WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2022
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I'm overwhelmed with the support gals. Thank you so much. Jack's youngest son is driving from Eastern Washington with his wife and three daughters. They will stay until Monday. They're devastated and just wanted to be together. We'll just do a lot of crying together.
Betsy in NW WA10 -
Thanks to all the ladies for their posts. They mean a lot!!
Yes, we had 8 inside cats but Umaku was my boy, my favorite of all of them, always was.
Yes, he was gorgeous. In his prime he weighed just over 20lbs and the bluest eyes. Would never know he was a formerly feral barn cat from a plain, short haired black momma cat.
I am sure my feet will be cold tonight and will miss him laying on me during the night(was great during the winter but not so much in the summer).
Carol- Thanks for the comment about my son- I agree he is very handsome. Not a fan of his hair as it is now but his girlfriend likes it so that is ok.
Debbie
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Accountability:Chose well: Joe, readings, BP, 10 mins yoga, CI<CO, CI<250<CO,
Bonus: 72 mins burn pile, veg prep
Just one thing: back to bupkes.
Workin’ on it: 140.7, H20x3 so far, active 3:34 so far
Mindful March
26: Choose to spend less time looking at screens today
27: Cultivate a feeling of loving-kindness toward others today..
Betsy ((hugs)) ((hugs))
Welcome @rosemary1818 !
Debbie ((hugs)) for the loss of Umaku. Hardest but kindest.
Kay likewise ((hugs)) for the loss of your new kitten. So hard.
After a little over an hour on the burn pile and similar time cooking veggie tacos, I crashed out. Got up, did veg prep, trying to motivate myself to walk in place to Jeopardy but just don’t have the oomph. Think the antibiotics are taking their toll. Headed back to bed.
Later, Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
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Hi Gals,
Betsy – I am sorry to hear of Jack’s passing – sending thoughts of peace and caring to you.
Debbie – sorry to hear of the loss of your fur baby.
Well today was the yard sale, It was great to be there to help and support my friend, but I forgot one of my boxes at home, so have that to deal with, and another box of stuff that did not sell, and made $28.90 – honestly not worth the 6 hours of time I spent today - BUT it did motivate me to get a bunch of stuff pulled out and it is gone or is going to be donated. And my girl friend appreciated the help.
I have had a weird eating/activity/scale week and it is very clear to me that I really need to figure out how to do some more intentional exercise. Working more than full time affects the time I am willing to spend, and really focused on getting some outstanding bills paid off affects the cash available, and knowing that what motivates me is being involved in a class setting – the 3 of these seem like excuses but they are my current reality, and I am working on figuring out what I can do to eliminate the road blocks. This weight loss journey is so much more than just eating right.
Thinking of you all, and hoping for a happy healthy day
Smiles Kim in N. California
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Accountability:Chose well: Joe, readings, BP, 10 mins yoga, CI<CO, CI<250<CO,
Bonus: 72 mins burn pile, veg prep
Just one thing: back to bupkes.
Workin’ on it: 140.7, H20x3 so far, active 3:34 so far
Mindful March
26: Choose to spend less time looking at screens today
27: Cultivate a feeling of loving-kindness toward others today..
Betsy ((hugs)) ((hugs))
Welcome @rosemary1818 !
Debbie ((hugs)) for the loss of Umaku. Hardest but kindest.
Kay likewise ((hugs)) for the loss of your new kitten. So hard.
After a little over an hour on the burn pile and similar time cooking veggie tacos, I crashed out. Got up, did veg prep, trying to motivate myself to walk in place to Jeopardy but just don’t have the oomph. Think the antibiotics are taking their toll. Headed back to bed.
Later, Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
Thank you!
I hope you feel better soon. Don't push it. If you need to nap, then take one.0 -
I have had a weird eating/activity/scale week and it is very clear to me that I really need to figure out how to do some more intentional exercise. ... This weight loss journey is so much more than just eating right.
Thinking of you all, and hoping for a happy healthy day
Smiles Kim in N. California
One of the things which has helped me is stair climbing.
Where I worked previously, we were in an 11-storey building and a small group of us were in a stair climbing challenge. When I was climbing (up and down) about 25 flights of 20 steps + landings 4-5 days a week, I noticed that I was stronger on the bicycle AND my weight gradually dropped. In 2021, I lost 5 kg which isn't huge, but it's something.
Since the end of January, I've been in 2 office buildings. I wasn't sure where the stairs were and the access situation of the first one so I didn't climb stairs there. I am climbing in my current building (6 storeys, I think), but I'm usually climbing only 5 flights of 20 steps + landings 3-4 days a week.
My current job is way more intense than my previous job ... from the moment I arrive till the moment I leave, there are calls coming in and things to do. For the first time since I worked retail back in 2008, I had to "hold it" one day because I was the only one in the office to answer the phones. A couple were working from home, one was doing training in the next room and one hadn't come in yet. Last week was particularly full-on. So busy!
So I don't feel I can get up at 10:30 am and 3:00 pm (like I did previously) and climb several flights of stairs. I only do it in the morning when I arrive and after lunch.
That reduction in activity plus my birthday in early March has resulted in a slight increase in weight.
But climbing stairs doesn't take a lot of time.
I guestimate that 5 flights of 20 steps, up and down, including landings is about 30 calories. I got that from a chart that was in a previous office building several years ago.
So if I'm aiming to stay under about 1350 cal/day, and I do that climb a couple times, it bring me up to 1350 + 60 = 1410 cal/day. Once I get up to 25 such flights, it's 1350 + 150 = 1500 cal.
Hobart randomly put in a set of 2 flights of stairs. I'm not entirely sure why but I guess they help people get off the rise where the cenotaph is and onto the path into the city centre. I call them the stairs to nowhere because you go up them and you're in a field. Anyway, I walk out there at lunch sometimes and do them once or twice as well.
We've also got stairs in our garden - 7 steps up - and I'll do them several times in a row. 3 times is 21 steps which is pretty much 1 office flight.
So what I'm saying is ... if you've stairs around, they can be a quick way to get some intentional exercise.
Machka in Oz1 -
Barbie a very happy belated birthday to you. Loved the card your DH gave you. Have to say thank you for always giving us a new month. Having this group is a lifeline, like a family but better because we all pick it.
Yesterday my Jack was mowing the lawn and suffered a massive heart attack. The paramedics couldn't revive him. I'm so lost and miss him so much. I feel like my mind is running with thousands of thoughts that aren't going anywhere. I'm so sad. Have four of our five kids showering me with love and Jack's numbers friends wanting to support me... but really right now need to just grieve and find myself. The kids all volunteered to come but I encouraged them not to right now. I think I just need time to be alone and gather myself.
Betsy
Oh, Betsy. I am so very sorry. That is very shocking.
Flea
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Happy belated birthday, Barbie!! It sounds like you had a delightful day.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR0 -
Welcome to the new people.
By way of introduction for those of you who don't know . . . I am 61, and am not supposed to be trying to lose weight right now. I was diagnosed in May 2021 with de novo metastatic breast cancer to the spine. The last 10 months have been crazy -- chemo, surgery, radiation, and oral therapies. My energy levels have been better than they have been, so I have started walking every day again, working back up to 10,000 steps a day. I do tire easily, however, so I usually take it in smaller pieces. Still working full-time. I am married and have three sons, 25, 20, and 15, five step children, and five step grandchildren. We just finished a week visiting them.
So, even though I am not supposed to be losing weight, I would still like to lose 15-20 more pounds. It's a tough thing to balance. One of the drugs I'm on causes weight gain, and another I'm on causes loss of appetite and diarrhea, which results in weight loss. While in radiation, I am supposed to try to maintain my weight as best as I can (I have more coming up in the next month or so), but as you can imagine, it fluctuates a lot right now, what with one thing and the other. So just trying to eat as healthfully as I can and keep as active as I can.
