WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2023
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Great seeing all the pictures and posts from everyone.
As expected, another holiday ruined by dh and mil. Add to that drama from both sisters. Both upset with mom. (older sister called talked an hour then mom THOUGHT she had hung up and started complaining about how late and how long sister talks- I heard her say something but by the time I got mom to hear/understand, the damage was done- sister text her, feeling very hurt. Younger sister was supposed to come out yesterday to FINALLY pick up her dog that she left with mom and dad for at least 4-5 YRS!!. She never showed up before I left yesterday so no idea if she went out or not.
Dh got into it with his mom Christmas Eve and Morning- worse than usual. I don't understand why he just sits and takes it. I tried to message him while I was up there cooking and his comments were "Leave me alone" "Don't talk to me".
It was nice having son and girlfriend there at mom's with me.
I didn't really visit with mom much- she was at church until 9pm Sunday night. I had dinner- oyster stew and shrimp ready for her. At first she said she wasn't hungry but did try and enjoy the soup(served the kids the potato soup before adding the oysters). Then older sister called as we were finishing up eating-
I cooked all morning- had everything ready by 12:55- to eat at 1. Sister knew what time, she didn't call.
We ate, I cleaned up and headed home. Son did some chores for mom like bringing in the firewood and spreading chips around the chicken yard.
Got home, went straight to MIL's-more arguing, more on dh 's part- he was still fueled up from the morning- still was this morning.
So, came back from her place, he went straight to his room then went to bed. All the gifts still under the tree. Kids opened their gifts then girlfriend went home, son went to bed beings he had to work early this morning.
As far as I know, dh's birthday gifts from me are also still unopened since 11/27
He needs to find a way to not let some of this bother him so much and to let things go- he will end up having a stroke or driving off a cliff is what he tells me all the time. She says all these things, gets him so worked up then the next time, acts like she did nothing wrong and she is the victim that he is the one that starts it. He doesn't let anything go- It is really a toxic place to be.
I told him to go away for a week, I will take care of her(won't be to the degree he does) but of course he won't do that-will just yell and cuss about it and keep going back.
Sorry- another vent from me- SO tired of ruined holidays
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Yesterday stat for the day - Christmas
Christmas walk w/family- 2hrs 40min 18sec, 64elev, 2.87ap, 83ahr, 106mhr, 6.32mi= 582c
Strava app = 752c5 -
Stats for the day -
Walk w/family- 1hr 59min 7sec, 85elev, 3.03ap, 83ahr, 100mhr, 6.11mi= 550c
Strava app = 749c
Walk home to gym- 11.21min, .52mi= 51c
Strava app = 65c
Rowing machine- 20min, 54aw, 121ahr, 168mhr, 3238meters= 166c
Walk gym to home- 11.08min, 2.85ap, .53mi= 61c
Strava app= 66c
Total cal 8283 -
Carol -- I am so sorry for your loss.
Annie--I hope you got things worked out with the pastor. I agree he needs to know he overstepped.
Kylia--Your parade looks fun.
Betsy--Happy be-lated birthday. Sounds like a very nice day.
Rita--Beautiful luminarias.
Katie--So sorry about your fall. I can't believe either one didn't ask or help you.
Barbara--Please Katla that I wish her the best and miss her. Thanks for being willing to share our greetings and thoughts with her.
Rosemarie--HUGS!
Machka--Sending prayers and hugs for all of you. I do think you need to keep an eye on the breathing. That Covid is nasty stuff.
Beth--Please take care of yourself. I pray your mom will work so she can go back to assisted living.
Thanks for sharing all the pictures and Christmas events. We had a very nice Christmas eve at DOS and their kids and grandkids, which is half of our family. Not planning much with the rest as they are dealing with one thing or another. Yesterday we were going to Sioux City to have Christmas with our YD and Ms and only made it about 60 miles of the 180. It started snowing and then they started closing roads so we turned around and came home. Good thing as so far we ending up with 6-7 inches of snow and it is cold. Sounds like we can get freezing rain the next couple days.
Not sure why I am feeling off, been praying about it.
DSIL is doing better, off the vent and was to go home today. This morning they said they are concerned about her kidneys so running tests. Prayers she can go home tomorrow.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE6 -
Rosemarie2972 wrote: »Lanette: My DH liked See's candies and would sometimes order them.
