Unrequented friend requests!

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  • Mr_Cape219
    Mr_Cape219 Posts: 1,345 Member
    Well, heck I feel pretty much like a floosy. I had posted on my profile to please send a message with your request, but I dont automatically decline them for not having one. Sometimes I try and find out why they sent me one, but other than that I just accept and congratulate them on their accomplishments. I always send a request with a message though. I think that is the best part of getting requests, is seeing why.

    I may go through a clean-up of my friends list, but I generally am pretty ok with who ever is on my friends list. Those without activity for several weeks or months I will send a message to, but otherwise It doesnt really bother me who is on and who isnt. I do have my favorites on my friends list though haha.
  • SixCatFaerie
    SixCatFaerie Posts: 690 Member
    I've received many with no notes and when I checked the person out they had no replies to threads or mutual friends. I don't really want to be a part of someone’s collection. <shivers>
    Now, if they add a note I’m more likely to accept, but not always. Sometimes I just get the creeper vibe and the moment you reply back to them the convo starts… and I really don’t’ want to start that with a creeper.
    So, be honest, did you say something creepy in your friend request? ;)

    Agreed. I prefer someone to give me a note telling me why they'd like to get to know me more or why they picked me out of all the others they could have to send a request too. It's nice to have things in common!

    On another note,, if someone is inspired by something I say in a post and wants to be a support to me and feels like I can support them I'm happy to be their friend! I think it's wonderful to know so many people are going through some of the same things I am and it actually keeps me going if I'm able to help other too!

    if someone were to ignore my request then I likely wouldn't have gotten a lot out of that connection anyway. Likewise they already have what they need in their group of friends and are extended as far as they can. I wouldn't take it personally. There's plenty of Pals in the sea of 1's and 0's.


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  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    I have 10 friends lol...

    Want 11?...but I'll expect a reply in triplicate if you decline.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I generally accept, but prefer a note with a request. I dont accept if the person is creepy which is rare that I get creepy requests. And if that person does not interact with me (especially since they sent me the request), I will pretty much delete that person. Also...... I state in my profile that I am really nice so I am pretty sure that scares most people away lol :)
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    I have 10 friends lol...

    Want 11?...but I'll expect a reply in triplicate if you decline.

    sure..although you will be number 12...Im getting popular...just sayin'
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    I have 10 friends lol...

    Give em to me, I'll whack em for you!!!
  • NU2U
    NU2U Posts: 659 Member
    I have 10 friends lol...

    Give em to me, I'll whack em for you!!!

    He will..he really will. He's the Whacker!!!
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.
  • OvOv
    OvOv Posts: 50
    How come everyone gets a million friend requests.

    I've only ever received one...lol.
  • NU2U
    NU2U Posts: 659 Member
    How come everyone gets a million friend requests.

    I've only ever received one...lol.

    The ones who get a million requests, are the ones who takes pictures with their shorts off...js :smokin:
  • OvOv
    OvOv Posts: 50
    How come everyone gets a million friend requests.

    I've only ever received one...lol.

    The ones who get a million requests, are the ones who takes pictures with their shorts off...js :smokin:

    ...and are females I'm guessing haha.

    Maybe I should try and take a cleavage shot of myself and see if I get FRs...now that would creep the creepy guys out upon finding out my gender!!
  • NU2U
    NU2U Posts: 659 Member
    How come everyone gets a million friend requests.

    I've only ever received one...lol.

    The ones who get a million requests, are the ones who takes pictures with their shorts off...js :smokin:

    ...and are females I'm guessing haha.

    Maybe I should try and take a cleavage shot of myself and see if I get FRs...now that would creep the creepy guys out upon finding out my gender!!

    Lol..if you show it, they will come :-)
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.
  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.

    Please see my older posts is this thread... Sarcasm does not go over well on the interwebs. Maybe someone should create a sarcasm emoticon?
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    I accept 'em all but do appreciate a message with them. I tend to remember those with messages better as my friend's list is getting large.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Unrequited. Good grief.

