girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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  • katy4399
    katy4399 Posts: 136 Member
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    This thread has been great for identifying people to Ignore. Thanks _snw_!!

    Not sure if you mean people like me that "Mind Strip clubs", but go ahead and ignore me.
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,967 Member
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    Well I wouldn't be with someone who made it a habit of going to the strip club every weekend in the first place. I don't care if he goes every once in a while for a bachelor party or something, but if that's his idea of a fun, typical weekend then he's not for me. I don't even want a guy who goes out to bars all the time. There's nothing wrong with someone who wants to do that kind of stuff, he's just not for me. I like that my boyfriend is kind of antisocial like I am.
  • andreanicole686
    andreanicole686 Posts: 406 Member
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    You know I think strip clubs and all this porn everywhere is a part of the reason women have so many self-esteem problems. Not only do we have to worry about the pretty girl down the street, when we leave the house we have to worry about our husband/boyfriend watching porn and thinking about other women, they can get on and reply to sex ads, go to the strip club down the street or even pay for sex. I'm not a prude at all when it comes to being with someone but I feel like because so many men are into it it's become okay in society. Of course the person your with is going to be attracted to other women or men but I feel it takes it way too far if they go out of their way to pay to see someone strip. I've been in a relationship with someone who was pretty much a porn addict and it ruins your relationship and any self esteem you have left. Left him because of it.
    I still have high standards and I don't give a **** what other people think strip clubs are tastless and not classy at all. Porn is bad enough because it's everywhere but when you can actually touch the women and more with paying customers that is too much. I don't think it's cute or acceptable in any relationship. If your single do whatever you want but when your with someone you shouldn't pay to see someone strip. Personally, I think men/women are stupid to pay to see someone strip if you have someone at home. Just be more adventorous in your relationship.
  • andreanicole686
    andreanicole686 Posts: 406 Member
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    who needs a strip club when he can come home to this *swings on pole and then falls ungracefully on the floor* :laugh:
    haha love that!
  • TeutonicKnight
    TeutonicKnight Posts: 367 Member
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    If a girl gets jealous of her bf or husband going to a strip club, her jealousy level is above a 10. That being said, my wife would got ape *kitten* if I went to one. Her jealously level is like a 12.5/10.

    I did go to one for my bachelor party but that was before we were married.

    My wife has been to 3 male reviews with her friends since we have been married and I think it is awesome!
  • nnylee
    nnylee Posts: 814 Member
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    This thread has been great for identifying people to Ignore. Thanks _snw_!!

    This.
  • kris10fernandez
    kris10fernandez Posts: 1
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    With all due respect, why do you have your body exposed in your profile pic for people to lust at then?
  • TinkrBelz
    TinkrBelz Posts: 888 Member
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    We live in a small town and there are no clubs around here. But, if we lived in a city, I would mind and here is why. We have 6 kids. He works full time, then we have sports and events for all of the kids. So, for him to go to a strip club would mean that he is taking time away from me....it would mean that he is choosing to watch other naked women instead of being with his family.

    Plus, why go watch other women dance naked, when I do that for him and he gets the prize in the end!!

    NOW, IF he was with his brother and cousin (they are his best friends) for some special thing, or whatever, and they went...then I would not care, and I would want to know....and I would want to know all of the details!!! And, if we ever go to Vegas, I want to go to a club with him....I think that would be fun to do together. :bigsmile:

    But to go to strip clubs on a regular basis, I would not approve.
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
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    Me and my boyfriend go tot he club's together. He gives me cash so I can tip my fav girl and have her give me a little dance. I think it turns him on...that or he thinks I'm bi lol (I fear women)
  • angiesteele
    angiesteele Posts: 366 Member
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    If a women can indulge in her fantasies (mental & emotional creatures) through romance novels, then a guy should be allowed to do the same (visual creatures), assuming it has no negative bearing on the marital aspects (cheating, spending too much money, touching the girls).

    this!
  • chauncyrenayCHANGED
    chauncyrenayCHANGED Posts: 788 Member
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    If you lust in your heart, you have already committed adultery.
    Then those people should be punished severely...................................have them put to death since it's stated in the bible.:wink:

    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    Actually if you read John 8:1-11 you'll see that Jesus actually refused to condemn a woman caught in adultery (I wonder where the man was) and even told her to go and sin no more.

