WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2023
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Kim One of the great challenges of adulthood is respecting the spiritual beliefs held by our loved ones and keep our mouths shut. ❤💕 2 -
Yesterday we had to take a taxi to get to French Circle. Turns out it was Storm Noah with 75 mph winds. We drove along the seafront. Huge dirty yellow seas.
A 21 Yr old man went into the sea near the Palace Pier. Massive search and rescue operation. He washed up on the beach a little east of us at Saltdean, where my grandparents lived. I spent a lot of time there as a child.
Sad.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Mary Quant died today. 93. She was hugely influential in the 1960s. I made my first designer pattern from her design. A white shirtwaister with black buttons. My mother nearly had a fit, but I finished it and wore it with pride to a school prize giving. Great memories.
Heather UK xxxxxxxx6 -
Kim ...You know that God is a big part of my life. I've heard your mother's rationale used over the years and it always confounds me. My reply has always been "God promises to feed the birds of the air, but that doesn't mean he's going to throw the worms into the nest ...."
Beth16 -
The pattern was something like this, but it didn't have a seam at the waist. It was more of a boxy shape. I bought white jersey cotton to make it and big black buttons.
It all turned out perfectly.
Love Heather UK
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Heather
You might find this amusing. When I was in a world civilizations class in high school, I sewed a Greek tunic and read a poem to the class, and served baklava. I chose budget white cotton for the tunic, trimmed the edges and it came out very well, except a little see-through. I wore it anyway, and they video-taped me. My first naughty video! Lol.
Kim, my grandmother was famous for that attitude. It only works when there are other people helping out. It makes tough choices for you. You have our support as you deal with this difficult situation.
Annie in Delaware
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Ready for some sun and fun !!!
And me im throwing all caution to the wind and flying down a day early for the cruise and getting a hotel ,its 1/2 mile from the port where we board.9 -
I remember when I was young and my son was young. When I would visit my grandma's they would always say please come again soon. It seemed I was always on the go. Now I understand how they felt and wish I would of made the time. Hind sight is 20-20.
Beth--3-4 years to reach 40 years and could be out of debt in one year if DH stops using his credit cards.
Pip--You are welcome. I thank you so much for supporting MS.
10 Things about me
1 Age: 66
2. Live: in Grand Island, NE with my husband
3. Work: at the hospital 36 years and supervisor of the commutations service.
4. Family: Between DH and I we have 7 children, 27 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren and one due in Aug. Our oldest son passes away at 25years and we lost a baby just before birth.
5. Sports: watch NASCAR with DH and been to our first race last Sept in Kansas city with our DD and her husband.
6. Hobbies: I knit baby blankets and love to read.
7. Season: I love all the seasons with Fall the best. Christmas is my favorite holiday and I go all out sending cards as love hearing from family and friends if even just once a year.
8. Movie: I go in streaks as sometimes go along time without watching any movies.
9. Pet: We have 2 dogs. Oscar is a dachund-lab mix and he was my parents that we got when dad passed away 9 yeas ago, he is about 12 years old. Kia is a chihuahua that belonged to DH's sister and they just left her here with us almost 2 years ago and now she is ours, she is about 5 years old.
10. Food: That's the problem, I like all food that does not have nuts.
Kim--WOW! Just know you have done all you can and she is on her own. Sometimes people have to learn the hard way.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE who has the next 3 days off! 4 -
Beth - thank you. I am trying to image God with a mitt and a bucket of worms tossing them at nests and it is making me smile!
Barbie - I know but when it means she'll probably fall again, it is hard!!!! I did tell her I appreciated her sharing with me... at least knowing why she says/does certain things helps me know it makes sense to her.5 -
Kim ~ Huge Hugs! It's an impossible situation your mom has created for you! I wonder how your mom plans to get home if you are unwilling to take her there?
Carol in GA5 -
Kim,
Your mom has decided to go home.
Enable her success to the best of your ability, then take her home.
Does she have a 911 pendant with GPS in case she falls again?
Love, Karen4 -
(((Kim))) — Sending hugs. 💖 You’re a wonderful daughter who goes above & beyond to care for your mom. She is so lucky to have you in her life.
I admire you for all of your efforts to keep her safe. She doesn’t seem to realize how lucky she is to be in your care and in your home. ⭐️
Katla in Illinois7 -
Just a quick update - PT has told her in no uncertain terms she can not go home at this time without help. So if she demands to go home they will call senior services and get professional help to keep her safe. She backed off in front of PT at least, and I went out to work in the yard.
thanks for all the support!
Kim16 -
Just a quick update - PT has told her in no uncertain terms she can not go home at this time without help. So if she demands to go home they will call senior services and get professional help to keep her safe. She backed off in front of PT at least, and I went out to work in the yard.
thanks for all the support!
