vent--There are too many skinny people at the gym

Cranquistador

lets make a support group for all the trophy wives and meatheads then

We did. You weren't invited because you don't make the requirements. :flowerforyou:


Don't take that offensively though. I'm just venting

even if its twisted i am trying to lighten the mood i mean come on I'd love to be a trophy wife

you would?

PikaKnight

I'm not happy until I see cat gifs a plenty

Squeeee!

_Tink_

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

zericaaaaa

lets make a support group for all the trophy wives and meatheads then

We did. You weren't invited because you don't make the requirements. :flowerforyou:


Don't take that offensively though. I'm just venting

even if its twisted i am trying to lighten the mood i mean come on I'd love to be a trophy wife

you would?

YES

zericaaaaa

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

NO

Therealobi1

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

if u havent paid your membership fees no, if you have carry on.

Shalaurise

I'm not happy until I see cat gifs a plenty

SugaryLynx

cant we just all get along?

*throws poo*

Great....now I'm gonna need aaaall this toilet paper to clean up your mess in this thread

kikityme

This isn't going to end well....

Cranquistador

lets make a support group for all the trophy wives and meatheads then

We did. You weren't invited because you don't make the requirements. :flowerforyou:


Don't take that offensively though. I'm just venting

even if its twisted i am trying to lighten the mood i mean come on I'd love to be a trophy wife

you would?

YES

kaseyr1505

Goats should get some love, too.

_Tink_

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

if u havent paid your membership fees no, if you have carry on.

FINE! Good thing I have a home gym! I'll shake what my mama gave me far away from you judgy people!!

BinaryPulsar

i mean can we really say that body shaming is an equal two way street though. like do we think skinny/fit people are made fun of just as much as overweight people are. not that any of it is okay. I'm just sayin

The shame becomes different, but it is just as prevalent. The slurs just change from fat and lazy to shallow, self-absorbed, stupid, air-headed, meat-headed, bobble-head, anorexic, materialistic, stuck up, skinny b!tch, bony, etc., etc.

Yeah, particularly when we are younger. You don't know what our challenges were. People deal with all kinds of things that lead them to a poor body image (or thinking their only value to others is in their physical appearance or sexuality, etc.) and it can have an impact on many areas of their life. You don't know, you can't assume. You don't know how we were treated (in our homes, etc) and the impact that had on us, and then random strangers decide we must have no problems and take their issues out on us, but we were young and didn't understand that, and it just added to the issues we were dealing with. Hopefully we learn to get past that as we get older. But, it doesn't make it right when it happens to young people. It is problematic if a person thinks they can put others down because they were put down. We shouldn't need to knock people down, in order to build ourselves up. Self esteem needs to come from inner work and inner strength to overcome and move forward. And take anorexia for example, some people develop it to lose their sex appeal, just like some people gain for the same reason.

Therealobi1

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

if u havent paid your membership fees no, if you have carry on.

FINE! Good thing I have a home gym! I'll shake what my mama gave me far away from you judgy people!!

night

EvgeniZyntx

lets make a support group for all the trophy wives and meatheads then

We did. You weren't invited because you don't make the requirements. :flowerforyou:


Don't take that offensively though. I'm just venting

even if its twisted i am trying to lighten the mood i mean come on I'd love to be a trophy wife

1st Place?

_Tink_

i mean can we really say that body shaming is an equal two way street though. like do we think skinny/fit people are made fun of just as much as overweight people are. not that any of it is okay. I'm just sayin

The shame becomes different, but it is just as prevalent. The slurs just change from fat and lazy to shallow, self-absorbed, stupid, air-headed, meat-headed, bobble-head, anorexic, materialistic, stuck up, skinny b!tch, bony, etc., etc.

Yeah, particularly when we are younger. You don't know what our challenges were. People deal with all kinds of things that lead them to a poor body image (or thinking their only value to others is in their physical appearance or sexuality, etc.) and it can have an impact on many areas of their life. You don't know, you can't assume. You don't know how we were treated (in our homes, etc) and the impact that had on us, and then random strangers decide we must have no problems and take their issues out on us, but we were young and didn't understand that, and it just added to the issues we were dealing with. Hopefully we learn to get past that as we get older. But, it doesn't make it right when it happens to young people. It is problematic if a person thinks they can put others down because they were put down. We shouldn't need to knock people down, in order to build ourselves up. Self esteem needs to come from inner work and inner strength to overcome and move forward. And take anorexia for example, some people develop it to lose their sex appeal, just like some people gain for the same reason.

+1

SugaryLynx

I'm not happy until I see cat gifs a plenty

Squeeee!

giggitygoo

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

This reminds me of a stand-up routine. "Go home, you're done!" Really though, you look great!

_Tink_

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

Um. Sorry?

giggitygoo

Sooo...now that I've worked so hard to look like this, I'm not allowed in the gym anymore?

Um. Sorry?

It was meant in sarcasm. Not as an insult. Ill timed, probably.