WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2022

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,426 Member
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  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,000 Member
    Got a few things done today, more finger foods in the freezer for baking while everyone's here... Tomorrow I'll probably make Cowboy Cookies again - one of mine and Corey's true disagreements. He insists on raisins in cookies for him, and to me, they're like biting into nasty little blisters of goo when you meet them unexpectedly in a cookie. 😜

    The good thing about that is that after I've gotten everything in the mixture except raisins, I can pull just enough out for one or two cookies without them, and then I add the raisins to the rest of the cookie dough. #WaysToKeepLisaFromEatingSweets. Here's the recipe.

    They freeze really well both before and after baking them--I shape the whole batch into 1/4 cup balls and flash-freeze them. They bake quite well from frozen as much as three months later.

    Time for bed for this sleepy head... thinking of all of you who are under the weather, in pain, or just in need of hugs...

    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR

  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,752 Member
    edited December 2022
    Anniesquats100 wrote: »
    Something I no longer need, hmm that's tough. How about makeup? I have totally given up on that. I struggled with mascara for many years, but I would only get one or two uses from a tube before it was expired. Most days I don't wear my jewelry either. But I did wear earrings and a necklace for my date. So I am grateful that I no longer need makeup.

    Annie in Delaware

    Sat in a meeting today with 7 female mid-level project officers, analysts, scientists etc. ... and not one of us was wearing more than a light touch of foundation.

    Make-up is just so 1980s. :)

    I got rid of a whole bunch of mine about a year ago.

    M in Oz

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,752 Member
    Little bit closer to 50 km of walking this month!

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  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Our son and DDIL sent me several well loved Christmas ornaments from years past, including Teddybear Angels that I sewed years ago and big Christmas Stockings with Dad and my names on them. Thanks to them I have a very cheerful apartment.

    The cheery ornaments in my room are a delight, but empty boxes of cheap junk are still in my room. I look forward to getting rid of the empty boxes.
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,306 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    It was my turn for insomnia last night. I got my phone out at four a.m. to read. But then I fell asleep around five and only woke up maybe three more times before my alarm at seven thirty. Probably related to the iced tea I had for lunch.

    I have to get groceries today, and then Teddy goes to the vet at two. Then I have a pork loin to cook for dinner. So plenty to do.

    My date yesterday didn't walk me to my car. He didn't ask me to text him when I got home safe. He didn't text me at all. I left a message for him on the dating site. On one hand, he is treating me like an equal, but on the other, it feels a bit inconsiderate. I have to think about how much that matters to me. I used to have a rule that I should ask for what I want, then give him a chance to do it, before I judge. Is walking me to my car universally known to be expected good behavior?

    Annie in Delaware
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,687 Member
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  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    I ate something at breakfast that isn’t sitting well with me. I hope I will feel better soon, tummy-aches are no fun. 🙁
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,000 Member
    1948CWB wrote: »
    Lisa & Rita ~ Love the photos of your children! All of them look so sweet and happy. Lisa, the new hubby looks like a keeper for your daughter.

    Carol in GA

    Thanks, Carol - I think he is, too. He is helping her learn to look at the future and build toward that, instead of just getting through each day, and I think that's wonderful. He seems to be a good man. Really hoping they're all healthy enough to come down on Friday, it's been way too long since we saw them.

    And because I'm a big fat dreader, I'm dreading them coming down, too. I do not know why I do that, but it's just annoying on my part. I always enjoy these kinds of things once they're in progress, but the voice in the back of my head doesn't shut up until they're driving through the gate.

    The storm is supposed to hit us at about 10:30 or so, but for us, just as heavy rain. Supposed to clear in the early afternoon. Looks like those of you across the northern tier of the US and southern Canada are going to get slammed with snow. Keep safe!

    Machka - Many hugs, hope the surgery goes well, and recovery is swift and painfree.

    Debbie - Same to you for Thursday's surgery.

