WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2024

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    Good afternoon ladies;
    Last night, I went to bed early and woke up at 2:30 am with a terrible headache. I got up and made tea and water. I let Rose out. Then I dried her off. Tropical Francine hit and the rain and wind hit. Branches are all over the yard. I took my migraine meds and applied the Guru plant stuff to my forehead and temple. Then I put on my Ice mask. Then Rose and I jumped at the explosive sound. We lost power due to the transformer. It came back on at 10:00 am. I had to sleep without my CPAP machine. With my migraine, I didn't care. I got dressed when I got up at 11:00 am. Took Rose to day camp. Then, I had to do some tasks for my son. I guess I am still his secretary.:)

    Terri, happy birthday to DH! I also want to celebrate you; 75 pounds is a remarkable feat. Congratulations Terri! I am so proud of you!

    Barbara—My daughter, Julia, is banned from our home after she shut off our power to steal her brother's keys to sell his car. That hurt her brother. She had some guy with a gun, too. So, I am not speaking to her. I told DH that I would let God work on her now. I tried everything: therapist, boarding school, and more. I have nothing else. Horace took her to meet her biological mom, but it didn't improve things. So, DH is helping her now. She stole so much from us: computers and an iPad that Horace had to get straight A's for the entire year to get it. We got her a newer car, and she was never satisfied. I can relate to Barbie, thinking about the woman who drove away and didn't return. If you think about it, as a mom and wife, we had many jobs: a chauffeur, Butler, librarian, tutor, coach, secretary, seamstress, cook, nurse, and more. I was tired all of the time cause I worked full-time as well. I was depressed and eventually, without asking my Gynecologist, prescribed an anti-depressant for me and pushed for therapy for me. Currently, I feel free here in this house. I weigh less than I have in years. I think I will write a book one day.:)

    Tracey, I sleep with lumbar support pillows, and my car set has one. When I fly, I remember to bring my lumbar and neck pillows. I wish I could have one at work. We all have heating pads, and the younger nurses seek chiropractic care.

    Heather- you did a great job on the cabinet. I may need to assemble furniture for our new place in Chicago.

    Annie- Amazon loves me already. It is nice to spend on me, Rose.:)

    Lisa - I am so happy that your treatment has freed you. Now go out and make memories!

    Lanette- Thank you for your kind words. When I lost Alexandra, I was grieving, and my DH decided to pursue an adoption. I wasn't ready and advised Julia's Bio-Mom not to give her up. What is so sad is that she married Julia's Bio-dad, had three more kids, and kept the one before Julia. That was a hard pill for Julia to swallow. By the time Julia was 18 months old, we had been pregnant with Horace without fertility. I lost 65 pounds just prior, getting ready for a cruise. We had to cancel the cruise because I had a high-risk pregnancy.

    Pip- Send me the Link, and I can donate via Paypal or Venmo.

    Kylia, those pictures are so beautiful. I love the sky's lavender and coral colors with a ceil blue. The mountains are majestic. My hand doctor is getting older, but he is energetic and handsome. I do wear splints for carpal tunnel. My cousin had surgery for that, and she still has problems. So far, there has been no improvement in my thumb, and my other finger locks up, too. My thumb is the worst due to the pain when it is stuck. I have to do sinus washes and four sprays. I am on Allegra and benadryl too. I do believe honey does have medicinal purposes. I take honey in my tea and English muffins.

    Rebecca, I hate that you and Lisa have been experiencing vertigo. It is a horrible feeling. I know it is hard when you hear that your son is having health issues and you are not near him to make sure he is okay.

    Margaret, my toilet doesn't refill. I must manually refill it with water to flush it in my room. Are you going to fix your toilet on your own? Maybe I should research YouTube.

    Beth, Thank you for the recipe. I just printed it off to add to my Recipe book project.

    Vicki- My friend Bonnie and My DH are from Nebraska. My DH is a DieHard Cornhusker fan.

    Did you get the link I sent you in a message? See if this works

    https://events.nationalmssociety.org/index.cfm?language=en&referrer=mf:432873:you-donate&fuseaction=donate.participant&participantID=432873#
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,700 Member
    pipcd34 wrote: »
    Sophie I forgot to give you my name for the outside of your mailing envelope, it’s Isabel schlotterback

    I just put "PIP" on the envelope, let the postman sort it out, lol. Not really. Well, Pip Schlotterback. :D

    Lanette
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    pipcd34 wrote: »
    Sophie I forgot to give you my name for the outside of your mailing envelope, it’s Isabel schlotterback

    I just put "PIP" on the envelope, let the postman sort it out, lol. Not really. Well, Pip Schlotterback. :D

