The meanest thing anyone has ever said.....

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  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    Wow-What a .......too many words come to mind for that guy.

    Good for you!!!!!! You will love this site; best of luck on all your goals~Bcuz truly, you can do anything you set your mind to!! :)
  • getfitdiva
    getfitdiva Posts: 1,148 Member
    That would give me more motivation to work on my health and do this for YOURSELF.

    Sounds like a toxic relationship and he's not contributing to anything positive in your life so hit the road jack!
  • tlcAK
    tlcAK Posts: 671 Member
    I'm so glad you blocked him. He's an *kitten*. You should be doing this for you and not him. Do what makes you feel better about yourself!
  • tlems
    tlems Posts: 104 Member
    :flowerforyou: I, too, would like to add my "what an complete and utter tool," commet. You are going to do great here, you will feel better physically and emotionally. You can and will do this because you are amazing.

    Screw that *kitten*.
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    What a c-u-next-tuesday!!!! This is a great site where you get awesome motivation from people who may or may not be in the same position as you, but they all try to be understanding and helpful. Good luck ! !
  • lulabellewoowoo
    lulabellewoowoo Posts: 3,125 Member
    So, basically was he just telling you that he was there to just 'screw you?' Sorry, but I can't get over that! Just down right evil!!!

    So when he tries to get back together with you, you can tell him that anybody can "screw him", but who can put up with his personality.

    This site isn't just about weight loss. It's about health and being aware of what we eat and how much we move our bodies. You will probably lose some weight quickly, but as it slows down, take some measurements, pictures, and post your successes here so we can all do the happy dance with you. You are already doing great just by being here :)
  • MeliciousMelis
    MeliciousMelis Posts: 458 Member
    SO glad you kicked that man to the curb! And super proud of you for realizing this journey is FOR YOU. No one else. You're in the right place!! MFP is awesome. You got this.
  • jackthelad66
    jackthelad66 Posts: 12
    Hi there,
    I am so sorry someone said something so mean to you. When I met my wife, she was well over 200 pounds, and I was a skinny-minny. Well, somehow after 4 kids, she is the one in shape and I am the one that needs to work on it a bit! I always tell my wife it wouldn't have mattered what her weight or shape or health was, I was in love with her. Best of luck to you, and YOU CAN DO THIS! This is a great site with many supportive people. It won't be easy, but worth it for your health.
  • shawn526
    shawn526 Posts: 79 Member
    Good for you for dumping him. What a douche!! I wish you the greatest success in your journey, and you will find a man worthy of you, who will see how beautiful you are inside as well as outside.

    Enjoy the ride!!
  • JessPaul93016
    JessPaul93016 Posts: 119 Member
    If you haven't noticed by now, we all are very supporting and motivating towards each other. I LOVE this site and the people on here are all amazing. This is one of the best things you could have done for yourself. (Besides dropping that A**Hole!) Welcome to the site and enjoy this journey with us. It is not easy by any means, but with a little help from others, it can be fun. :flowerforyou:
  • rubyrenga
    rubyrenga Posts: 402 Member
    So happy you blocked him. Anyone who would say that is abusive and insecure with himself. Welcome to the MFP family!
  • ecaz
    ecaz Posts: 115
    Sounds like you already lost over 100 lbs of dead weight when you kicked that loser to the curb. That's a great start!

    Your friends in the computer will help you now. It's time to start your next adventure here with us!
  • anderftw1
    anderftw1 Posts: 5
    I did not read all of the replies, so if this was already said then I appologize. Miz Marilyn Monroe said something to the effect of if you can't handle me at my worst, then you dont deserve me at my best..My mama says living well is the best revenge.

    Good luck! Sending you an add!

    Kelly
  • Sarah_uk
    Sarah_uk Posts: 209
    He sounds terrible :explode: :mad: :explode: :mad: :explode: :mad: I hope you noticed you deserve someone better than that.

    Good luck on your weight loss journey :smile:
  • Hodar
    Hodar Posts: 338 Member
    It's a vicious cycle. We eat because we are miserable, sad or insecure - and the more we eat; the more miserable, sad and insecure we get.

    And the bad news is that fat cells are 'forever'. Remember High School biology and the Fat cell. The fat cell has those darned "food vacules' that store fat. As we lose weight, those fat cells just have smaller 'food vacules' - but those fat cells will always be there; waiting for the opportunity to fill those food vacules back up. That's why once we get overweight, lose weight and go off our diet; we can gain several pounds a week and wind back where we started (plus some) with little effort.

    So, we need to change our outlook on life. We control our destiny, and the great thing about technology is that with information - we are armed with what we need to take control. I can't live without my MFP iPhone App.

    So, down the road; things you can plan when you lose the weight. Think of liposuction when you hit your final goal. Suck those concentrated fat cells out - so they don't sabotage you if you go on a cruise on your Honeymoon. And, the honest truth is that YOU WILL meet a man who doesn't care what you weigh. I married my wife when she was overweight, and we have both been happily married for 13 years. Some years were heavier than others - but this year we are both working on getting down to our goal weights.

