WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2023
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Machka - I am on an iPhone. I’ve done everything, including uninstalling and reinstalling the app. It’s just MFP.
Tracey in Edmonton
Seems like it's just Apple products. There probably was an update or something that affected them.
Sorry.
M in Oz
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ACTIVE APRIL1. Commit to being more active this month starting today. Yes!
2. Spend as much time as possible outdoors today. Yes!
3. Listen to your body and be grateful for what it can do. Yes! I can garden, which requires all sorts of body motion, and cycle.
4. Eat healthy and natural food today and drinks lots of water. Yes! Ate my usual food and drank lots of water up till about 8 pm. We won't talk about what happened after that.
5. Turn a regular activity into a playful game today. Hmmm ... Walking around the shops? Climbing stairs?
6. Do a body-scan meditation and really notice how your body feels. Achy.
7. Get natural light early in the day. Dim the lights in the evening.
There isn't much light early in the day here. Plus I was sleeping then. Plus it was cloudy, drizzly and rainy all day.
But I do dim the lights in the evening. It's one of many steps I take to wind down in the evenings to prepare myself for the night.
8. give your body a boost by laughing or making someone laugh
I rarely laugh. Most things don't strike me funny.
Lots of things amuse me, but not enough for laughter.
9. Turn your housework or chores into a fun form of exercise
I often do, but as today's work involved sitting at 2 computers, I walked on the treadmill during a break instead.
10. Have a day with less screen time and more movement
Unfortunately, today was another day sitting at 2 computers.
But I did go downstairs to row and lift weights.
Hoping the rain will let up soon!!! It's been 4 days already!
11. Set yourself an exercise goal or sign up to an activity challenge
One of my more favourite areas!!
We aim to cycle at least one 50 km ride each month and have been doing that for a while. At our AGM at the end of March, we got a bag full of these each.
We will have to see when we can fit our April ride in ... the 5 days off over Easter would have been good but it rained and rained and was cold and windy. Snow at higher elevations.
Maybe next weekend ... we'll see.
AND ... one of the bigger running events moved their event to September which is fantastic for me. Originally, it was this month, but I was nowhere near ready to even sign up for the 5K. Now I've got the winter to get in shape.
Also, now that I'm working back in the same building I was in about 16 months ago, with many of the same people, we've started our stair climbing challenge again. We are easing into it this month because of Easter and ANZAC Day but we'll be ready to be much more consistent in May.
The stair climbing challenge is exciting because when I'm busy climbing 20+ flights of 20 stairs each day I am at work, I lose weight.
12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside
Absolutely! I climbed stairs.15. Make sleep a priority and go to bed in good time
16. Relax your body & mind with yoga, tai chi or meditation.
17. Get active by singing today (even if you think you can’t sing)
25. Go exploring around your local area and notice new things
26. Be active outside. Dig up weeds or plant some seeds
27. Try a new online exercise, activity or dance class.
28. Spend less time sitting today. Get up and move more often.
29. Focus on eating ‘a rainbow of multi-colored vegetables today.
30. Regularly pause to stretch and breathe during the day.
31. Enjoy moving to your favorite music. Really go for it.
32. Go out and do an errand for a loved one or neighbor.
33. Get active in nature. Feed the birds or go wild-life spotting.
34. Have a ‘no screens’ night and take time to recharge yourself.
35. Take an extra break in your day and walk outside for 15 minutes
36. Find a fun exercise to do while waiting for the kettle to boil (or pan of water.)
37. Meet a friend outside for a walk and a chat.
38. Become an activist for a cause you really believe in
39. Make time to run, swim, dance, cycle or stretch today
Machka in Oz
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Machka: It is just MFP! Everything else is running fine. Both app and website on my phone and tablet.
Got my weekly shop done and put away. Watching the coverage of President Biden in Belfast. He’s about to give his speech in University if Ulster.
Intentions for April:🔹Maintain weight < 140 (I have managed to stay at the lower end of the 140s)
🔹Continue with Solid Habit development
Intentions for today:
📍Solid habits
📍general chores
📍weekly grocery shopping
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
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Good morning my friends!
I have a doctor appointment today for my sciatica. It was pretty bad two weeks ago when I made the appointment but it has gotten much better. Yay! I still want to get the X-ray and find out if it is bone or muscle or what that pinches the nerve. I can't say exactly what positions or exercises cause it to flare up. I used to have bursitis on that side but that went away. My stretches must be doing some good.
Rebecca I'm sorry you are so hurt. Hope you can come to some shared expectations so it doesn't happen again.
Annie in Delaware2 -
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TerriRichardson112 wrote: »Machka: It is just MFP! Everything else is running fine. Both app and website on my phone and tablet.
☘️ Terri
You've got a Mac? Apple products?
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Betsy in NW WA1 -
Good morning ladies!
Tracey - I am crossing fingers one of those job applications pans out for you. I sure remember being in a similar position - pay was good, supervisor was not. Do I stay put and deal with the devil I know? Hopefully you have other co-workers and job tasks you enjoy and look forward to despite the nasty supervisor situation. (((HUGS)))
Rebecca - so glad you talked to your older sister and she helped you work through your disappointment. Honestly, when I looked at the photo the kids sent you with the 2 littles and older gals, the first thing that went through my mind was that if I had been in the group, when we left Vancouver I'd floor it to get the heck home ASAP! No stopping!! Outrun the cops if I must! I need peace and quiet and my own bathroom!
Seems your middle son and DIL have been so good in sharing photos and including you and Lee as much as possible in being "remote" grandparents. Hope you are feeling better over it. I don't believe not contacting you or seeing you was intentional.
And to "flip it" as we often counsel here, it was a great opportunity for DIL's family to see Vancouver. How wonderful they were able to make the trip and share that photo of them having fun is another way to look at it. You did a great job raising your boys, even if one of them is incommunicado these days.
Rosemarie - I'm so proud of you getting out and doing things. Good job driving to Easter dinner and petting those little goats, I'm jealous. They bounce like they have springs on their feet, don't they?
For me, a key to maneuvering through my day is to "stay busy". That goes for any time grief and even worries after watching the evening news (which I rarely do) start to cloud my joy. Perhaps that's why I'm diving into chickens.
Have any of you heard "Dancing with My Eyes Closed" by Ed Sheeran? I've been playing it on a loop. A song about grief and loneliness and missing someone. Strangely, it doesn't make me sad. It does evoke good memories for which I'm very grateful. Plus, it's good Tai Chi background music for me. Here's a link to the loop if anyone is interested:
Neighbor Carol came over to see the "chicks" yesterday afternoon, we had a very nice visit and I showed her the proposed chicken coop location. She volunteered Roger to come help me as much as I want. She said he needs projects and after being married to him for 54 years she's not jealous or figuring he's up to something with the widow across the street. I have really gotten to know them well and they've been such a blessing.
Off to town this rainy morning to pick up some roofing panels for the chicken coop and hardware cloth for another project.
Make it a wonderful Wednesday.
Lanette
SW WA State
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Rebecca When our son died none of my immediate family came to his funeral for various reasons. The support I got was from the friends and the the cousins I have in this area. Yes it hurt. I do talk to my immediate family on occasion. I am glad most are doing well. Many of my friends are heavily involved with grandchildren, travel , and their own lives, so again I stay in touch and am happy when I do get to see them when it works out. Along with my DH I have three friends who are facing major medical issues. Again I see them as they and I are able . My solution to dealing with this chapter in my life is to involve myself in the things I love to do painting, enjoying my dog DrewB, gardening, playing Scrable with son, maintaining two houses, reading, volunteering in neighbors classroom, singing in my choir. Doing the things that nurture me.
One of my favorite things to do is just to go out into the world and having short conversations with strangers or the treat yesterday was to run into the friend of my son who is a police officer. It was so good to chat with him. He was patrolling the Target that had the shooting. Just knowing he was there in the Target store, and he is working in my community makes me feel safer.
I know you are hurting Rebecca. What works for me as I deal with my own hurts may or may not work for you. Everyone has to find their own way. Just know I respect your feelings and I believe in you to find what works for you.6 -
(((hugs))) to those who need them.
I'm so sorry, Rebecca. Don't know what else to say. Just (((hugs))) So good you have your eldest sister.
Sometimes it bothers me, Karen, and other times I'm just as happy being "left out". hehehe...
Well then THANK YOU Lanette! I'm just in love with Don Fiore! The Tai Chi for seniors is amazing and I love that he told me I could start out in my chair. My knees can't handle standing for long anymore.
I remember when Lacy was doing some purging of Shawn's clothing and asked me to make some pillows and trinkets out of remnants so she and Kolten and the rest of the family could have things to keep. It was good for her, kinda tough for me, but it all worked out. Blessings on your angelversary. Hang in there. We're all here for you.
The hummingbirds will find you, Katla. Give them time. We haven't had a deck for three summers now and ours keep coming back to look for their feeder. I'm going to get a window feeder this summer just so they know we're still here.