    Lanette

    Lololol
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    Happy Thursday! (OK, I had to take a look at my pill caddy to see what day it was, but still...😂)

    So... I'm having a day of gratitude today. Next week, I'll take my second home injection of Skyrizi. Five years ago now, in 2019, this whole journey began for me. It took them two years to decide it was ulcerative colitis, and a year and a number of tests, etc. afterward to decide it is also Crohn's disease. Since April, the medication has brought me 75 to 80 percent back to my normal life. So many things I took for granted before are back:

    Happy organ recital:
    • When I wake up, I can get my legs off the side of the bed and draw the alphabet with my toes instead of running hell for leather for the bathroom. Every. Single. Day.
    • More and more nights, I can sleep through the night without getting up to go. For years, it was every two hours or so. Now, I can sleep for 7 to 8 hours straight.
    • The poopy smell in the house (and hopefully hovering around me) has subsided. I don't worry constantly over whether there's been leakage without me knowing.
    • Laundry is back to something reasonable, I'm not having accidents five, six, seven times a day, and the majority of days I get through with none.
    • The overall urgency has subsided enormously, and when I do have to go, I'm able to simply walk to the bathroom, rather than scuttle at speed.
    • The every-waking-moment, bend-over in pain cramps in my gut have diminished to once or twice a week.
    • The bloating has dropped to a few days a week instead of 24-7 - I just thought I was getting fatter and the scale didn't show it!
    • Trips to the bathroom have dropped from 25+ per day to five to eight each day.
    • Most days, my brain is less foggy--I still have my moments, but don't feel as if I'm groping mentally ALL the time.
    • I'm once again able to concentrate and focus for more than five minutes without my body distracting me.
    • I can drive into town about a half hour away and not have to visit a bathroom at McDonalds every time before I go where I'm going. I know where every bathroom is in every store I visit, though!
    • My energy levels are BACK baby!
    It's not all perfect - the vertigo is annoying, but so far, not life-threatening, and mornings remain pretty darned busy in terms of bathroom visits. I can't eat anything while I'm out unless I'm willing to wait and go potty afterward... as getting in the car to go home WILL be disastrous.

    But I'm not spending more time in the bathroom than out, and I'm so enjoying that! My life is full again, and not a constant recital of my woes to people that I love. I feel like I can discuss something besides my butt! 😹 Seriously, I could not be more grateful. It's not the first time that modern medicine has kept me alive, and I appreciate every single one of those times.

    I have been reading everyone's post, and I'll get back in the swim of things, but right now, there's chores to do and things to MAKE!

    Later, y'all,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

    I just saw your donation, thx so much!!!!
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    I just saw another donation! 2 in one day!!!! Thank you Dorothy B!!!!

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    Good afternoon ladies;
    Last night, I went to bed early and woke up at 2:30 am with a terrible headache. I got up and made tea and water. I let Rose out. Then I dried her off. Tropical Francine hit and the rain and wind hit. Branches are all over the yard. I took my migraine meds and applied the Guru plant stuff to my forehead and temple. Then I put on my Ice mask. Then Rose and I jumped at the explosive sound. We lost power due to the transformer. It came back on at 10:00 am. I had to sleep without my CPAP machine. With my migraine, I didn't care. I got dressed when I got up at 11:00 am. Took Rose to day camp. Then, I had to do some tasks for my son. I guess I am still his secretary.:)

    Terri, happy birthday to DH! I also want to celebrate you; 75 pounds is a remarkable feat. Congratulations Terri! I am so proud of you!

    Barbara—My daughter, Julia, is banned from our home after she shut off our power to steal her brother's keys to sell his car. That hurt her brother. She had some guy with a gun, too. So, I am not speaking to her. I told DH that I would let God work on her now. I tried everything: therapist, boarding school, and more. I have nothing else. Horace took her to meet her biological mom, but it didn't improve things. So, DH is helping her now. She stole so much from us: computers and an iPad that Horace had to get straight A's for the entire year to get it. We got her a newer car, and she was never satisfied. I can relate to Barbie, thinking about the woman who drove away and didn't return. If you think about it, as a mom and wife, we had many jobs: a chauffeur, Butler, librarian, tutor, coach, secretary, seamstress, cook, nurse, and more. I was tired all of the time cause I worked full-time as well. I was depressed and eventually, without asking my Gynecologist, prescribed an anti-depressant for me and pushed for therapy for me. Currently, I feel free here in this house. I weigh less than I have in years. I think I will write a book one day.:)

    Tracey, I sleep with lumbar support pillows, and my car set has one. When I fly, I remember to bring my lumbar and neck pillows. I wish I could have one at work. We all have heating pads, and the younger nurses seek chiropractic care.

