traits you find attractive... that others find weird

missbethea

Different strokes for different folks!

My friend's grandmother has always said if everyone liked the same kind of person, there would be a whole lot of people without dates on the weekends.

What's a trait you find attractive that others often find odd? Ever said "Man, _____ is so hot!" and your friends just look at you like you are insane? Tell us about it!

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I love a man with a hairy chest. All of my friends think this is really weird, but I can't help it! If a man takes off his shirt and it's like he's still wearing one, it drives me wild! I get sad when good looking men shave their chests/stomach. I hear a lot of them do it so you can their muscles. From what I've heard most girls don't seem to have this mindset when it comes to men. Especially younger women. (I've been this way about guys since high school.)


I also have a thing for guys who are blacksmiths. Yes, I know a few men who do blacksmithing. I find it incredibly sexy.

cgrout78

blacksmithing...is unique

I have a thing for guys that wear glasses...take a guy who's already cute and add glasses...wowza...it's a weird thing I have.

missbethea

blacksmithing...is unique

I have a thing for guys that wear glasses...take a guy who's already cute and add glasses...wowza...it's a weird thing I have.

I know what you mean. There are some men (celebrities especially) who just look amazing when you add glasses. I am with you there! But only on specific dudes haha.

Carl01

A lady that makes a killer bacon,lettuce and tomato sammich.

AllanMisner

When I was younger, I found female bodybuilders hot. Cory Everson was the bomb.

Now it is just seeing the separation on the legs (a vertical line with the quadracept and hamstrings meet) that I like.

kymdarnell

When I was younger, I found female bodybuilders hot. Cory Everson was the bomb.

Now it is just seeing the separation on the legs (a vertical line with the quadracept and hamstrings meet) that I like.

OMG!!! I cant stop giggling - awesome....lol

liftingbro

Different strokes for different folks!

My friend's grandmother has always said if everyone liked the same kind of person, there would be a whole lot of people without dates on the weekends.

What's a trait you find attractive that others often find odd? Ever said "Man, _____ is so hot!" and your friends just look at you like you are insane? Tell us about it!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I love a man with a hairy chest. All of my friends think this is really weird, but I can't help it! If a man takes off his shirt and it's like he's still wearing one, it drives me wild! I get sad when good looking men shave their chests/stomach. I hear a lot of them do it so you can their muscles. From what I've heard most girls don't seem to have this mindset when it comes to men. Especially younger women. (I've been this way about guys since high school.)


I also have a thing for guys who are blacksmiths. Yes, I know a few men who do blacksmithing. I find it incredibly sexy.

That's funny, I actual was a blacksmuth apprentice for a while. I was kind of built like one and my teacher thought that if nothing else I would look the part. :laugh:

liftingbro

I kinda like girls with big hair...........still.

twinsanity

I can't call it a 'trait' - but mechanics with really dirty hands will get me EVERY time! Dirtier the better!

missbethea

I can't call it a 'trait' - but mechanics with really dirty hands will get me EVERY time! Dirtier the better!

This is partially why I love blacksmiths!

A man who is dirty from doing real work is definitely attractive. Mechanics, guys who have been working outside, construction workers, etc. There are just some men who look good dirty. (like Mike Rowe!)

fbmandy55

I love big men with facial hair, and body hair. If every guy looked like the Brawny lumberjack guy, I'd be in heaven.



Men who shave their bodies seem to feminine and fake to me. Like a woman who tans too often and has a nice orange leather color. .

ActorGirl1476

It's really strange, but I usually end up liking guys who have big eyebrows (a trait if you asked me separately if I found attractive I'd say no.. but every guy I like including celebrity crushes has them) Weird.. Yes, guess that's just me.

KandieLantz

Well, I never actually SAY that I find this attractive, but I do find myself attracted to balding men..... and when their names are spelled differently than the normal spelling... ie... Bryan instead of Brian... Jon instead of John.. etc... strange I know! :ohwell:

missbethea

I love big men with facial hair, and body hair. If every guy looked like the Brawny lumberjack guy, I'd be in heaven.



