WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2022
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Karen - I've had shingles and, later, the shingles jab.
Didn't get around to my hair. If I don't do these things in the morning, they don't get done. But the morning is reserved for my exercise and writing. Maybe I will have a short writing session tomorrow and get it done before lunch.
We are having squid tonight. It's a recipe I got from Elizabeth David, with a little adjustment to replicate a dish I had in the South West of France in the 80s. We revisited the town where we stayed for two weeks and I had that dish, in a restaurant near the church, on our cruise this November.
At the moment, the whole house smells of cooking squid! !
When I went to get the package out of the freezer, the whole block of baby squid had frozen solid into a chunk of ice, so I had to thaw the whole lot and cook it. I will freeze half the stew I have created and use half for the dish with tomatoes and rouille. With it we have rice and peas and asparagus.
Feeling lighter.
Glad your visit made some happy memories, Lisa
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
Better you than me!
I'd be out on a very long walk if my place smelled of squid!
M in Oz2 -
Machka - ha ha you and me both my friend.. bless you Heather you have a sparkling appetite..0
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Worked, took Jerry home and then had to stop at WalMartsince Vince needed milk. I’ll probably have to stop there tomorrow since he needs bananas. I was a nice guy and asked if they wanted me to come in Thurs and, as expected, they said yes. Molly (store manager) asked me also to come in tomorrow. That’s something I don’t understand. I can understand Thurs to give them prep for the weekend, but tomorrow? The only thing I can think of is that they’re expecting to be busy. Anyway, the plan is to do a body pump DVD, then probably stop in at the Salvation Army then go to WalMart. We’re planning to prebowl since we won’t be at bowling Monday.
Rebecca – thanks for telling me
Evelyn – that fishing line is so cool
M – what wonderful news! All the cancer is gone! Doing a happy dance for you
You know, this is the first Christmas where I don’t feel rushed. It must be because we couldn’t decorate for Halloween or Christmas so all the trees got put up early. Plus...I don’t have to host christmas, Jess is. I just have to take the mac & Cheese (which I’ll make Thurs), the pierogi (which are already made and in the freezer) and the desserts (which are made and in the freezer)
Anne DE – I have two bags of bananas in the freezer. These are bananas that were too ripe. When I need them, I have them for banana bread
Invited Lynette to dinner on New Years Eve. That’s our tradition. Still haven’t heard back from her. I’m sure what it is is that she has to ask Ken. They have such a weird relationship, but it works for them. She texts him all the time, even in the backseat of the car she texts him in the front seat! But this works for them.
Allie – I’m on Medicare and sometimes get bills from doctor’s offices. Most of the time it’s the their billing cycle just overlapped and Medicare didn’t get to it yet. Check this out. Call the doctor’s office, they will usually tell you that it just got crossed in the mail. Good luck at the doctor’s office. Also, remember your deductible.
Off to take a shower, then get to bed.
Michele NC2 -
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Chicken Pox, Mumps, Measles (twice!) I’ve had it all. Now I get every vaccination available! (Still need my TDAP though). All 3 of my kids got the chicken pox at the same time, I was nursing the smallest but he still got the pox only a mild case. The two older girls were covered! At least I got it done all at once! Lol. My son got the vaccination once it was available as he only had a mild case. I had sinus infections, ear infections, and bronchitis a lot as a child. Had my tonsils and adenoids out in second grade. I had allergies but that wasn’t acknowledge back then as a real thing. Much better now that the allergies have been identified. Not sick as often now. I make DH get the vaccinations as well. No need to tempt fate. I believe in prevention rather that reaction.
RVRita
Prior to the measles vaccinations, when a child got the measles, the child became hugely popular. All the friends came over so they would get measles too.
I had a mild case of measles when I was 8-ish, and had all the friends round to visit so I could pass it on.
Then measles vaccinations came in but I am in the age group where they just had one vaccination for measles, mumps, rubella. My mother made sure I got that vaccination.
However, measles requires 2 vaccinations spaced a couple weeks apart and I didn't get the second vaccination because they didn't realise it then. A few years later they added the second one, but people in my age group mostly only got the one vaccination.
