Are blokes only after one thing?????
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Yes. NEXT!
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yeah.....................food,
or is just me.... 0 -
Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.0
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Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.
Whoa whoa whoa......disrespectful??? :grumble:0 -
I believe that some blokes are, but then some aren't. Don't give up hope. Trust your heart and your instincts and I am sure you will meet someone special who makes you feel amazing again. Best of luck xx0
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A man wants a girl to be a lady in public and a *kitten* in the bedroom, most get the opposite. They can only get "one thing" if the lady allows.....0
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A man wants a girl to be a lady in public and a *kitten* in the bedroom, most get the opposite. They can only get "one thing" if the lady allows.....
Like that!!!0 -
I think most are unfortunatly.
Since my ex (which will be 2 years in April) , i just havnt found anyone and cannot believe how bloody hard it is to find one decent guy who isnt too forward in their txts, who doesnt act sleazy and wants to take u out for a proper date.
Im at a point where i really do want a bf but i actualy give up. When ever i've tried dating, they've either not been my type or they just say things that are way too forward for early days. I hate todays generation of guys that are my age (21). Im just hoping that when i DO find someone it was bloody well worth the wait cause i've waited long enough.0 -
Well, I seem to be about the only one who has this view, but last time I checked it was a free country, so I will express my views just as openly as all of you have. First of all, I do have religious convictions, however, many of you may not share those same convictions, so I will tell you what I think about all of this aside from that.
First of all, wanting to wait to have sex does not mean you are not a sexual person. It doesn't mean that at all. Nor does it mean that when you choose to have sex that you won't be open to having as much fun and as much excitement in your sexual relationship than someone who chooses to engage in sex openly and freely with whomever they want at whatever time they want. Nor does it mean that it abstaining is the easy road, or that you don't want to have sex.
Secondly, when I am dating someone, it is important to me that they get to know me- my personality, my likes and dislikes, my thoughts and passions. I know someone stated that they may as well find out right away if there's a problem in the sexual chemistry because it can be a relationship killer. However, I would say that if someone is not compatible with me on a personal, spiritual and emotional level, that is a relationship killer. When you have sex at the beginning of a relationship, I believe it has a great potential to develop a false bond with someone that you really don't know at all. I think this is also probably more true of women than of men, and I'm sure there are women who are the exception to that rule. Nonetheless, it is my opinion that sex should be a seal on a bond that has already formed, not bond something that's not yet put together.
Thirdly, I want to value myself. I'm not more valuable than the prostitute standing on the corner, but I hope I know my value better. I do not think that because I choose to abstain that I am a better person, or more worthy of accolades. I truly believe though, that each time you engage in sex with someone, you are giving them a part of yourself. I want to be able to give as much of myself as I can to the person I spend my life with.
Lastly, I guess if I just thought of sex as physical fun and euphoria (which of course it is), then I could say the same things that many of you are saying. Pardon me if I see it as being something more than that, and something to be shared with someone who I can entrust all of myself with- not just my body.
I like your post.
I don't think other's are more or less valuable for what "they" choose to do. Just for me, those are "my" values - and everyone's are different. If anyone wants to sleep with many people, that's up to them entirely, and as long as they're being safe, that's great! Just not something I'd choose to do.From my point of view and personal experience - I think having a long term relationship with someone that is not right for you, but you refrained from having sex with at the beginning and built up an emotional bond with, is much more detrimental to your mental health than having a few one night stands here or there.
Also, I agree with you on this part, yet I don't think that someone who "is right for you" is determined mostly by sexual compatibility. I wouldn't have a LTR with someone who wasn't right for me, but my view of what's right for me, is probably completely different to others. Many people place sex quite high on the list so if they're missing that, then the person's not for them. For me, that just comes naturally when I love them in every other way (the emotional bond) Obviously physical attraction is important, but you can know if your physically attracted to somebody right from the start, you don't have to sleep with them to know that I don't think.0 -
Im not a man hater or anything but i couldnt agree more with this. In my experience they are getting worse and its a shame cause i just feel like u have to get thru so many of the bad guys just to find that special one.Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.0 -
I think it's what ALL men single or not think about quite often. It's a natural thing.
You just have to find the right guy....and like my mom said, never date anyone you meet in a bar.:drinker:0 -
Hell no I think it's more the chicks that are only after one thing......0
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I think most are unfortunatly.
Since my ex (which will be 2 years in April) , i just havnt found anyone and cannot believe how bloody hard it is to find one decent guy who isnt too forward in their txts, who doesnt act sleazy and wants to take u out for a proper date.
Im at a point where i really do want a bf but i actualy give up. When ever i've tried dating, they've either not been my type or they just say things that are way too forward for early days. I hate todays generation of guys that are my age (21). Im just hoping that when i DO find someone it was bloody well worth the wait cause i've waited long enough.
And if you look that hot and still cant find someone, then there's no hope for any of us!!0 -
Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.
Oh........ and sex...... they all want that too.
Yeah! What is it about guys and sandwiches!?!?!?!0 -
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Sandwiches are delicious.