    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,832 Member
    Well, I had a good morning, finishing off the text of my poetry collection. So that bit is done. Now I have to transfer it, bit by bit, into the KDP 'Fix-It' format. Just a lot of copying and pasting, but I want to do it slowly and carefully.
    So, I was feeling very pleased and got myself out in the freezing cold to buy sausages for dinner, along with milk. Came back to make Rebecca's peanut brittle. I don't think I heated it enough initially, but it's solid enough. Yet to taste it.
    Then decided to do my rowing when my son rang. He wants us to babysit Bea tomorrow from 9 until 2ish. He is going to take his friend up to Central London to see a specialist that DDIL knows and trusts. He diagnosed my son's psoriatic arthritis. The friend J was in hospital again this weekend , when we were meant to babysit. The Long Covid affects his heart, kidneys, and whatever. Nightmare for a man of 45.
    So, of course I said yes. DH was a bit surprised when he came back from his walk, because he loves his daily routine, but he knows it is for a good cause. J can't go on his own as there is a train strike. Bea will be OK and we have my son's permission to plonk her in front of the TV if DH runs out of ideas.
    So, a lot of grandchildren contact this week! I'm glad I'm between stages with my book.

    We've been invited to Cyprus next year by my friend B who has a house there. I've put the idea to DH and will leave him to mull over it. I don’t think he is keen at all. He hasn't even been to see his daughter who lives in France! I could go on my own. If I want to. The hassle of flying to places doesn't really appeal these days. Plus there is a long, expensive taxi ride over the border between Greek and Turkish Cyprus. My friend's house is on the Turkish side.
    I will have to tell her we are thinking about it. :*

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,307 Member
    Anne In this day and age walking you to your car is not only a consideration; it is also a safety issue. If you do continue to see him watch to see how considerate he is to you. I wish I had been more aware when I was younger. If I ever am in the position to think of remarriage this would be one thing on the top of my list. DH seems to think it is funny when I ask him what movie he is watching he refuses to tell me. I have finally learned to just walk away when he exhibits childish behavior. I would also see how he treats me when I am sick. DH has a way to go on being considerate. Some of his plusses is he picks up after himself and handles his finances well, so we do not argue about money. He also cooks me dinner.
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,731 Member
    Annie - another thought on your date not walking you to your car. Perhaps he'd had a prior experience where he walked a gal to her car on the first date and she immediately starting sending out wedding invites, lol. He might be playing it cool for a reason, it's still early days. If you guys continue to meet but this doesn't "click", depending on what you want out of the relationship, then that might send up red flags for you.

    I was glad to hear that otherwise the date went well, conversation pleasant and agreeable. ;)

    Barbie - you posted this a couple days ago: My approach to gratitude has always been that the action of feeling grateful is far more important than the actual stuff on the list. When I am feeling grateful, there's no room for complaining. When I read all your lists of things you're grateful for, there are many that fit into my category of "I'm so grateful I don't have _______" When I was sweeping the branches off the sidewalk in the back yard today, I was so grateful for my broom and mobility that I had no energy to fuss about why we even had to have that mess in the first place.

    I totally agree. The feeling of gratitude transcends everything. Thank you for continually teaching us. <3

    Debbie and Machka - big ((HUGS)) Sounds like you'll be under the best care possible.

    Heather - DH's mustache is a hoot.

    Katla - sorry you are feeling under the weather, hope you are better soon.

    Off to the races.

