Are blokes only after one thing?????

Nicola0000
Nicola0000 Posts: 531 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
So after chatting to the single girls in the office today, it appears that all the single blokes out there are only after one thing!! After being with my ex-husband for 10 years, I am now terrified I'm going to have to wade through all this crap to find a decent bloke! Now, is this a London thing or are blokes like this everywhere?? Any tips for getting through this as painless as possible, without feeling like a loser when you realise you and him are after very different things?!?!
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  • paulamarsden
    paulamarsden Posts: 483 Member
    depends what youre after.

    i went through about a 2 year stage of breaking hearts because I was only after one thing.

    when i met my husband i made it very clear what i was after, and made him romance me.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    Yes. NEXT!
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    most yeah. but here's the crazy thing: that doesn't mean you have to let them have it. tell them on the first date that you're not looking for it until you feel something romantically. and tell them that if they are not ok with that, you hope they have a nice life.

    it's not like the dating world is a swarm of letches, gropers and rapists. but, biologically, men are driven to have sex with as many partners as possible.

    but you hold the keys.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    true..but I have the power of my ..........................LOL
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    Just don't put out immediately, unless you realize he isn't the one and you just want to play. But... you really do hold the keys, like the poster said. Just don't put out, feel him out... I mean, it's not too hard to spot a genuine guy, imo. I can see through them nearly immediately. You'll know if he's nothing but sleaze... hopefully. Good luck!
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    It's actually 2 things.

    We want to do it twice.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    It's actually 2 things.

    We want to do it twice.

    I like your way of thinking LOL !!! Everything is better the second time
  • IronSmasher
    IronSmasher Posts: 3,908 Member
    I like food, drink and money too. Oh, and sleep.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    It's actually 2 things.

    We want to do it twice.
    When I read your first line, I thought you meant butts*x
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    Some are, some aren't.

    The best way to deal with it? Don't give it up so easily. If they're only after one thing, I doubt they'll stick around that long :) and then you should be better able to notice the genuine ones.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I read the title of this thread in a high-pitched British accent. I was quite amused.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    It could be three things, depending on how kinky the girl is.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I read the title of this thread in a high-pitched British accent. I was quite amused.


    lol...i did too.

    to answer the question...yes...dont really need to say much else about that!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Is a guys sex drive usually strong?
    Yes.

    Does that mean a single guy has no interest in developing a relationship which includes friendship,companionship,caring?
    No.

    Would be the same as a man saying all single women just want a guy to take care of their financial wants.
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,340 Member
    Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.




    Oh........ and sex...... they all want that too.
  • AtticusFinch
    AtticusFinch Posts: 1,262 Member
    I read the title of this thread in a high-pitched British accent. I was quite amused.

    I bet it was rubbish... bet it sounded Australian
  • mrlazy1967
    mrlazy1967 Posts: 285 Member
    Yes, but we can't help it - it's in our nature
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    I would love to have Kelly Brook call me her "bloke".
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.




    Oh........ and sex...... they all want that too.
    That about sums it up.
  • ionlyhavesporx
    ionlyhavesporx Posts: 120
    Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.




    Oh........ and sex...... they all want that too.

    This
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    Sex while the female is making a sandwich...so much win.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Not necessarily, but we may want it sooner than you do. It's just how we're made unfortunately :P
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    No, sometimes he wants me to go down...to the store
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.
    Thongs and heels? How's she gonna do that?! How could she get heels on with flip-flops on? Will she wear the thongs on her hands? How can she make a sammich that way?!
  • tmarie2715
    tmarie2715 Posts: 1,111 Member
    So after chatting to the single girls in the office today, it appears that all the single blokes out there are only after one thing!! After being with my ex-husband for 10 years, I am now terrified I'm going to have to wade through all this crap to find a decent bloke! Now, is this a London thing or are blokes like this everywhere?? Any tips for getting through this as painless as possible, without feeling like a loser when you realise you and him are after very different things?!?!

    I just withhold sex for a really, really long time. If that is all they're after, they usually don't hang around too long.
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Yes.
  • onedayillbamilf
    onedayillbamilf Posts: 662 Member
    I love your accent.
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,340 Member
    Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.
    Thongs and heels? How's she gonna do that?! How could she get heels on with flip-flops on? Will she wear the thongs on her hands? How can she make a sammich that way?!


    Not flip flop thongs. Butt floss thongs.
  • AlbertPooHoles
    AlbertPooHoles Posts: 530 Member
    Sex while the female is making a sandwich...so much win.
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  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    Yes


    penis enlargements.
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