They also don't look at you like you're crazy when you tell the sandwich you'd like to do it in it's butt.0 -
It's everywhere. Yes, I am married, going on 19 years this month. At this period of the married life, my husband (for the last 10 years or better) has determined there is really no room for anything but getting between the sheets. It is frustrating to say the least! :grumble: I have yet to hear anything different from my single girlfriends who are actively dating. Ggggrrrr. Are we just a bunch of lay down and take it types, just to keep the peace? :smokin:
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Yes........ a girl to make them sandwiches....... nekkid except for an apron, thongs and heels.
Oh........ and sex...... they all want that too.
Yeah! What is it about guys and sandwiches!?!?!?!
the conclusion seems to be they are only after 2 things!!!0 -
Lmao, aww thanks. :blushing:I think most are unfortunatly.
Since my ex (which will be 2 years in April) , i just havnt found anyone and cannot believe how bloody hard it is to find one decent guy who isnt too forward in their txts, who doesnt act sleazy and wants to take u out for a proper date.
Im at a point where i really do want a bf but i actualy give up. When ever i've tried dating, they've either not been my type or they just say things that are way too forward for early days. I hate todays generation of guys that are my age (21). Im just hoping that when i DO find someone it was bloody well worth the wait cause i've waited long enough.
And if you look that hot and still cant find someone, then there's no hope for any of us!!0 -
There are women who are like that too, not just men. I have found after being "out there" for 3 years now some men play this delightful little game that makes me want to throw myself into oncoming traffic:
I met them and they tell me how they have been hurt by previous significant others (sometimes this is a lie, sometimes this is the truth). They claim they just want someone nice and be in a LTR (sometimes, a lie again). They ooze on the charm and start sexual talk right off the bat. This is usually my cue to get out of there. To be honest, I actually sit here and wait to see how long it takes the guy to talk sexually to me. Doesn't take to long to be honest. Now let me say, this is not the story with all men that I have met but I would say this is the majority of what I have met in the past 3 years.
When I have talked sexual back (big mistake) I end up in this stupid situation where I am no longer a woman but a vacant you know what that certain men think they can "hit it" whenever they choose. No thanks! I have learned I am worth knowing and if a guy cannot see that, I have no time for him.
This is my own advice which can be taken or thrown out the door but make a list of what you want in a man. If he doesn't meet at least a good 50% of it...show him the door. If he is a massive manipulator, he will give you sob stories and say oh I am sorry for talking to you in a sexual manner...don't believe it. A gentleman would never do that.0 -
Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.
Whoa whoa whoa......disrespectful??? :grumble:
Definately................twice this week friends of mine have found out that dudes they have been dating are married - one with two children!!!!!!!0 -
Im not a man hater or anything but i couldnt agree more with this. In my experience they are getting worse and its a shame cause i just feel like u have to get thru so many of the bad guys just to find that special one.Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.
After nine years of it - I just do not bother anymore. Not worth my effort. In saying that though, I have previously been married, had kids, had the house - all of the things that young, single girls still look for. I know it's not what it's cracked up to be so no problems for me - but I feel sorry for them.0 -
but you hold the keys.
Where can I purchase one of these delightful contraptions for my 17 yr old daughter?
I manufacture them, and you get the only key...except for the copy I keep, like , you know, in case you ever lose yours..yeah, that's it. :bigsmile:0 -
Yes - and yes they seem to be the same wherever you are - and they are getting worse and more disgusting and disrespectful with it also.
Whoa whoa whoa......disrespectful??? :grumble:
Honestly there are some guys out there who are extremely perverted and will be incredibly disrespectful. Example: A person I know was texting someone in a friendly manner, all of a sudden he texts how he wants to do all these sexual things to her. Disrespectful! Would he want someone to talk to his mother or sister like that? I think not!0 -
YES!
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So after chatting to the single girls in the office today, it appears that all the single blokes out there are only after one thing!! After being with my ex-husband for 10 years, I am now terrified I'm going to have to wade through all this crap to find a decent bloke! Now, is this a London thing or are blokes like this everywhere?? Any tips for getting through this as painless as possible, without feeling like a loser when you realise you and him are after very different things?!?!
Yes, its true...we are all after one thing.....
Cheese. It really does not matter what kind of cheese, because cheese is one of the perfect things.
Women, jobs, sports teams, great haircuts, they are here today and gone tomorrow....but good cheese is always....well.....PERFECT!
So, unfortunately.....the answer is yes......
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It's actually 2 things.
We want to do it twice.
That is not ALWAYS true..... :yawn:0 -
Must be an English thing, we don't have any "blokes" in the USA, just your average creeps and weirdos. :bigsmile:
But seriously, you need to establish a form of communication so you know if you and your 'bloke' are compatible. For instance, when you are interested in sex just reach over and stroke his crotch one time. And when you are not interested stroke it 100 times, then go wash your hands and make him a sammich. Problem solved. :drinker:0 -
No, some of us are serious about our future and desire for a soul mate and loving family.
Yes, I want that "one thing" too - along with the whole package.
And I knew this from age 15 - married at 18, 5 kids, 28 years and still doing that "one thing" :drinker:0 -
Yes, its true...we are all after one thing.....
Cheese. It really does not matter what kind of cheese, because cheese is one of the perfect things.
Women, jobs, sports teams, great haircuts, they are here today and gone tomorrow....but good cheese is always....well.....PERFECT!
I thought it was BACON!!!! Did I miss a memo?0
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