WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2023
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Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx ( the comments on this post were hilarious!)
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Hi Ladies! I've been MIA, sorry. Seems like my head has been in a bad space. The weather in NV has been driving my neuropathy crazy, so the rest of my life goes to hell also.
I caught up on all the discussions. It helped.
My Mom had surgery to "clean" out the vein/artery in her leg. Well with the family curse, she ended back in the hospital to reopen it and now she has a wound pump to deal with until it heals. I couldn't get to be there, but with the horrible weather they had in northern WI (and my sister who is in fear of everything, she needs meds) I'm glad we could just Zoom. She is going home for the second time today with home care this time.
The writings of your travels, good-bad-and future gave me inspiration to plan a couple for later this year. One to Seattle in August, I love Pikes Market and DD and future SIL live there. We will be going to the Boeing Seafair Air Show. Then the other is to Las Vegas. It's only 6 hours from here. I plan to walk till I drop and eat to my heart's desire and see a couple shows. I'm trying to talk DH to going to the NASCAR races, but hotels are crazy expensive then. We don't gamble, as you can even do it at the grocery store here, so the money spent goes for fun stuff.
Last time my husband flew a stunt plane and drove in a race car at LVMS. This time I think skydiving is in the works, if the kids all come along.
Mary, we also had travel experiences. We took our "good" friends on a trip from SLC to Las Vegas. Nightmare. They couldn't believe every named dot on the map wasn't a city. (most didn't have a gas station ) Our friend was scared of being on steep roads and he never walked even close enough to see the majesty of the canyon.
As for Vegas, it was the early 80's and still old school. Awesome buffets, cheap grand dinners and shows, they wanted to eat at McDonalds and gamble from sunup to sundown. We let them and went our separate ways. They complained about how expensive it was LOL.
Should have learned our lesson, BUT my husband wanted to take them on two other trips. Disasters everyone. When we went to see the ocean, I was so angry I never got out of the van to touch the sand. He finally learned his lesson; we now only go with ourselves or the kids.
With your inspirations I have also started logging and walking.
Taking trip to SLC to see a specialist for female pelvic reconstruction. Yeah At least I get to see Skyler, my grandson, DD and SIL They have a fenced yard so the Corgis can run free and play with their "Cousins" Dixie Ray, a lab basset mix and Remmi, a mini ausssie.
It's melting here with smaller snow squalls, but now there is the threat of flooding. Our house is fine, but we needed to give our friend a pump to keep the water from flooding his home. I'm glad we got so much moisture, but I must confess I wish Spring would get here a little faster.
Thank you again for your musings and photos.
May the rest of the day bring you joy!
Belinda
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KetoneKaren wrote: »TerriRichardson112 wrote: »
Irish Terri,
what are mint chives?
I have garlic chives which I love, but mint chives sound amazing!
Karen in Virginia
Oops! There should be a comma after mint. Although the three herbs do go well together.1 -
Had a great day. Doing this between Dancing on Ice, and Pottery Throw-down Finals.
Intentions for March:🔹Maintain weight < 140 (I have managed to stay at the lower end off the 140s)
🔹Continue with Solid Habit development
Intentions for today:
📍Solid habits✔️
📍general chores✔️
📍Prep: Monday Painters✔️ : Tuesday Craft
📍Family Skype late afternoon ✔️
📍Watch the finals of Dancing on Ice, ✔️Great British Pottery Throw-down after dinner
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
March Action for Happiness:1. Set an intention to live with awareness and kindness. I intend to live with awareness and kindness11. Stay fully present while drinking your cup of tea or coffee. Always! Gives me calm thinking time.
2. Notice three things you find beautiful in the outside world.Trees silhouetted against the sky; the appearance of snowdrops in spring; the sound of waves breaking on the shore.
3. Start today by appreciating your body and that you are alive. I meditate on this each morning when I wake up, and am grateful for each new opportunity to have a good day.
4. Notice how you speak to yourself and choose to use kind words. Positive affirmations are very powerful. Be kind to yourself, always.
5. Bring to mind people you care about and send love to them. We chatted with our girls about other family members, and raised a glass to them.
6. Have a ‘no plans’ day and notice how that feels. I will do this tomorrow (7th)
7. Take three calm breaths at regular intervals during your day.Resisting the temptation to plan my day. Serendipity reigns today.
8. Eat mindfully. Appreciate the taste, texture and email of your food. ✔️
9. Take a full breath in and out before you reply to others. I’m a great advocate of deep breathing, and find this works well.
10. Get outside and notice how the weather feels on your face.I wasn’t looking forward to going outside this morning as we had snow overnight and it seemed very cold. However, the sun shone in a clear blue sky, and the wind had dropped right down again, and I spent time with my eyes closed feeling the heat on my face before I went into the centre for Latin Study.