In 2016, we travelled to the mainland, and followed a woman with measles from the airport out to the area we were visiting. We didn't know it at the time. But 2 weeks later, I had a full blown case of measles. It was awful.
So, in January 2020, I got my double dose of MMR and a Shingles vax. And then, of course, later that year I got a flu shot and 2 COVID vaxes. So I had 6 vaxes in 2020!
2016 Measles
I used to get very sick at least once a year with flus and colds, but then ...
In 2018, my husband had the accident and I spent a lot of time in the hospital and rarely went to the university. I didn't get sick that year. Even in 2019, I spent as little time as possible at the university.
In 2020, the COVID shutdowns happened and I didn't go to the university, I took courses from home.
At the university, 500+ students were crammed into rooms that should ideally hold less than that. In fact, students often sat on the stairs in the aisleways which, I'm sure, is against fire regulations. The 500+ students came from all over Asia (and a couple of us were local). While it was a great opportunity to meet people from all over Asia, and we'd do well for the first half of the semester, they'd all go home at semester break, and when they returned they would bring all sorts of viruses and things with them and I would be so sick in the second half of the semester. No 24-hour flus ... these things would last for months!
I was so incredibly relieved when everything shut down in 2020!!
I also had my deviated septum straightened in 2020 which might make my colds less severe but I haven't had a chance to test that yet. I'm OK with that. I'd happily go the rest of my life without a cold.
Machka in Oz
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KetoneKaren wrote: »My margins are clear!
I went in for a dressing change and my doctor heard I was there and dropped in to have a look and tell me that my results are good. Margins are clear. She got all the cancer!
Then I came home for a nap.
This is 5 days post surgery ...
Machka in Oz
Machka,
Yay! Yay! Yay! for clear margins!
Wow! That is an amazing cosmetic outcome. You had a very gifted surgeon. Congratulations, Machka. I know you are relieved.
Karen in Virginia
Thanks!
Lots of different people told me she (my surgeon) was really good and I am pleased with the results thus far.
M in Oz
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My margins are clear!
I went in for a dressing change and my doctor heard I was there and dropped in to have a look and tell me that my results are good. Margins are clear. She got all the cancer!
Then I came home for a nap.
This is 5 days post surgery ...
Machka in Oz
So glad you got those four amazing words too!!
Looking forward to getting the dressings changed on Friday. Hoping they will let me grab a shower- Not supposed to have one yet. Did take a quick one the other morning when the cat threw up down my back when I was here alone.
Heading back to my recliner
Will check in tomorrow
Debbie5 -
dlfk202000 wrote: »My margins are clear!
I went in for a dressing change and my doctor heard I was there and dropped in to have a look and tell me that my results are good. Margins are clear. She got all the cancer!
Then I came home for a nap.
This is 5 days post surgery ...
Machka in Oz
So glad you got those four amazing words too!!
Looking forward to getting the dressings changed on Friday. Hoping they will let me grab a shower- Not supposed to have one yet. Did take a quick one the other morning when the cat threw up down my back when I was here alone.
Heading back to my recliner
Will check in tomorrow
Debbie
I haven't had a shower yet either. It was strongly suggested I wait a week for both my nose and hip.
Tomorrow I will get all or most of the stitches out of my nose (but not my hip yet), and then I think I can shower.
M in Oz2 -
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16 Touch: puppy tummies
17 Smell: Lemon Lift tea in the morning
18 Sound: Joe’s snores.
19 Sight: Joe sleeping with Tumble snoozing on his chest.
Skimin’ again and only through pg 40.
Flea ((hugs)) held extra long. And wishes for safe travel and a restorative time.
Allie and yes Carmine is getting more likeable every day.
Carla what are roll outs?
Heather with no chicken pox vaccinations, are shingles rife in the UK’s senior population? The Shingrix adds here are scary and make you think if you don’t get the vaccine you’ll really suffer.
Rita 5.3 IS scary. Thanks for the ear worm
Low energy, can’t seem to muster the will or strength to do more than one or two things a day. Tree’s up. Took one batch of KJ’s adult fudge to line dance party Friday. Skipped dog group Saturday as I was just tired. Sunday veg pep for fellowship and made rum balls. Monday it was English toffee. Goodie packages won’t be posted til Wednesday if then, but not sweating it. God daughter celebrates Hanukkah and the co workers won’t care so long as they get rum balls at all.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
December: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
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dlfk202000 wrote: »My margins are clear!
