WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JANUARY 2021
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Rebecca - if you send me your address, I’ll gather up some things to send you. I believe I have calendars and cards and pictures and all kinds of stuff. You don’t need to reimburse postage, I’ll be happy to see someone use it. It may take me a bit to gather it and get it boxed.
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I have loads of work to do putting Christmas decorations away, and DH is sleeping so I can't get that done for now. The conversation here is wonderful. Right now, I'm chilly & I'm marking my spot!1
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okiewoman510 wrote: »Rebecca - if you send me your address, I’ll gather up some things to send you. I believe I have calendars and cards and pictures and all kinds of stuff. You don’t need to reimburse postage, I’ll be happy to see someone use it. It may take me a bit to gather it and get it boxed.
Okie in the TX Hill Country
Me too! I was a teacher. Explains why I have stuff.0 -
okiewoman510 wrote: »Rebecca - if you send me your address, I’ll gather up some things to send you. I believe I have calendars and cards and pictures and all kinds of stuff. You don’t need to reimburse postage, I’ll be happy to see someone use it. It may take me a bit to gather it and get it boxed.
Okie in the TX Hill Country
Sent you a message. Thanks again!
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margaretturk wrote: »okiewoman510 wrote: »Rebecca - if you send me your address, I’ll gather up some things to send you. I believe I have calendars and cards and pictures and all kinds of stuff. You don’t need to reimburse postage, I’ll be happy to see someone use it. It may take me a bit to gather it and get it boxed.
Okie in the TX Hill Country
Me too! I was a teacher. Explains why I have stuff.
How sweet! Let me send you my addy.💖😁👍
(I almost sent it saying let me send you my daddy haha!)
Darn spell check!
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Ok made the banana bread.
I can be relied upon to " do what I say I will do", my husband can be so silly. Yesterday I SWORE I said " I want to make banana bread this weekend. What he said I said was that I would make it today. Aaack!
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Stats for the day-
Other- dust, vacuum, laundry- 1hr 51min 21sec = 513c
Other- bake 2 batches doggie treats, etc.. est, 3hrs= 300c est
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(((Allie))): I hope you feel better. I’ll second Tina’s advice. Take it easy.
Pip: I love the photos of your three dogs. They remind me how wonderful it is to have an old dog. Our old dog is a cancer survivor and doing well so far.
Carol: I’m beginning to miss so many things that have disappeared due to lock down. I run errands and buy food. I haven’t seen dear friends in too long to think about. I long for vaccination against covid for all of us.
I’ve had these three wishes forever-- I wish for good health, adequate wealth, and three more wishes for us all. I want to add being connected with family and good friends. I’m doing okay with family but there are dear friends that I sorely miss.
Katla
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Well, kind-of back in the groove. I rode the recumbent bike today. Work tomorrow. I’m thinking that I MAY ride the recumbent bike if I have time.
Got all the outside Christmas decorations in. Not put away. Some things still have to dry off
Right now I’m making a chocolate cream cheese cake for Vince. I just am not telling him that there’s cream cheese in it. Cream Cheese was on sale. Afterwards, I’ll go outside and hopefully finish bringing in the Christmas decorations. Update: he thinks it's dry, I don't.
M – I for one never get bored hearing about your situation. Gives me lots to think about. I am in constant awe of you. Thank you for your explanation.
Melodybug – welcome. I like your name
Went to Aldi this morning, but first to Target to return some protein powder I got. They reformulated it (boo) and I have a strong suspicion that I won’t like the reformulated stuff. So I returned it. Went to Aldi since I’ll probably make a meatloaf Tues, the meat needs to defrost. Looks like the chicken thighs are defrosted so I may make those for this week tonight.
SuziQ – how wonderful of your reps!
Penny! – So great to see you. Jess and Colby are into online video gaming, I’m not. I couldn’t get over how much they played while they were here. Yes, it’s a sort-of relaxation for some people. I don’t find it very relaxing, tho. Come back!
Anne DE – (((HUG)))
Tina CA – (((HUG)
Michele NC
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Lisa-relatives who don’t stay in touch can be frustrating. I have one brother who lives here. He just contacted me for the first time since January (he has been busy). He keeps having to change his phone number for various reasons and never lets us know. My kids are a bit better, and while I don’t phrase it as you do, I have been known to send a couple of texts with that as the intent.
