WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2021
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I have used therapy for awhile after Lee had gotten better, and our marriage had hit the fan. It was a moment where I took stock, gave myself grace, and realized I was a survivor of sorts, after his transplant. The therapist was very informative, enlightening, and it was a turning point of my life.
Tomorrow is my adventure!
Today I pack, wash anything etc!
I have exercised 3 times this week. I am proud of myself!
My restaurant, and tapioca night had no negative effect on my weight, that's a NSV!
Today is a small taco salad, an apple and a cup of my homemade chicken fried rice. I haven't logged it yet so I might need some more calories. Having a 1/2 sandwich usually gets me to 1,000 calories at least. I might have 2 cups of the rice, I don't know. The fact that tomorrow I probably won't open my eating window until 8 pm so 25 HR fast, I should prob get my calories up to 1200 calories at least.
Hugs ladies
Rebecca
Whidbey
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My little dog Teddy had a bad day on Sunday, and now he's down again. Just no energy, not even lifting his head as much. He is giving me sad eyes so I carry him up and down the stairs. I hope it will just pass, but it's a sign that he isn't young anymore. He just had blood work done a month ago, and was fine. He hasn't eaten anything unusual. He hasn't been around other animals. He is age 11. So maybe arthritis. He ate well this morning. Hmm. I hate to put him through a vet visit when he is feeling bad. Maybe tomorrow.
I missed my Wednesday coffee group again. I didn't get up early enough. Maybe I need to perk up too.
Annie in Delaware6 -
hmmmm not sure if I love being by the seaside - my usual go to place - when I need to always be looking for shade. of course there is not too much at the seaside. you CAN rent umbrellas or shady things but it seems cumbersome...when I would normally only spend a 2-4 hours. I can find a shady place behind the restaurant or storage places by the sea... but still there is all the reflected light from the sand. Not sure if it's my place to be anymore. I may need to rethink.
Grabbed a salad upon arriving in a shady spot of course.
I got burrata for the 1st time (I think it's a new trend- or at least I am discovering it) very calorific, so not a great choice. Live and learn. I had TWO gf pieces of cake in 2 places, (not huge- one small and one medium (not usa medium), partly because I like these 2 places and partly out of boredom! I also got a carrot cuke apple juice on the upside, and some raspberries. ate too much starch after (also boredom!) I nearly skipped breakfast for lack of time but it doesn't balance out. too tired to walk a lot today. maybe better tomorrow?3 -
I love home made tapioca when it is still warm- don't mind the texture, but then again, I am the one that as a kid LOVED cream of wheat cereal with nothing added to it and the lumpier the better. As I have aged, still love cream of wheat but do add a little milk and honey or brown sugar to it. Still don't mind the lumps.
Boba/ bubble tea is very popular here. I LOVE the ones that pop when you bite them- full of sweet juice. Del Taco had Sprite with them in it a few months ago- peach ones were so good. I tried to get it with seltzer as I don't like sodas but they don't have seltzer so I got one, gave most of the soda to my husband and added my own seltzer when I got home.
Kelly- butterscotch pudding was my favorite when I was a kid-didn't like a lot of sweets but loved butterscotch- I remember wanting a butterscotch birthday cake. Sadly, at that time, mom didn't have a recipe for one so I didn't get one. Now, when I see a recipe for one I think about making one.
I prefer my puddings warm- always have but now I have to have them warm or instant asthma attack- even the little pudding cups from the store- I warm them up in the microwave.
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Afternoon ladies
Well today had been a little odd.i slept pretty well last night ,but felt i needed more so slept most of the morning too..
Maybe it was the walk around Costco and the concert last night..but i havr it mostly dark and cool in here today as it is high heat warning for the next few days ,so I will be staying in..cant breath well in this stuff..
I did get out and pick up Homer he is hangin in the cool and snoozing.. such a good old boy.
They have an ice cream social tonight here that I usually help scoop Ice cream for but i just dont feel up to it,so I wont be going and doing it,will have to caĺl the committee chair and let her know..
I used to enjoy doing that stuff now not so much.
I did get a text from Jim he cant handle the drama,no drama here bur glad its water under the bridge anyway..
Tracy is really worrried about Taliah she is isolating and not talking to anyone..except her friend Emme/ Felix ..she has contacted the school counselor and they dont have behavioral health insurance for her so nothing is covered,so I am trying to look into free screening or the affordable care act here in the states
I dont want Taliah doing anything crazy and wuth a new baby on the way it doesnt help5 -
Guess I'm an odd ball among you! I don't meditate, I'm not mindful, I don't read self help books or watch videos that are supposed to improve you! I do pray!
Lisa ~ I hope your health improves greatly with the new prescription.