I went in for a dressing change and my doctor heard I was there and dropped in to have a look and tell me that my results are good. Margins are clear. She got all the cancer!
Then I came home for a nap.
This is 5 days post surgery ...
Machka in Oz
So glad you got those four amazing words too!!
Looking forward to getting the dressings changed on Friday. Hoping they will let me grab a shower- Not supposed to have one yet. Did take a quick one the other morning when the cat threw up down my back when I was here alone.
Heading back to my recliner
Will check in tomorrow
Debbie
Congrats on the clear margins!
Condolences for the cat upchuck down your back.
Karen in Virginia
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Heather with no chicken pox vaccinations, are shingles rife in the UK’s senior population? The Shingrix adds here are scary and make you think if you don’t get the vaccine you’ll really suffer.
Barbara
Regarding shingles ...
On a Google search, I see it says that ...
1 in 3 people in the US will get Shingles
1 in 4 people in the UK will get Shingles
1 in 3 people in Australia ...
1 in 3 people in Canada ...
In the US, you have a million and one medical ads on TV. Other countries don't have anywhere near that quantity of medical ads. So it doesn't surprise me you see a lot of Shingrix ads.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/medications/do-not-get-sold-on-drug-advertising
"The United States and New Zealand are the only countries where drug makers are allowed to market prescription drugs directly to consumers. The U.S. consumer drug advertising boom on television began in 1997, when the FDA relaxed its guidelines relating to broadcast media."
Machka in Oz
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Gratitude1 What is something that makes you laugh? Robin Williams movies.20 Texture: Silk
2 Something about the current season you’re grateful for: Very grateful for the cool fall weather and the lovely rains.
3 What about your body do you love/are you grateful for? I am grateful for my hair. It's a pretty color and has body/wave. I never have to fuss with it.
4 Who is someone in your life that you’re grateful for? I am incredibly grateful for the assistant marketing manager Stephanie at our retirement community, who is skillfully navigating us through the portal into our retirement community. Among other things, she tactfully negotiated to return the larger storage space that originally came with our apartment (it had been commandeered, lol), assigned us a prime parking space near the elevator in the parking garage, gave us a grace period before we have to start daily "check ins", took charge of a delivery of large awkward boxes in our absence, delivering them into our apartment with care, spontaneously recruited us to join into a trivia game that was already underway, and numerous other little thoughtful gestures. Plus she is super responsive to emails.
5 What is a book that changed your life? To Kill a Mockingbird
6 Think about something you’re good at: I'm good at packing a box with random items (like a puzzle).
7 What is a lesson you’re grateful you learned? I am still learning this lesson. Do not talk at/overwhelm my younger brother with too much information or too many questions. He is vulnerable and becomes anxious and ultimately angry - because he feels inadequate, which makes him resentful.
8 A basic need that has been met: Basic needs: food, water, clothing, sleep, and shelter. All have been met with the possible exception of adequate sleep.
9 What are you most grateful for in the city/town where you live? Oh my gosh, there are so many great things about this neck of the woods. However, picking just one: I have a terrific network of friends and access to limitless resources in and around Richmond, VA where I live. So I would have to say "the people who live here".
10 What rejection in your life are you most grateful for? I am grateful for being rejected by my friend Liz in graduate school. We started out by ride-sharing to school and quickly became fast friends. Liz rejected my friendship when I betrayed a confidence involving another classmate Susan. I said something to Susan that tipped her off that Liz had revealed to me something personal about Susan that she had told Liz in confidence. Susan felt betrayed by Liz, and Liz felt betrayed by me. It was a life's lesson that I should have learned at a much younger age, but I learned it well and painfully this time, and paid dearly for it by losing Liz as a friend. It was excruciating. I apologized, but the damage had been done.
