Are blokes only after one thing?????
Replies
-
Would be the same as a man saying all single women just want a guy to take care of their financial wants.
[/quote]
so this is a no no?0 -
Don't worry, it is not only your London men that are that way. It is the ones here in the U.S. too.0
-
Let's say it's true. Men are only after one thing.
I don't think that's the problem. The root cause is that nobody really wants to talk about what they want--in part because talking about it might result in not getting it.
If men do want only one thing, and they're honest about it....well....
If men do want only one thing, and they're willing to hide that fact or be dishonest about it, then ya, that's annoying.0 -
Anyone else from the states digging the name 'bloke'. I'm going to have to add that one to my vocabulary. :bigsmile:
I'm from Canada and totally diggin it!!! LOL is it like the English equivalent of Dude?? :bigsmile:
Yea, or guy.0 -
but you hold the keys.
Where can I purchase one of these delightful contraptions for my 17 yr old daughter?0 -
OP let me ask you something...
Are women after only one thing? (the bank account and social status men can give them)
Probably not. Gross generalizations are just that. Gross generalizations.
You are a smart man.
Agreed.
And age has a lot to do with how they are going to balance what their d*** wants with what THEY want. LOL. Also, personalities are all different... just cause some guys want a lot of sex doesn't mean they're all gonna go get it. And conversely, not all outgoing men are all about the sex. They're all wrapped differently, just like women.0 -
Yes, but we can't help it - it's in our nature
Exactly. Don't sleep with a guy for at least 10 dates...if he sticks around without getting "paid', you know he must actually enjoy your company.
gettin paid? so this thread is about prostitiutes? I'm soooo lost now!!0 -
My husband is a prime example of that......and in all seriousness, a guy can totally be looking for something long term and, believe or not, STILL want to nail you on the first date.0 -
I don't get that. Why is it unfortunately?Not necessarily, but we may want it sooner than you do. It's just how we're made unfortunately :P
Frankly I am proud of being a guy...having a healthy sex drive...and everything else being a guy entails.
I don't think it's a problem myself, hence the smiley, but women just don't understand - bless their little cotton socks.0 -
...and in all seriousness, a guy can totally be looking for something long term and, believe or not, STILL want to nail you on the first date.
I agree with this.
Also, and this should be taken as a compliment, I looked at your pictures...you're going to have plenty of guys to wade through...0 -
No. Obviously some are, but a lot aren't. If they were all after just one thing, I don't see how many people would get married, there are enough girls out there who either don't want serious romance or are just willing to do what they think it takes to get a guy that there would be no reason for it at this point, and yet guys get married.
Ultimately if a guy doesn't really like someone, there's a greater chance they'll still go after that one thing, and if a girl doesn't really like someone, there's a greater chance she'll avoid it with that person. I think that's where the difference is. If you think a guy is just after one thing, well, don't give it and see how he reacts; if he doesn't really like you, he probably won't stick around. If he does, he will. The problem that people run into, I think, is sleeping with people to try to get them to like them, or keep them around until they're in a relationship. That doesn't really work, and I think that's where the "guys just want one thing" comes from.0 -
So after chatting to the single girls in the office today, it appears that all the single blokes out there are only after one thing!! After being with my ex-husband for 10 years, I am now terrified I'm going to have to wade through all this crap to find a decent bloke! Now, is this a London thing or are blokes like this everywhere?? Any tips for getting through this as painless as possible, without feeling like a loser when you realise you and him are after very different things?!?!
You will have to wade through to find a decent one. However, we are NOT all the same.0 -
it appears that all the single blokes out there are only after one thing!!
Nope. There's always beer.0 -
can i just comment on what an outdated view of the sexes this thread shows.
SOME Women want sex as much or more than SOME men. FACT.
SOME women aren't looking for money or social status (really? thats a THING?) we are MORE than capable of achieving these things on our own, and in some cases (shock horror) its the woman who is the chief breadwinner.
Christ.0 -
...and in all seriousness, a guy can totally be looking for something long term and, believe or not, STILL want to nail you on the first date.
Yes sir.0 -
YESSSS.....................I really don't get it????? What's so hard about being quiet during a game? Stop talking so much and let a man enjoy his sports!0
-
can i just comment on what an outdated view of the sexes this thread shows.
SOME Women want sex as much or more than SOME men. FACT.
SOME women aren't looking for money or social status (really? thats a THING?) we are MORE than capable of achieving these things on our own, and in some cases (shock horror) its the woman who is the chief breadwinner.
