WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2023
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Lisa ... very sorry to hear about the loss of a friend. 51 is too young.
Machka ... I prefer emails, but there is something special about receiving a letter.
Rita ... I think your point about the checkbook register was not so much about using checks, but keeping detailed records of what you're spending. My excel spreadsheet is set up to note everything we do and I color code lines and items. I do some convoluted machinations with the spreadsheet that aren't worth explaining ... but even purchases on the credit card are marked as individual debits on my spreadsheet so that when I go to pay the credit bill, the money is there to pay in full. It helps me to be very detailed now that we're on a fixed budget. I want to know where every penny goes and how many pennies are available.
My weed trimmer broke this weekend and the replacement part is not available. Did some searching online and found a youtube video that showed how you could swap out another brand's head with a few modifications. $20 is a lot less than a new trimmer! My husband plans to take care of it for me, but I think I could do it if I had to.
Slow and steady rain here today near Buffalo. We so need this rain. Can almost see things green up as it's coming down.
Husband and I went to find local strawberries and there were none! All of the u-pick sites we were familiar with no longer exist and the one market that carries local produce only had shipped in berries. What's up with that? I did see local rhubarb though and bought some to make a pie. Sticker shock at the register. A little over 2 pounds was over $11.00... 4.99 a pound! The pie was delicious and I froze enough for another. Next week we'll head over to one of the local farmer's markets.
Beth near Buffalo
Keeping track ...
I download the details from my bank now and then, and drop it into Excel.
There I can do groupings on expense categories like groceries, fuel, etc.
I go that route because I don't have the time or inclination to duplicate work. In other words, why write it down when it is all recorded for me! 😀
M in Oz2 -
Going back to work today (on bus now) from a lovely 4-day weekend.
Lost a little bit more weight ... running and cycling might have helped.
M in Oz3 -
Terri: My sympathy to your friend who just lost her husband.
Rebecca: I am sorry you have a cat bite. I am healing from a dog bite that did get infected. Keflex seems to be working to clear the infection.
Allie: My thoughts are with Kyle as he prepares to see his Dad in NC.
Pipcd: Congrats on raising the funds!
I heard today that if you pay your credit card off fully each month your credit score goes up. I had thought keeping a small balance and paying regularly on the balance would be better for your credit. I log each check I write but I don't keep a running tab. I write so few checks. I can pretty much keep track of the balance in my head.
Best,
Rosemarie from GA
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Katiebug - well done on the loss and the inches!0
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Beth Strawberries just starting to come in at son's. The ones I pick I eat right when I pick them. Wonderful! I am having to water them because we are so dry here so worth it. Blueberry bushes survived winter. I won't get much this year. Next year will be the third year and that's when you start getting more. I am pleased a hydrangea I got at Target last year is blooming right now. I will share a picture soon.
So sorry to hear about the tour boat accident!4 -
It was SO crowded at ceramics tonight. I had Tigger on the table and dropped him. Broke. I’m sick over it, but I’ll just get another one. I had waited months for Jess to draw on him, and she finally did. Hope I don’t have to wait months for her to get to it again.
The plan for tomorrow is to do a body pump DVD after work.
We mainly write checks for our donation to the church. Oh, occasionally we need to write a check for something else (like paying the gal to take care of Loki while we go away)
Michele
who is going to see what ceramic she’s going to do next
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Michele: So sorry about Tigger breaking. I hope you do get another one and go from there!
Margaret Turk: We went strawberry picking at a farm one year here in GA. We filled up our buckets rather quickly as I recall. Blueberries would probably take more time to fill a bucket. I have 2 hydrangeas I need to plant. One of them is named after Vince Dooley, a very famous football coach here in GA. Apparently he was really involved with the hydrangeas at the school where he coached football.
Machka: I am glad you enjoyed your 4 day weekend!
Dr. KatieBug: Congrats on the weight loss!
I have decided to stop being so lethargic around the house. From now on every hour on the hour until 8pm I am going to walk in the house or do a video for 15 minutes!
Best,
Rosemarie from GA
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Rosemarie - keeping active is a good plan. They say all the walking does add up, even if it's only 10 minutes at a time.
Today I join you as a member of the "dog bite" club. Went over to my neighbor's to thank him for mowing under some of my trees, he'd left the gate open and their little Alaskan Eskimo made a beeline for my calf. Tore my sweats, tooth raked the skin and I'll have a bruise. Came right home and iced it for a little bit and smeared some antiobiotic ointment on it.
Luckily I had an appointment with Dr. Lisa set up for this coming Thursday for my achy knee, if it doesn't seem to be healing she can get me fixed up.
This is the second bite this dog has inflicted in the neighborhood. He bit my walking partner last year, and he was even out in the yard with the neighbor "under supervision." I doubt it weighs 30 lbs and he's a beautiful little guy but he needs to be watched 24/7.