    THIS!!!!!! love it
  • Gilbrod
    Gilbrod Posts: 1,216 Member
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    I love seeing all these point of views. I bet you half, if not more, of the women on here are lying their *kitten* off about "I don't care as long as he comes home to me" BS. I look forward to seeing the rant about how he accidentally called you "Bubbles", or "Lola" or whatever other dumb name strippers have, while together. If your man needs a strip club to come home turned on to you, you women (or men) need to step up your game at home and handle your business. Quit trying to justify your lack of effort at home. If you don't use or see sex as an intimate thing between two (and only two) adults, then you too have emotional issues. Yeah, I'm ranting. Flame all you want. I have been to a strip club on my bachleor party, and never again. My wife does a better job than those who have no other asspirations than to shake dat *kitten* for the dirty singles. She's an engineer and knows how to keep my attention and vice versa. Hence, she would mind. Flame away people. Flame away.
  • awal2069
    awal2069 Posts: 101 Member
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    As long as I go with him... No fair he gets to have all the fun.. Hehehehehehe
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
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    I love seeing all these point of views. I bet you half, if not more, of the women on here are lying their *kitten* off about "I don't care as long as he comes home to me" BS. I look forward to seeing the rant about how he accidentally called you "Bubbles", or "Lola" or whatever other dumb name strippers have, while together. If your man needs a strip club to come home turned on to you, you women (or men) need to step up your game at home and handle your business. Quit trying to justify your lack of effort at home. If you don't use or see sex as an intimate thing between two (and only two) adults, then you too have emotional issues. Yeah, I'm ranting. Flame all you want. I have been to a strip club on my bachleor party, and never again. My wife does a better job than those who have no other asspirations than to shake dat *kitten* for the dirty singles. She's an engineer and knows how to keep my attention and vice versa. Hence, she would mind. Flame away people. Flame away.
    So do you WANT to get flamed or did I miss something?
  • Roni_M
    Roni_M Posts: 717 Member
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    Not at all... He's a grown up and I'm not his mother... He can do what he wants! He only has two rules in any given situation... He keeps it in his pants and keeps his tongue in his mouth. If he follows those he's golden!!
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
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    I like to sit at the clubs and look at all the "blondes" who's hair turn green under the Blue Lights :laugh: Candy Cane....CANDY CANE! Where's my CANDY CANE!?
  • mummy_gerdes
    mummy_gerdes Posts: 336 Member
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    I love seeing all these point of views. I bet you half, if not more, of the women on here are lying their *kitten* off about "I don't care as long as he comes home to me" BS. I look forward to seeing the rant about how he accidentally called you "Bubbles", or "Lola" or whatever other dumb name strippers have, while together. If your man needs a strip club to come home turned on to you, you women (or men) need to step up your game at home and handle your business. Quit trying to justify your lack of effort at home. If you don't use or see sex as an intimate thing between two (and only two) adults, then you too have emotional issues. Yeah, I'm ranting. Flame all you want. I have been to a strip club on my bachleor party, and never again. My wife does a better job than those who have no other asspirations than to shake dat *kitten* for the dirty singles. She's an engineer and knows how to keep my attention and vice versa. Hence, she would mind. Flame away people. Flame away.

    as one of those who has said i dont mind - it really is true. he tells me when he goes as its usually after a guys night out and has even told me about the dances he's had. he doesnt go very often at all any way. it is only if he starts lying about it that i would care. i just see it as a bit of fun that guys do. everyone has their own opinion on what is right and what is not in their own lives and relationships. if you are ok with it then i dont see a problem personally.
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,611 Member
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    . My wife does a better job than those who have no other asspirations than to shake dat *kitten* for the dirty singles.

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  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
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    By the way. Just because a girl is a stripper doesn't mean the only "aspiration" she has is to shake her butt for money. SOME strippers are working to pay off other things

    Bills
    Food
    School

    So until you know her story, don't judge. Although she could just be doing it cause she likes it. But as I said, chances are the story goes deeper than just a 30 minute lap dance for $50
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    who needs a strip club when he can come home to this *swings on pole and then falls ungracefully on the floor* :laugh:


    haha I love this :drinker:

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