    Thank the lord. I was beginning to lose my faith in humanity, and feel a wee bit mean for wanting to post this exact message.

    haha
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
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  • meerkat70
    meerkat70 Posts: 4,605 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.

    Please see my older posts is this thread... Sarcasm does not go over well on the interwebs. Maybe someone should create a sarcasm emoticon?

    What, like the winky-smiley-thingummy he used in that post up there... ?
  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.

    Please see my older posts is this thread... Sarcasm does not go over well on the interwebs. Maybe someone should create a sarcasm emoticon?

    What, like the winky-smiley-thingummy he used in that post up there... ?

    yes maybe... but possibly something that can't be misconstrued to mean anything else so it's the exact opposite of sarcasm.. what am I saying? This would just take the fun out of the internet
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.

    Please see my older posts is this thread... Sarcasm does not go over well on the interwebs. Maybe someone should create a sarcasm emoticon?

    What, like the winky-smiley-thingummy he used in that post up there... ?

    yes maybe... but possibly something that can't be misconstrued to mean anything else so it's the exact opposite of sarcasm.. what am I saying? This would just take the fun out of the internet
    Please do not mistake his winking smiley as his sarcasm indicator. That's the "I'm being a passive-aggressive little baby and including a smiley so I won't appear insulting" use of that smiley.
  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I see you have absolutely no recognition of sarcasm.

    Please see my older posts is this thread... Sarcasm does not go over well on the interwebs. Maybe someone should create a sarcasm emoticon?

    What, like the winky-smiley-thingummy he used in that post up there... ?

    yes maybe... but possibly something that can't be misconstrued to mean anything else so it's the exact opposite of sarcasm.. what am I saying? This would just take the fun out of the internet
    Please do not mistake his winking smiley as his sarcasm indicator. That's the "I'm being a passive-aggressive little baby and including a smiley so I won't appear insulting" use of that smiley.

    Hence the need for a sarcasm emoticon... or maybe we can just follow all sarcasm up with a keyboard spasm? kfhakljfhdkl cfhksfhq
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    I don't have the time to consider the feelings of everyone who sends me FRs. In fact, you should be more considerate of my time and be ok with being ignored by me.

    Sorry..oh how is the view from up your own a**e? :wink:
    I can personally tell you that it's quite AWESOME and GORGEOUS!!!
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    Hence the need for a sarcasm emoticon... or maybe we can just follow all sarcasm up with a keyboard spasm? kfhakljfhdkl cfhksfhq
    Indeed. I like "kfhakljfhdkl cfhksfhq"
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    Wow you make friend requesting seems such as serious business...
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    @ Sunkisses

    Actually its a "I'm a fully grown adult who has a sarcastic/ dark/ dry sense of humour and got you and likes your style" emoticon....


    here, have a few more:smile::glasses: :drinker: :yawn: :love: :wink: :laugh: :happy: :tongue: :mad: :angry: :explode: :grumble:
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
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    Please do...:glasses:
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    Can we just fix the title to "Unrequited" friend requests? Pretty Please???? :flowerforyou:

    Also, you didn't need a whole thread to complain about me declining you. You could have sent a PM.
  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
    Actually its a ' I'm a fully grown adult who has a sarcastic/ dark/ dry sense of humour and got you and likes your style' emoticon....


    here, have a few more:smile::glasses: :drinker: :yawn: :love: :wink: :laugh: :happy: :tongue: :mad: :angry: :explode: :grumble:

    I like my emoticon better... kvhdklvhivhalsnvls ;oi sdj
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    Can we just fix the title to "Unrequited" friend requests? Pretty Please???? :flowerforyou:

    Also, you didn't need a whole thread to complain about me declining you. You could have sent a PM.

    Err....can't..unless you know better?

    And I've never...oh I see what you did there :smile:
  • NU2U
    NU2U Posts: 659 Member
    Can we just fix the title to "Unrequited" friend requests? Pretty Please???? :flowerforyou:

    Also, you didn't need a whole thread to complain about me declining you. You could have sent a PM.

    Err....can't..unless you know better?

    And I've never...oh I see what you did there :smile:



    Ahaaaa...I saw that too...YOU GO GIRL!!!:drinker:

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