12. Listen deeply to someone and really hear what they are saying. When I tried to do this with DH this morning, he got distracted by a discussion on What the Papers Say on TV. 😝 However, we often have in-depth discussions, usually over lunc and dinner.13. Pause to watch the sky or clouds for a few minutes today.
14. Find ways to enjoy any chores or tasks that you do.
15. Stop. Breathe. Notice. Repeat regularly.
16. Get really absorbed with an interesting or creative activity.
17. Look around and spot three thing you find unusual or pleasant.
18. If you find yourself rushing, make an effort to slow down.
19. Appreciate nature around you wherever you are.
20. Focus on what makes you and others happy today.
21. Listen to a piece of music without doing anything else.
22. Notice something that is going well, even if today feels difficult.
23. Tune into your feelings, without judging or trying to change them.
24. Appreciate your hands and all the things they enable you to do.
25 Focus your attention on the good things you take for granted.
26. Choose too spend less times looking at screens today.
27. Cultivate a feeling of loving-kindness towards others today.
28. Notice when you are tired and take a break as soon as possible.
29. Choose a different route today and see
what you notice.
30. Mentally scan your body and notice what you are feeling.
31. Discover the joy in the simple things of life.0 -
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx ( the comments on this post were hilarious!)
Omg. I was having a frustrating morning with my niece, related to my mom's estate, and I said to my son. "Why do we have to deal with people? Why can't everyone just be cats and dogs?"
That is all.
Flea
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Lisa – would you believe I never even HEARD of pimento cheese until we moved to NC? Same with livermush or persimmon pudding
Laura – welcome. Come back often so we get to know you and you can get to know us
Belida – glad to see you again! So sorry about your mom. Hope she doesn’t have to go back to the hosp. For a long time
Michele who is going to work on Jess’ xstitch
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Stat for the day-
Housecleaning etc- vacuum, dust, make hummingbird food, laundry fold and put away, clean master bathroom counter(grout), etc= 881c2 -
Afternoon ladies
Well finally got my Samsung watch back up and going,and packed my stuff in the duffle.i packed my winter coat as its going to be cold down there.
Dan stopped and got thr garbage for me..
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TerriRichardson112 wrote: »KetoneKaren wrote: »TerriRichardson112 wrote: »
Irish Terri,
what are mint chives?
I have garlic chives which I love, but mint chives sound amazing!
Karen in Virginia
Oops! There should be a comma after mint. Although the three herbs do go well together.
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Update on my trip friends. We went over to pick up two extra batteries we had borrowed to our friends for the bike ride. I was flabbergasted when my lady friend said that she owed me an apology. I asked her for what and she mentioned the incident where they had wanted to go to the breakfast restaurant. Evidently she knew I was not very happy. She went back and reread the text messages that she sent to me and my responses. She realized that she was the one that made the request. It was nice of her to acknowledge that. Her husband seem to have a change of behavior as well. They must have talked about the incident and our trip. Still never do that again!!
💕 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota8 -
Melanie, welcome! It sounds like your approach is very similar to mine. I concentrate on protein and eat around 1600 calories a day. Loss is slow, but I don’t get hungry or have sugar cravings. I try to choose healthy carbs and limit them to two meals a day. I would not pass the low carb test, though. I also try to limit added sugars to 25 grams of less. I aim for 100 to 130 g of protein per day.4
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Chiming in on the work ethic nowadays. I don’t think it’s all the younger generation. I’m finding people in my age group are changing too. The work, work, work mentality seems to be changing and people want more balance. Sleeping on the job is ridiculous no matter the age.
Tracey in Edmonton
Thank goodness that the work, work, work mentality is changing. We do want more balance! That has been one of several good things to emerge from the pandemic. People are re-evaluating what's important.
There are many articles on "Work-life balance after pandemic" if someone is interested in googling and reading.
That's one thing I really like about Australia. They've had a better work-life balance than Canada for quite some time with much longer leave available. For me, it's unlikely I'll move back to Canada if I have to work there. I'm happy to retire to Canada, but unless Canada catches up with Australia or a particular business offers me something similar to what I can get in Australia, I'll stay here to work.
I've noticed that since 2021, there's been quite a shuffle within what were very stable state government departments. I have been one of those who has shuffled! I was a little over 8 years in my position, and in 2021, I decided it was time for a change. One of the things I did was to go to a 9-day fortnight, but I've done the job shuffle too. I will tell you more about it ... it's been very complicated. Hopefully things will be sorted next week.
However, yes, unless the nap is in the lunch hour, just wandering off to sleep in the middle of the day is a no-no!