Carol in GA
I believe prayer IS a form of meditation. I use it as well as self help books, videos, etc. This is indeed a diverse groups and all are welcome! Do what works for you! 🌞
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Therapy: I’ve been to therapy a few time and find it very helpful. If I could afford it, I would go back now. Still in an odd place with my DH and his drinking (among other things).
Back to work!
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Rita ~ I think you are right! Prayer is a form of meditation!
Carol in GA3 -
Heavens to betsy I have the hiccups3
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Barbara-Not sure at this point as getting it at our doctors office. My son works for FedX and they all got a deal from OSHA saying that they would not be making it manatory as if someone gets ill or has something happen it would be covered under workman's comp. I will just be glad when it is done.
I remember taking my DS to therapy when he was a teenager and after they talked to him, they asked me to come in and told me all his problems were because I was a dry drunk and if I went to treatment he would be better. Left there and never went back or to anyone else. The other time I went was when my friend shot himself in front of me and that one took me bowling to get my mind off of it. Prayer works for me now, just wish I would of figured that out first.
Flea--Hugs!
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND NE6 -
Like a couple of you on this site, I have not had the vaccine. I am not anti-vax, I just don't like putting things into my body that might not belong there. lol I have always been like this about shots and meds. Hey, I live in the "land of money is more important than people" ( I believe that is the mantra of American healthcare/pharmaceuticals). Anywho...I gave myself a fall cut off point to decide on getting vaccinated. Can someone (Machka or someone up on the vaccine facts) give me a couple of websites with FACTS. Also, if it has a FAQ section, that would be good. I don't want to hear about anything being run by politics or any political side agenda. Just COVID facts. Delta variant as well. Tim has been sending me articles, but they are full of "fears", half truths, and political ranting/blaming. I can't read any more of those. I get angry. lol
KJ - Re VAX and other virus stuff.I thought this site had some good info:I realize I will probably get kicked off for bringing some of this up. I'll go back under the radar for now.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVBD_LZIlZ4 Very interesting take on the Delta variant, and pluses and minuses of the jab regarding herd immunity.
I am also not doing the jab right now. We live such an isolated lifestyle, plus I've been doing the I-MASK protocol for over a year- since May 2020: https://covid19criticalcare.com/covid-19-protocols/i-mask-plus-protocol/ That Complete Guide shown on the left side of the page has a lot of very useful information, including nasal sprays and gargles which research has shown to have good anti-viral effects.
I'm not taking Ivermectin but have it on the shelf here. Doing zinc, Vit D, Vitamin C, Quercetin, up to 5 mg Melatonin. My doc does prescribe IVM for exposure and early treatment. My brother takes IVM once a month prophylactically, he's in the medical field and seeing patients. He masks and does a lot of sanitizing. So far so good for him.
Additionally, I have Vit D over 50, O+ blood type, get plenty of exercise, no co-morbidities. My DH's health right now is such that I don't think he'd survive the jab. Next door neighbor's platelets plunged to 20 after her vax, she was hospitalized and they were afraid of brain bleed. Got that under control, then other blood work out of whack so she's seeing a cancer doc. Medical authorities verified it's from her J & J. Former co-worker stroked hours after 2nd Moderna. She's caregiver for her DH and hasn't been able to drive since April. She's undergoing PT.
I spend a lot of time combing through medical research, trials, reports from other countries and doctors who have found things that work. One said he recommends aspirin or similar anti-coagulant 5 days before and 5 days after the jab, but people must check with their doctors to see if that's a good idea for them. I concur.
There's so much censorship regarding early treatment. It's troubling to say the least. I don't think folks who get their main information off regular news are aware of good doctors whose medical licenses have been threatened and who have been sued for criticizing of those institutions where doctors weren't allowed to try off-label drugs like HQC and IVM during when their patients were diagnosed, and their patients died, when in other countries the hospitalization and death rates were very low where HQC and IVM were used early.
I could go on. I'm so glad to see that most of you who are vaxxed haven't had any long-term side effects and had minimal pain from the shots. I wish you continued good health and celebrate your ability to get back in the world and spend time with your families and do "normal" things again!
Nevertheless, I'm glad to remain in the control group.
Lanette
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d r a g g g g g g g i n g.
made it through a day by the seaside avoiding sun....0 -
Just gonna leave this here.........
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Our new roof and bike rack
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Stats for the day-
Short walk w/family- 54.26min, 3.28ap, 24elev, 84ahr, 100mhr, 3.07mi= 274c
Strava app = 373c
Other- 30min, load pavers= 147
Zwift home spin bike- 1hr 7min 3sec, 205elev, 158aw, 65arpm, 22.46amph, 25.1mi= 468c
Zwift app = 609c
Total cal 8891 -
Made a hair appointment for Friday pm. Just a wet trim (no blow dry) and I don't want much off. It's 10 weeks since the last trim and I've been getting a few compliments on my hair, so I will just have half an inch off to keep tidy. Some new hair dye was delivered today, so I'll do that myself next week. Then I'll be a neat, natural blond again.
Julie - I'm always covered up in the sun and swim in full UV gear, leggings and top. I also have a wonderful, black, folding Chinese sunhat, (Amazon) that really is huge. You could always carry a parasol. I used an umbrella in Egypt, Morocco and Mexico when going round the sites.
I really don't enjoy the heat and try not to get sun on my face and chest. Occasionally I let my arms out in the morning or evening, when running. I wear suncream on sensitive bits, including my hands.
Much love to all. And so.....to bed.
Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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I always told the manager at the nudist resort we belonged to that he should install a shower with sun lotion. Then just have a trusted friend rub it in.👍💖
Easy peasy!
Rebecca
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Flea – so glad you got out into nature and had such a good hike. Are you getting support you need at work? If you need it could you work shortened hours for a few weeks?
Hi, Kim. I am getting good support at work. Not everyone knows, but almost everyone I have told has told me let them help me take on things. It's not in my nature to do that, but I am trying to let some things go. My new phrase when someone asks me for something, if it is within their power, my response is, "You know. I think you can just go ahead and take care of that." Not words I am used to saying.
I have basically decided not to work Fridays, so I will take PTO on those days. Thus far, I have been of no use to anyone on Fridays but it didn't matter because our offices were closed on Fridays in May, June, and July. That was super convenient for me.
Got in 5000 steps today between when I left work and when I went to the treatment center for my shot of Neulasta. It was really hot, out as well, 90 or more, so I worked up quite a sweat.
Stay cool everyone. It is going to be scorcher here in the west for the next few days.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR7 -
Like a couple of you on this site, I have not had the vaccine. I am not anti-vax, I just don't like putting things into my body that might not belong there. lol I have always been like this about shots and meds. Hey, I live in the "land of money is more important than people" ( I believe that is the mantra of American healthcare/pharmaceuticals). Anywho...I gave myself a fall cut off point to decide on getting vaccinated. Can someone (Machka or someone up on the vaccine facts) give me a couple of websites with FACTS. Also, if it has a FAQ section, that would be good. I don't want to hear about anything being run by politics or any political side agenda. Just COVID facts. Delta variant as well. Tim has been sending me articles, but they are full of "fears", half truths, and political ranting/blaming. I can't read any more of those. I get angry. lol
KJ (Kelly)
Well, Covid doesn't belong there either! One person I told about my disease and treatment actually said, "You know you're putting a lot of poison in your body during those sessions." I really didn't know how to respond. "Yep. That's right, I should stop treatment and let the mutants take over. Because that would be soooo much better."
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR
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Evening ladies
Went back to sleep at 4 changed masks at 7 and will be going back to sleep.I took ablook around my place and am so ashamed at how it looks will try and get it back to once it once waa a little at a time...
Nighty night ladies3 -
I have been reading the discussion (debate ?) about meditation, prayer, and therapy and realized that probably no two of us are talking about the same thing in any of the categories. My personal spiritual path includes prayer and meditation, but I know that my meditation does not resemble the practice of my Zen practitioner friend or the meditation apps that can be downloaded or much of what any of you have said. My version of prayer does not resemble anything practiced by any organized religion. I have known many people who have been to therapists and no two of them have described therapy in the same way. Some have used a 12 Step program as a therapy that works. What seems important to me is to find some spiritual or practical practice that works and not worry about what anyone else is doing or recommending.
Barbie in unusually warm NW WA7 -
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Did Kathy Kaehler Basic Step DVD then went for my walk. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Jari Love Get Ripped 1000 DVD
Barbara – 5 pools???? That’s wonderful. The Y that I used to belong to built a second indoor pool which they kept warmer than the main pool which they also used for the swim team.
Lisa – it just hurts me to read about all you are going thru. (((HUG)))
Flea – how I wish I was there to at least make you dinner
Kim – I just measured her and Snow White is about 17 inches tall
Tapioca – I like it but, like KJ, it’s not my favorite. Vince is a real chocoholic
After exercise went to WalMart then Aldi. I’ll have to go to the other WalMart another day. Vince wants to cut the grass (weeds). He said last night that he wanted to do it early in the day since they were calling for rain later in the day. Well, around noon I asked him when he wants to go out and he said that we’d do it later tonight, they’re not longer calling for rain. So I went in the pool
Just came in from cutting the grass. I felt a few drops of rain, but I don’t think it’ll amount to anything.
Going to work on the puzzle some more. I really find that if I work for an hour or so at a time, I get a lot more accomplished.