SuziQ-I also like to give thought to buying something with gift cards I wouldn’t normally buy for myself. Son got me an Amazon card as part of Christmas. I am narrowing down what I will get. Possibly a nice set of led candles.
Penny-the polar bear episode is frightening. Such things happening is probably why I have never been interested in sleeping in a tent! I try to avoid doomscrolling but I think it can be easy to slip in to.
Annie-sorry to hear about your Aunt. Hopefully your parents haven’t been visiting . . .
Julie-good thesis progress. Also good idea scheduling meeting to present progress-those sorts of mini deadlines will be helpful. What is your thesis topic?
Spent day puttering and getting small things done. When I got doors replaced, the gentleman took off one of the old door stops and split it. I was not happy with how he put it back (not even and huge bump and when he put putty on it, it made it worse. Was going to put in a new one, but would have to mitre cut and the new pine isn't quite the same exact size as the old (1956 pine here). Pried off old jam, scrapped off all the putty, got some gorilla glue and clamped it together. Have put it back up-looks ever so much better. A bit of sanding and new coat of paint and no one but me will know! Very pleased with myself.
Work tomorrow. I have not checked work email since last Wednesday. That feels good, but I will pay for it tomorrow morning. Think I may wear at least more actual "work tops" for the New Year. Most days I am not in office or anything, but I actually miss wearing some of my work clothes! Can't hurt to try to change things up and keep a right mental attitude for the rest of this work from home stuff.
Got in-boxes cleared out last night. Going to go through junk mail and dump it (every so often a valid email ends up in junk).
Protien-been looking at my macros and I think I need to increase protein without significantly increasing calories--any good ideas?
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Hello everyone.
Today was very productive. I was able to get almost everything I planned to get done, done. I decided I wanted to keep the Christmas lights up for one more week. They are inside my windows so the weather will not hold me up if I decide to take them down during the week. I simply love the light they through off – especially when I am lying in bed reading.
I have been tracking all of my intake and making sure I am getting enough physical movement in. I really let things go in this area from October through the end of the year. I am taking back control before it gets too hard to get motivated. I know it has only been three days, but my body is appreciating the better food choices.
Peggy – I was so happy to see your posts. I am sorry it has been a down year for you. I miss hearing about your adventures and seeing your bread!! Maybe this year I will be motivated to attempt making bread from scratch.
Allie – Please be careful. I love the Sound of Music.
Tina – Sending positive thoughts the procedure takes care of your excessive situation. Like you, I am so very happy with the mileage on my new car.
Michelle - I am certainly blessed at work. I can honestly say I work with a great group of people.
I finally finished mystery puzzle number two! It was difficult. With no picture as a guide and many dark, dark colors it did take me some time. The next one will also be difficult but at least it is the world map. 😊 I will not start it until the puzzle board is received. Pictures of the completed puzzle and the next one below.
I hear the last load of laundry spinning, need to get it in the dryer so everything is dried and put away before I call it a night. I also need to have a small snack. I am well below 1000 calories today (just not hungry and eating mostly plants). I really do not like being below 1000 calories – it isn’t a healthy habit.
Hugs to all and prayers for those in need.
SuziQ – SFL
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Penny! ... so glad to see you post again! I've missed you and your stories about life at the North Pole! So very sorry, however, to hear of the Polar Bear incident.
Doomscrolling ... I had to look up the definition of this word. I live with someone who is prone to doing this, as a result, I purposely do just the opposite or ignore news altogether. Most of my family deals with anxiety issues ... we don't need to borrow trouble from tomorrow as well. I can only deal with so much at one time.
Allie ... be sure and call your doctor if your surgical site is still uncomfortable tomorrow.
Tina ... I'll be praying that your procedure gives you some relief.
Pip ... will you ever have an additional dog to be a companion for Yogi? You are such a good dog mom ...
Finally, back on track with my IF lifestyle and I feel much better after just 3 days. Appetite correction is setting in and I'm hoping this will spur me on to losing my excess weight once and for all. Younger son is being encouraged by his counselor to rejoin MFP. While I haven't used the logging features in quite a while, I may start again for his benefit so he can copy meals on to his diary. I wish he would try IF, but he says it's not for him. As we all know, finding a successful path to weight loss and health is highly individual.