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State





  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,417 Member
    edited December 2022
    Grateful:
    1 What is something that makes you laugh? My two dogs, Wicket and Brownie every day the do something to make me laugh.
    2 Something about the current season you’re grateful for. The Christmas spirit making people nicer at this time of year.
    3 What about your body do you love/are you grateful for? My hair. It is white, pretty full with lots of body. Hairdressers always comment on how they like to work with my hair. Growing it out this winter. We will see how long I leave once the heat comes back!
    4 Who is someone in your life that you’re grateful for? My children and grandchildren.
    5 What is a book that changed your life? The Blooming of a Lotus by Thich Nhat Hann
    6 Think about something you’re good at. Customer service.
    7 What is a lesson you’re grateful you learned? To forgive myself.
    8 A basic need that has been met. My housing at the campground. Free for hosting
    9 What are you most grateful for in the city/town where you live? The blue skies and 300 days of sun!
    10 What rejection in your life are you most grateful for? Losing my job at the print shop. It allowed me to take early retirement, buy this camper after selling my house and travel!
    11 Something you use every day. My phone. I know I know, but like others, everything is on it!
    12 Something you don’t need anymore. A big house
    13 Refuge – space you love in your home: My bedroom
    14 Item of clothing
    15 Taste
    16 Touch
    17 Smell
    18 Sound
    19 Sight
    20 Texture
    21 Color
    22 A song that makes you happy.
    23 Type of weather you love.
    24 Professional who helps you.
    25 Something you take for granted.
    26 A TV show that you look forward to watching.
    27 A movie you watch over and over.
    28 An opportunity you’re grateful you had.
    29 A place you love to visit.
    30 A tool you find incredibly useful.
    31 A daily habit you’re happy you’ve cultivated.


    Kindness Calendar:
    December 1. “Spread kindness and share the December calendar with others”: Sharing on here and hope it helps someone.
    December 2.:Contact someone you can’t be with to see how they are: to be determined. I ended up talking to my uncle and a friend, both who live 2,000 miles away!
    Decembrist 3. Offer to help someone who is having
    difficulty at the moment. - I helped a mom fix her son’s bicycle.
    December 4. Support a charity, cause, or campaign you really care about. - I use Amazon Smile to
    5contribute to St. Jude’s Children Hospital
    every time I buy something, including gifts
    December 5. Leave a positive message for someone
    else to find. Left a note for DH with a
    chocolate kiss!
    December 6.Give a gift to someone who is homeless or feeling lonely. I made a person smile who was having a very bad day trying to get a campsite. I gave them one.
    December 7. Give kind comments to as many people as possible today. Done! Campers and DH
    December 8. Do something helpful for a friend or family
    member- I made an appointment for DH to get new glasses.
    December 9. Notice when you’re hard on yourself or others and be kind instead.
    December 10. Listen wholeheartedly to others without judging them.
    December 11. Buy an extra item and donate it to a local food bank.
    December 12. Be generous. Feed someone with food, love, or kindness today!
    December 13. See how many people you can smile at today!

    RVRita
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,417 Member
    Afgans I made one for my 86 year old mother and she loved it. All this talk makes me want to make more for her and my grandkids. Lord knows I have enough yarn to use up! Won’t need to buy any LOL.

    Yesterday after putting reservation tags out at park, I did 4 loads of wash while finishing my Christmas cards and crocheted gifts, then went out to eat for the first time since August using a gift card we got for Christmas. After that went to Post Office and mailed almost all my Christmas gifts. Line went out the door. Next to a Store called Big R where DH wanted to but some bullets and look for slippers. Then to Dollar General and home finally by 4 pm. Then put folded clothes away then collapsed. I was exhausted. Doesn’t sound like much but 8,000 steps made we whooped out! Only my son left for Christmas gift and card. His birthday too on 12/27. Today will be a quiet day home.