Debbie: I hope you enjoyed the visit with your Mom and cousin.
Now heading towards 2024!
Best,
Rosemarie from Georgia
See's chocolates are the best. I have a hard time but when I do get a box, I limit it it to 2 a day. I am great until I open the box....
Cousin didn't come by. Said he was planning on stopping to see mom today(and I came home yesterday)
With mom such a short time so no real time to visit. I will go back up in a few weeks when things calm down and have a nice visit with her.
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DD and I had a good Christmas. It was quiet, we texted with family and gave all the critters Christmas treats. Started a new Christmas jigsaw puzzle.
Lanette - we tried turkey slices in the air fryer yesterday. They were delicous. We also did seasoned green beans in the fryer. We are still learning as we go but so far are quite happy with it. We have a built in oven that is possessed. Part of the reason for the air fryer. The oven suddenly decides it is too hot and then turns itself off in the middle of cooking something or the timer goes off partway through the cooking time. We had it checked out and the computer needs replaced which costs nearly as much as a new oven.
Beth - so sorry about your mom. Remember to take care of you too.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA
The problem with my oven is can't see the temp when I am trying to set it unless it is just the perfect lighting in the room and even that is getting worse. I have a little thermometer that I put in there now but then have to wait for it to preheat, see how close I am, and then adjust it.
DH said the part isn't available or other times he says it is too expensive for the age of the stove-makes comments about just spending the $1800 and replacing the whole thing. It is a specific size so only a few options from what he said. I will deal with it a bit longer but not too much more. The light went out inside too- that isn't that big of a deal.
LOVE our air fryer and use it almost daily. Best purchase ever. The first one was a gift from dh- sat in the box for months after I got it(Got a pressure cooker same time, that was in the box a year before I tried it-LOVE it too). We have since replaced/upgraded the air fryer several times. The only appliance dh actually will use, other than warming up something very rarely in the microwave.
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Allie - my DS, cousin and a friend who is an MD are all currently using Ozempic for weight loss. It is a diabetic drug that works by slowing the transit of food through the stomach thereby making you feel full longer. It also interfers with leptin and ghrelin, the hormones that regulate appetite so that you don't want to eat as much. In order for your insurance to pay anything you must have an A1c that is at least at prediabetic level. Even with that the co-pay is usually very high. My cousin told me she is paying $700 per month co-pay and she is on Medicare with a supplement. You start with a small dose and increase each time you reach a plateau and quit losing. To keep the weight off after you reach your goal you must take it for the rest of your life. My MD friend told me she was hoping she could cut down to taking it one week per month when she met her goal and maintain with that but she is not sure it will work. My son had to go off the drug for a short while and said his apppetite came roaring back ten fold. There have also been reports that if you need surgery it complicates aneasthesia.
Sorry for the book. I had seriously considered this, especially after my son started but due to cost and unknown long term effects have decided against it.
Take care, Sue in WA
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Thanks Sue,yes you have to have high BP which I do and a VMI over 30 mine is 35 I think .. next time I go to the Dr I'll ask about this..
My dopey neighbor keeps his door open to the hallway and plays his stereo loud,I can hear it from my bedroom.. he is really creepy,so i just stay in my place.
Gosh Debbie I don't know how you put up with all you do daily..the stress level for you and your husband is unbearable, and the way he treats you is just rotten..I mean Tom was bad,but lordy your husband is just wicked.
Please do what you can to take care of you. We only go around this ol world once ..make it count !!4 -
Machka-please keep an eye on breathing. Do you have an odometer to check oxygen levels? People have issues with levels going below 90% and not knowing it-you need those deep breaths.
Sorry for those who had less than peaceful Christmases. Try to focus on the one that did go right. So Debbie, for instance, Son and girlfriend went with you for visit-that is a positive so the whole thing wasn't ruined-focus on the good.
Vicki-here is hoping DSIL does get to go home and kidneys are ok.
Had good visit with Step son and family. Didn't mention not being able to get everyone together-I just enjoyed the time I was with them. Grand sons are growing like weeds. They are all doing very well in school-especially the eldest.
Very tired today, again. Hope the fatigue lessens in the coming day. May take Friday off so I can get 5 days off to rest, but will need to see. For now-off to clean some berries so they re easy to eat and cut up some veggies and get lunch ready for tomorrow.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Ginny, the UTIs always just took me down physically, with fatigue being the worst of all. Hope the antibiotic helps soon.