All the Christmas decorations have been taken down and put away. Now I'm working at reorganizing son's apartment belongings. Only Christmas decoration I've left out is a white wooden church that lights up. I didn't have batteries around Christmas, so I slipped a cheap LED votive inside the church on Christmas Eve. I think they're supposed to last around 60 hours or so. While the church does not appear to be lit up during the day, each morning when I come out into the kitchen to start the day, that little votive is still flickering away! My family thinks I'm nuts, but I've decided that's God giving me a little wink each morning and I'm not putting it away just quite yet.
Beth near Buffalo6 -
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Penny-the polar bear episode is frightening. Such things happening is probably why I have never been interested in sleeping in a tent!
I have had my own bear/tent encounter -- back in the mid 1980s. It is really the only time in my life where I truly thought I would die. I have not tent camped again. We have an RV. That is the only way I will camp now. I know first hand what bears smell like when they are within feet of you, and I have been hiking a few times, where I am sure I have been stalked. I could smell it. One time in particular, I will put in the spoiler, just in case anyone will be triggered. My heartrate has increased, just recalling it.After my divorce, I was not thinking clearly. My oldest son was 6 at the time, and I felt so guilty that he and my other son (who was just 2) had their lives so disrupted. My oldest son is gifted, and he was accepted into a Johns Hopkins University summer gifted experience when he was 7. I moved heaven and earth to make it happen for him, and it meant that the three of us traveled from Kansas to Northern Virginia, and lived in an extended stay hotel for three weeks. I had lived in the DC/Northern Virginia area before, so I felt confident. While this isn't critical to my bear story, the trip was an important experience for my oldest son to believe that I could take care of him and his brother with out his dad around . . . and it let to our weekend hike.
Anyway . . . . One Sunday, I took the two boys up hiking in the Shenandoahs. It was a beautiful day, with lots of people on the trail. At one point, again, not thinking clearly, where most people turned around and went back to the parking lot, I told the boys that we would go on a bit farther. I don't know, maybe we hiked another 30-45 minutes, without seeing another soul. It was starting to get dark. Then I smelled the bear. I didn't see it or hear it, but I knew it was out there. The boys were exhausted, and Ben, my middle son, remember, is only 3 years old. I calmly told them that we needed to head back immediately, and walk quickly, but not run. I also encouraged them to sing, tell stories, talk as loudly as possible. The smell never went away, which is what lead me to believe that it was walking parallel to us in the forest. Ben started crying because he was tired. (I had not yet told them that I suspected there was a bear nearby), so I would carry him for as long as I could, then put him down, hold his hand, and tell him to walk quickly. That would work for a while, then he would cry. I would carry him for as long as I could, , put him down, he would walk for a while, then cry. OMG The whole time, I am smelling the bear. I finally lost it at one point, and asked him if he wanted to be eaten by a bear. Because if we don't hurry up, that's what could happen. (Remember, still traumatized by the divorce, and not thinking clearly). My threat didn't help. I apologized. I carried him. Finally, we got to the parking lot. It was nearly dark.
That was not the stupidest thing I have ever done in my life, unfortunately, but it is the time that I put my children in the most risk ever. I could have gotten us all killed. So stupid. The good news, I guess, is that because of my earlier bear/tent experience, I knew how close that bear was for me to be able to smell it. Close. Really upsetting.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR
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Penny! ... so glad to see you post again! I've missed you and your stories about life at the North Pole! So very sorry, however, to hear of the Polar Bear incident.
Doomscrolling ... I had to look up the definition of this word. I live with someone who is prone to doing this, as a result, I purposely do just the opposite or ignore news altogether. Most of my family deals with anxiety issues ... we don't need to borrow trouble from tomorrow as well. I can only deal with so much at one time.
Allie ... be sure and call your doctor if your surgical site is still uncomfortable tomorrow.
Tina ... I'll be praying that your procedure gives you some relief.
Pip ... will you ever have an additional dog to be a companion for Yogi? You are such a good dog mom ...
Finally, back on track with my IF lifestyle and I feel much better after just 3 days. Appetite correction is setting in and I'm hoping this will spur me on to losing my excess weight once and for all. Younger son is being encouraged by his counselor to rejoin MFP. While I haven't used the logging features in quite a while, I may start again for his benefit so he can copy meals on to his diary. I wish he would try IF, but he says it's not for him. As we all know, finding a successful path to weight loss and health is highly individual.