Christ.
:flowerforyou:0 -
Yes, but we can't help it - it's in our nature
Exactly. Don't sleep with a guy for at least 10 dates...if he sticks around without getting "paid', you know he must actually enjoy your company.
gettin paid? so this thread is about prostitiutes? I'm soooo lost now!!
A lot of guys SEEM TO go out on dates just because they want sex..I get the feeling they consider it some kind of payment for conversation rendered or something like that (I go dutch)...0 -
0 -
but you hold the keys.
Where can I purchase one of these delightful contraptions for my 17 yr old daughter?
Sherwood Forest.0 -
but you hold the keys.
Where can I purchase one of these delightful contraptions for my 17 yr old daughter?
Sherwood Forest.
i live in Sherwood forest,
Serious. :flowerforyou:0 -
Wow this got so many more posts than what I thought!! And all you Americans making fun on my accent, then using your own weird language!!
I'm not saying that sex is only what blokes (guys, dudes, what ever :-) ) but going out on 2 dates, not sleeping with him, then for him to say "oh sorry, I don't want a relationship", WTF? Maybe it's just me, but I don't sleep with guys after only meeting them twice and actually don't know anything about them. That's not being prudish is it? And who's to assume I wanted the relationship anyway? You were right what you said above, that we don't talk about it so no-one knows where they stand. Sometimes us ladies want some fun too, but not after 2 dates.
I was only 17 when starting with my ex, so feel like I have no idea what the hell is going on!! :laugh:0 -
can i just comment on what an outdated view of the sexes this thread shows.
SOME Women want sex as much or more than SOME men. FACT.
SOME women aren't looking for money or social status (really? thats a THING?) we are MORE than capable of achieving these things on our own, and in some cases (shock horror) its the woman who is the chief breadwinner.
Christ.
:flowerforyou:
can you tell i've been at a big corporate conference today feeling all important and stuff. Yeah.0 -
...and in all seriousness, a guy can totally be looking for something long term and, believe or not, STILL want to nail you on the first date.
Oh really?!!!! No way!!!!!!
0 -
Wow this got so many more posts than what I thought!! And all you Americans making fun on my accent, then using your own weird language!!
I'm not saying that sex is only what blokes (guys, dudes, what ever :-) ) but going out on 2 dates, not sleeping with him, then for him to say "oh sorry, I don't want a relationship", WTF? Maybe it's just me, but I don't sleep with guys after only meeting them twice and actually don't know anything about them. That's not being prudish is it? And who's to assume I wanted the relationship anyway? You were right what you said above, that we don't talk about it so no-one knows where they stand. Sometimes us ladies want some fun too, but not after 2 dates.
I was only 17 when starting with my ex, so feel like I have no idea what the hell is going on!! :laugh:
what more do you need to know about a guy to *kitten* him than his name and whether he bathes regularly?
i dont get the outdated view on sex.
its fun right? if you use a condom who cares!0 -
can i just comment on what an outdated view of the sexes this thread shows.
SOME Women want sex as much or more than SOME men. FACT.
SOME women aren't looking for money or social status (really? thats a THING?) we are MORE than capable of achieving these things on our own, and in some cases (shock horror) its the woman who is the chief breadwinner.
Christ.
LOVE THIS^ THANK YOU!!!!!0 -
I don't think it's a problem myself, hence the smiley, but women just don't understand - bless their little cotton socks.
[/quote]
I'm hoping there is some sort of double irony here...0 -
It's actually 2 things.
We want to do it twice.
Very funny. I don't know about blokes but brothers!!!!!!!!!0 -
Yes, but we can't help it - it's in our nature
Exactly. Don't sleep with a guy for at least 10 dates...if he sticks around without getting "paid', you know he must actually enjoy your company.
TEN?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!?1
If a guy didn't sleep with me before 10 dates I would kick his sniveling, virtuous, sissy a*s to the curb.0 -
I don't think it's a problem myself, hence the smiley, but women just don't understand - bless their little cotton socks.
I don't wear socks when I bang a guy.0
This discussion has been closed.
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 393.4K Introduce Yourself
- 43.8K Getting Started
- 260.2K Health and Weight Loss
- 175.9K Food and Nutrition
- 47.4K Recipes
- 232.5K Fitness and Exercise
- 426 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.5K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.5K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 153K Motivation and Support
- 8K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.3K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 3.7K MyFitnessPal Information
- 24 News and Announcements
- 1.1K Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.6K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions