WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2023
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Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 9min 57sec, 118elev, 2.80ap, 77ahr, 97mhr, 6.13mi= 568c
Zwift home spin bike- strava stats- 1hr 22min, 1115elev, 102aw, 14.7amph, 96ahr, 129mhr, 20.07mi= 429c
Strava a= 481c
Zwift stats- 1hr 22min 5sec, 1119elev, 102aw, 54arpm, 14.69amph, 20.1mi= 482c
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Many of you who have been posting on this thread know that I love being a part of this community. I love hearing about your lives. I often use the topics from the thread as a conversation starter with my friend who comes to walk with me every morning. Today we talked about packing essentials and adventures in travel.
For decades I worked full time in a challenging job that expected me to work far more hours than I was every paid for and expected a high level of patience and tolerance. I loved the job until the moment I decided that I'd had enough and decided to retire even though I could have had a much higher income in retirement if I'd worked a few more years. Someone used the phrase "quality of life" and it resonated with me. A higher retirement income could never have taken the place of the peace I feel in my life today.
I have two important signs on my refrigerator. One says, "Here is my secret. I don't mind what happens." The other says, "We already have everything we need." Together, they make for a very peaceful and satisfying life.
My alarm is set for 4:20 AM so I can get up and walk Bessie, my sweet mixed breed black dog. We walk for about 15 minutes then come into the house for breakfast. She eats the same breakfast every day and loves it. I eat the same thing every morning which saves me from decision fatigue to start the day. I do the same things while I eat my breakfast. Read e mail, read from a spiritual book, log my steps onto two virtual walking sites, and read this thread. You all remind me that health and fitness are at the top of my list of goals for the day. Sometimes my husband gets up early and sometimes he doesn't. At 5:45 my walking friend comes to the house so we can walk Bessie together. Bessie walks for 15-30 minutes then is ready to come home. My friend and I walk for another 30-45 minutes, then she goes home and I walk until somewhere between 7:30 and 8:00. Hubby and I have a talking time while I drink water before showering and dressing for the day.
At 9:00 we attend a meeting on Zoom that is connected with a spiritual program that we follow. We have friends from many places on the meeting and always feel energized by being there. Sometimes I host or co host the meeting so I can share responsibility for the meeting continuing. We eat lunch before 11:00. This is our big meal and the meal we plan and eat together at the table. Our other meals are "find it and fix it" and may or may not be eaten together.
The afternoon is for chores and yard work and watching TV together. Jake and I take turns riding the exercise bike. We take turns deciding what to watch. We don't have network or cable tv so it is YouTube, Netflix, or Amazon. Right now we're considering adding BritBox to the mix.
I head for bed between 6 and 7 and Jake stays up a little later. I don't sleep through the night so my night is a mixture of potty stops, sleep, and reading I take Bessie out for a walk about midnight.
With a life this simple and repetitive, I often have little to share. I appreciate all of you who have stories to tell.
Barbie in NW WA
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Barbie: Created the life you have is quite an achievement. When you do post, it’s always inspirational. You are a breath of fresh air.
Out early this morning for weekly grocery shopping. Pockled about the garden, mooched around the house, generally doing just as I pleased.
We had duck breast, stir fry veg and oven chips for dinner. Had a minor accident while cooking the duck, and splashed hot oil on my face and foot. It was quite a shock, but only painful briefly. Must be more careful when cooking in future.
Planning an early night. Enjoy the rest of your Wednesday. 🥰
☘️ Terri
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The phrase "you do you" or "I am in the drivers seat of my own life" always resets me. Sometimes I think I should do more (my brain saying do more= be more). Staying with my eldest sister for a couple weeks during the Summer is so chaotic. Simple things like putting the trash and recycling out involves getting the tractor, loading up the bins in the bucket and driving it down to the end of her long road. While as we just roll the bins to the front of our driveway. But then I think, "she chooses this as if she saved the paper recycling for a once a month trip to the recycling center, her garbage would be much less volume. With it just her, she really shouldn't have as much as she does. She lives out in the country, a compost bin for organic waste, that she can turn every so often. But she chooses to drive the tractor down the road. I do not tell her how to live her life. We all have choices, things that are important to us, and things we should let go. I have let go of expected responsibilities, our life is so simple its a wee bit on the boring side. Which to both husband and I, we thoroughly enjoy it. We have lived chaotic. Blessings abound.💖🤗
Rebecca
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Good evening ladies.
My aunt died today, and we are reaching to feel the appropriate feelings, but I think the truth is that we didn't know her that well. So it's awkward. My dad was number five of eight, and there are only two left. I was giving him grief again today about trying to use a pole saw on a ladder to do tree work. He is very healthy but he does risky things.
Dad wants to know where the service will be, and how to get a copy of the obituary, and where to send flowers. All in due time, but ten minutes later he asks again.