    RVRita in windy Roswello
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,972 Member
    Yesterday I vacuumed the kitchen area, and mopped it. Not really a lot, but man I felt it! Last nights sleep was restless, and moments of tender belly. My poor muscles!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,832 Member
    Rosemarie - I have suggested several alternatives from time to time. I am happy for him to go on his own, but that doesn't seem to grab him. He could go on the train from London. I have suggested going together and me staying in a local small hotel in the village, so he can stay with her. (I hate staying with people). I have suggested flying to a nearby city, Narbonne, and staying a nice hotel and visiting her from there. He hasn't bitten yet.
    As far as Cyprus goes, I haven't questioned him yet. Letting it mull. I did reply to my friend's email, saying we were pondering, and she was very sweet about it. She knows all the problems as we Zoom fortnightly. I may go next autumn at the same time as G. But I will have zero funds after paying for my cruise next June. Hoping to squirrel away some interest due next May.
    They are the most amazing hosts. I love visiting their house near Glasgow. One of the few places I can bear to stay the night. My own King bed and my own bathroom. They respect my hatred of background music and TV. A wonderful barbecue hut in the garden. Can't do enough for you.
    Cyprus in the autumn sounds attractive. :p

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,572 Member
    Worked today then bowling, ceramics tonight. No work tomorrow so the plan is to do a body pump DVD

    Rosemarie – I don’t know if Jess would take me to midnight mass or not. I’m really not going to worry too much about it. See, Colby is a Mormon. VERY VERY non-practicing. As a matter of fact, he feels very awkward going to midnight mass with me. He went once. But he’s so uncomfortable I haven’t pushed it. I’m sure this stems from the fact that religion was pushed down his throat when he was growing up. You should see how his mother is pushing for them to get married! I’m sure she doesn’t approve of their living together. Right after Jess graduated, she was asking Jess about the colors for her shower. Jess just though “I really don’t care about colors, I’m concerned about where I’ll be living 3 months from now”. But marriage, children, is very much a part of their religion. And Colby is rejecting it. I know Jess tries to stand by him. Like they usually don’t go to mass with me on Christmas or Easter. So I’m not sure what she’d do

    Had the Christmas party and celebrated those with December birthdays at bowling today. Brought my own sandwich. Yes, I did have a piece of birthday cake, two brownies, and this cookie along with fruit and cheese. Right now I am stuffed. Not going to have much for dinner

    Karen – what a blessing you are for your brother

    Allie – you ARE very nurturing

    Oops...time got away from me yesterday. Anyway….

    Tuesday here: did a body pump DVD, then bought gas (used up one of my $25 gift cards), went to Food Lion then the dollar store, walked around the block, then Vince and I went to WalMart and then had to go to Sam’s since WM didn’t have any milk. Wanted to see if they had a sampler of snacks (like Goldfish, etc) for Jess and Colby, but they didn’t. However, got this pasta basket for Jess. She likes her pasta. Ceramics tonight. This will be the last night I’m thinking until Feb. but I know that Michelle is hoping to get up and running in Jan. We shall see.

    Anne DE – fantastic that you had such a successful date!

    Rori – If an empty water bottle was capped and throw on the floor, I can’t see how that is more of a tripping hazard than if it wasn’t capped. I can see how throwing a full bottle uncapped can be less of a projectile. Do you have to call the arena to see if you can bring in an empty water bottle? I don’t remember seeing water fountains, but then again, I really haven’t looked. I suppose you could fill it up in the lady’s room, can’t you? My one coat is really meant to be one that you can fold up and transport so it has these deep pockets on either side. Really, I didn’t think about it, but I probably could have snuck a bottle in.

    katla – feel better fast

    Better post this before time gets away from me again.

    As promised, the manatee.

    Michele NC

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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,687 Member
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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,426 Member
    Stats for the day-

    Walk w/kids- 2hrs 3min 9sec, 83elev, 2.90ap, 91ahr, 118mhr, 6.05mi= 624c
    Strava app = 741c
    *lucy walked 2-1/2mi*
    Zwift home bike trainer- strava stats- 13.53min, 66elev, 165aw, 22amph, 111ahr, 155mhr, 50gear, 5.08mi= 141c
    Strava app = 130c
    Zwift stats- 13.55min, 67elev, 163aw, 50arpm, 21.94amph, 5.09mi= 131c

    Total cal 765

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