11 Something you use every day: I use my hot water kettle every day and I am consciously grateful for it every time I use it. I think, what a great little hot water kettle this is! every day, lol

12 Something you don’t need anymore.: I no longer need my beloved John Deere lawn tractor. Time to dispose of it.
13 Refuge – space you love in your home: In my new home (apartment), I love my very own room. It has things I love in it and is a calm oasis.
14 Item of clothing: I have a navy blue with white polka dots dress I love. Sometimes I wear red Danskins with it. And a string of fake pearls.
15 Taste: Comice pears with brie and Riesling
16 Touch: Casper the Cat's dense white fur (just a memory now)
17 Smell: Lily of the Valley
18 Sound: Snoring doggies
19 Sight: Nebraska sunrises and sunsets.21 Color:
22 A song that makes you happy:
23 Type of weather you love:
24 Professional who helps you:
25 Something you take for granted:
26 A TV show that you look forward to watching:
27 A movie you watch over and over:
28 An opportunity you’re grateful you had:
29 A place you love to visit:
30 A tool you find incredibly useful:
31 A daily habit you’re happy you’ve cultivated:
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I got a surprise email from the owner of the residential assisted living facility my brother was living in until all the men were discharged without notice October 17th. I sent her a text about my brother's birth certificates on October 20th and a letter October 21st requesting that she send the money she owes my brother from his Social Security (she was his payee until August and is holding over $5000 of his money).
After October 21st, I have not attempted to communicate with her.
So 2 days ago she sends me an email out of the blue telling me to CEASE AND DESIST! (in caps) directly contacting her. She cc'd the DSS licensing inspector (inspector for the Commonwealth of Virginia for Social Services). It makes me wonder what it is she is telling the DSS licensing inspector. I suspect the inspector advised her to tell me to stop contacting her, not realizing it has been over 8 weeks since my last communication.
l replied to her email, outlining the dates above, and noting that it had been over 8 weeks since my last communication. I assured her that I had no intention of further direct contact. I asked her not to contact me directly as well. I said that future communication should be through SS officials, the police detective investigating the case, or our attorneys.
She's a piece of work. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have the money because she told me she had had a lot of home repair expenses. I believe she "borrowed" my brother's money to pay for the repairs.
SMH
Karen in Virginia
So the email she sent 2 days ago told6 -
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
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Terri, So glad you are on the other side of Covid. My son and his family have it now, finally feeling a little better the last day or two. It's miserable.
Karen in Virginia3 -
We do get shingles vac adverts on TV, as a government health programme. Of course, we don't pay anything for our vaccinations. You get them at over 70 here.
I was very lucky in that my case of shingles, before the vac, was a very mild one. I was staying with three doctors in Scotland, who diagnosed it quickly, and went out at 10pm on a Saturday night to get anti virals from the late night pharmacy in Glasgow. That was a long drive! It was on my waist.
My first husband, then my fiancé, had it in his first year of work, during my last year at uni. He came down to stay with me in my room. It was really awful. He had it in his head, and over his eye, and the pain was severe. He had eye drops and pain killers, but could hardly move. His eye took a while to recover and he occasionally felt the pain in his head for years.
Now to get on with my book.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Good morning, afternoon and/or evening, my friends...
Barbara AHMOD - Haven't you had issues with anemia before? I ask, because fatigue without cause has been the first signal of a lot of things this last few years for me. If it continues, maybe ask your doctor for a blood test to check? Thinking about you.
Karen in VA - People like that always leave me wondering what they would accomplish if they simply used all that rotten energy for good. I swear, the bad guys work harder to steal from people than if they just got into a real job that paid more. And defrauding folks like your brother should incur much more jail time than most crimes. Without you speaking up she might never have been caught. I'm glad you're pursuing these issues, both for your brother's sake and because you're probably saving others from her machinations.
Heather - Just here peering over your shoulder to see how far you get today on the book.
Re: Shingles - I've had every vaccination there is. I get cranky about the VA, but they are really good on the vaccine side. Every time I have an appointment for anything, they review my records and offer the flu shot or whatever I should have, and then I have the choice.