Kim
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Just a quick update - PT has told her in no uncertain terms she can not go home at this time without help. So if she demands to go home they will call senior services and get professional help to keep her safe. She backed off in front of PT at least, and I went out to work in the yard.
thanks for all the support!
Kim
I am glad you have PT on your side. You can use all the back up you can when it comes to your mom.
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Kim- Bless you.. totally understand..they think they can do what they want when they want.. but alas,no can do... you are a good daughter and it will work out in the end.. xoxo
Im going to sleep.. Carmine went to Seths this afternoon to ride quads.3 -
Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 1hr 54min 53sec, 25elev, 3.07ap, 90ahr, 125mhr, 6.05mi= 558c
Strava app= 742c
Zwift home spin bike- strava stats- 36.31min, 40gear, 433elev, 125aw, 17.3amph, 105ahr, 134mhr, 10.58mi= 219c
Strava app= 261c
Zwift stats- 36.33min, 434elev, 125aw, 49arpm, 17.40amph, 10.6mi= 262c
Housecleaning etc- 2hrs 20min 11sec, make hummingbird food, change bedsheets and duvet cover, laundry fold and put away, repack Bette for trip, wipe down blinds with furniture polish, etc= 655c
Total cal 14322 -
Did the 20-40-60 workout on Wednesday. Soup kitchen tomorrow after work
Started opening the pool. Got most of the leaves out, got the wasp and hornet traps out, I poured 3 bags of salt (each is 40lbs) in the pool, got some of the ceramics out, cleaned all the tile (the wall between the spa and pool can be challenging) installed the new pool railings. See, when the pool was built they put in stainless steel railings. Do you know how hot stainless steel gets in July and August when the pool is in direct sunlight for 12 hours/day? We had covers, but you could feel the heat even thru the covers. This place in FL makes railings that are not supposed to get hot. Oh, I bet they get at least warm, but not to the point where you burn your hands. I’m thinking that maybe we should also use the covers mainly for traction. I’d thought these were textured, but they aren’t.
Rebecca “we only hurt the ones we love”...how true! (((HUGS))). I totally understand. It’s been years since I’ve spoken to my son. I’m so sorry your letter was returned to you.
Ordered pants on Amazon, now have to return one pair. I just wasn’t sure which size would fit better. Now I’d gotten 10’s and they were way to big. The ones from Amazon, the 10 fits me well. Go figure!
At BK they’re starting this “labor is down” crap. The one manager asked me twice what I needed to do. The second time just the pickles and cleanup. She did it for me. Really, it didn’t save that much time. I do need to see if they really got a 92 on the health inspection. She said that the inspector doesn’t have to come back. I’d always thought that with such a low score, they gave you time to remedy things and they come back to reinspect. Maybe I’m wrong.
Regarding MFP – lately it seems that whenever I log in to use the “food” tab, it always locks up. I have to restart MFP and then it’s fine. Just a hassle
Was supposed to go to the dentist Wed. but his office called at the last minute. He had an emergency and wasn’t in the office so now I go next Tuesday
Rosemarie – I’m glad you weren’t alone for Easter. Sounds like a nice day you had
Deb and Rosemarie – Vince only goes to church on Christmas and Easter more to make me happy than anything else.
Mary – I got ANOTHER invoice from the landscaper so I texted back that I continue to get these invoices that don’t reflect the amount I already paid and asked when he was going to complete the work. Haven’t heard back. On the bright side...the check hasn’t been cashed. If he didn’t need it, why did he ask for it?
The drain overflowed at work today. I told Jerry, and he said that the drain is clogged and that he was going to get something. Came back with nothing and said “well, it stopped” (yea, because less water was running out of the sink). Hope it doesn’t happen Sat. when he’s not there. If so, I guess I’m just going to be in water!
Tracey – hope you get one of the jobs
Was able to get a walk in yesterday and today. Yesterday Vince was too tired to go, so I went. Today he went with me, but I continued around the block
Vince took Loki to the vet today for routine blood work. Seems our vet is going to retire, they’ve hired another vet and asked him to stay just until she gets settled. We’ll probably change to another one of the vets. We understand this new vet is in her 40’s so she’s probably been practicing for a while. But we’ll probably go to another one of the vets
Flea – good thoughts being sent to your hubby. I know he’ll make the right decision
Nice and warm today. But it’s supposed to rain tomorrow and get colder. Yuk!
