WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2023
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Today’s gratitude (7/14) waking up to blue skies.
For the first time in decades, weight was below 130 this morning, thanks to Kay’s ReddiWhip instead of honey in my yoghurt and Debbie’s sweet spicy tea instead of my sugar sweetened Lemon Lift. Within 5 lbs of my wedding weight 35 years ago, though sadly not distributed in the same places :{ Imagine it will bounce back up and around but sure helps the monthly average ;}
Debbie, Grocery Outlet had a 4-pack of the organic Good Earth Sweet and Spicy Tea for $8.99, I got the last pack here but there might be more in your area.
Still only to pg 20, have much catching up to do but need to do PT and dog training first.
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. July: Move more, fuel better (less sugar), live NOW
They should get more of the tea in by the time you need it. They run out then restock, at least round here.
This last time when I went to get it to send to former hubby I couldn't find it and was going to just send the box I had(instead of the 4 boxes) but then found they had moved it from the tea section to the NOSH section.
I make sure to buy another pack when I get down to one box left, just in case I have to find it at a different GO.
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We are headed home from the car dealer with our 2018 Tesla Model 3. We chose the car online and test drove it at the dealer. The dealer is two and a half hours from our house plus the hour long wait for the ferry. I guess everyone else wants to travel to the Olympic Peninsula today
We named the car Papillon🚗
Barbie in NW WA 15 -
Traci Welcome back. I have been retired for 19 years and I love it. I remember someone telling me that the best favour you could do for yourself in retirement is to create a schedule for your day and your week. That creates a bit of a purpose. Read this thread every day and see what others are doing s o you get some ideas. Take baby steps Barbie in NW WA 4 -
Barbie what a beautiful car! Congratulations!
Annie in Delaware3 -
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We are headed home from the car dealer with our 2018 Tesla Model 3. We chose the car online and test drove it at the dealer. The dealer is two and a half hours from our house plus the hour long wait for the ferry. I guess everyone else wants to travel to the Olympic Peninsula today
We named the car Papillon🚗 Barbie in NW WA
Barbie - You got your red car, and it's a beaut.
Have fun with the new wheels.
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Home after a long day. Phew! I think DSIL was pleased with her celebration.
More tomorrow. Knackered!
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looks like I might be getting my semi-retired a bit sooner than expected.
I have been wanting to talk to Ezie's mom about cutting back to two days a week, starting the first of Oct. She has been running late each day this week and just dropping and running.
Today she came in and said that beings her step dad isn't working that her mom has asked for her to start paying rent(which she should have been doing all along) AND wants her to not bring Ezie here three of the four days so she won't have to pay me the $100 a week.(beings her mom wants $300 a month). Her mom wants Sabrina to just bring Ezie here on Fridays AND leave her here an hour longer.
I told her I want to cut back to two days a week- watching her Thursday and Fridays. I will not do it just one day a week. Not worth it to me. She is usually off on Thursdays so I told her to see if she can change her day off. Now she says that it is grandma that wants to change things so she should be the one to talk to me. Her mom just told her late last night that she needs to start paying.
She hasn't said when the change is supposed to happen.
If she doesn't want to do the two days, She can find someone else to watch her.
Yes, I could do one day a week but I want it on my terms, not theirs.
I know they will want to just use me on the one day a week then when step grandpa starts working again, will want to bring her back like nothing happened. Not going to be used like that.
On top of that- Step grandpa(dh's friend) was texting dh, talking about not having money, getting turned down for unemployment, hinting that he really needed money.
Not going to give him money when he could be working on top of us loosing money if they pull Ezie. DH feels that it would not be a loan. We have been burnt by too many of his friends that say they will pay back but most don't and if they do, it takes years to get it back with us mentioning it over and over.