    A marriage that is going to last, does not depend upon what another person 'looks like', but how they treat you and how they make you feel. The "boy" you were seeing was simply using you - you are far better without him in your life. Good for you. Keep up the good work, and you'll soon feel much better, have more energy - and will be able to pick and chose who you want in your life - choose wisely.
  • Tristis
    Tristis Posts: 288 Member
    I sure hope he is out of your life for good! NO ONE deserves that kind of emotional abuse! Add request on the way.
  • Skinnyjosie
    Skinnyjosie Posts: 10 Member
    You don't need a looser like him!! my friend request in on the way keep ur chin up!
  • GLLove
    GLLove Posts: 77
    What an *kitten*. My theory is I'd never marry anyone who wouldnt marry me the way I am now. Cause what happens if I have kids and I get fat again? I am really lucky to have a boyfriend that supports me losing weight but tells me he loves me the way I am now. I am doing this for me and a little for him because I want to have more confidence so that I can be a better partner. Just because you're a larger woman doesnt mean you get the scraps of the world. Yes, there are some men who are only attracted to super thin women, same as there are women that are only attracted to tall men or people of certain races. You should get to where you feel good about yourself again and then look for someone who appreciates who you are. Skinny thighs dont attract half the men confidence does.
  • mfkfoster
    mfkfoster Posts: 331 Member
    What a jerk! You deserve someone who will love you for you not the shape of your body! Add me if you want. I was married fat! about 228! and I'm still with him! You can find someone who will love you for you!
    I applaude you for losing weight for yourself and to be healthier.
    You show him!
  • mrscjwilson
    mrscjwilson Posts: 252
    Oh is going to eat those words......

    My son's father told me that I was single (after I broke up with HIM) because I was fat and my body was deformed!!
    Oh but have losing over 100 lbs the last time he saw me he was singing a brand new tune of regrets and sorrow (of course he said he doesnt remember ever saying it...oh but I remember every syllable)...Now Im married and live in another state and he trys to stalk me on facebook until I blocked him....the last thing he ever said to me on FB was "It wasnt all bad was it??....we had some good time too didnt we???" DELETE!.....

    The sweetest revenge is living your best life!
  • jodibelle
    jodibelle Posts: 79 Member
    OMG - that is horrible that he said that! You can do this and you definatly don't need him around!! Good luck!
  • CoachMaritova
    CoachMaritova Posts: 409 Member
    I must say, few posts actually make me want to cry, but this one did... for you? for me? for humanity?? Idk, but I do know that no one should be spoken to that way! I hope that you are able to toss the emotions that that stirred up out with the trash along with him!! I hope that you will find the motivation and encouragement here and elsewhere to help you be the person that YOU want to be... for yourself and no one else! I knoe it isn't easy and I don't mean to insinuate that it is... but know that YOU are worth it!!! Every step of the way! And we are here for you!!!
  • DizzieLittleLifter
    DizzieLittleLifter Posts: 1,020 Member
    So glad you kicked his *kitten* to the curb. What an *kitten*-hat sheesh!! Good for you for taking a stand against mental abuse! You deserve better than that! Keep your head up! :heart: :flowerforyou:
  • __Jackie__
    __Jackie__ Posts: 39 Member
    That is aweful.

    You must have been so hurt by that.

    Congrats on your good choice to move on
  • Gingersnapp2
    Gingersnapp2 Posts: 1
    Wow...what a dbag! You go girl from blocking him and trying to move on! You will find someone who truly loves you no matter what size you are. If you're beautiful on the inside, you are beautiful all over :smile: He will realize one day what he let go of... :tongue: I like how you said you are doing this for YOU. I like that attitude
  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,359 Member
    Somewhere their is a guy who will love the real you, inside and out. Believe it!
  • TaekwondoRobbie
    TaekwondoRobbie Posts: 18
    My buddy and I were out to a restaurant and he is in good shape. The waitress says to him when she was taking our order that she noticed my buddy was in great shape and really looked like he worked out. I said to her jokingly .. how about me ... do I look like I work out .. she turned to me and in front of everyone said .. HUH .. you sure don't !!!!! I was crushed !!
  • 0622cameron
    0622cameron Posts: 49
    That is a horrible thing for him to stay to you or about you. I have realized that you can not lose weight for anyone it has to be for you. Good luck in your weight loss journey.
  • KendalBeee
    KendalBeee Posts: 2,269 Member
    My buddy and I were out to a restaurant and he is in good shape. The waitress says to him when she was taking our order that she noticed my buddy was in great shape and really looked like he worked out. I said to her jokingly .. how about me ... do I look like I work out .. she turned to me and in front of everyone said .. HUH .. you sure don't !!!!! I was crushed !!
    guess she only wanted half a tip lol
  • lil_missfit
    lil_missfit Posts: 565 Member
    Oh GIRL!!! Reading this just TICKED me off!!! I hope you kicked his RUMP to da curb!! We're here for ya:)) And we'll be cheering you on every step of the way and high fiven you when you are walking down the aisle marrying a STUD and making that zero choke on his words while you pass him by:))
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