    Heather- you did a great job on the cabinet. I may need to assemble furniture for our new place in Chicago.

    Annie- Amazon loves me already. It is nice to spend on me, Rose.:)

    Lisa - I am so happy that your treatment has freed you. Now go out and make memories!

    Lanette- Thank you for your kind words. When I lost Alexandra, I was grieving, and my DH decided to pursue an adoption. I wasn't ready and advised Julia's Bio-Mom not to give her up. What is so sad is that she married Julia's Bio-dad, had three more kids, and kept the one before Julia. That was a hard pill for Julia to swallow. By the time Julia was 18 months old, we had been pregnant with Horace without fertility. I lost 65 pounds just prior, getting ready for a cruise. We had to cancel the cruise because I had a high-risk pregnancy.

    Pip- Send me the Link, and I can donate via Paypal or Venmo.

    Kylia, those pictures are so beautiful. I love the sky's lavender and coral colors with a ceil blue. The mountains are majestic. My hand doctor is getting older, but he is energetic and handsome. I do wear splints for carpal tunnel. My cousin had surgery for that, and she still has problems. So far, there has been no improvement in my thumb, and my other finger locks up, too. My thumb is the worst due to the pain when it is stuck. I have to do sinus washes and four sprays. I am on Allegra and benadryl too. I do believe honey does have medicinal purposes. I take honey in my tea and English muffins.

    Rebecca, I hate that you and Lisa have been experiencing vertigo. It is a horrible feeling. I know it is hard when you hear that your son is having health issues and you are not near him to make sure he is okay.

    Margaret, my toilet doesn't refill. I must manually refill it with water to flush it in my room. Are you going to fix your toilet on your own? Maybe I should research YouTube.

    Beth, Thank you for the recipe. I just printed it off to add to my Recipe book project.

    Vicki- My friend Bonnie and My DH are from Nebraska. My DH is a DieHard Cornhusker fan.

    I just received your donation! Thank you so much! You put me over $500, Thanks again so much!

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,554 Member
    Terri – happy birthday to your husband

    barbara – fingers crossed that everything goes well with the telemed

    Heather – you did a great job on that cabinet. Looks professional

    Lisa – so glad things are looking up for you. You’ll get to 100%, I know it

    Carol – thinking good thoughts for your hearing aids

    pip doing the MS ride makes me think of Katla. Wonder how she’s doing?

    Allie – so glad sMiles passed at the dentist. Would you believe PJ is only 5 and he has 4 cavities? They just put a crown on them since they’re just his baby teeth. When we were there last, it did look like they were trying to cut back on the amount of gummies he has, but I’m not sure. Feel better fast

    Mo – I hope you’re feeling better

    Michele NC
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,727 Member
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  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,071 Member
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    bwcetc wrote: »
    Lisa ... you have been through a lot with your health. So glad it is finally manageable! And that stained glass purse is beautiful!

    Rebecca ... not sure if it something that would work for you, but my cochlear implant audiologist has mentioned that there's physical therapy for vertigo and equilibrium problems. Exercises. I've not looked into it yet, but will if I continue to have problems. Just a thought.

    Monique ... I'm so sorry you experienced lost pregnancies. You noticed that everyone looked so serious in my wedding photo! LOL! We were losing our minds with a photographer that had no idea what he was doing. Almost made me think he used to work in one of those photo booths at fairgrounds where you dress in vintage clothes and don't smile!!

    With the apples, I am continually looking for new recipes. This apple bread was a new effort and is pretty tasty! It is not low calorie by any means.
    Beth near Buffalo

    Its interesting how mine just comes and go. I seem to switch ears so its not just one side. I have started taking Zyrtec hoping that an antihistamine might help.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    I have thought off an on over the years of changing some major things and in the end decided to stick it out, I am happy I stuck it out in my marriage, but am sorry I didn’t make changes regarding jobs sooner. On the other hand, making one small change could have changed where I am now. So I don’t know, I just have to work myself through things I guess. I only have a couple of regrets in life.

    Heather - great job on the cabinet. It’s my job around here to build those types of cabinets. Rodger will build from scratch though. 😂

    Lisa - you’ve come such a long way. I’m so happy the Skyrizi is working for you.

    Lanette - Roger and Mrs Roger (my phone does not like me spelling Rodger that way) reminds me of my grandparents, it was a rare day that they were home all day and the days they were I learned reading my Grandmother’s diaries were very unhappy days for her. They too, went at least 25 miles away.
    I’m happy you have a friend for a monthly lunch, it’s good to get out.

    Kylia - beautiful views. I love solo drives too.

    Rebecca - I am so glad your youngest is staying in contact. I remember how devastating it was when he wasn’t.