Debbie
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Think he has gotten into the swing of things don't you think 😁
Barbie and Jake- sweet ride!! Enjoy xoxo8 -
Ooh today made some more sweet Bisquick scones and my strawberries are maserating in the fridge nicely.💖
Allie love all the photos of the sweet guy. Yep he's adjusted well.🤗
Rebecca
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Good evening ladies!
Today I ate 1083 calories. Yay! Right on target. And I rode my bike for twenty five minutes, and I did an hour of yoga and thirty minutes of aerobic walking. Yay! So my deficit is 507. What? Two days ago, the same plan got me a deficit of 515. I guess it's because I lost three pounds, I don't burn as much fuel moving around. Eight calories less.
I lowered my resistance on my bike again because my knee was getting stiff. But on the other hand, I did some intervals today: five minutes of rest (about) followed by a twenty second sprint, repeated four times, plus five minutes of cool down. So maybe I can count it as faster riding. Leisure cycling is 122 calories but moderate cycling is 245. Or maybe that path leads to inflated exercise calories and back to overeating. Hmm. I don't want to change just yet.
Annie in Delaware
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Barb in NC – welcome! What part of NC are you in? I’m at the foothills of the mountains. It gets hot, but very seldom humid. Well, being from PA, I’m used to humidity.l
barbie – may you have lots and lots of wonderful years with your new lovely car.
Debbie – Only one day/week?! I don’t blame you one tiny bit for not wanting to do that. Stick to your guns, you deserve more
Allie – Myles looks so happy, I’m sure this makes you happy, too
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Allie, I'm so glad that Miles seems to be adjusting well to his new daycare! Much nicer for you to just be Gramma! And you can be there for emergencies too, if you want to be that is!
Debbie, sounds like you and hubby would do well to cut ties with Ezie's family! I know that the step grampa had some mental health issues, is he okay now? Sounds like he's just back in the same toxic environment that got him in trouble to start with! Good call on not giving him any money!
Barbie, love the red car! Hope you had a good trip home!
Lanette, I think you're right, you have it good right now with your neighbours willing to give you a hand. I wouldn't be looking for male companionship either! What's nice right now is that when your neighbourhood fellas want lunch they go home to their wives and you don't need to worry about them! lol (or have to pick up their dirty socks either.....)
Can't remember who was asking about what to do now that she's retired, but I'll put my two cents worth in. I retired just under a year ago. I had already been watching our granddaughter one day a week, and picking up our grandson after school on those days, so I upped that to two days and I started volunteering for an outfit that helps women get back on their feet. We are partnered with many different agencies who help women, whether they are escaping abusive relationships or if they are young and have just aged out of foster care and everyone in between! We collect household goods and the gals can come by and "shop" for what they need. All of our items are donated (except bed pillows, we buy new) and so everything is free. We've even started doing some furniture. I found out about them while I was still working, the storage facility that I worked at donated 4 large lockers for this group, so I was familiar with what happened there. It looked like fun, so when I retired, I started helping out. It's only a couple of hours two Saturdays a month, so doesn't cut into my "me" time much. I've just been helping out on donation days, but will start training to do the "shops" with the gals too. I'm looking forward to that. And I recently found out that our granddaughter will be going to preschool in Sept, so I will have more time.
Basically what I'm saying is one option is to look for a volunteer opportunity. Food banks and soup kitchens I think are often looking for help, if that's something that interests you.
Congrats to those celebrating, hugs to those who need them and welcome to any new gals out there! Feel free to jump in on any topic that interests you and please don't feel that you need to comment on each post, we are a very chatty bunch and this is a fast moving thread!
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Lanette - One of my friends says she will never have another man in her life if anything happens to her husband. She has been pretty controlled in her marriage. I personally probably would if it was the right person. I would need someone that allowed me my freedom as well.
I’m glad your Subaru is not costing you a fortune. It will be interesting to see what you get for the drums. Do you have a number in mind that would make you happy?
W Network is playing Christmas movies. Last week I Told Jonah we should watch one to cool us off. He looked at me as if my head was on backwards.
I think that sign is perfect for you!