Way back when, in a previous organisation in Canada, my department hired a university student as part of a work experience program. I really don't know why he even agreed to the program. He wasn't interested in anything we were getting him to do, and we were trying to introduce him to a variety of things. He would sit with someone for a little while going over something, then would get up to go to the toilet, and would vanish for the next hour!! We finally figured out where he was going. Way up in the top of the building was a mezzanine area where very old stuff had been stored, some things dating back to the early years of the company. It was very dusty and nothing had been touched in years ... except that this uni student had discovered there was a bench of some sort up there, and he'd go up there to sleep!! He got a couple warnings, but kept doing it and was let go. But a couple weeks later he contacted us and wanted a reference for a new job!!
Machka in Oz
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KetoneKaren wrote: »We are back from a 12-day holiday away!
First we went all the way up north, with our island state, and stayed at the beach up there for a few days. That was lovely. I walked on the beach, and we cycled on some very good roads and sealed cycling paths. We completed an enjoyable 50 km ride on one day up there.
Then we moved a little bit south to a flattish farming area and were planning to do lots of cycling, but a low pressure system and cold front moved in, with lots of rain and wind, so we just relaxed and read inside for a couple of the days. Finally, on my birthday, we were able to get out for another 50 km ride.
On our last day there, after we had packed the van, we were in the process of seizing Rhody to put him in the van, but Mr Rhodini slipped our grasp and disappeared under the deck. The space there was fine for him but way too low for us, so all we could do was stand guard and wait. After about an hour, he emerged from one side, I grabbed him with my right hand, but didn't have a good grip on him and went to move my left hand around him, but he turned and inserted a fang into my left hand. Then, when I shifted my right hand he became a shape-changer, grew about 1000 legs with claws and slipped out of my grasp, back under the deck. Two hours later, he emerged again and walked toward his litter box, which we had positioned just a little way away from the deck, but within smelling distance, and I was able to grab him properly ... and we were finally on our way.
However, my left hand has been very sore and a bit swollen from the bite.
Nevertheless, we moved over to our next location, and this past Saturday, we held a 200 km Audax cycling event with 3 riders who all did very well.
And today, Sunday, we are back at home and all relaxing in our usual places.
We treated ourselves to some yummy food. We cycled, walked, slept and read. We saw some places we haven't seen in a while. It was lovely ... and feels like it has been a lot longer than just 12 days!!
Machka in Oz
Oh my gosh, Machka!!!
You probably already know this, but about 80% of cat bites become infected, usually with Pasteurella muliticoda, and the infection can develop quite rapidly, sometimes within 6 hours of being bitten. It requires specific antibiotics - the sooner the better - I hope you have already received medical care, dear girl, cat bites can be sneaky because the cat fang inoculates the bacteria very deep in the hand tissue. Antibiotic creams don’t begin to penetrate that deep, and are inadequate for treatment. If abscesses develop along a hand tendon, surgery is required.
I know this sounds dramatic. However, I am not an alarmist; I am offering sound medical knowledge based on fact.
You are probably already on an oral antibiotic. ???
Karen in Virginia
p.s. I’m glad the trip was so lovely
No medical care yet. We were in rural Tasmania where medical care is not readily available and it's a long weekend when medical care is not readily available.
However, the colour of my hand is returning to normal and the swelling is coming down.
I do know cat bites can be problematic, as I mentioned 3 family members have spent time in hospital here relatively recently because of cat bites.
I was looking at it this morning and it may need a stitch or two. We are going into the city tomorrow (when everything is back in business again after the long weekend), so I'll see if I can get in somewhere to have that done.
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KetoneKaren wrote: »We are back from a 12-day holiday away!
First we went all the way up north, with our island state, and stayed at the beach up there for a few days. That was lovely. I walked on the beach, and we cycled on some very good roads and sealed cycling paths. We completed an enjoyable 50 km ride on one day up there.
Then we moved a little bit south to a flattish farming area and were planning to do lots of cycling, but a low pressure system and cold front moved in, with lots of rain and wind, so we just relaxed and read inside for a couple of the days. Finally, on my birthday, we were able to get out for another 50 km ride.
On our last day there, after we had packed the van, we were in the process of seizing Rhody to put him in the van, but Mr Rhodini slipped our grasp and disappeared under the deck. The space there was fine for him but way too low for us, so all we could do was stand guard and wait. After about an hour, he emerged from one side, I grabbed him with my right hand, but didn't have a good grip on him and went to move my left hand around him, but he turned and inserted a fang into my left hand. Then, when I shifted my right hand he became a shape-changer, grew about 1000 legs with claws and slipped out of my grasp, back under the deck. Two hours later, he emerged again and walked toward his litter box, which we had positioned just a little way away from the deck, but within smelling distance, and I was able to grab him properly ... and we were finally on our way.
However, my left hand has been very sore and a bit swollen from the bite.
Nevertheless, we moved over to our next location, and this past Saturday, we held a 200 km Audax cycling event with 3 riders who all did very well.
And today, Sunday, we are back at home and all relaxing in our usual places.