Machka, I'm with Ginny - the inability to draw a deep breath is indeed worrying when covid is the diagnosis.
Thanks for all the photos of home and families, it's been wonderful to get that look into everyone's life. Here's the latest picture of all the work Corey's done covering the walls with the knotty cedar planks. Tomorrow, he'll be putting up the ceiling...
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in AR14 -
LisaInArkansas wrote: »Ginny, the UTIs always just took me down physically, with fatigue being the worst of all. Hope the antibiotic helps soon.
Machka, I'm with Ginny - the inability to draw a deep breath is indeed worrying when covid is the diagnosis.
Thanks for all the photos of home and families, it's been wonderful to get that look into everyone's life. Here's the latest picture of all the work Corey's done covering the walls with the knotty cedar planks. Tomorrow, he'll be putting up the ceiling...
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in AR
Lisa- your sun room looks amazing- I know you will enjoy MANY hours in there when it is done!
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Ladies - is it just me or do all of us gals in this group have exceptionally good looking spouses, partners, kids, grandkids and other family members including dogs, cats, chickens, horses, goats and honeybees?
Carol - beautiful family, what nice pictures. I remember when your grands were littles! Don't blame you for wanting to spoil them a little while you are still here and able.
Sue - thanks for the air fryer report. Today I finished putting away Christmas decorations and just cleaning up and organizing a bit. Started a pile for the thrift store next week which will include items from the kitchen cupboards that are jammed with items I'll never use. Got to make room for the air fryer then I'll give it a whirl.
Heather - beautiful dinner prepared by your DH. He's a man of many talents. You keep him young.
Barbara - "Mrs. Brown's Boys" is, well, kind of bawdy, lol. I see there are a few episodes on YouTube.
Machka - about your breathing - is there a health center close by where you could get your O2 checked? Luckily I had a pulse oximeter in the house I gotten to check up on DH when I had Covid. I still use it these days - sometimes it feels to me like my pulse is racing a little and I clip it onto my finger to check. So far, no big deal and I'm reminded to cut back on coffee.
Allie - regarding that Ozempic and similar weight loss injections - I saw a video from a pharmacist a while back - there was a study that a percentage of folks taking it lost a lot of muscle and it weakened their bones as well, probably from lack of protein and nutritious food since they didn't have an appetite. He also mentioned the weight gain after quitting. My next door neighbor has been on Ozempic for a couple months now for weight loss, I talked to her a few weeks ago and she'd lost 30 pounds pretty quickly. I know she wants to be more active and she has a lot to lose.
Debbie - I love the idea of your DH taking a week off and you "taking care" of MIL! All this talk about See's candies - I just broke down and ordered myself a little box. Celebrate the New Year. Maybe you need to order yourself a little box.
Rosemarie - I forgot to mention, what a good idea fixing a room just like you want it, changing the decor, getting some new furniture. It all sounds wonderful.
Ginny - it would be nice for you to get 5 days off in a row, you've been awful busy with Christmas activities. Hope you sleep well tonight.
Vicki - glad SIL is doing better and hope she can come home w/o kidney worries. Don't blame you for not wanting to chance that snowstorm - be careful with that freezing rain.
Lisa - you were right about Walmart being crowded. I was in there at 7:30 am. It wasn't packed by any means but the "50% Off" aisles were getting cleaned out quickly. Glad to hear Corey is making headway on YOUR sunroom.
Katiebug - while I was at Walmart, I did an experiment - I smiled at everyone and said "good morning" or made a pleasant comment. 100% of the gals either smiled, chatted a second, or at least acknowledged that I'd spoken. The guys..... zero! I must have put on my cloak of invisibility. The only one that talked was ahead of me in line and he works there so I see him all the time. Conclusion - we gals would have rushed to your aid when you fell and hit your head. Glad it didn't turn out to be serious.
Lanette
SW WA State7 -
The last of the turkey has been turned into soup and is in the freezer. Back to normal eating tomorrow
Barbie in NW WA5 -
Bah humbug on the men at the store..bumch of grumps.