Lisa - I’ll post a picture tomorrow. I have the shirts all ready to go, I just need to press them.
I have started setting calendar reminders on my phone for subscriptions. We are trying a few “free for 3 months” deals and I don’t want to start getting charged.
Annie - I’m so proud of you, you are an inspiration yourself.
Barbara - you should be proud of yourself too.
Unfortunately, I am almost at my highest weight again. I have managed to keep it under the 2’s though. Not much but a little.
Tracie - Hi there!
Barbie - I love the picture of you and Jake with your new car. Congratulations!
Debbie - I wouldn’t want to commit to one day a week either. And… no matter what isn’t it the mother’s responsibility to make daycare arrangements?
Busy day today, I had my car into the shop for 9am as scheduled, but the part didn’t show up until almost 1030. I ended up having a 45 minute conversation with my BFF during my wait. It was lovely.
Stopped to buy a bra extender, the hooks aren’t in the right spot for bra though.
. I also stopped to buy a fm radio for my car. The antenna is busted on my car and stations won’t come in. I thought I could run one through the speakers. It didn’t work well so returned it.
Then I went to the ceramics shop to help out for a bit, came home and designed, cut and weeded the shirts for tomorrow.
Now I’ve had a bath and am sitting here catching up with you at almost midnight.
I should be able to sleep in a bit tomorrow which will make tomorrow evening nice.
Very smoky here today, DH was sent home early.
Tracey in Edmonton6 -
The weather was horrible yesterday, dreary, raining, and at one stage we got caught in a downpour, and DH's umbrella broke! We were looking for a taxi, (black cab), but on a Friday rush hour, in the rain, no chance!
We picked up a bus for a few stops, but walked most of the way to Soho.
However, it's much better than a heatwave!
We caught the early train (which was horribly crowded, but we got seats), and hung around in a coffee shop. The lunch was wonderful. Great venue, gorgeous food. DH paid for an introductory celebration glass of champagne, and all the rest of the (very expensive) meal with wine. We had decided that morning to pay for the boyfriend as well. I gave DSIL her scented candle and I think she really appreciated it all.
Then we went to the Foundling Museum, where Thomas Coram started a home for children whose mother's couldn't care for them, in the 1740s. Very sad and touching. I've been before, but the others hadn't. DSIL counsels adopted children and DH is adopted.
Then it was the trek across town in the rain!!!
My idea was to go to my favourite, famous pub, and then for a light dim sum in China Town. The pub was hideously overcrowded, though I got the only seat left. We enjoyed ourselves though, and met a nice young Canadian guy. Friday night is not a good time for a quiet drink.
China Town has really deteriorated since I used to be a frequent visitor. The places I knew for fifty years have closed down, and only tourist traps are left. The one or two decent places had big queues outside. Eventually I picked just anywhere, and we resigned ourselves to a substandard light meal, but at least we were together. By this time poor DH was losing heart and was very tired. I managed to keep going somehow, mainly for DSIL. Really we should have just gone home. But I actually enjoyed my crispy duck with pancakes, which I haven't had in thirty years.
The journey back was great, on the Gatwick Express, no people, and I paid for a taxi from the station. Hooray!
So today, a very quiet day!
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Michele it was the driver’s side rear view mirror. Scary!
Carol I’m with you about the interstate, those big rigs really shake me.
Lanette here’s the Shanghai Hospital Move. It’s my go-to when taking breaks on long drives.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CY9IBmesC_4&pp=ygUWc2hhbmdoYWkgaG9zcGl0YWwgbW92ZQ%3D%3D
Machka these folks came through town Tuesday, thought of you and Rowan.
https://bicycleridesnw.org/brnw-oregon-2023/
Tracey replacing and installing the mirror cots $642. (gulp) That’s why I didn’t click “Add to cart” on that Prime Day Apple Watch ;{
Lisa con VERY grats on paying off the house.