Patty and westpark – welcome! This is a great group of gals
Allie – thanks for the pics of Miles. Love them all. Hope he isn’t sick
Jess adopted a dog. He’s older and she says that he isn’t rambunctious
4hms – welcome. We are a very supportive bunch
barbie – I agree with Beth, your posts are very insightful
sirenofthesea – wb
Kim – wonderful that PT told your mom she can’t go home. You are a great daughter, even if she doesn’t think so
Michele NC
who is going to watch some TV then get to bed.3 -
Good evening ladies!
Kim that's great to hear.
Today I ate 1203 calories, a little more than I planned. And I rode horseback, and rode the bike twenty minutes, and did my dumbbells, Yay! The sciatica is getting much better. Mysterious, but Yay! So I wound up with a deficit of 380. Yay!
My Dad was scaring me tonight. He was so tired and that's not like him. He has a bit of a cough, too. I called the doctor but they were closed already, so I will call in the morning. It could be anything, from a UTI or dehydration to something more serious. Or nothing at all. I just get worried.
Annie in Delaware6 -
10 Things About Me ... updated a bit.
1. Age: I'm in my mid-50s.
2. Live: I live in Tasmania, Australia. But I was born in Canada, so I am a Canadian-Australian.
3. Work: Still working almost full-time, in a data/accounting combination.
4. Family: I'm a carer for my husband. His/our son, daughter-in-law, new grand-daughter and sister are nearby and we see them from time to time. The rest of our families are distant either physically (different countries) or emotionally.
5. Sports: My favourite sport is cycling, but I like being active in general ... walking, rowing, running, hiking, weights, Pilates, etc.
6. Hobbies: Colouring, Gardening, Reading
7. Season: My favourite season is summer. I love Christmas too ... fortunately it is in the summer here.
8. Movie: The movie I have seen most often is likely Princess Bride, although, I have seen a lot of Christmas movies many times.
9. Pet: A lovely black male cat called Rhody
10. Food: My favourite type of food is Mexican, with Indian a close second.
Machka in OzHi Gals,
Macka I am stealing this…. And tweaking it a little And here it is about me….
10 Things About Me
1. Age: I'm in my mid-60s
2. Live: I live in California, USA
3. Work: Still working full-time + I own a machine embroidery business based out of my home.
4. Family: single, I have a nephew, 2 god kids, a 94 year old mom who is temporarily living with me recovering from a broken hip
5. Sports/activities: I like to walk, garden and swim
6. Hobbies: cooking, entertaining, Gardening, Reading
7. Season: My favorite season is winter
8. Pet: a 10 year old springer spaniel named Levi
9. Favorite Holiday: is christmas
10. Food: My favorite type of food is Mexican
Kim in N. California
I'm glad you did "steal" it and fill it in ... I hope lots of others will too.
Ah good, I see several have.
M in Oz1 -
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Lisa - Good point about men not thinking the same.
Since we have come home from my FIL’s funeral my DH has talked to his Mom once. I talk to her at least weekly. He just doesn’t think about it.
Thank you for your thoughts on my job situation. I realize I just can’t continue with this up and down.
Truthfully, from what I’ve seen with her she picks and picks at people until they quit then badmouths them when they’re gone. I think I’m the most recent target.
I recorded a show on Sunday called “A Grammy Salute to the Beach Boys”. Some sports game ran over and it started late so I’m missing the last hour. So frustrating! I’m going to try to find it on YouTube.
Flea - hope your hubby takes the job. I know how stressful it is not having a spouse employed. It why I haven’t walked out the door at work.
Debbie - I will be lucky if mine survives the summer if I plant it. I am not a gardener.
Annie - I think my Supervisor has chosen me to be her target this time. She seems to pick on someone until they quit. Since she has been there 9 members of the management team have left citing her as the reason. Not to anyone that can make a difference though. Most of them with over 15 years with the company.
I just need to leave.
Barbie - that’s how I feel about going to NB. No time for touristy stuff.
I have learned though that I will not drive everywhere to see everyone. I say where I am and they can choose to come or not.
Some of my trips home I spent 100’s on gas trying to see everyone. The first time I didn’t do that I realized who really wanted to see me.
I agree with people expecting a lot from people grieving. It makes it all so much harder.
Annie - your Dad should probably not be driving very soon. My Mom got lost driving a couple of times and she was spotted running stop signs a couple of times. She was in a town with a population around 900, thankfully people knew to call my brother because she was very well known.
Kim - I’m thinking about you. Hugs
1. Age: Mid 50’s
2. Live: Edmonton, AB
3. Work: Full time, looking for a new one. I was hoping this would be where I retire from
4. Family: Married 36 years in June. 2 adult daughters and their husbands. 1 grandson, 1 granddaughter and if our prayers are answered we’ll have another by this time next year.
5. Sports/activities: I like to walk, haven’t swam since my last set of classes in 2019 thinking I need to her back to it.