I just found out that our pastor (who said the mass last week) has covid. I tell you, if I wasn’t lectoring this Sat., I wouldn’t go to church. As it is, I’m probably going to leave as soon as I finish lectoring. I’ll wear a mask in church and take it off just when I’m lectoring. I HATE these masks, but I’ll do it
Went for my evening walk.
Allie – what masks? The CPAP?
Michele NC
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Kelly - I can’t give you medical or scientific facts but I can tell you what I have seen first hand.
In November before we had vaccinations available we had 70+ residents and 60+ staff get Covid. We lost 29 residents, some in relatively good health and young. I mean they are in a nursing home so stating young for us is late 60’s up to about 85. We have 4 residents over 100. A lot of the deaths were the 60-70 year olds. A couple of the Centarians survived. Some of our staff were very sick. We felt we were going to lose a lot more, but thankfully the vaccination became available to the staff by mid December and to the residents in early January.
Currently about 80% of our residents and 91% of our staff are vaccinated and even when we had a couple of cases in June there were very minor symptoms. Both cases in June were in people vaccinated and 1 had had Covid previously.
The vaccine won’t guarantee you won’t get it or pass it around but it does make the outcome less severe or deadly if you do get it.
Some of our staff had sore arms, tiredness and flu like symptoms for a couple of days, the majority of us though didn’t have anything. I personally had no effect the first dose and a sore arm at the injection site after the second.
I did not want it and we weren’t forced to (that’s illegal here) but I decided that I would have been angry if staff in my Mom’s home didn’t get it and she got it from their decision. I wouldn’t want any family member to be able to hold me responsible for their loved ones illness or death.
I believe it has helped the severe outcomes.
Tracey.11 -
Michelle- yes they sent me another mask when they gave me the Cpap machine i got the nasal pillows which have worked well..but also wanted to try the full mask which i started using tonight which I also like so i will probably alternate between the 2.
Ugh I think i am battling a UTI or bladder infection maybe thats why i was so tired today.. ive been drinking alot of water and cranberry juice and will keep it up the next couple days have excessive heat warnings and honestly I dont want to be out anywhere in that ,and will try and get my sorry but up and moving into getting this place cleaned up .I am thoroughly disappointed in myself in letting it go,i probably should get someone in here to help me ,but has to be someone I dont know as if it was someone I know id be sooooo embarrassed...
Im going to start with the kitchen and the clothes,and then the papers...4 -
bananasandoranges wrote: »I could use a sleeping vacation! Just sleeping, lazing, strolling, reading the paper, and so on.
Why don't you do exactly that?bananasandoranges wrote: »hmmmm not sure if I love being by the seaside - my usual go to place - when I need to always be looking for shade. of course there is not too much at the seaside. you CAN rent umbrellas or shady things but it seems cumbersome...when I would normally only spend a 2-4 hours. I can find a shady place behind the restaurant or storage places by the sea... but still there is all the reflected light from the sand. Not sure if it's my place to be anymore. I may need to rethink.
Grabbed a salad upon arriving in a shady spot of course.
I got burrata for the 1st time (I think it's a new trend- or at least I am discovering it) very calorific, so not a great choice. Live and learn. I had TWO gf pieces of cake in 2 places, (not huge- one small and one medium (not usa medium), partly because I like these 2 places and partly out of boredom! I also got a carrot cuke apple juice on the upside, and some raspberries. ate too much starch after (also boredom!) I nearly skipped breakfast for lack of time but it doesn't balance out. too tired to walk a lot today. maybe better tomorrow?bananasandoranges wrote: »d r a g g g g g g g i n g.
made it through a day by the seaside avoiding sun....
Why don't you make it a "sleeping vacation! Just sleeping, lazing, strolling, reading the paper, and so on."?
And maybe on your next get-away, go visit Chamonix or another place in the mountains where it is breathtakingly gorgeous and perhaps cooler.
M in Oz3 -
So much to say, but ....sleept in Ohio
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Kylia1 -
When I was 14 I started having severe pain in my belly area a little above the appendix scar I already had. I was sent for a lot of physical tests and everything came back clear, I was even admitted to the hospital for a week. The doctors didn’t believe me and told Mom and Dad to take me to therapy.
I went to one session, the therapist tried to get me to say I was being abused. I was livid, I walked out and when Dad asked me why I told him. He said, “I believe you are in pain and we’re going to find out why”. He took me to this old, he was probably 50, but you know at that age everyone is old surgeon in town. Turned out that I had a lump on the muscle in my stomach and as I became active physically it was hitting a nerve. He removed it and I never had a problem again.
I encourage therapy though and have seen it do lots of good for some of my friends.
I have so much to share, but I’ve worked late the last two nights and tonight I went shopping with my eldest and got home late.
Soon I will!
Tracey in Edmonton4
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