Only through pg 22, baby steps ;}
7/8 gratitude: milk of magnesia and dulcolax07/07: Move: ZERO sets, dogs around Home Depot/College of the Redwoods/Sutter Hospital. Steps:8142
Fuel: sugar in vs mfp= -47
CI=1769 CO=453
Live: Joe, readings, BP. Wt:131.4
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. July: Move more, fuel better (less sugar), live NOW.
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Barbie-sweet car! How exciting-not only is it new but it is something you also wanted to help live your life style.
Allie-Miles is radiant!
Debbie-good call on the day care. It sounds like an unstable situation for you. Also, the need for child care providers is great-I am sure you can find another child if you really want to. Better to not be involved in the financial issues of others-especially if it is chronic.
Lanette-I'm in agreement with you on the dating scene. Right now with work I couldn't imagine it-don't have the energy! And I like my own schedule. I may change in the future but I am not searching. It may sound horrible, but I am not sure I would handle burying another husband. Having said that-I may change my mind at any time-and that's ok too.
Evelyn-I like your retirement activities!
Tracey-don't beat yourself up too much-you have had a lot on your plate.
Barbara-expensive mirror but if it has any of the electronic features-that really ups the price. I shouldn't but I am most likely getting new Apple Watch when new model comes out. I have the Series 8. I really like it and decided while I am working I will keep up with the tech I like.
Heather-your tromp around London does sound tiring. We walked everywhere it seemed when we visited in 2012. Took train from Cambridge I believe (son lived in Lakenheath/Mildenhall). Saw the palace, London Bridge, spent time in Camden Town-they had a huge Christmas Fair, went to China Town. Not sure where the hotel was we stayed in. My kids loved it-it all looked closer on the map. Very tiring, my husband complained lots but still a very good memory.
Made it through the week. Mammogram report from test Friday just showed up-everything looks good. Neck and lung cat scan in a couple of weeks and I should be done with major health tests for the year. Need to get blood work for specialist today or Monday.
Expecting rain this pm so going to get walk and shopping done early-a typical Saturday.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio5 -
Good morning, chickadees. Just sitting with my coffee before going out for my Saturday fresh produce. Still showery 😝 DH has put the oven on to clean, so I am happy to get out of the house while that’s happening.
@PackerFanInGB Hi Tracey. Fancy meeting you here 😝 When I retired DH and I did a lot of trips that I couldn’t do when I was teaching as they were too expensive in summer high season. Then I started attending groups in things I was interested in run by a lifelong charity in our town. Eventually I became a volunteer group leader. Give yourself time to settle into it. After a while you’ll wonder how you ever had time to work 😝
Lisa: 😂 I’m an Obliviator in the Hogwarts Holiday Challenge, which is Located in the Ministry of Magic in London. The relay is a list of tasks we have to accomplish one by one as a team this week. It’s a Magical International Cooperation Challenge with tasks related to different countries around the world.
Annie: It’sgreat to see the progress you are making. Good luck with the car.
Gotta go. The rain has stopped so making the best of it.
Back later.
☘️ Terri
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Morning peeps. 4:43am PST and kirby is going riding while I take the kids. It’s 72 now but the suns not out which makes it seem cooler.
Tomorrow we go camping for a week, it will be cooler there which will be nice for the kids.7 -
Morning, afternoon and evening, all,
Terri - Thanks for the explanation. Your participation in so many activities makes me envy your energy.
Barbara AHMOD - Thank you! I'm not sure it will feel real until the first of August goes by and there's no mortgage payment taken from the bank account. As someone else said, it's a pity there's no mortgage paper left to set on fire to celebrate. It's like my older laptop was waiting for the house payoff to die... it was the computer I used to set up and pay off the mortgage. I'll just have to burn down the drive on it to make up for the mortgage burning. (Geek joke.
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Heather - Your London trip sounds both wonderful and utterly exhausting!