Men who shave their bodies seem to feminine and fake to me. Like a woman who tans too often and has a nice orange leather color. .

I am not alone! Yay!


Another I remembered is noses. I tend to like large, prominent noses for some reason.

2012Kristin

Thick necks..... thick glasses..... Long wavy hair..... and big Toothy smiles.

Someone committed to Mother Nature, recycles, and loves outdoor activities.

That's what I find attractive. But, cheesy as it is, it all really comes down to personality.

NicoWoodruff

Muscular yet geeky, the type guy who can fix your computer and also change a tire on your car.

Like they say on RedGreen:
"If the women don't find you handsome they should at least find you handy" but what I like is when they're both.

I was surprised to find something about watching my guy solder my microphone wires totally gets to me, watching a guy shave also I've been surprised to find totally fascinating.

Had a realization a few years ago that there's one thing almost all my exes have in common, for all that they were different in many ways.. every last one of them was at some point in their life a DM/GM (Dungeon Master/Game Master) in the gamer/roleplaying sense. What's that about? Maybe it's just I like geeks and it's a geeky common denominator.. or that I like guys who like to play at being God. Hehe, not sure which.

:laugh:

giggitygoo

I love big ears. I find it really sexy for some reason.

kagenw

Freckles, the more the better. I had a crush (are men permitted to say that or do I have to surrender my man card?) in high school that had freckles all over her face and shoulders, the kind of freckles that start to fuse together into one gigantic mass. Yeah, that's awesome. Unfortunately, my wife doesn't have that many freckles, but she does get them on her face ever summer. It's like a summer semester surprise

ActorGirl1476

I love big men with facial hair, and body hair. If every guy looked like the Brawny lumberjack guy, I'd be in heaven.



Men who shave their bodies seem to feminine and fake to me. Like a woman who tans too often and has a nice orange leather color. .

haha. More power to you, I detest too much body hair.

girlnamedlee

Clean man smell is swoon-worthy.

redheadmommy

I always liked the geeky skinny ones with high IQ. I know that most women like big muscle and strong man, but I like those tall extremely skinny whimpy guys. If a guy tall and skinny like a toothpick , speaks 4-5 languages and know what differential equations that is super hot in my book.

NiciS72

Bald/balding with hair trimmed super short with a goatee. Lucky me, I'm married to a man who looks like a tall Bruce Willis!

Oh and he has to have a wicked sense of humor where he makes up words to all kinds of songs or makes fun of things you wouldn't normally.

missbethea

I like when a man is salt & peppered / going gray. I love to see gray hair peeking out of bears or their hair!

Kimbers70

Bald men with pouty lips and pretty teeth, husky frames and a nice butt.

momof8munchkins

Tall dark and handsome.. cliche? yeah but that's what I like.. seriously big brown eyes, black hair ,hairy chest and a beard..long and lanky limbs.. major turn ons! I am blessed. my husband fits that bill to a Tee!

jennp1129

I like computer nerds!! If they can handle tools its even sexier. I also like em older. Not like Anna Nicole Smith... But I could easily jump 10 years.

rubybeach

I find "crooked" noses handsome (like noses that have obviously been broken at one time. )

misskerouac

Hands. Big hands, long fingers but one width, so the fingers don't taper, but the knuckles are just a tad wider then the rest of the finger, hard to explain... but it's a very particular type of hand lol

ironanimal

Prominent, elf-like ears that stick out through a girl's hair are extremely cute.

MattGetsMad

Noticeable triceps muscle. Not a like a body-builder, but Jennifer Aniston has it and I find it really sexy.

oh and boobs. :laugh:

carlie_carl

Ive got a thing for 'goofy' teeth lol. not hideously but like noticble front teeth, dunno why i just think that imperfection is oh so perfect lol