    Beth - I used to make apple muffins for my girls when they were young. They were so easy, you put everything in a blender to make. I’ve thought of them several times over the years and searched all of my cookbooks and I can’t find the recipe again. I think it must have been in a cookbook I got rid of when we moved here.

    Monique - toilets are fairly easy to fix. I’ve done almost everything to them that has needed done in one house or another.

    Margaret - YouTube is such a wonderful tool. I tried it today to learn about a thermal label printer at work. It failed me, I cannot figure it out. I am hoping someone else can help me tomorrow.

    I am watching America’s Got Talent. I haven’t watched every episode or act this year but this is the Semi-Finals. I just love these acts that people do with their dogs. This dog is talented!

    https://youtu.be/A1cdqi_0lls?si=J0UGTzCIl-K9ZtUg

    I should head to bed soon. I’m so tired. I think it’s the dreary weather this week.
    Tomorrow is Jonah’s and my birthday, I won’t get our annual picture until Saturday though. 😕

    Tracey in Edmonton

    Yep, I am so grateful that he's kind of grown up and realized that having family ties can be helpful. I thank him all the time for communicating!💖😁
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,727 Member
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  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,949 Member
    Hey kids,

    Up since about 1 a.m., in design mode, having fun, but not enough sleep, so headed back to bed... More later.

    Love y'all!
    Lisa in AR
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,655 Member
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  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,700 Member
    edited September 13
    Tracey - Happy Birthday!! <3 Thank you for the dog video! I watched an earlier performance of him a week or so ago. Just amazing.

    Barbara - nice declutter pile! You've inspired me to give my closet another go. :p Sorry about the unsettling MRI news, hope the docs have tests in mind that aren't painful. My DH would have made a similar "helpful" comment similar to what Joe came up with. :p And, my DH would say the very same thing when I'd be away from home, he'd worry. The farm was 20 miles from town on windy road with switchbacks and deadly drop offs. I'd have to attend meetings at night and drive it in the dark. My little Subaru Forester did a great job. I never had a problem then, but I'd hate to do a night drive on it now.

    Heather - glad you got your bath! I haven't used the tub in years even with a grab bar. Too hard for me to get in and out of even when I was in good shape, lol. Plus I'd end up taking a shower afterward anyhow to get the soap scum off so decided to skip the bath step. I do soak my feet quite a lot though, sometimes sitting on the edge of the tub.

    Margaret - good luck with the toilet fix! When we had a new one installed a few years ago, after a couple days it ran all the time. I lifted the lid, thinking all I had to do was "jiggle the chain" like in the old days. Well, there was some complicated valve and tube thing there now. I called the plumber and he came right back and fixed it for free. I don't know why they did away with the "float and flapper" but I'm still aggravated about it, lol. :p

    Mo - you have done a great job with the weight loss. Sorry to hear about the migraines, sounds like you have things that work for you to get rid of them or at least tone them down. Sorry too about your daughter. I have an adopted nephew that took a bad turn starting in high school, I believe he got into drugs plus has mental illness, assaulted his mom and stole from her, etc. His parents repeatedly tried to get him help and it didn't work. :( He has been banished. Hope YouTube has helpful videos for your toilet problem.

    Rebecca - crossing fingers the Zyrtec helps!

    Annie - good for you working on your writing, the story sounds very interesting! New pruners sound exciting, seriously.

    I did more research on the invasive autumn hawkbit dandelion imposter that has taken over my yard and everyone else's in my neighborhood. Sounds like it keeps growing and blooming for months, just like grass would. So I'm going to have to break down and mow it again - I was hoping it would go to seed and be done with it, but not for a while yet. I don't know why it's worse this year. My lawn needs to be thatched and limed and that's not gonna happen.

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
    exermom wrote: »
    Terri – happy birthday to your husband

    barbara – fingers crossed that everything goes well with the telemed

    Heather – you did a great job on that cabinet. Looks professional

    Lisa – so glad things are looking up for you. You’ll get to 100%, I know it

    Carol – thinking good thoughts for your hearing aids

    pip doing the MS ride makes me think of Katla. Wonder how she’s doing?

    Allie – so glad sMiles passed at the dentist. Would you believe PJ is only 5 and he has 4 cavities? They just put a crown on them since they’re just his baby teeth. When we were there last, it did look like they were trying to cut back on the amount of gummies he has, but I’m not sure. Feel better fast

    Mo – I hope you’re feeling better

    Michele NC

    Yeah, I don’t know, haven’t heard from her in a while
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,355 Member
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  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,383 Member
    Today is: Just realized FRIDAY THE THIRTEENTH!! Supernatural day! Fortune cookies, chocolates, and peanuts should help! LOL Have a safe day!

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