6. Hobbies: I love DIY, several crafts, reading, watching documentaries or based on true story shows and movies and listening to music
7. Season: Fall
8. Pet: None we think about a dog once in a while then decide against it.
9. Favorite Holiday: Christmas
10. Food: my favourite meal is a roast beef dinner
I’m very tired and in a lot of pain tonight. I am not feeling 100%. Too much stress and anxiety this week.
I sure hope I get a call on a job soon. I need out of there.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Big hugs to you Tracey. What a huge amount of energy it must take to be in that situation at work.
I really hope things turn around soon.
Is a pregnancy confirmed? I'm excited!
We have a Waitrose delivery this afternoon, mainly for four big boxes of teabags! I added other breakfast stuff for the kids' sleepover, and other bulky stuff, like soap powder. We never shop by car, so heavy,, bulky items are best delivered. I decided that we would all go out by bus to Fatto a Mano on Saturday, then, on Sunday morning, we are having Full English Breakfast. Sausages, gluten free sausages, bacon, eggs, tomatoes, or any combination. Plus toast (and jam if liked) I might, if I have time, write out a little 'hotel' menu.
We have the ceramic mugs to decorate, but otherwise I don't know. Weather looks promising, but they never want to do much outside.
Have to get to the pharmacy today to pick up BP pills. I'm debating again whether to sell my gold necklace. The deposit for the cruise next year has cleaned out all my accessible savings, so I have no reserves. The necklace would tide me over. I have other jobs I need to do in town, like a new battery for my watch, so I'm thinking about a walk in this afternoon. Must remember to change the linen on Max's bed, that I'm lying on at this very moment!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx7 -
Kim-very difficult situation with your mother. The difficult thing with parents is they are adults and unless proven incompetent can make their own decisions. I was going to suggest one of her provides but before I got to reply and post-there was PT coming onto the scene. Maybe her desire will help her do the things she needs to do. You can just support her.
Beth-I have never heard that reply-but I think it is brilliant!
TraceySorry you job situation is so bad. The right one will turn up. While this is disappointing it does seem that you have learned some skills in current position that will make you marketable.
Glad Friday morning is here. Need to finish up another project at work. Chunking away at them one at a time. May still take an hour or so off today.
Least favorite part of work:Need to discuss performance issue with someone who just doesn't get it. Will do that before clocking off for the day so they will have weekend to reflect. I have asked my boss' opinion. I want to make sure I am not acting like Tracey's boss-but I need to also make sure I am just not trying to dodge the issue. I can always give other's advice, but enacting it to my direct reports can be different!
10 things about me.1. Age: 68
2. Live: in a medium sized Ohio town
3. Work: Still working full time in management.
4. Family: Widowed. Two cats. 2 sons and step son all married. 5 grandchildren
5. Sports: Don’t play any. Love walking. Love watching football (pro and college)..
6. Hobbies: Needlepoint. Not a lot of free time yet!
7. Season: Spring-I love the renewal.
8. Movie: Tough one. “Apocalypse Now” is on my all-time list. Otherwise, mood dependent.
9. Pet: 2 cats-one left with me by each son. They are each 14 years old. One acts much older than the other.
10. Food: Currently grilled salmon. No one standout.
Had another 2 deaths of members of church I had been with. While I am not attending regularly due to current pastor, I will attend both of their funerals and help with serving lunch/snacks for families after. Both gentlemen were truly wonderful and I am glad I got to know them. One funeral is Monday so will take afternoon off, the other is a week from Saturday.
Get PET scan tomorrow in Columbus. Trying to decide if I want to stop at casino on way home and just do something mindless. Will be a last minute decision.
Welcome to new members. Sorry can't comment on everything but I do read and send positive thoughts for all of you on a daily basis.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio7 -
Morning ladies
Tracy went to work early..I haven't told her yet that I am flying down a day early but i will...
Kyle taking a 1/2 day so he will come home and relax in the sun..
High 90 here today..
Today they are having a mass for my friend Mary that passed about a month ago in Florida ,at 10 am.. I contacted her friend and told her i couldn't make it because i am watching Miles.. I would be there otherwise.3 -
Betsy in NW WA0 -
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Kim She is saying that because she just wants to go home. You could say you need to get the okay from her medical team (Doctor) because they are the experts in this case before home is a possibility. Is transitional care an option?
I wrote this before seeing PT gave her a reality check. Now you can say you can go home if you get okay from medical team. This is the check list of what you have to do. Do you want to work on one of these today?
You are in the position of being a parent to your parent. As we know children love to test and to make life a challenge. Triple hugs to you.5 -
Good morning ladies!
Well my dad made a lunch date, so it will be tricky timing to get him to a doctor. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Stubborn *kitten* parents.
Annie in Delaware2
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