All the Christmas decorations have been taken down and put away. Now I'm working at reorganizing son's apartment belongings. Only Christmas decoration I've left out is a white wooden church that lights up. I didn't have batteries around Christmas, so I slipped a cheap LED votive inside the church on Christmas Eve. I think they're supposed to last around 60 hours or so. While the church does not appear to be lit up during the day, each morning when I come out into the kitchen to start the day, that little votive is still flickering away! My family thinks I'm nuts, but I've decided that's God giving me a little wink each morning and I'm not putting it away just quite yet.
Beth near Buffalo
Probably not. We live in an apartment now. It was different when we owned our home. And yes, I’m an awesome mom and trainer 😎😜3 -
Ginny - it’s good you can take care of some work around the house yourself. I would take on carpentry and have taken on toilet repairs a few times. My mother would not even hang a picture, I don’t understand it as her Mother had her own tool drawer that no man was allowed to touch without her watchful eyes making sure the tool didn’t leave her sight and end up in my Grandfather’s toolbox.
Suzi - the mystery puzzles look like a lot of fun along with a need for patience.
Doomscrolling - I didn’t know there was a word for it, but I gave up news a long time ago. When there is a new crisis I will see what’s going on, but I don’t read or watch for days on end as I find myself getting down or very anxious very fast.
Beth - I think that little church with a battery candle is a brilliant idea.
Flea - that would have been terrifying.
My daughter finally posted some pictures of the birthday girl.
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Hi Gals,
Barbie – thanks for getting us started on 2021!
Penny – so glad to see you!
Rori – Levi and I send good thoughts your way many mornings on our walk
Pictures – kids, dogs, and amazing before/afters keep them up!
So my business’s whirl wind of December is over- personalized items for Christmas is always a hot item and this year was no exception… I love the cash flow but it is stressful. The holiday season is always a sad time for me, this year was no exception – but so different; I am bubbled with 3 others (so 4 total with me) and my bubble adds my Mom in when she is visiting. So we did a Friendsgiving in November and then a Yule celebration on the 20th of December. Christmas was quiet, which I really needed as I embroidered up until 4pm on the 24th. For Christmas Dinner I made French onion soup for 3 of us and pumpkin cheese cake. Then Mom joined us for New Years and we did fondue. She was here for 4 days, I am blessed to still have her in good health – she is 91 (92 in march) in her own home and driving still. My mom is an abused woman and that is hard for me to see
In a spoiler my venting on abuseMy brother is the abuser of both Mom and I, I recognized it early and pressed charges – he spent 16 months in jail, 35 years ago. So this is something that has been going on for 35 years…. But Mom believes that a man is always right and that as she was older when she got pregnant that any bad behavior is her fault (old eggs). **please understand that I do not believe as she does; but she is set in her beliefs and would not change 20 years ago so is even less likely now** After 16 months in jail he stopped beating us, it leaves marks and instead has perfected the hateful speech and threats as a way to feel powerful. My brother lives in my mom’s home. She pays all bills, does all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and jumps to his every wish. My mom is so tired and so beat down, it saddens me to no end. I have had every police/medical/legal/senior service I can dream up try to help me but my mom is of sound mind and will connivingly lie to everyone. My brother’s reaction is so fear inducing that she will not go there. My brother was diagnosed with terminal colon cancer about 3 years ago and given 3 months to live – he decided to never go back to the doctors and is still living now. He has gotten weaker and is in pain; the more pain the more he lashes out. The things he says to his Mother (my mom) are inappropriate to this forum. So she comes to my home a shell of the woman she was - she slept each night for 10 plus hours and finally told me that it felt so good to sleep knowing she was safe. I am happy to provide this but feel so sad, and have my hands tied. Abuse is so hard.
And my Mom is not without some responsibility, she has had 35 years to build boundaries, to stand up to his bulling, to say NO – and when I was a kid she was that mom, but after my Dad died that mom died with him. I think 3 years ago she was very sad to know her son was dying and yet looking forward to the abuse to stop, but neither has happen and she feels bad to be sad he is not yet dead. But really it is not about death but instead about the stopping of the abuse. The god she believes in has given her this to bear because she is a bad person, so that adds to the depressed state – no one is there for her. I have her come here when she will, but she is often not nice to me when she is here; and I will not go there much as I refuse to be threatened and am clear about the boundaries which include calling the police if I am in danger and that makes my brother angry and her life worse for days after I am there.
OK done venting – thanks for reading I needed to get it off my chest.
Kim in Northern California
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@GodMomKim I'm sorry that you've had to and have to go that with your brother.0
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