I read a lot on my phone, but only respond when I am at my computer, so I am not always as active on this board as I could be, but I am here and cheering you all on.
Flea
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M – did you put some sort of landscape fabric under your dry rock stream so that weeds won’t grow and the rocks won’t sink into the ground? It’s lovely
Michele NC
I haven't yet.
I'm still in the digging phase -- digging up weed and grass roots and rocks. It's a big bed.
We've got plastic for under the dry stream. It was the most expensive piece of this project ... a whole $16 and I'll only use about half. The other half will likely go into other parts of the yard.
Where most of the "stream" will go there's no fear of rocks sinking. There's a cement "curb" along the rosemary hedge. I have no idea why it's there. But it's not just a curb, it's got a bit that sticks out about 6 inches under a thin layer of dirt - a ledge.
Until we started digging we didn't know that. So we can't plant right up next to the curb. The stream will mostly follow the curb and sit on that ledge. And that's part of the reason I thought I'd try a dry stream - since we can't plant there, might as well put rocks in to fill the area.
You can see the curb in these photos ... and about 6 inches from the curb into the garden bed is the ledge, under a thin layer of soil.
Machka in Oz1 -
I think of you often Flea.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx0 -
Morning all. Just popping in to wish all us Brits 💐Happy Mother’s Day.💐
Debbie:So sorry for the loss of your furbaby. Pets are part of the family, so I know how sad you must feel. Your son is a good looking young man.
We are off to lunch with the family at DEDs house. Also celebrating elder grandson’s birthday, which is next Thursday.
🥳🎉 Cheers to those celebrating🎉🥳
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️Terri3 -
Cycling this evening ...
Machka in Oz0 -
Betsy - You were in my mind and in my heart all day yesterday and woke up thinking of you. I'm glad there's family support coming and hope it truly is supportive. Your grief is your own journey to take, and no one can take it for you, but accepting help along the way can ease some of the burdens. Thank you for checking back in. All of us are sending massive, gentle hugs.
Debbie - I'm so sorry about Umaku. Thinking of you too this morning. When we rescue a puppy or a kitten, we know their lifespans are less than ours, but we take that risk because of the love and joy that we give and receive for the years we have them. By letting him go, you gave him the biggest gift of all.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR2 -
Hello everyone, on this British Mother's Day. Thinking of those of you today with losses and grief. ❤ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 Sending hugs.
Last night's babysitting was hilarious. We watched 'Ant and Dec's Saturday Night Takeaway' with the kids, because they love it. Max was hysterical at some of the antics and even I enjoyed bits of it, once my son had switched the base speaker off for me. Then Edie decided to give DH massages and ended up hand-chopping his head! Mischief is her middle name.
This morning I opened my card from my son and he popped over at 10 to give me a big bunch of flowers. He also stayed a while to help DH register iplayer on the Firestick. Phew! I had to do ITV as DH couldn't figure it out. I will sort out the rest. All good to go, but we can't have Netflix as my son already has the full complement of devices. I will keep it on my tablet.
My DDIL has her parents over for lunch today (boo!) so he had to rush off to cook. Still, it's great to have everything working now. I was getting frustrated with DH and my son told me to go and do something else. I managed to restrain myself. So glad he came to help.
Another fabulous spring day. My husband doesn't celebrate Mother's Day for me as I am not his mother so I have organised my own delicious feast. Faux caviar and crême fraiche morsels for lunch and smoked salmon crême fraiche tagliatelle tonight with artichokes, broad beans and peas. AF champagne. I just asked myself, what do I really fancy?
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Edie's efforts at artifying DH on my Polish app.
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Sorry, I meant to show the art work Edie made from his photo she took! But it didn't load. Oops! I'm sure you don't want a close up of his fizzhog.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx1 -
Heather, The fact that the grandkids love your husband has to be gratifying on all sides. Everyone needs a nice grandfather, and blood makes no difference in the end, when there's love like that.
Flea, It's so good to see you. I think of you often, and applaud you for continuing to work full time. I don't think I could be that strong.
Allie, Happy DivorceaVersary! Can't believe it's been four years. Hope you're celebrating the day!
The best of Mothering Sunday to all those of you who deserve this so much!
The Great Travois adventure, as requested. In the spoiler 'cause it's a lot of pics.Grapevine for tying the bamboo together
My first attempt, only a few slats are tied:
That was where I stopped; my energy completely ran out and I was hurting, so I went inside to relax and let things settle down. While I was relaxing, Corey tied the remaining bamboo pieces to the legs and then hooked the finished travois to the little lawn tractor.
One trip dragging a load of brush absolutely destroyed it.
So he decided he could do it better - as he said to me when I came back out of the house, my first try had "obvious design flaws." I didn't hit him or anything. I was tempted, but I didn't. I should get points for that. Seriously.
Here he is in progress, using completely different materials, some 2x2x8 wood slats that he brought home from work months ago.
He used the tension of weaving the slats together to make it quite rigid, then added two runner slats underneath to help get give it a little clearance. Then he used screws to make sure it stayed together.
And... here's the finished project. I went and grabbed some brush that I hadn't been able to haul and it worked just fine.
It was a lovely thing, getting this done.... and he's an amazing man who I love beyond all reason. I am so grateful to have him. That's why I didn't hit him. The fact that he was right is just a whole 'nother thing.
Later y'all,
Love,
Lisa in Arkansas
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Morning ladies
Remind me never ever to drink diet pepsi after 3 pm ,i didn't sleep well at all last night..i finished i think around 4:30 and that was that..hurumph..
My friend Trudy is on her way to Greece.. she wanted me to go with her but i just dont have the stamina..to be walking all over the ruins...
I think i have it in me to do one more trip and would love to take a cruise through the Panama canal..but the way the world is now who knows if it will happen.
Im going to try and clean a little at a time,will do the garbage and clean the kitchen this afternoon.2 -
(((Debbie)))1
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Sending hugs Debbie1
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Betsy I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. 💞🙏💞 It's good to have family around to comfort each other.
Debbie sorry for the loss of your fur baby 💞
Barbie 🎉🎂🥳 Happy Birthday 🥳🎂🎉 I hope you had a wonderful time Celebrating.
Sorry for the absence, I've been extremely busy entertaining company and visiting with friends! I feel like a child with a lot of play dates. Retirement is a lot of fun but very exhausting 😜 Have a great day everyone!
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
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Rode the recumbent bike today. Work tomorrow so no formal exercise but bowling in the afternoon.
After exercise worked on the puzzle some. I find that it works best for me if I work on the puzzle just for an hour, take a break, then come back for another hour. If I go more than an hour at a time, I find that I try to put the same pieces in spots where they didn’t fit the first time so they won’t fit the second time. Also, a fresh set of eyes finds pieces faster.
I think on days I can’t get to the gym but am working what I’ll do is come home, go in the pool, then maybe go for a walk around the block then have dinner. Maybe after dinner I can go for another walk, but maybe not that far. We shall see what happens
Happy Mother’s Day to those who celebrate it.
M – we put down about 25 tons of rocks around our pool for the main reason that Vince didn’t (and I agree) want to cut grass in the pool area. THAT was no fun. But it’s done. And we put landscape fabric down first.
Lisa – I just don’t remember, was Egg a stray that you took in?
Allie – I only buy diet caffeine free Pepsi for Vince so if he has some late at night, it doesn’t bother him. Maybe that’ll work for you???
Mary – many years ago I remember FIL saying “now that I’m retired, I’m so busy I don’t know where I found the time to work”. I thought “yea, right”. Now that I’m retired, I know what he meant!!!!
Michele NC
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