Have Alfie tucked in behind me ,as I hear a plane fly overhead.always enjoy that..must have been born in me lol
Our bote return will be going up to 10 cents starting Jan 1st ,so will stop at Sams or Vostco and buy bottled water before the prices go up.3 -
dlfk202000 wrote: »Great seeing all the pictures and posts from everyone.
As expected, another holiday ruined by dh and mil. Add to that drama from both sisters. Both upset with mom. (older sister called talked an hour then mom THOUGHT she had hung up and started complaining about how late and how long sister talks- I heard her say something but by the time I got mom to hear/understand, the damage was done- sister text her, feeling very hurt. Younger sister was supposed to come out yesterday to FINALLY pick up her dog that she left with mom and dad for at least 4-5 YRS!!. She never showed up before I left yesterday so no idea if she went out or not.
Dh got into it with his mom Christmas Eve and Morning- worse than usual. I don't understand why he just sits and takes it. I tried to message him while I was up there cooking and his comments were "Leave me alone" "Don't talk to me".
It was nice having son and girlfriend there at mom's with me.
I didn't really visit with mom much- she was at church until 9pm Sunday night. I had dinner- oyster stew and shrimp ready for her. At first she said she wasn't hungry but did try and enjoy the soup(served the kids the potato soup before adding the oysters). Then older sister called as we were finishing up eating-
I cooked all morning- had everything ready by 12:55- to eat at 1. Sister knew what time, she didn't call.
We ate, I cleaned up and headed home. Son did some chores for mom like bringing in the firewood and spreading chips around the chicken yard.
Got home, went straight to MIL's-more arguing, more on dh 's part- he was still fueled up from the morning- still was this morning.
So, came back from her place, he went straight to his room then went to bed. All the gifts still under the tree. Kids opened their gifts then girlfriend went home, son went to bed beings he had to work early this morning.
As far as I know, dh's birthday gifts from me are also still unopened since 11/27
He needs to find a way to not let some of this bother him so much and to let things go- he will end up having a stroke or driving off a cliff is what he tells me all the time. She says all these things, gets him so worked up then the next time, acts like she did nothing wrong and she is the victim that he is the one that starts it. He doesn't let anything go- It is really a toxic place to be.
I told him to go away for a week, I will take care of her(won't be to the degree he does) but of course he won't do that-will just yell and cuss about it and keep going back.
Sorry- another vent from me- SO tired of ruined holidays
Debbie
Right now, I would be making plans for next year. I would start putting away a bit of money.
Then, as next Christmas approaches, I'd book 2 or 3 nights (Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Boxing Day) into a ... cabin in the woods, hotel in the city, shack by the beach ... or whatever appeals most to you.
Christmas Eve ... pack a bag and disappear for 3 days.
We did something very much like that a number of years ago. After a few less than ideal Christmases with members of my husband's family, we booked a place at a beach on the other side of the island for the next Christmas for ourselves. Much, much better!!
M in Oz
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Christmas is all put away. It was fun while it lasted, until next year. I completed the storage puzzle and everything is back into the huge LEGO box I acquired from eldest son a couple years ago when he bought a huge $200 set of something!
This is just storage under our stairs. Need to clean now.
Hugs to all ladies that endured stressful Christmases. You have survived and soon it will be the new year! Find the good. Do not let the negativity of your environment get a hold on you. Do not give it rent in your heart and mind.💖. We care about you, and want to see you shine.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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I'm interested that, in the US, you seem to start decorating way before us, and take them down much earlier. Here, most people leave them up until 12th Night. It's unlucky to leave them up after that.
Personally, I think they look a bit tawdry after New Year, but I usually can't be bothered to take them down.
I had a pleasant shock this morning. I have a savings account that pays money into my bank account monthly. It is a part of my 'income', which is tiny. Interest rates went up hugely this autumn, along with inflation, so when renewal came around, the rates were way higher than before. I opted for two years fixed. This morning was my first month on the hew rate. I could hardly believe the difference, though I should have realised! I did some calculations, just to check it was right! It will make a huge difference to my own personal income and help me a lot. My state pension goes into the joint account for bills and food, so this is personal money. Wish I'd fixed the rate for longer, because inflation and rates are now falling, but two years is better than one! I also have a minute teacher's pension for my personal spending. I only worked part-time,and most of that wasn't pension eligible. So, I will be able to have my hair trimmed!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx6 -
It always strikes me as a little sad when decorations disappear and Christmas music stops and everything returns to "normal" the day after Christmas.