The wife called me afterwards and profusely apologized. I would hate to be at their house tonight. We had to have a biter put down many years ago for attacking a neighbor. It was my DH's dog, a dobie, and I didn't hesitate calling animal control to come get him and euthanize him. We ended up paying some medical bills. We grow so attached to these animals but when they cross the line, hard decisions have to be made sometimes.
Lanette
SW WA State
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Good evening ladies!
Today I ate 1333 calories. A little extra chocolate. And I did twenty minutes on the bike, and an hour of yoga, and thirty minutes of aerobic walking. Yay! So my deficit was 245. Yay!
Sorry about all the dog and cat bites. Hope they heal quickly!
Annie in Delaware3 -
Had a great walk- was sprinkling right before I started but warmed up after(plus I started jogging so that helped warm me too- jogged about 1/3 of the way. Over 16,000 steps so far and getting ready to go to Zumba class for another hour.
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Forgot to submit this before going to class.
Just got home. This substitute teacher worked us out!!. Hard when they do totally different routines and totally different songs. She did one song that we were used to but some of the steps were different.
Steps so far are now 23,500 and still have two hours before bed.
Debbie
Napa Valley,CA
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Heather - I will have to look at her works. It never hurts to do something to improve your relationship.
Some of my favourite food products disappeared during Covid and I haven’t found good substitutes yet.
Lisa - I check my balance everyday too.
Sorry for the loss of your friend. So young.
Allie - I think it’s great if Carmine can be herself at Seth’s she needs a place that she feels safe and can be herself.
Sorry about Kyle’s Dad that will be difficult.
Michele - sorry about Tigger.
My Grand Pup, Ember, is very sick today. My daughter is trying to find help for her. I am very worried. These pets are loved family members because they burrow right into your heart. Kaitlyn has finally found an emergency vet and is on the way. I told her I would stay up to hear.
I was called for an interview for tomorrow at 10am. I don’t think it’s a job I would want to accept, but I think the interview might be good just for practice. It’s almost an hour away though and it seems like a waste of gas to drive there for nothing. Well I talked myself through it and decided to cancel the interview.
Today I made some shirts for DH, for some reason he is running out faster than normal and I’m tired of doing laundry.
Barbara - my DH wouldn’t listen to anything I suggested or talked about health wise so I gave up. Since he needed dental work and couldn’t get it until his BP was down he has listened to the doctor tell him things I had said for years. Now they nag him not me.
Vicki - is the position one that needs to have wages looked at? That is an issue here for a lot of positions.
Terri - I can’t imagine waking to find my husband had passed beside me.
Glad you were able to deliver the card in person.
Rosemarie - walking every hour is a great idea. I need to do something similar.
I have my doctor appointment on Wednesday for the one month assessment of my sick leave. I heard from work again today and ended up with my BP rising again. I also want to talk to her about the chest pains I’m having and the physical exhaustion I’m feeling regularly.
I know I mentioned last night about the show Accused. It is intense. What a different take on all of the criminal type shows. I’m going to see if I can find the shows I missed.
Our Grandpup is on some meds to help her keep things down, but my daughter is still having a hard time getting her to even drink her water. They gave her fluids at the vet hospital this morning and said if she isn’t better in a couple of days to bring her back.
Hopefully she feels better tomorrow.
DH is going to their house tomorrow to work on the truck some more. Then we are going out for supper for our anniversary.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear of your family's friend. He was definitely far too young, I am happy to hear that he lived life to the fullest tho! Perhaps something we should all bear in mind....
Tracey, I do hope your grandpup gets better quickly! Probably a good call to cancel the interview. A one hour drive just to get there won't put you in the right frame of mind.
Allie, I am glad that Tracy has found daycare for Miles and that you will go back to being Gramma! Being the back up in case of illness or holiday wouldn't be so bad and I'm sure that they will still want you to be able to spend time with him.
Michele, I didn't realize that you knew Jerry's wife! That puts you in a delicate spot for sure. Sorry to hear about Tigger, hope it works out.
Once again trying to remember things that I wanted to comment on, but once again the memory fails. sigh.
Today turned out to be a good day, wasn't sure it would after the second stop I wanted to make. It was errand day today. I had gone thru a bunch of clothes last month and had a trunkful of stuff to take to Sally Ann, get there and the gate to the back where they accept the donations is closed and the sign on it says "Donations Closed". So now I have a trunk full of stuff and need to get groceries. I was trying to remember where I had seen some donation boxes, they used to be on pretty much every corner but then people were crawling in them and getting stuck and there were a few fatalities. Many organizations just didn't have the funds to get new and improved boxes so just gave up on them. Anyway, I went past one store that had one forever, but it was gone, so I just decided to get my groceries and be done with it, try Sally Ann another day. Went to Superstore and lo and behold, they have a donation box!!! So got my trunk emptied out, then went to a place that I was hoping recycled batteries (they do!) and also managed to leave a few burnt out light bulbs there! My mood was considerably improved after that! I was not looking forward to bringing those clothes home again, not after hauling them down the stairs and actually getting them into the car! lol
And it's way past my bedtime again.
Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island4 -
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DrKatieBug-congrats on weight loss. I think that can be the best way to drop the weight and if you aren't significantly overweight it is a good pace.
Lanette-yes, the independent living places can be a bit pricey.A lot depends on the size of apartment. I am looking at the one bed or possibly one bed with a den. Since it will include utilities (may do separate internet for streaming and of course my cell phone is separate), all other utilities are covered. All meals and snacks are included to some degree. Some give option of just a continental breakfast and dinner with other meals added as you want. Transportation to different places is included. Many have massage rooms included, hair dresser on site. There are fitness rooms, regular classes for exercise, a variety of craft options. So while it is a bit more than my current costs since my house is paid off, it will be less than 50% of my monthly retirement.Debbie-Destiny is an inspiration.
Rita-good to hear medication adjustment is having positive results.
Beth-my husband loved YouTube repairs!
Terri-so good you were able to offer personal condolences. It sounds horrible to wake up to that, but what a peaceful way to pass-silently next to the person you love.
Allie-sometimes causes of inflammation can be tough to track down. Getting rest may help. I know when I increase my sugar intake it is not unusual for my body to scream. Hope Kyle is able to spend some time with father.
Rosemarie-my Apple Watch (and many of the others) give a reminder to move every hour. All movement helps us and it does add up.
Tracey-hope grand pup continues to improve. Happy anniversary!
Evelyn-it is tough to remember everything you want to comment on while reading (especially on the very active days!). I try to use the draft feature or a separate word document that I paste in. Congrats on getting stuff donated. I am taking another load to Goodwill this weekend.
Machka-I like both memes. One task does lead me down other roads. One step at a time is the best way to avoid overwhelming.
Doctor's appointment this am (urologist checkup) then work from home. Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio5 -
Good morning!
Hugs!
Congratulations!
Got the beds all mulched in Kentucky. Seriously in heed of rain down there. Trying to figure out why the mice are coming in there. Had little problems all winter/spring, but they cleaned up 3 bait boxes! Kept smelling a dead one in a closet, but couldn't locate it. Finally did! It died in the shop vac-ugh! Shop vac now out in tool room. Closet sprayed down. Did put foil and trim boards over more cracks we found. That did help in utility room, so hoping it makes a difference. Someone said they may be looking for food. The only food we keep down there is in the fridge. At least it isn't the skunk under the house!
Heart doctors are going to try to get my DH and my appointments together. Makes more sense. I am under strict instructions to walk.
For years I kept both check registers and budget notebook. I had to as my first DH and I started our marriage in extreme debt. Now I am pretty bad about keeping track. I keep eye for unusual activity on credit cards and checking accounts, but that is about it. DH is cash customer. I shop rarely. There was a time when I could tell you to the penny what I didn't where even if I went to 10 places, now I have to look at receipts. It is a nice place to be at this stage in my life. Most bills are paid automatically. For that I am thankful as time just gets away from me for writing checks.
I am enjoying my flowers and hummingbirds at home.i can see one feeder from my bed.
Time to get moving!
Much love to all from Ohio,
Kylia
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Tracey - I am a great fan of working on our relationship. And on ourselves! Do you know the Gottmans? I like their idea of noticing 'bids' from your partner, and responding instead of ignoring them. That has made a difference as to how I pay attention to DH.
With regards to pets, I decided a long time ago that the pain of pets (because of my childhood history with them) outweighed the pleasure of their company. Plus I need all my energy for DH!!! I really hate taking care of things! And it causes all sorts of fears. So no pets, hardly any plants. Just me and him.
Hot again today. DH is going alone to pick up Bea. I will be hiding in a darkened room. I'll be here to make her dinner. Always the same one - pasta butterflies and pesto.
We are having fish soup tonight.
I've ordered a new case for my tablet, because the old one is looking very tatty and losing bits. I'm going for the same one in a serviceable navy, because it doesn't show the dirt. It's a bit like my new knickers and socks - can't lower the tone on the cruise! :laugh:
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx6 -
I keep track of everything I spend on paper. I learned this from my mother. When she died and I went through her things, I found all the pages of her spending dating back to her first employment in the 1930's. Writing down what I spend is a lot like writing down or logging what I eat because it makes me look at what I 'm doing and not pretend it isn't happening.
Barbie7 -
Tracey--I feel what we get paid is fair for what we do. I guess I remember when I was making $10 an hour and was happy. I make more than twice that now and am happy with that. This person that applied is a CNA and makes more an hour than I do, so I think she should stay there. I know the right person will apply I just pray it is soon.
Today is my monthly 3 hour management meeting. Did I say I hate meetings, I hope I can stay awake.
Weight was same this morning as last week, not happy about that but at least I did not gain.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE5 -
I changed my photo because my hair has gotten a lot longer and is a different color. LOL
Carol in GA10
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