People don't want someone else's decor.
    If you want perfect you buy new.

    In France the natives were amazed that the British liked buying their old properties. The French wanted new. I guess all that is well past now with Brexit and Covid. :'( My friend got to her home in France very easily. I still think she is brave to drive so far alone. She says she has emerged into the light from a gulag! :D

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    barbiecat wrote: »
    :)Lisa, Thank you for setting up the opportunity for venting for those who find that practice therapeutic. I took a look at it for the first time this morning and saw how many posts there were on so many different topics. I read just enough to remind me why I'm glad we don't have such discussions on this thread. When someone is venting, they are likely to believe that others who are reading their words are of the same mind and will welcome hearing what they say when, in fact, there will be many who not only don't agree with them, but are hurt and sad by what they say. I strongly believe in free speech and the rights of all to speak their minds, but I believe also in my right to not have to listen. I don't watch the news or read the paper but I will defend to the end, the importance of the press.

    <3Allie, I'm sorry to hear that there is a roadblock to your dream. As you wait, you can continue to clean and organize your possessions and assess your finances so when the door or window opens, you'll be physically and emotionally ready to go through it.

    :) Jake used his Ninja Foodie the last two days to make hot dogs and buns that taste like they were grilled outdoors. Today he'll fix the chuck roast with multi-colored potatoes, carrots, onions, and celery. He has been watching lots of cooking videos in preparation.

    :) I just keep on walking dogs, dancing,working in the yard, riding my exercise bike, knitting, and attending Zoom meetings. Don't do much housework.

    :) Temps here are in the 60's during the day, 50's at night with occasional light rain.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA


    Hmmmm…this is not true for me. I don't assume that others reading my rants agree with me. I do try to remember that when other people vent, it is not about me, it is not personal, and the opinion may well be something I disagree with. But that's OK with me. I don't find it hurtful or sad to read strongly worded opinions that differ from my beliefs. I find it interesting. I realize not everyone is like me. Thus, I am very grateful for the Group Lisa set up, where I can feel free to opine without worrying if I am stepping on somebody's toes. :)

    Karen in VIrginia
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    (((Allie))) So sorry.
  • Loumarberts
    Loumarberts Posts: 22 Member
    Hello all! We are sweating pounds off here, humidity makes the workout feel like it is lasting all day. :)
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,818 Member
    Yummy Barbie!
    I prepped my meal at 10:30 am for noon fixing! Wild rice, broth, shiitake mushrooms, and a splash of shiitake mushroom dressing. When I plated up I added some blue cheese crumbles.💖. Also had a bagel with slices of pepper jack cheese, a cup of guacamole and tomato/olives/ and a splash of shiitake mushroom dressing. Dessert was a Big Fig raspberry bar and coffee.👍
    💖Rebecca
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  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    o:)
  • 1948Peachy
    1948Peachy Posts: 1,511 Member
    Allie ~ I was just wondering....perhaps you could explore opportunities on one of the other beaches close to Sanibel Island and then you would be close enough to visit it often. The cost of living might be better also.

    Carol in GA
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,098 Member
    Yes Carol your right,i asked a friend who is a real estate agent in the North Port area that i have known for years
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,047 Member
    :)
  • evie1958
    evie1958 Posts: 864 Member
    Allie, I am a firm believer in there being a reason for everything, so I believe that, for you, moving to Sanibel at this time was not the right thing. This means, of course, that there is something better coming along for you.
    Kim, snowman curtains in July! LOL
    Pip, sounds like you and Kirby did okay. I agree that it's sometimes better to just bite the bullet and take what is offered, rather than have to run around and try to get things done that you won't benefit from. I'm sure you're right, the person who is buying it is probably going to fix and flip, but you will be doing your own thing by then, so more power to the flipper! I'm so excited for you two starting the next chapter of your lives! :) Happy Birthday to Kirby!
    Stepped on the scale this morning, it was a good day! Not official wi day, tho, so no marking that weight down, hope I can keep this up til Tuesday! I have not been snacking at night, this is a huge problem of mine, so I am happy to be in control of it, so far anyway. I have been staying at least close to my calorie goal every day. I rode my bike to work yesterday and today, but now it's kind of raining, and I'm not tough like Pip and Machka so I may be calling hubby to come and get me. Still close to 3 hours til quitting time, tho, so the weather could change a few times between now and then so we shall wait and see.....
    Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
    Evelyn, Vancouver Island