I celebrate right to the Epiphany ... and most of the decorations stay up till Australia Day or sometimes into February. This year, I'm aiming to take them down the weekend before the Australia Day weekend. Might happen. Might not.
But then ... I like a lot about Christmas. Even a COVID Christmas like this one.
I spent a while outside this afternoon. Hung my laundry up in the sun, then sat out and read a while. It was warm and sunny and humid and the wind was blowing in from the ocean which I could see from my vantage point. Pretty fresh air ... low pollution!
I am breathing better today although my sense of smell is greatly diminished.
Machka in Oz
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Heather: We had a wonderful time. It’s funny you should say that about the glasses. My SiL made a similar comment. The younger folk don’t wear them all the time, but they had been opening gifts and needed them for reading instructions etc.
Yesterday, the weather was fabulous. The Blackrock path is mostly flat, and many others were also enjoying the brief window of calm sunshine. The weather closed in after lunch, although when we got home it was still fine where we live, which was good as we had hung washing out before we left in the morning. I only walked the first km of the path as my knee was grumbling.
This is a video of the path I found on YouTube
https://youtu.be/lE1064Bk6cI?si=ZVeEUlmbA8dcpzqk
🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
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☘️ Terri5 -
My friend G isn't calling in after all. Her itching was so bad last night that she felt she had to see a doctor again this morning. She has an appointment at 11.20. The poor woman feels she is being tortured. I have a photo I will put in a spoiler. Please don't look if medical things upset you. She said it's even worse on her arms - big blisters. It's all over her body. She is still intending to drive to Eastbourne, because she wants to see a very old friend of her long deceased sister. Personally, I couldn't even consider an expedition!
Oh well.
I managed my exercises this morning and an editing session, so I'm quite pleased with myself. Plus, before I knew G wasn't coming, at 7 am I hoovered the rug in the living room, and the kitchen floor, and polished the worktops. Then I put the turkey carcase on for stock, in an old weak chicken stock that has been neglected in the freezer. The smell is amazing! Soup for lunch, plus a smoked mackerel bagel.
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx5 -
Good morning!
Right now I have the right amount of Christmas left out. The tree and inside lights. 😍 Those will come down New Year's Eve. Heather Thank you for the cleaning solution. My DH isn't a fan of the smell, but it did a wonderful job. Yesterday I took the Bronco to body shop, then started take down, and cleaning. It really wasn't as "dirty" as I thought, but feels much better in dining room, living room, hallway, and part of kitchen. I ran out of time and energy. Rearranged some surfaces so feels less cluttered. At least surfaces and walls are clean and carpet vacuumed. I will tackle interior surfaces slower. While I hate the idea, I may need to include DH in cleaning out the under cabinets of two hutches. 🙃 Most of that is his stuffs. They are full with stuffs we haven't used in years. I don't really want to just pack and put in attic. I want it gone. He just overthinks everything and wants to keep everything. This will take some delicate negotiations. Lol!
So for now I am happy with work done. Interior surfaces will wait for little bits at a time. It was difficult mentally yesterday doing this as I had to balance what I wanted done with helping DH in his clean up projects, cooking dinner, spending time with DH.....I tend to buckle down and become single minded when the urge hits. This is why I usually did this when he was gone on weekends. Changes are difficult.
Today I enjoyed walking into the clean and decluttered front rooms with the lights of the tree.
Back to work for a short week. Need to get laundry sorted and plants watered before hand.
Love all the pictures!
Healing thoughts for those with medical challenges.
Hugs because we all need them.
Kylia in Ohio3 -
cityjaneLondon wrote: »My friend G isn't calling in after all. Her itching was so bad last night that she felt she had to see a doctor again this morning. She has an appointment at 11.20. The poor woman feels she is being tortured. I have a photo I will put in a spoiler. Please don't look if medical things upset you. She said it's even worse on her arms - big blisters. It's all over her body. She is still intending to drive to Eastbourne, because she wants to see a very old friend of her long deceased sister. Personally, I couldn't even consider an expedition!
Oh well.
I managed my exercises this morning and an editing session, so I'm quite pleased with myself. Plus, before I knew G wasn't coming, at 7 am I hoovered the rug in the living room, and the kitchen floor, and polished the worktops. Then I put the turkey carcase on for stock, in an old weak chicken stock that has been neglected in the freezer. The smell is amazing! Soup for lunch, plus a smoked mackerel bagel.
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
Looks like when I had measles in 2016 ... except it looks like she has done some scratching.
I was experiencing such painful itching that I couldn't wear clothes and I couldn't sit or lie down. I spent the worst night walking up and down in the living room all night long, with the temperature as cold as I could stand it. It was the only way I felt even slightly comfortable.
The next morning, I put on the smoothest clothes I could find, and not much of them (a skirt and some sort of top but no underwear) and my husband took me to an urgent care facility.
Fortunately, the doctor took one look at me and put me on a very strong antihistamine and a very strong painkiller which together knocked me out completely for about 2 days. By then, the worst was past so I was able to start cutting back a bit and spending a bit of time awake. It took several weeks for it all to fade.
Since then I haven't been able to wear anything with texture.
I feel for her and hope they can knock her out until it starts to leave her system. I hope they can find the source as well.
I seem to react to a lot more things in recent years than I used to. Penicillin is one that left me with a head to toe rash (but not like that). Just a couple months ago, I reacted badly to some sort of essential oils.
M in Oz3 -
Good morning ladies!
My cousin is coming today to help us do some filing. My sister asked her to come. I'm feeling tentative. Maybe I should have read some decluttering material first. Probably I'm nervous about finding unpaid bills. My dad's papers are a mess. Mom always kept them.
We have so many cookies! Four containers. Lots to go through. Lots of stuff everywhere. Maybe I am ready to tackle a small piece. Like the lap blankets in the living room. We must have twenty.
My dad was always big on four weeks of advent followed by twelve days of Christmas. I want to take down the live wreaths that are dripping needles, but he usually waits. He might not care this year. He keeps telling me that his joy of Christmas is mixed with sadness that Mom died. Well of course. But I guess it's like my ex and his feelings - what he says is only vaguely related to how he feels. I suppose it's good that he is opening up at all.
But first - another cup of tea. The quiet won't last long.
Machka hope you feel better soon.
Annie in Delaware
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Heather - G's itching looks horrible. Hope they can find something to settle it down once and for all. Makes me itchy to look at it.
So nice that you got a "raise". Interest rates have finally been going back up at my local credit union since mid-summer. Hope they stay up for a while.
Annie - you've been doing a good job taking over the bill paying. Hope you don't uncover any surprises when your cousin comes over but if you do, there's another one you can track. Crossing fingers your dad will start to be more comfortable in relinquishing his hold on things you really need to be involved in.
I had planned to walk with my neighbor this morning but it looks like we'll get rained out. Which actually is good since I'd forgotten I was going to be busy in the kitchen this morning making lentil & mushroom soup which involves lots of veg chopping, sauteeing, stirring and monitoring the cooking pot.
This week, I'm doing year-end review and budget planning for next year. It's always a good for me to look at expenditures throughout the year - what did I spend on "needs" vs. "wants." I usually put Amazon items that interest me in "save for later" and go back after a few weeks to see what lured me at the time. And if it's something I need, look locally to see if stores in the community have it for the same or better price. I got a notice from Amazon this morning that several items in that "save" category had increased in price. By a lot. Luckily I didn't need or want them anymore.
Make it a good day!
Lanette
SW WA State
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Carol enjoyed the pictures of your family. The kids have really grown up.
Lisa love love love the sun room. I can just feel how wonderful it will be to sit in.
Beth thinking of you.
Vicki hope your SIL gets to go home.
Debbie I second what Machka said. Maybe carve out time for yourself away from all the drama. I have family that drags me down if I let them. Many hugs.
Betsy in NW WA7 -
Annie - One thing at a time, dear heart. The most useful equipment for filing, I've found, is a shredder. There are so few things that I keep anymore that the single file box contains mostly seven years of income tax papers, and that's only because I didn't start scanning my supporting papers into the computer until five years ago. A couple more years, and I'll be able to get rid of all those, too!
Heather - I feel for your friend, as well. Hope this doctor's appointment will give her a resolution. It looks miserable. Your soup, on the other hand, sounds wonderful, I love those smells of long-simmering, deep, rich broths. Unfortunately, I don't actually like to eat soup. Or broth. I think I'm the only person who pours off all the broth from the cheap ramen noodles and just eats the noodles. Our savings interest rate skyrocketed over these last few years, as well. Not much when you look at it month by month, but over a year, more than 7 times the amount of interest gained... nice little bonus. All signs are that it's about to start going the other way here, as well, but it's been fun while it lasted.