OMG ALLIE!!! That picture of Miles thru the tunnel just MADE MY DAY! He is so danged cute!!!
12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside... got my alarm set for every hour!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN2 -
TerriRichardson112 wrote: »Machka: It is just MFP! Everything else is running fine. Both app and website on my phone and tablet.
☘️ Terri
You've got a Mac? Apple products?
Machka ... my phone, tablet and computer are Apple products and I've not experienced anything that the ladies have been talking about regarding slow pages???
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TerriRichardson112 wrote: »Machka: It is just MFP! Everything else is running fine. Both app and website on my phone and tablet.
☘️ Terri
You've got a Mac? Apple products?
Machka ... my phone, tablet and computer are Apple products and I've not experienced anything that the ladies have been talking about regarding slow pages???
Beth
Hmmm ... I thought maybe there was a pattern.
But no.
Mine are not Apple products and I am not experiencing the slowness either.
I have no idea why a few are, and the rest of us are fine.
I do know that if a person hasn't cleared their cache recently, that can be a problem. Not necessarily in this situation, but it might be worth a shot. Today at work I was struggling to get into a certain data portal, so finally I cleared my cache on the chance it might help ... and it did!
M in Oz
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12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside. One more step than yesterday.
Lanette thanks for that “I’m happy” video. “Get up and dance!” is indeed the magic formula. the glasses and so with you about the peace, quiet and own bathroom :laugh:
Rebecca ((hugs)) when my line dance acquaintances exclude me it stings. How much more must it hurt from your sons. ((hugs)) Unasked for advice: When things calm down, try to find a magic word to say so the chief knows when to just listen and not invalidate your feelings. Glad your eldest sister was able to help.
Katla hope the local hummingbirds find your feeder soon.
Rosemarie I feel you could use more support too. Hope you find it here since it doesn’t seem to be your son’s strong suit. ((hugs))
Debbie we’ve had to make new juice for the humming bird feeders every other day lately. Lots of new ones despite Mr. Stinker trying to drive all comers away.
Vicki whooshing you strength to survive your difficult work situations.
Tracey Brava for the applications, taking what steps you can. Fingers Xd.
Heather and Margaret love your wise words to Rosemarie.
Machka not just apple products, affected my Windows laptop too. But its better this morning, no waiting between pages. Congrats on the bagsfull of badges!
Carla ok now you’ve made me want to checkout Lanette’s Don Fiore T’ai Chi. Thanks!
Gonna be a long day, casserole-athon, line dance class, rfpd budget and board meetings tonight. Time for PT, Shower then go!04/11: Move:dogs to powerline, Jeopardy walking steps:9071
Fuel: plants running count for week so far: 8+10+3+6 =almonds, apple, banana, beans-cannelini, bell peppers-orange/red/yellow, cabbage, caramel corn, carrots, corn chips, cucumber, daikon, garlic, horseradish, macadamia nuts, onion, pineapple, potatoes-boiled/hash browns, radish, romaine, snap peas, sweet potato, tangerines, tea, walnuts, wheat-cake/pasta/sourdough. CI=1312
Live: Joe, readings, BP, meeting prep, Shadow and Tumble grooming Wt: 136
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. April: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Machka - I am on an iPhone. I’ve done everything, including uninstalling and reinstalling the app. It’s just MFP.
Tracey in Edmonton
Seems like it's just Apple products. There probably was an update or something that affected them.
Sorry.
M in Oz
Not just Apple products. Having the same problem on my chromebook computer. Keep getting timeout message and page will not load. Very annoying.
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Good morning, afternoon or evening, all,
Rebecca, dear heart - Men can sometimes say things that jump up and down on our last nerves, and that phrasing was unfortunate on his part. You weren't trying to be logical or rational at the time, and I can't imagine you shout very often. It used to hurt me terribly when I would visit Mama in Texas, flying in from England or Colorado or Nevada and my brothers wouldn't even drive 20 miles to see me at her house. Our own expectations drive that pain--but that's in hindsight. At the time, it just hurt. Heather had the right of it - the male of the species genuinely doesn't think the way we do on the emotional side of things. I doubt my brothers ever thought about it one way or the other.
Katla and Debbie - You reminded me I need to get my humming bird feeders up. There's enough food in the wild out there now that it's warm that the big bird suet feeder is less frequented, time to give the little guys a boost while the flowers get up and blooming.