My house has echoes of laughter in every corner... and a few tears still from me. My daughter was pretty broken up when they left, kept circling back around for hugs from me and from her dad, and shedding many tears. We're her home, and even though she hasn't lived with us in 13 years, we will always be her home. Military housing is never home, it's just where you sleep. But in 70 days, they'll be heading for Hawaii for at least four years, and no telling when we'll see her. Traveling is still a hard no for me, but I know me, and I know I'll start jonesing for my family at about the six-month mark.
Occasionally I still marvel at this extraordinary life. I was infertile, but I have a daughter and a son and grandchildren. I was a neglected wife, but now I live with a man who loves me without measure and proves that over and over again. I look into a future that I never knew was even possible, and breathe in every molecule of joy around me now, because I know how bad life can get. I don't know anymore if I "deserve" to have these things in my life--but I am ever grateful for the opportunity to have them all.
I'll go now, I'm getting tears on my keyboard.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
This is the kitchen whiteboard I woke up to this morning:
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Had the most wonderful time last night, baking sugar cookies with the girls and grands. It's an annual tradition that Kolten and I started when he was probably 4! He always loved Grammy's sugar cookies and loved helping me bake them and he has his very own, special multi-colored sugar. (very hard to find, btw, of course!) We also make an entire batch of Pärlsocker cookies which is a favorite from Norway.
20 Texture: fleece, cozy, cozy, fleece
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN
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Snow is falling and there is a nice covering on the ground this morning Bessie and I had a nice walk before breakfast. She wore her coat to stay dry and warm and I wore my boots and YakTrax for warmth and traction. I look forward to a longer walk after breakfast. Jake is building a fire in the wood stove. We have no place to go today so we can enjoy being home and cozy. On my solo walk I am listening to Gretchen Rubin read "A Christmas Carol".
Barbie in NW WA7 -
Morning ladies
Lisa- you deserve all that love and more.. cause we all love ya too !!!
Went to the Dr yesterday..only complaint I have is the hip and thigh pain that keeps me from getting a peaceful nights sleep..
So she has sent a referral to PT and we will start there.. she said it could be since ive been picking up Miles and and taking care of him .. but we shall see. I would much rather find something that works than have to go the orthopedic route..
Machka and Debbie- glad your both in the healing faze..
Kim- hope you weren't displaced or hurt with the earthquake..
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Karen ~ I hope the government makes that lady thief give back your brother's money.
Pip ~ I know how much you miss those beautiful Labs...especially at Christmas. Thanks for sharing the Xmas photos of them. Every time I see them, I think of the Pom I loved.
Rosemarie ~ I am so glad your son is able to visit you and your husband! I can only imagine how much that means to you. My son has been working in Texas for the last 2 months and thankfully should be home again full time this week.
Lisa ~ You are blessed to have such a wonderful family and I know you are a blessing to them.
I am meeting my two old friends for lunch today! We are so lucky to have each other after 50+ years of friendship!
Carol in GA7 -
Karen ~ I hope the government makes that lady thief give back your brother's money.
Pip ~ I know how much you miss those beautiful Labs...especially at Christmas. Thanks for sharing the Xmas photos of them. Every time I see them, I think of the Pom I loved.
Rosemarie ~ I am so glad your son is able to visit you and your husband! I can only imagine how much that means to you. My son has been working in Texas for the last 2 months and thankfully should be home again full time this week.
Lisa ~ You are blessed to have such a wonderful family and I know you are a blessing to them.
I am meeting my two old friends for lunch today! We are so lucky to have each other after 50+ years of friendship!
Carol in GA
I still think of our goldens a lot. They were the best7 -
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Carol in GA
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I supervised (!) the cake icing and decorating after lunch. He did a good job. (I think)
I then made some coleslaw to have with our homemade pizza tonight.
Then DH went out for a walk while I had a long chat with my friend G. I was able to advise her about her canapés for Christmas Eve. I think she has avoided a disaster!
DH came back with this lovely photo of the sea.
Now for a short nap!
Love Heather UK xxxxxx9 -
Heather ~ The cake looks delicious and the sea beautiful! What kind of icing is that? It looks so fluffy.
Carol in GA1 -
Carol - it's royal icing and will dry hard. We have added glycerine so it doesn't go rock hard!
Heather UK xxxxxx2 -
Here am am coming home from my two hour walk in the snow after breakfast10 -
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