Machka - It sounds as if you're beginning to turn the corner and feel better. Glad you've got lots of time off to recover.
Didn't decorate for Christmas this year, other than being unable to resist buying a $4 poinsettia from Aldi, but even in the days when I did, I either put it all away the day after or sometimes even Christmas night. 🤷🏻 I like clean breaks from most things, I think. Being sick the last few years has taught me the ability to conserve my energy for the things that matter most--the people. Holidays in general just don't land high on the priority list. Sure have enjoyed watching y'all's holiday magics, though.
Egg is doing her best to wake Corey by meowing outside the door and shaking it with her paws and claws, and I'm just evil enough to let her. Not like I could stop her anyway, she's a pretty determined little soul. Yep, it worked, he's up. Time for me to get moving now... My acupuncture appointment's at 1 p.m. Got all the laundry caught up yesterday, since I couldn't get more than 10 feet from the bathroom all day, and would like to get floors done this morning. It has started out 15 degrees warmer today, too, which is most appreciated. Really need to get some firewood gathered... Might have to wait until tomorrow though.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in the chilly, but not freezing, Arkansas River Valley, where the sun is just pinkening the low-lying wisps of clouds on the horizon.
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Morning ladies
Watching the Today show..
Going to have some Christmas tea i ordered it from Amazon.
Alfie is under the covers..
My friends are up visiting from N..C.and the stomach bug is running through the family so staying away.3 -
G got in to see the doctor. They have sent photos to the dermatologist. Convinced now it's not scabies. She has been given new creams. She is still setting off to Eastbourne for a couple of nights.
My son rang me in response to my text asking how he was. He said he is feeling much better and actually did some exercise this morning. First since covid. As the kids are at the other grandparents, they are going shopping this afternoon. Don't know what for.
Apparently the girls can hardly be wrenched out of their skates. Poor granny! She has to stand out in the road with them. Christmas Day, Edie was out on the patio in the dark!
My son wanted to know if we could have any of them over the weekend. I volunteered for Saturday, 10.30 - 2. Just the girls, as Max has friends over. Bea is going to a friend at 2.30.
On Sunday, New Year's Eve, he asked us to join them all for early dinner at The Regency, followed by sticky toffee pudding at their house. John doesn't like the pudding, but he is happy. I think my son was angling for a bit more minding on Sunday, but I decided that was enough!
We both have new ceramic palettes for our acrylics, as Father Christmas gave us one each! What a coincidence! I'm sure the girls will be envious. Santa also bought me an instruction book for acrylics. And the kids bought us canvases, so we are all set.
Much love, Heather UK xxxxxxxx6 -
Beth, hugs and more hugs and prayers as well. I’m glad your mother seems a little better.
Allie, I know a few people who have lost week successfully with an Ozempic type shot and at least one who could not tolerate the nausea. My nutritionist advises against it unless it is medically necessary, particularly because of the loss of muscle mass as someone else mentioned. He also said that the potential for gaining the weight back once the medication stops is extremely high. My take is that it is like any other medical intervention to help with weight loss: do your research and proceed with caution. Sometimes it is necessary, but don’t think it is an easy fix or without it’s issues.
Lanette , your research was interesting to read and reminded me of an incident that happened in the grocery store parking lot a few months back. As I was getting out of my car to go into the store, I witnessed a man go down beside his truck. He was obviously disabled in some way with mobility issues, anyway. I rushed to help him as did a young man. We helped him get his groceries into the truck and to get himself back on his feet. At that point the young man left. I stayed until this man was safely in his truck and ready to drive away.
Debbie, I especially like Machka’s idea for your Christmas next year. And don’t tell anybody where you’re going!
Michelle, I have similar benign moles all over my back. Your one is bleeding because your bra has irritated it and worked it loose from your body in a spot. Just put a bandaid over it to cushion it from your bra, and you will be fine until February. It’s a nuisance more than anything. I had one at my waistline that did that back in the fall.
Heather, your friend’s skin looks very painful. Did you say what her diagnosis is? I’m with Machka on that one, too. Give me something to knock me out until it gets better.
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