Can a Fit, Sexy Girl Like a Fat Guy?
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Men do you date "big " girls?
Here's a little honesty that is probably going to bite me the *kitten* (high in protein?)
To answer your question, no. It is very rare that I find a "big" girl attractive. There are cases where the girl has such pretty hair, face and teeth, that you can get past the weight, but I'm kind of talking about supermodel good looks otherwise.
What gives me the right to be so judgmental? Umm, I'll plead the 5th.
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I have to add also, that I would be more attracted to a fat guy than a skinny guy any day. Men are supposed to be big.
Some of us are bigger then others0 -
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Personally, I dont care about the looks as long as the person is down to earth, nothing else matters. Though, I have never really found skinny attractive ever, I like meat on the bones :-)0
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Men do you date "big " girls?
I have but generally prefer smaller petite women. Sometimes us bigger guys are seen like a teddy bear, who ladies just want to hold and cuddle. I "generally" don't have any problems with women, however I want to lose weight for me, not them. I don't want to be down around 175 which is what my BMI says is normal. When I was 200-210 I was told I was too skinny. But I need to be a lot lower than the 290 I was last Christmas. Almost 40lbs gone and I feel lots better.0 -
If he's a big guy who works out and eats healthy, fine with me. Same goes for the ladies.
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I know I am not thin by conventional standards but my boyfriend is twice my size and well over 300 pounds. He is the nicest man I have ever met and I would never trade him. I always find him attractive but when a guy is bigger, I do worry about his health. I think most people would agree they don't want their partner to die young due to obesity. So, to sum up, weight does not mean that a girl could not or would not be attracted to you. It might make them worry about the future but weight is something you can change, your personality is harder in my opinion.0
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I think it's an insecurity thing with some ladies.Okay ladies... I thought it would be interesting to hear what the MFP ladies have to say on the matter.
Can a fit and sexy girl like a fat guy?
Why or why not? (be totally honest)
They know being with Mr Ugly insures fidelity.0 -
yes yes yes. sexy is not a weight at all.0
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As a life long big fella I find it a little hard to believe all you ladies that say you like fat guys. I mean, with my lovely personality, stunning blue eyes, and great smile if you are all being truthful I should have had much more action back in my prime. I'm just sayin...... 0
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When I met my husband, he was around 280-300lbs. I was 110-115.
Now, he is around 240, and I am 155.
First of all, I think he's hot, no matter how much he weighs. There are certain things about him that don't change, and those are the things that I love most about him.
I certainly hope that he still thinks I'm attractive since I've gained weight. I told him before we got engaged that I could very well be fat someday. He said he would still love me. He said he might be bald someday. I said I'd still love him. I can't see the top of his head unless he sits down anyway.0 -
Before I met my hubby I prefered bigger guys...now I just look LOL!0
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yes....the same way a fit guy can like a fat girl.0
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Yeah as long as she's not shallow. I'm not really fit or sexy but i'm married to a rather large man, who i love. There are fit guys ho like big girls and fit girls who love big men. size shouldn't really matter.0
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My wife is very petite ... tiny. And she loves me! 0
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As long as he can keep up in bed, I really don't care much.
I would want my partner to be healthy so he would stick around though. But a few extra pounds is fine with me. I definitely am NOT attracted to long and lanky look though. I rather date a chubby man than an underweight man any day.0 -
my ex weighs over 400 lbs. When I left him I found out about 6 women he was talking to online and 4 he was texting regularly0
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I dunno, I think the question would be - would they take ME. Lol. I don't have much of a problem with a guy being bigger, I mean - in all aspects of health concerns - yeah, but I know attraction is vital in a relationship but as corny as it is - personality means a-lot. Yeah I may turn my head here and there, but it's just looking. I mean, I like Lion's and think they're awesome - does it mean I wanna take it home cause such? No.. I like a happy crazy funny house cat. Lol. (total weird comparison.. I know...)0
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I have to add also, that I would be more attracted to a fat guy than a skinny guy any day. Men are supposed to be big.