I feel as if I should accomplish something, but my headspace is all taken up by the dread of the colonoscopy prep beginning tomorrow and the procedure itself on Tuesday. I'm getting myself too worked up over it, I know. I just need to relax and get my mind off it, but the thought of two days with only clear liquids is seriously making me twitchy. Then again, Corey's making me grilled shrimp tonight, my favorite meal.
Rebecca, I've seen you deal with self-directed fasts for 24 hours and more; how do you make it through? Any hints from anyone else who has fasted for 48 hours or more?
Later, y'all,
Lisa in AR, trying to get over myself and quit whining...
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Good morning ladies!
Machka hope you are having fun out there in real life!
Pip, you take such good care of your family!
Heather an exhausting day! Big cities are always exciting and tiring.
Tracey and Terri thank you! Next goal is 159 by the 24th. The home stretch!
Well I chickened out on getting the car registered. Told myself it would be less busy mid week. So today is laundry, and buy dog food, and a lottery ticket.
I'm another one who quit dating. It seems like all the men are way up in Philadelphia, which is a big drive for me. And so we would have lunch, which screws my diet, and that's all I can get away for. It just isn't worth the drive to meet another man who is less than I hoped. I might do better with a pen pal. Anyway, my life is my parents until they pass, and then it will take all my time to figure out housing. Then after that, I might think about dating again.
Annie in Delaware
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The car is fabulous. All the way home we were grateful that we don't live in the city. I am definitely a country mouse. There was a two hour wait in line for the ferry because of all the tourists and it being Friday afternoon in the summer. There are so many amazing features on the car that I may never learn them all. It was so much fun to plug in the car in our garage. No more trips to the gas station.LisaCongrats on getting your house paid off. That is a world class accomplishment. About retirement. A few months after retiring and moving north to where we live now, I was reading the newspaper and saw a notice of a beginner line dance class. I went to the class and fell in love and acquired a new passion that I would not have had time for while I was working. Barbie in NW WA 7
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Barbie -Thank you! Keep forgetting to say LOVE the car, it looks wonderful, and never having to buy gas again sounds wonderful, too. Can't imagine my mechanic husband buying an electric vehicle, but it might not be a choice before all is said and done. Hope you and your DH enjoy yours enormously, and loved seeing you both in the pic. You look awesome.2
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Heavy, stressful, busy, rollercoaster week. So incredibly exhausted.
Thank goodness for the weekend!
Today we went to hockey (field, not ice) and watched our son and daughter-in-law play great games.
I'm on enforced rest this weekend for my right knee which I hurt in the little crash I had 3.5 weeks ago. I was concerned about the elbow and figured that my knee (right side of the knee) was just bruised and would be all right. The elbow has a deep bone bruise which is healing slowly ... and meanwhile the knee has been getting more and more painful. Now they think I may have torn my MCL. Rest this weekend. Scans next week.
Machka in Oz9 -
Tracie Welcome back...
I eased into retirement. I substituted as a teacher up until Covid after working on and off as a full time teacher for about fifteen years. Now I garden, sing in a choir, maintain two houses, volunteer in a classroom once a week, get together with friends on average twice a month, in a painting group that meets once a week, have a chihuahua/greyhound mix, work at staying healthy. More than enough to do! It is up to me to use my time wisely. NO is a valuable word. Others may think that now that you have all this time it is a good time to ask you to do this that and the other thing. It is your time and up to you how you want to spend it.
Traveled when younger. Not much interest in doing that now. Interesting that is the first thing that comes to mind for some. Perhaps it was all that subbing when I had to adjust to new situations daily that I have had enough of disrupting my routine. I have traveled from Minnesota to St. Louis at least 50 times in my lifetime. To Milwaukee at least 15. Chicago 10. Among trips to Washington DC, Glacier, Arizona. Europe, Biloxi Mississippi 3 times, Florida, Caribbean. I love seeing travel pictures and pictures from around the world. Now the world comes to me.
I am more like Barbie where I like my routine now and am content.6
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