We treated ourselves to some yummy food. We cycled, walked, slept and read. We saw some places we haven't seen in a while. It was lovely ... and feels like it has been a lot longer than just 12 days!!
Machka in Oz
Oh my gosh, Machka!!!
You probably already know this, but about 80% of cat bites become infected, usually with Pasteurella muliticoda, and the infection can develop quite rapidly, sometimes within 6 hours of being bitten. It requires specific antibiotics - the sooner the better - I hope you have already received medical care, dear girl, cat bites can be sneaky because the cat fang inoculates the bacteria very deep in the hand tissue. Antibiotic creams don’t begin to penetrate that deep, and are inadequate for treatment. If abscesses develop along a hand tendon, surgery is required.
I know this sounds dramatic. However, I am not an alarmist; I am offering sound medical knowledge based on fact.
You are probably already on an oral antibiotic. ???
Karen in Virginia
p.s. I’m glad the trip was so lovely
No medical care yet. We were in rural Tasmania where medical care is not readily available and it's a long weekend when medical care is not readily available.
However, the colour of my hand is returning to normal and the swelling is coming down.
I do know cat bites can be problematic, as I mentioned 3 family members have spent time in hospital here relatively recently because of cat bites.
I was looking at it this morning and it may need a stitch or two. We are going into the city tomorrow (when everything is back in business again after the long weekend), so I'll see if I can get in somewhere to have that done.
Machka in Oz
You should soak your hand in Epson salt bath. Epson salt will draw the poisons out. Even infections. When my husband cut the tip of his finger off and it was reattached, it started to become rather nasty and infection was setting in. He was in danger of having to have it amputated. His new doctor a hand specialist said to soak his hand in a really warm Epson salt bath for 20 minutes 2 to 3 times a day. It cleared it up immediately! Also, make sure that it gets plenty of air. Not bandaged all day long. After soaking his finger, he would keep the bandage off for 2 to 3 hours, then re-bandage. Then did this three times a day.3 -
Whidislander wrote: »My glue fest turned out well. Heck there was only 3 magnets on the thing! I always thought there was more. I cut a good 10 inches off, hung it up and while in the tub, marked with a sharp ie where I wanted them. Two up high on the ends and one low in the middle. Then I went to check which magnetic side to put the glue, by sticking it on the side, I found out the dang walls AREN'T magnetic!!! So quickly took a toilet wipe and rubbed off the end marks! I then made sure they were low to click on the tub. Glad I checked! My hot glue worked and it probably melted into the shower plastic a bit. It was hot pressing it, used my slipper instead of my hand, lol!
Hugs to everyone that wishes one!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
Well done!
That must be a special shower curtain to put in that effort!
When I used shower curtains in one place I lived in Canada, I'd buy a new one about once a year because they'd grow mould and rip etc. But I would get them at a dollar store for <$5.
M in Oz
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My feelings most days!
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Debbie - I hope your DH soon realizes how fast life is going and figure out his wife should be his priority.
Rita - I always thought genetics played a part in our weight. I wish I had taken after my maternal grandmother’s side instead of every other side I have. 😂
Heather - one of the hardest adjustments we had when we moved to Alberta was that the girls (6 & 8) didn’t have a sleepover for 2 years. We came from being surrounded by family and friends and they were gone at least one weekend a month sometimes more. Aunts, 2 sets of grandparents and 1 Great grandmother that all asked for them for sleepovers all the time. I am 100% positive that that time as only a couple saved our marriage. Moving out here I remember we were having a stupid argument about something. He said I’ve had enough of this. I thought he was leaving. I remember sitting with my back against the door, feet planted on the wall across from me telling me he wasn’t moving me to some miserable city where I didn’t know how to get around, didn’t know a single person and then leaving me. If I was stuck there so was he.
I think it was shortly after that we left for a weekend and left the girls with the sitter that moved here with us.
I am one of the odd people that don’t mind the time changes. Funnily enough I manage to feel more rested at both of them. Tonight I will go to bed at 10 like I normally do, that means I’ll end up falling asleep an hour earlier.
My grandkids have a PD day tomorrow, I bet that was at the teachers urging so they didn’t have to deal with out of sorts kids.
The Grands were out today with their parents and I did a bit of crafting.
Michaela was chatting away and said something about “now that I’m 7”. I said, “how did you get to be 7 already”. She said, “well, I just had my 7th birthday on Jan 3rd”.
My Grandson is driving his Father and I a little batty because he has grown his hair out. I have a feeling that he is doubling down to continue growing it the more we say anything, so I’ve decided to keep quiet.
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In case any of you were wondering ... this is Hobart. Hobart is "the city" I refer to now and then when I say things like, "we're going to the city tomorrow".
Not my photo ... credit to phillipmahoney
https://www.facebook.com/pulsehobart/photos/a.229879974024657/845330922479556/
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