Some of us are bigger then others
I'm much more attracted to bigger guys than skinny ones. I'd rather have a guy who is a little cushy but tall and strong than a cut bony guy. Just preference.
OP, for what it's worth, if I were single, I'd date you 0 -
Physical attraction is important, but you like/love the person for who they are, the beauty and gentleness of their heart.. I think if you fall in love, no matter how beautiful of ugly the person is to everyone, he/she is the most handsome/beautiful to you. So, YES, a fit girl can love or be attracted to a fat guy.0
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I prefer my men bigger too! Even more so now that I am halfway to goal! Something about the feel of his weight......
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I agree with most of the posters here.
I have no interest in a guy who is thinner than me, or who weighs less than me. I want a 'manly' guy, if you will, lol. I'd much rather he be overweight than skinny!
However, like others have said, it's also important that he cares about his health! Especially since I've really turned my life around, and am finally feeling 'fit and sexy' (which is an awesome feeling, btw), trying to lead a healthy life is very important to me. My guy would have to have a concern for his health and well-being as well.
I also think that personality is KEY. I believe that a person's personality can make them more physically attractive as well! Being strong, protective, caring, making me laugh, cuddly, etc. are so important!
I would like a guy that could really envelop me in a big hug, or maybe even pick me up! lol0 -
I'm not a fit sexy girl (yet), but I don't mind bigger guys. I really like the "Teddy Bear" guys... of course I'd hope, even if he's bigger that he's taking care of himself. The more I'm learning about taking care of myself, the more I find I want the same for those around me...0
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ill run a few errands with whomever I like! The personality is key! The laughter, the smile and the teeth! You can fix fat, but u can't fix fugly! Or fugly teeth, I should say. Let's pretend I don't judge a book by its cover. We all do though. I might be interested in a cover of a nice hefty book, or a slim easy read. Depends on the content of the novel and whether it sparks my attention or not!I dont know if I am either of the above but I am pretty close to goal weight and my husband is heavy. Its not always about that but how confident you are, your ability to make us laugh(huge for me), caring, responsible, usually puts me first, hard working, and most of the time not a butthead! oh and I forgot rocking my world in the bedroom!
Annie, you have such a way with words...
I know most women want manly men and manly men usually have at least a little girth to them...
Girls like to drool over ripped men and maybe even (ahem) "run a few errands with them now and again." But it seems to me that they don't usually want a relationship with them. Am I right about that...?
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it's ok to like whomever you like. u can't help who u are attracted to, no matter what they look like.0
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Welllll we are a population of specific people. We are not the generally public and you're a "beef"cake. Maybe they were just intimidated.As a life long big fella I find it a little hard to believe all you ladies that say you like fat guys. I mean, with my lovely personality, stunning blue eyes, and great smile if you are all being truthful I should have had much more action back in my prime. I'm just sayin......0 -
YES! YES! YES! I love my chunky boys! I have ALWAYS found bigger guys more sexy. I absolutely do not find abs attractive. When I say "bigger" I am not meaning morbidly obese. I like my man to have good, thick, muscular legs with a belly. More cushion for the pushin!!
However, I still want my man to be healthy. I don't want him to have heart disease, diabetes, high cholesterol, etc....0 -
The body is not the heart. Just because a man is fat, it doesn't mean he's not fit. Anything can happen to the body. The supposedly fit man can lose a leg, arm, eye, etc., the man can even gain weight years later. Will the woman still want him? Again, it's the heart that's attractive in my opinion.0
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I am now attracted to bigger men. Yes, and most bigger men that I know, have hottt women. hmmmm...0
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Why they heck not. Your feelings for someone should never be based simply on outward appearances. The value of a person is about who they are, things you share in common and things that you don't. Diversity is the spice of life.0
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