I'm annoyed with him because he asked me to order string for his string trimmer, then went out and bought it himself. He forgets things, and then takes action as though he is fully cognizant. Much trickier than my mom.
Annie in Delaware11 -
No work so I got to go to the gym to do a Body Pump DVD. Then took a walk around the neighborhood then counted the donation money at the church. Came home and in the pool then to Aldi. I’m looking for a headband that’s absorbent. Stopped at Burlington thinking they might have one (tried Target, none, then Kohl’s, none). Didn’t find the headband but I did find 10 pars of socks for $6. I needed socks and that’s a price I could live with.
Annie DE – yea for your mom. I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt.. You are an angel.
Allie – that pic sure looks like it’s out of the 70’s. They look so good together
Carol – you DO have a beautiful granddaughter. You should be very proud
Michele FL – welcome
Barbara – Vince hasn’t been doing his PT. Not that I thought he would. As soon as it gets nicer out (maybe in the 70’s) I’m going to be after him again to go walking, even just a little bit.
The last time I was at the MD and had my routine blood work, he said that my sugar was on the high side. Not prediabetes, but close. I’m not a big candy/cookie/dessert person but I was listening to a podcast and they mentioned about fruit. Now I’m a big fruit eater. Vince can’t understand how to me a big juicy peach is a true dessert, not pie or cake or anything like that. It makes sense – sugar is sugar. I fell into the “sugar from fruit is OK” trap. So I think I’ll have MFP start to track my sugar so I can see what foods are low in sugar.
Maybe I’ll go back in the pool to do a little exercising. I’m thinking that right now I’ll get out a jigsaw puzzle to work on before the holidays.
Just changed to have MFP log my sugar.
Oh, yuk, everything high in sugar is my beloved fruit. Guess I need to find which fruits are the lowest. Unfortunately, I just bought a lot of peaches and it looks like they're pretty high. Oh well.....
Michele NC
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Oh Annie- my condolences on both your aunt and dealing with your dad.. its a tough row to hoe.
Went to the dentist for a cleaning and darn if i dont have 2 small cavities on my far back teeth.
Will take care of those once back from cruise.
Stopped to see the little guy today.. he isn't feeling well.
He has some type of clear rash all over his trunk and is really irritable
.told Tracy to give the Pediatrician a ring.
Tomorrow is hair day for Carmine and I.should be s fun time...🙄
Lanette- there is something called the Omlet that is a portable chicken coop that you can roll around your yard.. look it up.2 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good evening ladies.
My aunt died today, and we are reaching to feel the appropriate feelings, but I think the truth is that we didn't know her that well. So it's awkward. My dad was number five of eight, and there are only two left. I was giving him grief again today about trying to use a pole saw on a ladder to do tree work. He is very healthy but he does risky things.
Dad wants to know where the service will be, and how to get a copy of the obituary, and where to send flowers. All in due time, but ten minutes later he asks again.
I'm annoyed with him because he asked me to order string for his string trimmer, then went out and bought it himself. He forgets things, and then takes action as though he is fully cognizant. Much trickier than my mom.
Annie in Delaware
Dealing with a little of that with my mom(asking me to order something then going and getting it herself because she forgot)
It isn't so bad for me because I only see mom once a month, talk to her about once a week(if I can catch her home and in the house)
So much harder for you because you live right there.
Remember to take a little time for yourself.
Debbie
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Lanette- there is something called the Omlet that is a rolling portable chicken coop,look it up.. a friend of mine has one its really neat..1
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »Good morning ladies! Playing catch up here, putting chatty stuff in spoilers.
Ginny - good luck with that tooth, glad you are able to get in to see the dentist relatively quickly.
Annie - glad to hear your mom hasn't worsened. I admire you keeping up with your exercise, as I've mentioned before. You have settled into some good habits.
Debbie - good job finding those keys and turning them in to the PD. That birria taco meat sounds yummy. When I was working, there was a "taco bus" set in a neighboring parking lot, the owners spoke little if any English and man was their food good. I wonder what became of that bus, I need to find it again. I remember the portions were huge, enough for me and DH to split with some left over.
Rebecca - you and your sisters are just beautiful, you all have such lovely smiles. How long has your sis been in that wheelchair?
Kylia - wow, what a reaction. Sounds like the steroids and meds are working. Glad you took the day off.
Barbie - good job on getting your early morning walks in before the blast furnace starts up. Looks like your area's weather is cooling off a bit.
Tracey - Sorry to hear about the vehicle fix-it problems. Wonder what is on HR's mind?
Heather - hope your son and family are able to make the move-in work. What a blessing you and your DH were close by and able to give them a place to park for a few days. I agree, you and your DH are making wonderful memories with them. Gosh those kids are smart as whips.
Carol - your granddaughter looks so grown up! She's a charmer. Hope you had a nice birthday!
Kelly - I want to be in your daycare! All those activities sound like fun. Can I bring the chickies?
Allie - good luck at the Rheumatologist. Before my DH was diagnosed with RA, I didn't realize there were so many types of autoimmune disease. Love the 70's photo of the kids.
Blood tests:Got the results of my blood tests back, all good per Dr. Lisa. Vit D at 67 and I'm very happy with that. My B12 is above high normal, and has been for years. Fasting glucose was 110 - that's always over the limit too, but A1C is normal and everyone once in a while I test myself after 2 hours of having some sugary/carby food and it's well under the diabetes threshold so I'm not worried.
Bra fitting:I got a bra fitting years ago and it was worth the effort. Tried getting one up at Macy's in Oly when I was still working a few years ago, and the gal who did those wasn't in. It's quite a drive for me so haven't been back. Some year when I'm up there again, I should try. I'm having some little luck with one brand & style I found at Walmart. Sometimes going up a cup size makes a lot of difference.
I'm sitting here at the dining room table with my laptop, and the warm kitchen is starting to smell like a brewery, lol. Not really. But close. I have 4 quarts of chopped up apples fermenting themselves into vinegar plus found some Kefir starter in the fridge, a bit past expired, but hoping that the little beasties do the trick and turn it into something akin to buttermilk, a flavor from my childhood that I love.
It got up to 105 yesterday. Supposed to cool off maybe 5 degrees today and on Friday - down to 75. No rain in sight, but the cooler weather and nights will be great.
Chicken story -The girls are hot, even though they have shade. Yesterday they got their pea/sweet corn popsicles every few hours; they did fine. At around 5, I went out to give them fresh water and do some chickie chores so let them out of their run for recess. They ran around and found some green grass to peck at, but all eventually congregated in the shade next to the shop where I keep small buckets and gallon jugs of water, some on the picnic table. Easier for me to carry water to various plants than drag a hose.
I went to get water to carry back to the squash in a bed behind the shop, and they were looking in a bucket, panting. Fairy, the black gal who normally isn't friendly, squatted down (didn't run!) when I pressed on her back, and let me pick her up. I stuck her feet first into the water bucket for a minute and made sure to splash water around her belly. Then let her loose. She shook her feathers and walked off.
Well, Gladys, who'd been standing by the water pail watching, was interested in all that so I asked her if she wanted her turn. Yep. She let me pick her up and she got her little bath. Thelma didn't want to be left out so after I released Gladys, she took her turn.
I couldn't believe it. Just call me Elly Mae Clampett, lol. By the way, I've been getting 2 eggs a day. Roger came over last night to see if I was alive and I gave him half a dozen. I told him I was thinking of making them some kind of chicken tractor - a way to let them out of their little run and move around the yard to eat grass without me having to babysit them. There's portable fencing for that, but they'd need some shelter like a doghouse. Let's see if his wheels get turning, it doesn't take much, lol.
Just got my 2000 step sunrise walk in, and picked ripe Aronia (chokeberry) berries. The bush is loaded with huge berries this year, and ripening a month early. Aronias never get real sweet and aren't juicy, but have made the list as a superfood. I'll add a few to oatmeal or grind them up in smoothies. Some bird planted a seed among the shrubs out front years ago and it has now grown into quite a bush.
Ok ladies, make it a fabulous day! Stay cool!
Lanette
SW WA State
I haven't seen my sister since last summer before we had that little reunion with a handful of cousins at my eldest sisters place. The more recent photo I posted was when she invited a long time family friend, her husband and son. The son hadn't seen my sisters girls since they we're all kids. She has been in a wheelchair going on 3 years. I just noticed a different between the health of her legs from last summer to now.
Last summer. Me, my sister, my eldest sis.
Last week.
So she can stand with assistance, and walk a bit, so that's encouraging. Still totally numb she says.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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grandmallie wrote: »Lanette- there is something called the Omlet that is a rolling portable chicken coop,look it up.. a friend of mine has one its really neat..
Allie, thanks - I've been looking at those, aren't they cute! I think they are too small for my 4 hens, plus $$$. I still might end up with one for next year when I'd have grass to move it to. I think they make larger ones. How many hens does your friend have in hers?
I let the girls out, gave Gladys and Thelma a dip in the bucket. They and Fairy decided to go back in the run and check out what I put in the feeder for them and I shut the gate. Almy doesn't want to come in yet. It's 99 out there so I came back in to cool off. I'll go out in a bit and see if she's ready to join them. These darn kids, lol. There's always one!
