Are blokes only after one thing?????

auticus

I live for heavy metal

Nicola0000

And with that - I am coming to Canada in a few months to go on the road with a heavy metal band from there, when they release their new album - I will be careful using the groupie word from now on tho :noway:

Maybe Canadian men are different?!?!?!?!?

My Canadian friend that married an Aussie reckons they are!!! :laugh:

Well there you go then! Find a nice Canadian guy, let us know, then we'll all come over

ArroganceInStep

"The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh***!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is f***ing confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh***. But you are wearing a wh***'s uniform."

Nopedotjpeg

"The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh***!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is f***ing confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh***. But you are wearing a wh***'s uniform."

that bit.

grobbygru

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Z_I_L_L_A

"The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh***!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is f***ing confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh***. But you are wearing a wh***'s uniform."

Hmmm, that kinda made sense.

grobbygru

And with that - I am coming to Canada in a few months to go on the road with a heavy metal band from there, when they release their new album - I will be careful using the groupie word from now on tho :noway:

Maybe Canadian men are different?!?!?!?!?

My Canadian friend that married an Aussie reckons they are!!! :laugh:

Well there you go then! Find a nice Canadian guy, let us know, then we'll all come over

I'll keep my eye out for you - but I think I will be busy holding my cousins hand (that's the only reason he wants me to go :yawn: )

Nicola0000

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

grobbygru

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

grobbygru

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

Oh - that's how crosseyed I am atm - I thought you were talking about my COUSIN!!!!!!! LOL

Maybe I could hook you up with my cousin - he is a nice guy!!! He's looking for love. He tells me off for having given up!!

Nicola0000

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

No, I meant you and the heavy metal poster!!!!!

auticus

I thought that southern island was more about the sheep...

grobbygru

I thought that southern island was more about the sheep...

That is New Zealand I think you are thinking of - but said southern state of Australia does have alot of sheep too!! :glasses:

Nicola0000

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

Oh - that's how crosseyed I am atm - I thought you were talking about my COUSIN!!!!!!! LOL

Maybe I could hook you up with my cousin - he is a nice guy!!! He's looking for love. He tells me off for having given up!!

Tell him to send me a plane ticket to Oz, and I'll be over!! Oops, I will NOT look for a man just for his money! :bigsmile:

grobbygru

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

Oh - that's how crosseyed I am atm - I thought you were talking about my COUSIN!!!!!!! LOL

Maybe I could hook you up with my cousin - he is a nice guy!!! He's looking for love. He tells me off for having given up!!

Tell him to send me a plane ticket to Oz, and I'll be over!! Oops, I will NOT look for a man just for his money! :bigsmile:

He might be a bit old for you :sad: LOL on the money thing. He is such a sweetie he offered to pay for my Canada trip tho (not that I'll be taking him up on that) when I was joking about having to get a job to pay for it :laugh:

Anwyays, thanks for the entertaining evening all (day, arvo, whever you are) I need to hit the sack so I can go travelling in my hippy van :flowerforyou: :drinker:

Scott613

I didn't read through all the posts but if you want to find the right kind of man there is only one place to look. Church. I mean real church, not go through the motions church! For what it's worth.

Thats absolute BS!

Amen

Carl01

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

What a beautiful moment...

Pete1471

Nope we aren't. I have lots more female friends than male friends. If the subject comes up about I'm bot looking for sex or a bf/husband than I tell them I'm not looking for anything like that. It's up to them if they choose to believe it.
Jump forward a few months even years and I've never hit on any of them. There is no sexual undertone in the relationships.

In fact so extinct is sex in the relationship, it's never discussed even about each other's lives. none of them have even discussed me having a gf, or trying to hit on/get off with someone. We don't even talk about which people or celebs are cute, hot or sexy. I guess I would be described as an asexual person.

Nicola0000

I live for heavy metal

I know you do. I don't mind this band - have listened to them a bit - should be a good trip though and something different for sure. Unless my cousin gets me drunk while we are there like he did on Sunday :sick:
With that - I should go to bed - because I think I am going away for a while in the morning - so don't all sledge me too much while I'm gone cos I won't have a computer :grumble: :laugh:

:flowerforyou:

Maybe you 2 should get together?? Maybe my thread has found love.....

LMAO - we are not that inbred here :laugh: Altho the rest of the country goes on about a certain southern island :bigsmile:

Oh - that's how crosseyed I am atm - I thought you were talking about my COUSIN!!!!!!! LOL

Maybe I could hook you up with my cousin - he is a nice guy!!! He's looking for love. He tells me off for having given up!!

Tell him to send me a plane ticket to Oz, and I'll be over!! Oops, I will NOT look for a man just for his money! :bigsmile:

He might be a bit old for you :sad: LOL on the money thing. He is such a sweetie he offered to pay for my Canada trip tho (not that I'll be taking him up on that) when I was joking about having to get a job to pay for it :laugh:

Anwyays, thanks for the entertaining evening all (day, arvo, whever you are) I need to hit the sack so I can go travelling in my hippy van :flowerforyou: :drinker:

Well, all the young guys seem to be after 1 thing!! Ha!!
Seriously, have a great time on your travels!!!

FORKDOWN

Yes. NEXT!

Awesome!!!

:laugh:

Nicola0000

So ive decided I need to relax a little about this, and just enjoy myself!! After being in relationship for 10 years, I dont want to jump straight back into another one. I need to work out who I am as a adult (as I was 17 when started dating my husband). I work and live close to an amazing city, with so much opportunity to get out there and have fun!!

I suppose my question is, how do I not stress over just being in that "casual" relationship? How do I not get "sucked in" thinking "ooh where is this leading, does he like me" etc etc How do I relax about the whole thing and not let my mind get obsessed with thinking I should be in a relationship??

Nicola0000

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grobbygru

So ive decided I need to relax a little about this, and just enjoy myself!! After being in relationship for 10 years, I dont want to jump straight back into another one. I need to work out who I am as a adult (as I was 17 when started dating my husband). I work and live close to an amazing city, with so much opportunity to get out there and have fun!!

I suppose my question is, how do I not stress over just being in that "casual" relationship? How do I not get "sucked in" thinking "ooh where is this leading, does he like me" etc etc How do I relax about the whole thing and not let my mind get obsessed with thinking I should be in a relationship??

Like lots have said - I wouldn't sleep with them if I was you. That's the killer. Also women tend to have a way of turning sex into 'he cares for me' or 'I must be desirable'.
After a while you will actually recognise and enjoy your freedom. Obviously, I don't know what sort of marriage you came from. But the bliss of not having to ask someone else if you can do, spend, go, think etc is absolutely awesome. It'd take someone pretty special for me to give up what I have now (and I don't mean buff, rich or any of the other things mentioned here last night).
Good luck with it all. I have changed my mind to completely going away today to just going to kayak an area I haven't been before about an hour a way - see............couldn't change my mind so flippantly each day upon waking if I had to take someone else into consideration. :laugh: