Are blokes only after one thing?????
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No. but if you're shallow then expect to find shallow guys in return. You get what you put out. Shallow guys are the kind that will use you to put it in your caboose then send you home with cab fare if you're lucky.
I realize disney movies made it so that the pretty pretty princess gets the buff handsome hot prince who is charming but the reality is shallow begets shallow. There's much more to life.0 -
Dunno whether to take that as a compliment or not lols. But thanks. Oh well, if thats the case then it looks like i'l probs never find someone cause how i dress and do my hair and make ect is for me and i wouldnt change for anyone cause it wouldnt be right. You;'ve always got to be urself. My ex was a nice guy, im sure if i could do it then i can eventualy find someone nice again lol.
Sure you can, but you will have to do the hunting as I can promise you that most guys that approach you have just sex on their mind.0 -
So, to generalize...
Women are only interested in our money....
Men are only interested in sex....
Prostitutes.
But it is perfectly ok to have a 15 page thread on how men just want sex though right?
Thank you.0 -
"I'll just turn lesbian" ....how droll.0
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How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!0
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Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.0 -
How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!0
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How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!
You might be tough but I'm sure a few roses, a good meal and a slow dance will lighten you up Us men are awesome when it comes to seducing0 -
Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.0 -
It's the double edged sword of beauty. You have to actually farm through the lemmings leaping on you for the right one. It can be just as isolating and lonely as the unattractive person who has no lemmings at all trying to find the right one.
Just stop generalizing an entire gender of people. A saying I learned in my mid 20s which carries with me today:
Look at the things you are complaining about. Then find the common denominator. Then remove it.
If the common denominator here is that all guys you (general you) are interacting with are only after your booty then you need to figure out why that is and remove it. That could be dress, how you act, what you say, what vibes you give off, or a combination of all the above.
If the common denominator is you then you need to fix you (general you).0 -
Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.0 -
How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!
You might be tough but I'm sure a few roses, a good meal and a slow dance will lighten you up Us men are awesome when it comes to seducing
Us men also can tell when something is creepy and you are right at that line.0 -
How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!
You might be tough but I'm sure a few roses, a good meal and a slow dance will lighten you up Us men are awesome when it comes to seducing
Us men also can tell when something is creepy and you are right at that line.
Not quite creepy but I sure know how to use my charm to get what I want0 -
How about sexting after the first few dates? Damn here is some hotties in here today!!
You might be tough but I'm sure a few roses, a good meal and a slow dance will lighten you up Us men are awesome when it comes to seducing
Us men also can tell when something is creepy and you are right at that line.
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Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.
Ha! Well, I always make sure anyone I date has big books. that is one of my dating rules, in the words of the wonderful John Waters...."If you go home with someone and they don't have books, don't sleep with them" *edited for swearing0 -
Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.
Ever dated a foreign guy with different moral values? Might be interesting and some men of different culture cherish their woman a lot more.0 -
It's the double edged sword of beauty. You have to actually farm through the lemmings leaping on you for the right one. It can be just as isolating and lonely as the unattractive person who has no lemmings at all trying to find the right one.
Just stop generalizing an entire gender of people. A saying I learned in my mid 20s which carries with me today:
Look at the things you are complaining about. Then find the common denominator. Then remove it.
If the common denominator here is that all guys you (general you) are interacting with are only after your booty then you need to figure out why that is and remove it. That could be dress, how you act, what you say, what vibes you give off, or a combination of all the above.
If the common denominator is you then you need to fix you (general you).0 -
Could you be giving off an aura of sexual availability without realising? I've learnt recently that many people cannot see past a persons look or image. People, and I believe men especially - being more visual creatures, respond to outward appearance and may make assumptions.
Men look at me, in my 1940's suits and set hair and think I'm prim when I'm actually a raving sexpot who wants to be manhandled into a cupboard and thoroughly but consensually abused at the earliest opportunity. Sigh.
Ever dated a foreign guy with different moral values? Might be interesting and some men of different culture cherish their woman a lot more.0 -
That's fair but on the same token if you are the common denominator in your issues and you don't want to change, then you can't really complain about what you are attracting changing either.
It's like the fat guy constantly complaining that he can't date but he won't get off the couch and workout.0 -
I was just talking about this yesterday.
I am new to dating too after being married for 10 years.
I'm 32.. I've been dating guys in age range 30-45 so far.
I don't give it up. Just recently I was a bit more intimiate with a guy whom I really felt comfortable with. We're friends though.
In my short experience of dating (3-4 months) my guys have all been "good". None of them have treated me like they were only after 1 thing. They're all gentlemen. If they were only after one thing well they didn't get it and either got tired of waiting or moved on to the next.
I'm selective of who I go out with. I don't go out with just anybody and feel like so far I've made good choices.
I'm sure there are *kitten* out there.. if you come across one, just next him- not a problem. Just try to be selective of who you go out with.0
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