Lanette
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Lisa - thank you for asking about my daughter. The truth is, I’ve been giving her time and not asking how she is doing. Last year when she miscarried, she sort of shut off from everyone except Brodey. She had told me after how thankful she was that people gave them that time, and that we allowed them to talk as they chose about it.
I’m sort of doing the same now. She is liking FB posts and answering texts. We’re just not really discussing the big stuff. We are going to see her tomorrow so that will give me a good chance to know how she is truly doing.
Heather - it’s wonderful to hear about your date day, it sounds fun and relaxing.
Ginny - I have a friend whose parents gave the siblings huge Christmas gifts about 3 years in a row. It was the same thing, they thought their kids could use it more and they wanted to see it enjoyed. There was still a substantial amount after their deaths as well.
Kelly - I like some quiet time when travelling as well. I think I enjoyed life more before I had a cell phone honestly.
Machka - I do small things to get exercise in. I have been getting bad at the commercial one though because I record most shows now and zip through commercials.
Funnily enough, I bought a Wonderbra a couple of weeks ago. I find all of them so uncomfortable lately. I know part of it is the weight I have gained.
Barbie - I just love hearing about the simple life you live. I hope to get there someday.
Terri - I hope the burn heals quickly grease and steam both hurt terribly.
Annie - I think the chain saw should disappear. That sounds so dangerous. I know capable young men that have had life altering injuries from them.
Sorry to your family on the loss of your Aunt.
Michele - when we went to the dietitian to learn about DH’s diabetes, we were told they don’t count the sugar in fruits.
Maybe discuss it with your doctor.
Lanette - I just love your chicken stories.
I saved this the other day to show you.
I didn’t hear from HR today. 🤷♀️
I received my first two assignments back 20/20 and 25/25. Turned another one in this afternoon and have a presentation on Friday.
Tracey in Edmonton
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My date day meal of fish and chips and mushy peas was as wonderful as always. We had some Pinot Grigio with it. We got a window table, and were next to an open door, so it was even better than sitting outside. On an August sunny day, even though it was early for dinner, there were a lot of people eating, outside and in.
The Regency attracts a lot of Chinese tourists, and their tables, i saw when I went to the toilet, were laden with oysters, mussels, lobsters, etc.
As they do just about the best fish and chips ever, and I don't cook it at home, that's nearly always what we have. I sometimes have hake in caper sauce.
I love that place.
Unfortunately, my thigh started to hurt about half way there, (it's about two and a half miles), and I just about made it. Had to walk half a mile to the bus stop to go home, and only just made it back to our house. I'm going to look at some videos today about inner thigh pain. DH is not able to be sympathetic about it, it's not in his nature. I think he gets worried, and feels impotent to help. So I got annoyed with him. I know he cares.
So, mainly excellent, with a blip.
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good evening ladies.
My aunt died today, and we are reaching to feel the appropriate feelings, but I think the truth is that we didn't know her that well. So it's awkward. My dad was number five of eight, and there are only two left. I was giving him grief again today about trying to use a pole saw on a ladder to do tree work. He is very healthy but he does risky things.
Dad wants to know where the service will be, and how to get a copy of the obituary, and where to send flowers. All in due time, but ten minutes later he asks again.
I'm annoyed with him because he asked me to order string for his string trimmer, then went out and bought it himself. He forgets things, and then takes action as though he is fully cognizant. Much trickier than my mom.
Annie in Delaware
Can you get him tested like you did your mother?
My husband is a bit like that. I repeat a lot of stuff verbally and in writing.
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dlfk202000 wrote: »Snowflake1968 wrote: »Debbie - how do you know they are legit companies? That sounds like something my daughter could do easily.
I should try to go to bed. I hope I can sleep with the heat.
Tracey in Edmonton
I have been working with a number of different companies for years. I get emails showing what shops are available.
I am not sure if the same companies are up there.
A few I work for are Marketforce, Ipsos,CustomerImpact.
There used to be a great site that listed all the companies on one site, by location-type in your town and all the different ones in the area would show up. I stopped doing shops during covid and that site was gone when I tried to do shops again.
I can get her more information if you want. I love doing them but am a bit more picky.
I know, after all these years, which companies will give little bonuses near the end of the month or if the shop isn't getting picked up by anyone. Like the ones I am doing today. The very first one paid $9-it was at dh's store so I just did it when we went to get his check. The three yesterday and two today are paying $15(I applied for them a week later) and this morning, I see the remaining ones are now at $17. The more remote the area is, the higher it goes with some companies.
I will be looking for more shops so will start checking out more companies along with the ones I am already signed up with.
Some the shop fee isn't great but when they do a nice reimbursement for food plus pay a small shop fee, it is worth it, if you want the food.
There is one that popped up for Red Lobster. Shop fee is just $5 BUT reimbursement is up to $70
Why so low? I thought they paid better than that.
Or are you in and out in about 20 minutes?
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