Tracey - I'm so sorry work is such torture right now. Dreading your every workday is exhausting, and colors your whole life gray. I've been in your shoes, and it is not a good place to be. Thinking about you.
Rori - Good to see you're planning your next adventure! Can't wait to see pics of your journey. Hope your team does well in the playoffs.
Lanette - I love Ed Sheeran, but hadn't heard that one. Such grief and truth in the same place. My go to when I was hurting was "Walking on Broken Glass," by Annie Lennox.
Had a rough night Monday, the worst in a long time, and a wobbly day yesterday recovering. Today is better--slept for nearly ten hours and woke up hungry. I'll go get breakfast put together when I close this out. Quiet week for the rest of the week, which is probably a good thing.
Next week is fasting labs on Monday morning, and signing the wills and trusts on Tuesday afternoon, so one thing accomplished anyway. I'll be able to get the lab results by Wednesday, so can put together the list of questions for the doctor for my phone appointment the following week. Otherwise I forget what I wanted to ask!
Hope it's a good day for everyone...
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
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April 2023 Action for Happiness
Word of the year: Appreciate : today I appreciate quiet mornings.Exercise goals added
Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week 5/15 (100%,100%,80%)
Walk 7,000 every day 10/30 (84%,86%,94%)
6 min HIIT -2x a day start April 1 18/60
Arm weights twice a week 2/10 (100%, 60%hurt my elbow, hurt my shoulder 30%)
Meditation: daily. 11/30 (82%(started Feb)94%)
1. cut back drinking and limit to 2 days a week. 0/8–(100%,100%,0%)
2. Average 7,000 steps a week. 9867, 9491, (7,700,100%-9851,100%—9526,100%)
3. Update budget every 2 weeks 4/2 —(100%,100%,100%,100%)
4. Contact close family every week (4x) 24/158/ —(100%,100%,100%)
5. Contact Donat and sibs once a month (8x)35/64–(100%,100%,100%)
6. Weigh less last day of month compared to first until I reach 140. Start at 178.6,176,174.2,173.4 (100%,100%,100%)
7. Develop a journaling practice by aiming to journal at least 5 days a week. 11/20-(100%,88%,100)
8. Read 12 books at least this year. 14(100%,100%,100%)
9. Pay off credit card debt by January 2024 by making monthly payments to NDR——4/12—(100%.100%,100%,100%)
10. Continue building emergency fund at SLFCU (min$25 a month)$25+$25+$71+700+25(100%,100%,100%,100%)
11. April started putting 4% on income in savings (100%)
Decided that if I do more than stated I will not grade higher than 100% 2/5/23
January Met —100%
February met —-90%
March met met —-90%
April met
May met
June met
July met — met
August met
September met
October met —
November met—
December met—
ACTIVE APRIL
1.Commit to being more active this month starting today. I commit to this by adding the exercises from the 6 minute book for over 60’s.11. Set yourself an exercise goal or sign up to an activity challenge. Already have goals: Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week, Walk 7,000 every day, 6 min HIIT -2x a day, Arm weights twice a week
2. Spend as much time as possible outdoors today. Easy! LOL
3. Listen to your body and be grateful for what it can do. I do this during walking meditations every day.
4. Eat healthy and natural food today and drinks lots of water. Yogurt and raspberries for breakfast with 17 oz water bottle and coffee, more to come.
5. Turn a regular activity into a playful game today. Not sure. Joked with hairdresser while getting hair cut. Everyone was laughing and joining in.
6. Do a body-scan meditation and really notice how your body feels. I do this often in my meditations.
7. Get natural light early in the day. Dim the lights in the evening. Morning done. Will do in evening.
8. give your body a boost by laughing or making someone laugh. I will as soon as I can! Did this with friends.
9. Turn your housework or chores into a fun form of exercise. Hmmmm tbd
10. Have a day with less screen time and more movement. I’ll try.
12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside. I will do. Vet this morning then normal day, so will be able to do this.13. Make sleep a priority and go to bed in good time.
14. Relax your body & mind with yoga, tai chi or meditation.
15. Get active by singing today (even if you think you can’t sing)
16. Go exploring around your local area and notice new things
17. Be active outside. Dig up weeds or plant some seeds
18. Try a new online exercise, activity or dance class.
19. Spend less time sitting today. Get up and move more often.
20. Focus on eating ‘a rainbow of multi-colored vegetables today.
21. Regularly pause to stretch and breathe during the day.
22. Enjoy moving to your favorite music. Really go for it.
23. Go out and do an errand for a loved one or neighbor.
24. Get active in nature. Feed the birds or go wild-life spotting.
25. Have a ‘no screens’ night and take time to recharge yourself.
26. Take an extra break in your day and walk outside for 15 minutes
27. Find a fun exercise to do while waiting for the kettle to boil (or pan of water.)
28. Meet a friend outside for a walk and a chat.
29. Become an activist for a cause you really believe in
30. Make time to run, swim, dance, cycle or stretch today
RVRita
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Pg. 32 done. Have to catch up later. Must get ready for VET.
Seems like there are many many of us who have the Family Communication Issues.
“Never give up. Never surrender.” (Galaxy Quest)
RVRita2 -
We have French Circle tonight, but the weather is atrocious. Rain and very high winds. My palm tree is rocking and rolling outside my bedroom window. I emailed the woman we chatted to at the venue a couple of times and told her we were going, so I feel I have to. DH suggested that we get an Uber. I'm planning to make an early pizza at around 5.15, so will have to decide then. A big part of me would much rather stay at home.
I do feel we have to support the group, who are entirely voluntary and work extremely hard. The speaker has come from France.
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My husband received a very generous job offer this morning from a company he is not sure he wants to work for. The hiring process has been a mess, and if that's an indication of the company . . . Still, I am hopeful he takes it. It is 100% remote and starts Monday. Having him unemployed has been stressful.
Hugs to you, Rebecca. My feelings are often hurt by people, as well.
Flea
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Machka - I am on an iPhone. I’ve done everything, including uninstalling and reinstalling the app. It’s just MFP.
Annie - how exciting for smaller pants!
Rebecca - I sort of understand how middle son and family didn’t stop in. Maybe they were invited to join in on the trip, it would be a lot for everyone to show up probably. It sucks they hadn’t told you about their plans ahead of time to prepare you or to allow you to meet them for a coffee.
I used to have to tell my Dad when I made plans that didn’t include him way ahead of time or he made me feel guilty. It always tended to ruin my experience.
As a Mom though, I truly understand! I get frustrated at times with one of my girls who does everything and drives everywhere with her friends but doesn’t come see me. I always remind myself how I felt with Dad and never say anything though.
I hope your family starts appreciating you need more contact soon.
Vicki - I too am trying so hard to not just walk out on my job. I’m so very sick at the thought of working with my boss.
I applied for 4 jobs tonight.
Michele - I hope they done end up giving you a huge unexpected bill.
Lanette - it’s hard to believe that a year has passed already. Hugs to you.
Debbie - I just saved a post that had what plant to plant in a pot to repel mosquitoes, one was Rosemary. Will it grow that big in a pot? Also, I assume they are perennial so do I have to bring them in in the winter?
Another miserable day at work. I swear she is trying to get me to quit. She is not a nice person. I applied for 4 jobs tonight.
Tracey in Edmonton
I get it. Also thinking it might have been the moms organizing and paying for it all, so us visiting would be weird AND rude, to be honest. It still doesn't stop the feelings though. The heart feels what the heart feels. Logic doesn't really come into the picture.
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Whidislander wrote: »Well I shouted my frustration to husband! I don't often yell at husband, but when I do its a doozy. I was so frustrated because the first thing out of husbands mouth was, "what you're feeling isn't rational". I told him, " I know technically we can't go to Canada right now, nor inserting us into the mixture of daughter in law, her friend, and both moms, but you not hearing me is frustrating. It was their weekend. Its just so maddening knowing we were literally 45 minutes away if we would've driven to MT Vernon and met them for coffee etc. But its not easy traveling with two young kids as my DILs friend had a young 3 yr old son. The fact that son did not even mention he was going to be in our area is a bit sneaky to me. I mean I know it wasn't his call to make any plans with us, and maybe my DIL and friend planned everything, but not saying another seemed like they were avoiding us.
I know my version of life is different than most. I put a higher priority on communication. Being a Navy wife and mom, communication is love, its family and its stability for me. Back when we were active duty, I knew I had to have my support system in place when husband would go out to sea. So I made it a point to meet friends I could depend on in times of emergency. When family or friends don't answer my "bugle call" so to speak, it feels like they don't care. But in reality its just life.
I talked to my eldest sister and she talked me down. I was really in a spiral, but she got me in a good place. She's my lifeline sometimes.💖👍🏻
Today I simmered some chicken broth I made over the weekend, and cut up some onion, potato, and a few chunks of kielbasa sausage, and a small hunk of cabbage.
Tonight I shall sleep well, as today was quite an emotional day. Hugs ladies
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
The fact that anyone thinks feelings have to be rational, is so incredibly irritating. Emotions most certainly are not always rational. My mister said that to me in an argument about 2 years ago and I still struggle with that statement. It was his way of "getting out" of the situation he put himself in; i.e., it wasn't his fault I was angry, it was mine because I reacted "irrationally." So, we discuss the rationality of emotions from time to time in a calm manner and I point out his emotions and their rationality from time to time as well. Such as when he gets angry and screams at his computer screen because a website doesn't work the way he thinks it should. Rational?
I think you have a right to your feelings, no matter what anyone else thinks. Sometimes, we just want to be heard. We hear you.
Tina in CA
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Rebecca--HUGS! Sometimes we just have to feel.
Tracey--Good Luck with the job hunt. I keep telling myself at my age (66) it would be hard to find something that pays what I make now and who would hire me when I could retire anytime. Just I want to be out of debt for the most part and want to say I have been at the hospital 40 years.
Going to be another warm day. I did stop at the gym on my way out after work. Plan is to do that today. Baby steps.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE5 -
fanncy0626 wrote: »Tracey glad to hear about your niece. It’s nice that she has a support system. My husband tags along with me and has suffered a weight gain because of my injury preventing me from working out as I normally would have. Now that I am able to swing my kettlebell he swings with me. Not as many as I do though. I think that he is a little stiff from Parkinson’s. As long as I can stay active he will join me. I hope that your work situation improves!
Rori good luck to your basketball team! Let us know how they do! You have many things to look forward to in the near future! I’m very happy for you.
Rebecca My husband and I are going through the exact same situation you are. I am sorry that you have to deal with this. It’s really hurtful to feel rejected by your youngest son. I really truthfully don’t think that your daughter in law intended to hurt your feelings and make you feel left out. She might not have even planned the trip. She could have been the one invited. Two of my husbands daughters haven’t talked to us for almost two years now. I think that your counselor gave you some good advice. We might have to do something similar. As hurtful as it is we can’t control anyone but ourselves. Give as much love as you can to those around you and especially to yourself. We are all here for you!
💕Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
No I think my daughter in law was just thinking this was a friends and their moms thing. Not intentionally trying to hurt my feelings. Son was there to help keep Athena in line, and also having my son with everyone, probably made them feel safe. So truthfully he didn't really have a say in the matter! Lol!
It was interesting putting down on paper all the feelings from mourning, feeling mad, then guilt, then proud. A whole gambit of emotions. I explained it all, and afterwards I sealed it, kissed the envelope and put it in the mail box. Nothing left unsaid. Its all up to him, which is why I gave the Chaplain on his ship a heads up. Will he need to talk to someone about it? I know I have a feeling of resolution about it. That I have done, and said all that needs to be said, its up to him now. Our door will always be open for him, should he wish to come visit.💖👍🏻⚓🙏
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning my friends!
I have a doctor appointment today for my sciatica. It was pretty bad two weeks ago when I made the appointment but it has gotten much better. Yay! I still want to get the X-ray and find out if it is bone or muscle or what that pinches the nerve. I can't say exactly what positions or exercises cause it to flare up. I used to have bursitis on that side but that went away. My stretches must be doing some good.
Rebecca I'm sorry you are so hurt. Hope you can come to some shared expectations so it doesn't happen again.
Annie in Delaware
I wrestle with if I should even tell them how hurt I felt. I mean they are young, I did the same when I would travel with kids from CA to OR to see my family. If my husband was with, we of course would see his mom and she would rally his side of the family together at a restaurant or at home. But sometimes it was just kids and I, and I wouldn't take the time to visit them. It just seemed weird to ask my family to take me over to her. My time was limited. So I get it. I am turning into that old lady, whining that no one visits her.🙃💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Hello ladies!
Today I ate 1083 calories Yay! And I biked for twenty minutes and did dumbbells for seventy five minutes, Yay! For a deficit of 404 Yay! Some days it just goes well. I was tempted to snack after dinner, but I shook it off.
I found three pair of my soft pants that are too big, and I bought two new pair on Amazon. With pockets!! Yay! It's a risk to buy clothes online, but I can learn to return them if necessary. I'm eager to see them!
Annie in Delaware
Congrats! I have tried buying clothes at physical stores and they just don't have nice things in my size anymore. They expect you to order them anyway, even if you have it shipped to a store. So, shop away online. It's easy to return with Amazon and you get to try them on in your home on your timeframe.
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